Temptation Tuesday

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Applications for Mr. Boston Bear and Cub 2016 deadline is next week

Mr. Boston Bear, Mr. Boston Cub

2015 Mr. Boston Bear & Cub winners
Photo Source: massbearz.com

Massbearz is hosting their annual Mr. Boston Bear and Cub contest on Saturday, September 24th at the Alley Bar in Downtown Crossing. Contestants will compete for the Mr. Boston Bear and Mr. Boston Cub titles on the same night. Applications to participate must be submitted by Monday, September 19th. For more information and to download a copy of the application visit the Massbearz website.

Mark your calendars for Massbearz Mr. Boston Bear & Cub contest
Monday, Sept. 19, 2016: Application Deadline for Mr. Boston Bear & Cub
Saturday, Sept. 24, 2016: Mr. Boston Bear & Cub contest

And Still I Rise

Following yesterday’s somber reflections, I thought I’d share And Still I Rise from Maya Angelou.  While I understand the poem has nothing to do with the tragedy of September 11th I find it inspiring and full of hope.

What to do this week: September 12 – 18

Legalize marijuana, pot rally, boston marijuana rallyWhat to do this week: September 12 – 18

Harbor to the Bingo will raise money for Harbor to the Bay and starts at 7PM at Club Cafe on Monday, Sept 12 in Boston

Fascination Mondays is a fetish / kink night hosted in the basement of Jacques Cabaret from 8PM – 12AM in Boston

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

showtune-tuesdayShowtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

November Project: Stair workout at Harvard takes place at the Harvard Stadium from 6:30 – 7:30AM every Wednesday in Boston

Stump Trivia lets you impress your friends with all the trivia you know from 5PM – 10PM every Wednesday at Cathedral Station in Boston

Karaoke Kween is a lot of fun and if you’re good you may nab the $75 cash prize at the end of the night – hosted every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Peggy O'Neil's, gay dorchesterTHOT THURSDAYS is a dance party hosted the 1st and 3rd Thursdays of each month at Peggy O’Neil’s Pub starting at 10PM in Dorchester

Drag Race Thursdays join Mizery and friends for “Queens are Wild” RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars 2 starting at 8PM at Club Cafe in Boston

BEYONSLAY from The Welcoming Committee is at Hurricane O’Reilly’s and starts at 9PM on Thursday, September 15 in Boston

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public.

MASSBEARZ Monthly Social is hosted the third Thursday of each month at Cathedral Station starting at 8PM in Boston

brown-is-the-new-pinkBrown is the New Pink the popular Ptown play starring Ryan Landry & Varla Jean Merman opens this week, from Thursday, September 15 – 18 in Boston

Gay Men Camping at Harold Parker State Forest starts on Friday, September 16 in Andover, MA

QuICK Weekly Climb starts at 6PM at Brooklyn Boulders on Friday, September 16 in Somerville

Boyfriends the monthly gay dance party will celebrate Britney Spears on Friday, September 16 at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Casual Fridays: Britney vs. Christina features DJ Nathaniel Bluhm and starts at 10PM at the Alley Bar on Friday, September 16 in Boston’s DTX

Therapy GLOW party 18+ from 11:55PM to 5:00 AM starting on Friday, September 16 in Providence

NGPA, National Gay Pilots AssociationCape Cod Classic annual event for Nat’l Gay Pilots Assoc. takes place Friday – Sunday, September 16-18 in Provincetown

MixFest FREE Concert will feature New Republic among other bands at the DCR Hatch Shell on Saturday, September 17 (gates open at 11AM)  in Boston

Social Fitness Festival at City Hall Plaza from 7AM – 6PM on Saturday, September 17 in Boston

Boston Freedom Rally celebrates their 27th year promoting legalization of marijuana Saturday & Sunday, September 17-18 on Boston Common

Paradise Block Party welcomes back the students starting at 9PM on Saturday, September 17 at Paradise Night Club in Cambridge

South End Open Market and SOWA Open Market return separately in the South End every Sunday from 10am-4pm in Boston

Public BodySanta Speedo Run Kick-Off Workout by Public Body starts at 10:30 at Heartbreak Hill Running Co. in South End on Sunday, September 18 in Boston

BEARZ Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Fifteen years later, my September 11th tribute post to Graham

911, September 11thFor as long as I’ve had this blog I’ve paid tribute to my friend, Graham Berkeley, who was on the United Airlines Flight 175, which crashed into New York’s World Trade Center towers on September 11, 2001.  The 15 years that have passed since his tragic death account for more time than we were friends, but he remains present in my heart and is someone I think of whenever I visit Provincetown or hear Whitney Houston and sadly every September for far less happy reasons.

Taken too soon and still missed today, Americans will mourn an attack on the nation that is for most fodder for political debate and indignation; especially this year with a Presidential election pending.  For me the 11th of September is always about giving thanks that my partner was not working the United Airlines flight and about the days that followed, which included the unfortunate task of packing Graham’s belongings and shipping them to his parents in the U.K.

In loving memory of Graham.

Scruffy Sunday

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Significant Other “Out and About” night September 16th

significant-other-speakeasy-stageBoston’s SpeakEasy Stage opens their 2016 / 2017 season with a new play from Joshua Harmon, author of the hit play Bad Jews. 

Significant Other is Harmon’s latest comedy. It centers around Jordan, a gay 20-something, coming to grips with the challenges of finding love through a series of romantic misadventures on his quest to find Mr. Right.

SpeakEasy Stage “OUT & ABOUT” night is Friday, September 16th. Following the performance join the cast and crew.  For more information and to purchase tickets visit speakeasystage.com/significant-other.

Saturday morning coffee

underwear, handsome, hunkRefer to this image should your morning coffee disappoint; this will help you feel the jolt of energy you need to wake up and put a smile on your face.

Saturday morning comic: Adam and Andy

gay cartoon,  gay comicClick on the comic strip to enlarge

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.  To see previous Adam and Andy cartoons link here.

Bonus fur

hairy chest, hunk, furry, absEnjoy your weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.

Kiki Beach: Last gasp of summer 2016

Kiki Beach on M Street BostonThe final Kiki Beach of 2016 is Saturday, September 10th. Sergio and I have enjoyed making several visits to Southie on Saturdays this summer to partake in Kiki Beach on M and want to give a special shout of thanks to our friends for making this a reality. Check out this cute video montage of Kiki Beach 2016 posted on Facebook.

Kiki Beach: Last Gasp of Summer 2016

The Hubway is free on Saturday, Sept. 10th

Boston HubwayHubway, Boston’s bike sharing system, is teaming up with Blue Apron to offer free 24-hour passes tomorrow, September 10th. Anyone who registers can take an unlimited number of rides of 30 minutes or less during the 24-hour period without charge, but a debit or credit card is still required, as standard fees will apply to all trips longer than 30 minutes.

To access the free passes, visit, .

Furry Friday

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BosGuy brain teaser

brain teaser, shirtless manEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain.  If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together. I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s riddle:  After teaching class about roman numerals (X = 10, IX=9 and so on) the teacher asked the class to draw a single continuous line and turn IX into 6. The only stipulation was the pen could not be lifted from the paper until the line was complete.

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

Minions on the Boston Common

Minions on Boston Common Frog PondEnjoy watching the Minions movie tomorrow night under the stars, thanks to the City of Boston and Boston Parks & Recreation Department. Bring your blankets or lawn chairs, sit back and relax. Free popcorn will be provided.
The movie will begin at sundown. Specific timing is tentative.

There is a bit more information on the Facebook events page, here.

Note: All Movie Nights are weather permitting and free/open to the public.