Scruffy Sunday

As delightful as breakfast in bed sounds, I can’t help but worry about the food and drink spilling all over the bedding. Someone please get this man a tray.

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Saturday morning coffee

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Saturday morning comics

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

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Furry Friday

I rarely use selfies for the Furry Friday post, but exceptions can be made.

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BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Leave your answer in the comment section. I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s brain teaser:                 

9 = 72
8 = 56
7 = 42
5 = 20
3 = ?

I previously shared this but decided to re-post since it was so popular.

Good luck! 

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2021 Provincetown theme weeks

provincetown floating unicorn

While the impact of the coronavirus can still be felt in Provincetown, it is hard not to feel optimistic with so many Americans getting vaccinated. As a result, Provincetown is cautiously opening back up this summer and bringing back many of their theme weeks and weekends.

If you’re planning a trip to Provincetown this summer, check the calendar of theme weeks, fundraisers and parties that are currently scheduled for the summer of 2021. Tea Dances at The Boatslip begin one week from today on, Thursday, June 3rd.

May & June theme weeks in Provincetown

Memorial Day WeekendMay 28 – 31, 2021
Also known as “Baby Dyke Weekend” for the attracted demographic, there are parties, along with boating, dancing, pool parties, and drinking. Come and celebrate with everyone. Memorial Day Weekend is the official start of the 2021 summer season in Provincetown.

Pride WeekendJune 4 – 6, 2021
This is a relatively new theme weekend for Provincetown which officially celebrated its first Pride Weekend in 2018. This year Provincetown Pride starts on Friday with music, a gay market and parade.

Women of Color WeekendJune 4 – 7, 2021
This is a four-day event that coincides with Pride Weekend and is designed to elevate, strengthen, educate and celebrate LGBTQIA women of color, trans- people of color, non-binary people of color, gender-fluid people of color and their accomplices.

23rd Annual Provincetown International Film FestivalJune 16 – 25, 2021
This worldclass film festival showcases new achievements in independent film and honoring the work of emerging as well as acclaimed directors, producers and actors. If you love gay and independent film – this is your week.

Men of Color WeekendJune 17 – 20, 2021
This is a relatively new theme weekend for Provincetown but it is a very welcome addition. The annual summer celebration is presented by the fun and welcoming social group in Boston, Men of Melanin.

CabaretfestJune 23 – 27, 2021
Do you love cabaret music? You’ll want to come to Provincetown for the four days of parties, workshops, performances and networking and ofcourse, music.

Portuguese Festival & Blessing of the FleetJune 24 – 27, 2021
Provincetown is a Portugeuse fishing village. This annual celebration recognizes and celebrates its Portugeuse roots and includes live music, dancing, parades, food, games, and the annual parade of boats.

July theme weeks in Provincetown

July 4th and Independence WeekJuly 1 – 5, 2021
This is party-week central and often referred to as circuit-boy week. The town fills to capacity so if you’re planning to come make sure you secure a reservation and ferry ticket. The town puts on a fun fireworks show (~8:45pm over Provincetown Harbor) and a Parade (~11am) to celebrate the 4th of July.

Bear WeekJuly 10 – 18, 2021
The largest bear event in the world takes place in Ptown each July. Like Independence week, Provincetown fills to capacity; overrun by hairy, leather, and large men. Personally, I find this to be the friendliest week of the year. Just be sure to make your restaurant reservations in advance – Bears love to go out and eat.

Girl SplashJuly 21 – 24, 2021
This weekend is for the ladies. It includes concerts, comediennes, parties, and dancing.

Family WeekJuly 24 – 31, 2021
This is the largest annual gathering in the world of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer-identified parents and their families. Sponsored by the Family Equality Council, this fun-filled week will include more opportunities than ever to build community. All families are welcome!

August & September theme weeks in Provincetown

Ptown, Provincetown, Carnival
Provincetown Carnival Parade || Photo credit Kyle Szary

Provincetown Jazz FestivalAugust 1 – 16, 2021
The 17th annual Jazz Festival calendar was still coming together at the time I wrote this post so check back for concert dates and times.

Carnival: Somewhere Over the RainbowAugust 15 – 21, 2021
Provincetown’s Carnival is one of the largest outdoor celebrations in Massachusetts with a week of revelry, costumes, and a parade. This is Sergio and my favorite week all summer and is always a lot of fun. This year’s theme of Over the Rainbow seems quite appropriate considering everything the world has been through.

Labor Day Weekend White Party September 3 – 6, 2021
The annual Labor Day White Party which started in 1986 when a small group of friends gathered to play croquet, have a few drinks and close the summer season together has grown into one of the largest parties of the summer. The summer season officially closes Labor Day Weekend.

Celebration of Life & Swim for LifeSeptember 10 – 11, 2021
The Celebration of life concert is the prelude to the next morning’s Swim for Life in Provincetown’s harbor.

Cape Cod ClassicSeptember 16 – 19, 2021
The NGPA is the largest organization of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender aviation professionals and enthusiasts from around the world

Annual Harbor to the Bay Bike RideSeptember 18, 2021
Launched in 2003, Harbor to the Bay (H2B) has raised over $5 million for four local HIV/AIDS organizations; Fenway Health Center, AIDS Support Group of Cape Cod, Community Research Initiative (CRI), and AIDS Action. The ride from Boston to Provincetown is a wonderful annual event and fundraiser.

Yankee Lambda Car Club Invitational September 18, 2021
This annual classic car show hosted in Provincetown at the Monument parking lot from 10:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m. concludes with a parade down Commercial Street.

14th Annual Tennessee Williams Theater FestivalSeptember 23 – 26, 2021
The festival honors Tennessee Williams by presenting his classic and undiscovered plays, the work of his peers, and new work inspired by Williams’ creative vision worldwide.

Mates Leather WeekendSeptember 30, 2021 to October 4, 2021
A kick-back, have a good time, meet some hot new friends weekend for those who want to hang out, socialize, relax or party with other like-minded people in leather, rubber and uniforms.

Vintage gay

I believe this may be a photo from the 1980s on Fire Island. I thought it was the perfect photo to share as we go into Memorial Day Weekend because so many of us here in the Northeast have been waiting for the summer to start. It has been a long year and warmer weather and sun makes for great medicine.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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This week on Instagram

As we head into the summer, I am re-evaluating this weekly post. I started it to share profiles I enjoy following, and accounts featured have ranged from mancandy modelicious accounts to spectacular travel photographers, to culinary instagrmmers and artist who have caught my eye.

Do you enjoy this weekly post. I’m contemplating replacing “This week on Instagram” in the fall with something new. If you’re curious to see Instagram profiles that have been featured, click here.

Caption this photo

Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up one or two of your own. Leave a funny caption as a comment, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“Adorbs”

Summer reading suggestions from BosGuy

Memorial Day Weekend starts this Friday and is commonly considered the first weekend of summer in New England, so I wanted to share a brief list of gay literature / books to add to your summer reading list. These novels are intentionally lighthearted and ideal for enjoying while out in the sun and on vacation. For more reading suggestions, check out my book reviews on Goodreads.

Hard by Wayne Hoffman, published in 2006 and 2015

The Editor by Steven Rowley, published in 2019

The Girl in the Boston Box by Chuck Latovich, published in 2020

Hard by Wayne Hoffman is a gay fiction novel set in New York City during the mid- to late-1990s. The story centers on two men, Frank DeSoto and Moe Pearlman, their respective circle of friends and their mutual animosity / contempt for each other. I’m recommending this because it is an easy read that lends itself nicely to the summer. The majority of the story takes place in New York City, but there is a quick summer trip out to Fire Island which could make this an ideal option for anyone planning a summer trip to the gay enclave.

While Hoffman writes in detail about cruising and sex in New York City in the 1990s, the novel is really about gay relationships both platonic and romantic and the fractions within the gay community at that time. Read my review, here.

The Editor is a more lighthearted and humorous gay novel that takes place in New York City in the early 1990s. At its core, this is a highly imaginative story about James Smale, an aspiring author who learns his debut novel about his dysfunctional relationship with his mother will be published by Doubleday. Just as he is digesting the good news, he also learns his editor will be none other than Jacqueline Kennedy Onasis. Jacqueline loves his novel but feels the ending is unresolved. Together they forge a professional relationship, as he works furiously to finish the manuscript. There is a scene where Smale joins Jackie at her home on Martha’s Vineyard during the summer to get away from the city and write that I loved.

The story is both humorous and deeply touching. Read my review, here.

The Girl in the Boston Box is a murder mystery with a flawed, gay protagonist. The novel uses Boston as a backdrop with many scenes playing out in Boston’s South End and Fenway neighborhoods. The other main character, a woman, studying architectural history at Harvard initially doesn’t have much in common but the author weaves their stories together with ease, and I found this to be a page-turner that had me up late at night reading to find out what was going to happen next.

Fans of detective literatuare and mystery novels in general will enjoy the storyline as will those who know and love Boston for this whodunit. Read my review, here.

Do you have any recommendations? Share your suggestions in the comment section as well as why you’re recommedning the book.

Temptation Tuesday

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Men in kilts

Check out this flock of kilts in their natural habitat.

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Monday morning mancandy

Now, I feel  the need to go out and purchase khakis. That is why advertising is so powerful, because I know I won’t look anything like this guy, but I can’t get khakis out of my head, and I’m betting neither will you.

Boston neighborhood profile: North End

North Square Park in the North End: Photo from Kimpton Onyx Hotel

The North End (a.k.a. “Little Italy”) is tucked into a tiny peninsula in Boston’s inner harbor. It is one of the city’s better known neighborhoods and is popular with tourists who come to eat and visit points of historical interest on the self-guided Freedom Trail, but more about that later.

This neighborhod is charming unless you’re driving then it is a nightmare. The North End is comprised of a maze of narrow, meandering streets that are chock-full of Italian restaurants, bakeries and cafes. It also happens to be where my Italian-American grandmother grew up. Although I never lived here, I feel connected to this otherwise touristy part of town because of my family’s history.

No neighborhood has benefitted more from the Big Dig, which replaced Boston’s aging Central Artery, than the North End. The noisy and polluted elevated expressway that was erected in the 1950s cut off the North End. The Big Dig rectified that by building a 1.5 mile tunnel under downtown Boston, and converting the land into a wonderful new park that runs from Boston’s North Station to South Station. The massive green iron girders used to support the 40′ elevated expressway are now gone as are the shadows and gas fumes it cast. The Rose Kennedy Greenway (a.k.a. The Greenway) has reclaimed this space, giving the North End access to a beautiful new park, more open space and cleaner air. I remember the first time having a drink in the North End after the expressway came down. Looking out the window, I was stunned to see the Union Oyster House sign. I had no idea it was so close.

Paul Revere Statue and the Old North Church

About The North End: The North End is one of the oldest parts of Boston with some buildings dating back to the 1600s. Today it is home to approximately 9,000 people. The neighborhood is only one third of a square mile and has some of the most maddening streets so park elsewhere and bicycle, walk or Uber here. The North End is a bit of a transportation center. It has Orange, Green and Blue Line MBTA stations, access to water taxis, and is adjacent to Boston’s North Station (a train station for the commuter rail serving communities north of Boston, Amtrak and Boston & Maine train lines) It is also near places of interest like The Boston Garden, The Boston Public Market, and Faneuil Hall & Quincy Market.

While the North End embraces its Italian heritage, it is no longer a refuge for Italian immigrants and their families. Italians stopped emigrating to Boston in large numbers decades ago, and the North End’s expensive rent pushed most Italian families out of the neighborhood years before that. It is now a rare thing to hear Italian spoken in the North End. However, that doesn’t prevent the North End from hosting huge feasts through much of the summer and being home to more Italian restaurants than any other part of the city. Tourists seem to eat it up (literally) so the neighborhood clings to its identity and the rest of Boston plays along.

Skinny House a.k.a. House of Spite in the North End from Wikipedia

What to do in the North End: There are really two things to do in the North End. The first is eat / drink. I would guess this neighborhood has more restaurant, cafes and bakeries per square block than anywhere else in the city. I’ll talk more about food later so that leaves the other thing to do in the North End; take in its history. This is one of the oldest parts of Boston, dating back to the 1600s. If you’re fascinated by Colonial America and the American Revolution, you’ll love it here.

Sites on the self-guided Freedom Trail include the Copps Hill Burrying Ground (built in 1659), Paul Revere House (built in 1680), Pierce-Hichborn House (built in 1711), and Old North Church (built in 1723). When I would bring friends here, I would often show places of interest that may lack the history of these other sites but are fun to visit, like the crazy All Saints Way on Battery Street and the Skinny House on Hull Street. Legend has it that this 6′ wide house was built in the 1870s out of spite. Sometimes I point out the Prince Building, which is now a luxury condominium building. About 100 years ago it was a thriving pasta company for Prince Spaghetti, which was founded by my great grandfather. As a child, my grandmother would run pasta up and down the stairs of the building.

If all that walking sounds exhausting, grab yourself an Italian pastry or gelato and sitdown on The Greenway or at the end of Long Wharf, and look out into the harbor to watch planes take off and land at Logan Airport.

Saint Anthony's Feast Boston
St. Anthony’s Feast North End Boston

Restaurants in North End: This neighborhood takes eating very seriously. If you like seafood, check out Neptune Oyster I realize you may be in an “Italian state of mind”, but trust me when I say it is worth the ridiculous wait and plan accordingly. It is consistently ranked the best seafood restaurant in Boston (and it deserves the distinction). Another place to stop by is Bricco Salumeria or two doors down I also like Monica’s Pasta Shop. While neither are restaurants, the former is an Italian grocer with excellent breads, cheeses, and meats and the latter has great grab-n-go options. You can make a picnic from their selections and sit outside by the water or on the Greenway. Just be sure to hide your bottle of wine in a backpack or bag! Everyone else is doing the same thing.

If you have pizza on the brain then you may want to stop by the North End’s best known pizzeria, Pizzeria Regina, which has been operating since the 1950s. My sister’s family recently stopped by Regina’s, Ernesto’s Pizza Shop and Ducali Pizzeria to see who made the best pizza. From what I understand everyone had a different favorite – the competition is pretty stiff so I’m not surprised there wasn’t a consensus. Should you come to Boston, I recommend you try a similar tasting to determine your favorite.

The list of restaurants in this neighborhood is too long for me to do them justice, but should you find yourself visiting Boston and in need of a recommendation, leave a comment, and I’ll share suggestions based on what you’re looking for (e.g., romantic setting, family friendly, fine dining, etc…).

I rarely order desserts, but this neighborhood has been responsible for my calorie consumption of sweets by the tens of thousands (if not more) over the years. In my late 20s and early 30s, I regularly visited Bova’s Bakery, becuase it is open 24-hours. After a night out drinking this place would call to me. I can’t tell you how many times I tipped my taxi driver with cash and a cannoli. If you like that Italian pastry, I recommend you read my 2014 blind tasting of cannolis, Mike’s Pastry vs. The Modern Pastry Shop.

If you happen to be new to Boston or planning a visit, feel free to reach out to me with any questions. If you are familiar with Boston’s North End, recommendations and comments are welcome.

Scruffy Sunday

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