Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

Kayo is a German fashion blogger who seems adept at distracting me to no end (and not to mention suddenly craving a strong cup of coffee).

Saturday morning comics

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

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Click here if you would like to see  the previous Adam & Andy

Furry Friday

Thank goodness it’s Furry Friday.

Past Furry Friday

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Leave your answer in the comment section. I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s brain teaser: Despite the fact that I shave everyday, my beard remains the same. Why is that?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

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In-person events have returned and so has BosGuy.com’s post sharing what is happening in Boston and Provinceton this weekend. Have an event or program you want to promote? Email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

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THURSDAY: Taco Thursdays and RPDR viewing party starts at 4PM
FRIDAY: FOMO Fridays with DJ/VJ Duo Andrew and Emanuele at 10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays with DJ Aga at 10PM
SUNDAY: Disco Brunch starts at 11AM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Lush Life cabaret with Frankie & Andy in Napoleon Room at 7PM and dancing with DJ FrenchY and hosts, Mizery, Alana Thicc, Arabella and Travis Tí at 10PM and a special show at 12:30AM
FRIDAY: Carol O’Shaughnessy in Napoleon Room at 7PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone spins the best music at 10PM
SATURDAY: RPDR viewing party w/ Mizery at 8PM & DJ BEGBICK at 10PM
SUNDAY: Tea Dance with DJ Brian Derrick at 5PM & Tea with the Dame in Napoleon Room at 6:30PM

Cathedral Station Open but no programming scheduled.
The patio will be open and Saturday & Sunday brunch starts at 11AM.

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FRIDAY: Give me back my mic Karaoke night starts at 8PM
SATURDAY: The Category Is… dance party starts at 10PM

Jacques will be reopening for business soon.

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night with your host Dave Sawyer starts at 8PM
FRIDAY: Dancing w/ resident DJ BEGBICK starts at 10PM
SATURDAY: Dancing w/ resident DJ BEGBICK starts at 10PM
SUNDAY: Idol Karaoke starts at 8PM

Trophy Room will be reopening for business soon.

Featured LGBTQ+ events

Ptown Pride

Provincetown Pride June 4 – 6, 2021 Click here for more information about the official Provincetown Pride activities.

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We Outside: Pride Day Party @Encore Boston The Men of Melanin Magic are hosting a 18+ day party on the Encore south lawn on Saturday, June 5 from 12PM – 5PM. Tickets are required and can be purchased here. You can read more about the event here.

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Kiki Beach returns for its sixth season. The announcement dropped yesterday on their Instagram at @kikibeachboston. If you’re unsure where the boys go on M Street Beach, check out the Kiki Beach Boston Facebook Page. It includes a map, but when in doubt follow the good music and men in speedos.

Boston’s Gay Mafia returns this weekend with DJ Chris Cox spinning at Legacy on Saturday and HOT MESS! Sundays at Candi Bar. Click the links for more information and to get tickets.

Boston Urban Pride Brunch Fort Hill Bar & Grill on Sunday, June 6 from 3PM – 8PM has great food and music to celebrate gay pride. To RSVP and get tickets click here.

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Drag Diva “Sex in the City” Brunch
Saturday, 6/5 @11:00AM – 1:30PM at House of Blues

Pride Month Drag Brunch w/ BAGLY
Sunday, 6/6 @12:00PM – 1:30PM at Dorchester Brewing Co.

Monthly Outdoor Drag Brunch
Sunday, 6/6 seatings at 11AM & 1PM (sold out!) at Bambara’s

Provincetown gay bars & live entertainment

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For more information about live entertainment in Provincetown this week (and all month) click here. Click the links below for more information about each bar.

A House – One of Provincetown’s most popular dance clubs.

Aqua Bar – Located at the Aquarium Marketplace, with views of the harbor.

Backstreet Club – Previously Club Purgatory will NOT reopen this summer.

Buoy Bar – Located on Commercial Street at The Boatslip. It is fabulous for people watching (esp after Tea).

The Club – Lea Delaria’s supper club includes live entertainment in the lounge.

Dive Bar – Weekend piano bar at The Crown & Anchor.

Harbor Lounge – Waterfront cocktail lounge in the East End.

Little Bar – Provincetown’s oldest bar.

Macho Bar – Provincetown’s longest running leather and denim bar.

Monkey Bar – Will NOT reopen this summer.

Paramount – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is Ptown’s largest dance club.

Porchside Lounge – Located at The Gifford House.

Provincetown Brewery – Popular brew pub on Bradford Street.

Shipwreck Lounge – Located at the Brass Key Guest House.

Tin Pan Alley – This restaurant has a lively piano bar that has a friendly crowd.

The Vault – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a leather / fetish bar.

Velvet Lounge – Dance club with DJ Mark Louque spinning each Friday.

The Wave Bar – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a fun video bar.

Missing a favorite bar / club in Provincetown? Share it in the comments section. If the status of these bars / clubs change, it will be noted.

The Boatslip tea dance has returned

Tea dance at the Boatslip has finally returned! Today is the first tea dance of the 2021 summer season. Proof of vaccination will be required for entry so snap a photo of your vaccination card before you head out. Be kind, and tip the staff generously.

Vintage gay

This week’s vintage gay post breaks with tradition because (try as I might) I could not find a photo of Lewis Duckett and Dr. Billy Jones from years past. The image above is from their wedding in 2013. When this photo was taken, they had already been together for 46 years, having met just prior to Dr. Jones being sent overseas in the Vietnam War. He and Lewis would write to each other almost every day but because being gay was a crime and potentially career-ending, they wrote in code, often with Duckett using a pseudonym, posing as a woman to be able to write more freely about his feelings for Jones. Jones would return safely from Vietnam and the two men would go on to adopt a child and eventually become grandparents. You can learn more about these amazing men by Googling their names, but I first learned about the couple reading, Famous Black Gay Couples in The Spotlight on Black Gay Blog.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Ride with Pride Blue Bikes in June

Boston Tweet, Tom O'Keefe, Blue Bike Pride
Shown above, Tom O’Keefe, who you can follow on Twitter at @BostonTweet

For every ride on a pride-themed bike in June, Bluebikes title sponsor Blue Cross will donate $1 to support LGBTQ+ health care at Fenway Health

Even though Boston Pride will only be officially observed virtually this June, pride flags are popping up everywhere and local employers are coming up with creative ways to show they support the local LGBTQ+ community.

Yesterday, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts announced that 100 Bluebikes will be given rainbow wraps to celebrate Pride Month in Boston. The health insurer also pledges to donate $1 for every ride on these “Pride bikes” to support LGBTQ+ health at Fenway Health.

Caption this photo

Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up one or two of your own. Leave a funny caption as a comment, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“Hey Bert it’s Pride month. Let’s celebrate.”

June 2021 Provincetown performances

Live entertainment has returned to Provincetown this summer and both the performers and the venues could use your support. You can purchase tickets for any given show through the links shared in the post below. I will work to update this list throughout the summer. If there is a show that I’ve missed, add the information in the comments section.

June Performances in Provincetown

Ryan Landry Presents: Showgirls performances each Monday
At Pilgrim House Parking Lot June 7, 14, 21
At Fisherman Hall June 28 – Sept 6
Tickets available at House of LaRue

Thirsty Burlington performances each Monday
Poolside at the Crown & Anchor

Dina Martina – performances each Thursday – Sunday
Poolside at the Crown & Anchor

Donnelly & Richardson Sing Dolly – performances each Friday
Poolside at the Crown & Anchor

Paige Turner – performances each Friday & Saturday
At The Pilgrim House Theater

Miss Richfield 1981! – performances each Friday & Saturday
At the Pilgrim House Theater

Illusions – performances each Friday & Saturday
Poolside at the Crown & Anchor

Donnelly & Richardson Sing Broadway on the Beach – June 5
Poolside at the Crown & Anchor

Provincetown Follies – June 6
Poolside at the Crown & Anchor

Hump Day Drag Revue – June 9
Poolside at the Crown & Anchor

The Immaculate Miss Conception – June 11 – August 8
At The Pilgrim House

Jon Richardson & Todd Alsup – Starting June 14, performances each Monday
Poolside at the Crown & Anchor

Varla Jean Merman – Starting June 15, performances Tuesday – Saturday
Poolside at the Crown & Anchor

The Cake – June 28 – July 22
Provincetown Theater

Judy Gold – Starting June 29, performances each Monday and Tuesday
At The Art House

Christina Bianco – June 29 – 31
Poolside at the Crown & Anchor

Bianca Del Rio – one performance only on July 11
At The Town Hall

Jenn Colella w/Seth Rudetsky (Broadway Series) – performances July 23 & 24
At The Art House

Cacophony Daniels “Drag Dad” – performances July 24 – 27
At The Pilgrim House

Leslie Cararra-Rudolph – one performance only July 26
At The Art House

Temptation Tuesday

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Men in kilts

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Monday morning mancandy

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For many, today is the best kind of Monday – a holiday. For everyone in the United States, I’d like to wish you a happy Memorial Day. The 2021 summer season has officially started in New England, and I want to wish everyone a safe and healthy summer. 

Boston neighborhoods

The city of Boston is comprised of 23 neighborhoods. Many of the downtown neighborhoods span less than a square mile, but they are full of interesting sites and places of interest. To that end, this month I selected four downtown neighborhoods and shared my thoughts about what make them worth visiting.

South End

I started this series with the neighborhood I know best, the South End. I’ve lived here for nearly twenty years now but have been visiting since I moved back to Boston in the late 1990s.

The South End is incredibly charming. Built on landfill in the mid-19th century as a residential district for Boston’s growing upper middle-class, hundreds of Victorian Bow Fronts were built and today it’s the largest enclave of urban Victorian residential architecture in the country. The picturesque neighborhood is full of parks, unique shops and restaurants and cafes. While only a few gay bars remain in the South End, this was once upon a time an enclave for Boston’s LGBTQ+ community and while most of those businesses have closed or moved online, this is still where many in Boston’s gay community come out for dinner or to meet up with friends for drinks. Read my full profile of the South End here.

Back Bay

I moved into the Back Bay in the late 1990s after living in Atlanta for a few years. I thought I’d live in my apartment on Commonwealth Avenue for a year maybe two but ultimately, I stayed in the Back Bay for six years. I still consider it a homebase and love this neighborhood for all that it has to offer.

If you’ve visited Boston, you’ve probably spent time in the Back Bay. It is a centrally located, afluent neighborhood with some of Boston’s most iconic buildings, busiest streets, best restaurants, bars and shops. It is chock-full of office buildings, hotels, retailers, restaurants and of course residents. Tourists will love the parks (my favorite is The Esplanade) that run through this neighborhood, but Back Bay also has amazing architecture ranging from the modern I.M. Pei design of The Hancock Tower built in the 1970s to the beautiful McKim Building of the Boston Public Library and its hidden Italianate Courtyard that dates back to the late 1800s. In addition, this neighborhood has no shortage of restaurants, bars and shopping so there is plenty to see and do when here. Read my full profile of the Back Bay here.

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Beacon Hill

I never lived in Beacon Hill but one of my best friends went to Suffolk University which is located here. I also spent many hours at bars in this neighborhood in my late 20s and early 30s.

Beacon Hill is a popular destination for visitors due to its many historical sites, with some dating back to the 1600s. While this neighborhood is less than a square quarter mile in size it contains a lot to see and enjoy with its pretty as a postcard streets to its many Freedom Trail sites of interest to great restaurants and good pubs. While the neighborhood’s stodgy image is well deserved there is still plenty of fun to be had here and my favorite time of year to visit is in the summer when you can sit outside and enjoy the people watching along Charles Street. For more information about this historic and interesting neighborhood, read my full profile of Beacon Hill here.

North End

The North End is where my maternal grandmother grew up as a kid. My brother briefly lived here and at the moment one of my cousins call the North End home. While I’ve never lived here, it is this familial connection to this tiny neighborhood that makes me feel connected to it.

The North End is charming unless you’re driving then it is a nightmare. The neighborhood is comprised of a maze of narrow, meandering streets that are chock-full of Italian restaurants, bakeries and cafes. The tiny neighborhood is hemmed in between Boston’s inner harbor to the North and East and The Rose Kennedy Greenway (a.k.a. The Greenway) to the West and South. This neighborhood is for those who love American History (esp. American Revolution) and for those who love food. For more information about Boston’s “Little Italy”, read my full profile of the North End here.