Category Archives: Travel

Spain edges out France and becomes top gay travel destination in Europe

gay-travelLast week Bloomberg published an interesting article, Rich Gay Men Wanted: Spain’s Conservatives Make Tourist Appeal. I assume that the tourist industry in general likes wealthy travelers and not everyone who is gay falls into the category of rich but I thought the article was interesting nonetheless.

According to a report by LGBT Capital, tourists are flocking to Spain contributing about $6.8 billion to the local economy, edging out France as Europe’s most popular destination for gay and lesbian travelers.  The report finds that gay travelers spend on average 30% more than mainstream tourists.

Where are the best deals for lodging in NYC

travel, handsome, hunkNormally I share information with you but in this post I’m turning the tables. I have been asked by a friend to help them find an affordable option when they go to New York City next month; preferably in Manhattan. Clean, safe and if possible conveniently located are what this traveler is looking for so she can extend her business trip to enjoy some personal time in NYC.

Do you have a favorite place to stay that won’t break the bank for a traveler burdened by a budget? Share your favorite suggestions in the comments section below so all may read.

New nonstop service announced: Boston to Copenhagen and Oslo starts May 2016

CopenhagenLast week Boston Magazine reported that a new low-cost air carrier from Europe will begin offering nonstop service in May 2016 to Oslo and Copenhagen with plans to add more destinations in the near future. The previously unknown carrier, Norwegian Air Shuttle ASA, will bring more competition to these markets and greater access to Eurpoe with more nonstop flights.

For those of you who may be tempted, Copenhagen Pride is August 11 -15, 2016. There is more info about gay life in Denmark and in particular Copenhagen here.

Oslo Pride dates have yet to be confirmed but their celebration was held in late June this year.  For more travel information about gay life in Oslo link here.

 

Travel bug

TravelSomething I have in common with a lot of my friends is a love of travel. It is hard to explain this desire to visit places (sometimes far from home), but for those of you who have the travel bug you know exactly what I’m talking about.

Last week Sergio and I booked our travel to visit family later this year in Brazil. Are you planning any trips this fall?  Do tell.  I’m always interested in hearing about favorite travel destinations.

IndepenDance on Fire Island – July 4th, 2015

Independance on Fire IslandThe Pynes Tea Party returns with IndepenDance on Fire Island on Saturday, July 4th from 5-10 p.m. at 236 Bay Walk, Fire Island Pines, NY.  This long running dance benefit on Fire Island Pines will take over 236 Bay Walk.

IndepenDance on Fire Island
Saturday, July 4th
5:00 – 10:00 PM
Fire Island Pines

All proceeds from the event this weekend will benefit the Pines Care Center, and The Trevor Project.  Below is a video from Fire Island’s InderpenDance 2011 party with Tracy Young. If you happen to be out on Fire Island this weekend have fun.

Tipping etiquette: Tipping protocol in 50 countries

travel, tipping, handsome, hunk, shirtless, abs, beardEarlier this year Condé Nast Traveler updated and re-published their 2008 article on tipping etiquette.

As the article notes, tipping rules vary by country, by region, and by scenario but fear not as this article tells you all you need to know.

Etiquette 101: Your Guide to Tipping in 50 Countries

The guide offers suggested guidelines for tipping for a variety of services travelers are likely to use and offers some helpful information that is unique to some countries / regions.

Godfrey Hotel Boston to open in DTX this fall

Godfrey Hotel BostonThe Godfrey Hotel is set to open in Boston later this fall after a $23 million renovation of the dilapidated Blake and adjoining Amory Building (built in 1904 / 1908 respectively).  The new hotel at 505 Washington Street is sandwiched between the up and coming DTX neighborhood and the lively Theater District. The building’s ground floor will be home to a George Howell Coffee shop and the adjacent six-story Amory building will house a restaurant that is yet to be named.

Gay travelers will be happy to know that the hotel is steps from theaters, restaurants, and parks.  It is also a quick ride to the the BHC high speed Provincetown fast ferry and close to several gay / gay friendly bars.

The “lifestyle” hotel will be Boston’s newest independent property and will feature 242 guest rooms.  As the fall approaches look for more information about this new hotel property.  You can also visit their website at godfreyhotelboston.com.

Below are some photos of what the rooms will look like.

Guest Room

Guest Room

Bathroom

Bathroom

New England summer destinations

new england summer, gay travel, gay destinations in New England, Martha's Vineyard, Portsmouth, Portland, Newport, MeredithWith summer weather now upon us, I’m often asked for suggestions on day trips or places to visit for an overnight outside of the more obvious gay destinations like Provincetown and Ogunquit.  Below are five destinations that are all within a two hour drive of Boston that are not necessarily gay but are welcoming and beautiful destinations in their own right.

travelMeredith – Lake Winnipesaukee, NH (2 Hour Drive) I grew up spending my summer vacations in Alton Bay at Lake Winnipesaukee and while there are plenty of quaint towns around this lake in the Granite State, Meredith offers plenty to see and do ranging from lake activities, to golfing, hiking, shopping and dining.  Meredith Chamber of Commerce Website

Portland Maine gay travelPortland, ME (2 Hour Drive) Many guys never drive north of Ogunquit when they visit Maine but just another 45 minutes north is Portland, Maine.  Check out the historic waterfront district and do yourself a favor and bring your appetite.  Portland has a well-deserved reputation as a Foodie’s town.  Condé Nast Restaurant Guide to Portland

marthas vineyardMartha’s Vineyard, MA (2 Hours – Drive and Ferry) A year round destination, Martha’s Vineyard may be at its most beautiful in the summer when you can enjoy the island’s spectacular beaches and outdoor activities.   The quaint towns on the Vineyard offer great shopping and dining after spending a day at the beach.  Martha’s Vineyard Online

Newport Rhode Island Cliff WalkNewport, RI (1.5 Hour Drive) One of my favorite destinations in all of New England Newport Harbor offers beautiful views, lovely beaches and a slice of American history that is truly unique and on view when you traverse the 3.5 mile cliff walk.  Newport’s downtown has great dining and shopping as well as a lively night life. Discover Newport

Portsmouth NHPortsmouth, NH (1 Hour Drive) Sandwiched between Boston and Portland, Maine, this quaint seaside village is a quintessential New England town worth the visit.  The Market Square is where all the action in this postage-sized town takes place and is chalk full of restaurants, bars and shops.  Things to do in Portsmouth

If you have other suggestions on things to do at these destinations or other great places to visit, feel free to share in the comments section.

 

Hotel review: St. Regis Washington DC

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St Regis Hotel

My day job requires me to travel for a night or two each month.  Typically I end up staying in the same properties, but on a recent business trip to Washington, D.C. earlier this month the properties I usually book were not available so I made a reservation at the St. Regis Hotel in Washington, D.C.

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St Regis hotel lobby

This 182 room property is just blocks from the White House and is centrally located if you are visiting for either business or to check out many of D.C.’s tourist sites.  For gay travelers, the hotel is less than a 5 minute taxi / Uber ride to many of the bars in Dupont Circle and in good weather it is a pleasant walk down 16th Street.

While the St. Regis Hotel chain is undeniably luxurious, it is a little too formal for my personal taste but for those who love old hotel properties like Boston’s Fairmont Copley, NYC’s Penninsula Hotel, The Palmer House in Chicago or The Palace in San Francisco – this is right up your alley.

The lobby provides a glimpse into the old world charm and luxury you can expect in the property’s guest rooms.

I was provided a room overlooking 16th Street which really is nothing much to look at so I kept my drapes closed while I was in the room, but otherwise the room was beautiful – even coming with a TV in the bathroom mirror so I could watch the morning news while I showered to get ready for work – how convenient. Hotel, travel, D.C.There was plenty of space to put away my clothes, a comfortable desk to spread out and work at as well as all the other amenities you would come to expect.  The hotel property doesn’t have adequate gym facilities so guests are able to use the Mint Club and Spa across the street, which is far superior to hotel gyms.

While I haven’t a bad word to say, I won’t likely book here again – preferring a less formal vibe.   For those who may be curious, my preferred hotel property in D.C. is the W Hotel (which is just down the street from the St. Regis).

Hanging with Frenchie and the Yankee in Charlotte

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Sipping cocktails from the roofdeck bar and restaurant, Fahrenheit in Charlotte, NC

Last weekend I flew down to visit my good friends David and Mark (a.k.a. Frenchie and the Yankee) who moved to Charlotte approximately 2 years ago from Boston.  The trip was fantastic from start to finish.  It didn’t hurt that the weather in Charlotte last weekend was sunny and in the low 70s and every tree seemed to be blossoming, filling the streets with the heady fragrance of spring.

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Charlotte’s hip South End

For those who don’t know David and Mark, they are spectacular hosts.  In the span of just one weekend we attended a Saturday morning mimosa party that raised funds for Time Out Youth; strolled through the incredibly picturesque Fourth Ward; visited The Duke Mansion in the posh Myers Park neighborhood; rode Charlotte’s light rail system to the 7th Street Public Market where we purchased a bottle of wine and cheese from local shops then sat down – enjoying an urban picnic of sorts in the cute little marketplace; and we even squeezed in a bit of retail therapy, going to their friend’s men’s fashion shop, SILVERFLY.  David and Mark hosted a lovely cocktail / dessert party at their home so I could meet their friends before we headed out to the gay bar Cathode Azure Club for some dancing.

While I enjoyed all that I did, my favorite time was spent together walking through their neighborhood – the South End, chatting over numerous bottles of wine and meeting their friends who are a charming and handsome bunch.

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Charlotte, North Carolina’s Fourth Ward neighborhood

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Out with the boys at Cathode Azure Club

 

Visiting Frenchie and the Yankee

Frenchie and the YankeeA couple years ago our friends “Frenchie and the Yankee” moved from Boston to Charlotte, NC for a new job opportunity.  While neither Frenchie or The Yankee are from Boston, they certainly succeeded in making it their home and long lasting friendships.  I know Sergio and I are not the only ones to miss this fun couple.

I’ve been remiss in visiting them in Charlotte and am rectifying that by flying down to visit them for the weekend.   Frenchie (shown above with me) and I have talked a few times and it sounds like the weekend will be spent, eating, drinking wine of course, and getting caught up.  I can’t believe I’m saying this, but “I’m really excited to go to Charlotte.

Travel concerns for LGBT community

IpanemaEarlier this week Chicago Tribune journalist, Josh Noel, wrote, LGBT travelers face some of the biggest challengesI think the article is worth reading so I wanted to share it, comment on it and get your thoughts.

gay-travelThe crux of the article is the fact that the LGBT community in the US travels both domestically and internationally more than the general population, but despite that fact there are many parts of the world that are so dangerous that many in our community would not visit out of concerns for personal safety. Noel points out that 78 countries (more than one third of all countries) consider “homosexual acts” illegal and is even punishable by death in seven of those countries. Now in fairness, I assume that many of those countries are probably unsafe for anyone (and especially Americans) but his point is noted.

Both abroad and in parts of the United States, Sergio and I have had to think carefully about our personal safety.  We have also (at least for the time being) ruled out travel to different destinations because of either personal concern or the reputation those country’s governments have treating their gay population.  Places of interest that I’d like to visit but have taken off the list for now include Jamaica, Russia (I would love to see the Hermitage some day) and Egypt to name a few.

Noel’s article got me to thinking.  Have you ever felt unsafe because you are openly gay when traveling either here in the US or abroad?  Have you ever taken a destination off your list of places to visit because of travel safety concerns or your frustration with their local laws making homosexuality tantamount to a crime?

Starwood hotels team up with Uber

travelStarwood Hotels & Resorts loyalty program known as SPG announced a global partnership with Uber earlier this week, allowing members to earn points with each Uber ride they take.

According to the program, within 24 hours of your first stay at a Starwood hotel you can begin earning points if you join your accounts; earning 1 Starpoint per $1USD; Gold and Platinum SPG members can earn up to 4 Starpoints per USD.

And in 5 select cities on Saturday, February 28th from 2PM – 7PM local time, SPG and Uber will be giving riders the opportunity to experience a #SuiteRide with a one-of-a-kind “Starwood car” in Dubai, London, Mexico City, New York City, and San Francisco.

Want to learn more or link your SPG account to your Uber account to start racking up points?  Visit SPG.com/uber.

Grand Cayman places of interest

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Seven Mile Beach on Grand Cayman Island

Grand Cayman is a Caribbean Island located just to the west of Jamaica and south of Cuba.  The tiny 20-something mile island in the Western Caribbean has plenty to offer but without a doubt its most famous attribute is its Seven Mile Beach.

Sergio at Stingray City

Sergio at Stingray City

If you’re not a beach person, Grand Cayman offers decent snorkeling and an opportunity to play with wild stingrays at “Stingray City”.  Stingray City is a sandbar a few miles off the coast of Grand Cayman where you can go and see and feed wild stingrays. We booked a trip with Captain Marvin’s, and I would happily recommend this company because of how much fun Sergio and I had there.

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Camana Bay City Centre

If you’ve had too much sun or need to purchase something check out Camana Bay City Centre, which is a mixed use development that includes a handful of restaurants, clothing stores, cinema and bookstore (among other things).

For more tips on island  activities check out Trip Advisor or contact me, and I’d be happy to share a few more suggestions suitable to your taste and near where you will be staying.

 

Dining in Grand Cayman

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Calypso Grill’s deck in Grand Cayman

Grand Cayman has no shortage of great dining options and I would encourage anyone visiting to leave their hotel and do some exploring.  Trip Advisor does a nice job of listing a wide selection of dining options.  One of our more extravagant meals on the island was at Calypso Grill.  If you decide to go, request a table outside overlooking the water. For this New Englander, dining outside by the water in February is a rare treat and added to my dining experience.

Grand Cayman dining

Bread and Chocolate French Toast

As much as I enjoyed Calypso and some of the other places, it was two of the more casual dining establishments that Sergio and I enjoyed the most.  Neither of these places are by the water so if that is a must then simply bypass these options.  For visitors coming by cruise ship the first option is within walking distance of where you will disembark and is called Bread and Chocolate.  This tiny, hole-in-the-wall restaurant serves delicious (vegan) food and is a favorite among locals. I had no idea eating vegan was so delicious.

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Casual dining at Cimboco in Grand Cayman

The other restaurant I wanted to give a shout out to is Cimboco.  It is located just a few minutes by car from The Westin and Ritz Carlton in a small strip mall that also has a burger shack, smoothie store and coffee shop.  Cimboco hosts a $5.00 breakfast Monday thru Friday from 7:30 – 11:00 am that is tough to beat. Additionally, they make delicious sandwiches and pizzas (I’d recommend trying the eggplant pesto pizza) all very affordable.

While there were many more options, I thought I’d limit this post to three of my favorites: Calypso GrillBread and Chocolate and Cimboco. For more dining tips check out Trip Advisor rankings or contact me, and I’d be happy to share a few more suggestions suitable to your taste, price range and near where you will be staying.