The Nun Brunch: NUNCH is March 6th

Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, BostonShow your support for Boston’s Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence

Nunch is the annual fundraiser brunch of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. As many of you know there are many events and charitable organizations that the Sisters of Perpeptual Indulgence support and volunteer.

It is now your chance to pay it forward by attending their FUNdraiser on Sunday, March 6th from 11am – 3pm.  Proceeds raised will help to support the Sister Grant Fund for 2017, which supports non-profit organizations that do good in the Greater Boston community.

Click here to learn more and purchase your tickets here!

Scruffy Sunday

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Brazilian Photographer/Model Joao Victor Lisboa

Joao Victor Lisboa, photography

Joao Victor Lisboa – Brazilian Model / Photographer

This weekend I was pleasantly surprised to see Homotography featuring self-portraits of a friend of mine. Joao Victor Lisboa (not Lisbon as they printed) is a young, talented model/photographer based in Sao Paulo.

I can tell you that Joao Victor is every bit as handsome in person as he appears in his photos. He has a wicked smile and a sense of humor to match.  You can see Joao Victor’s full portfolio online here, joaovictorlisboa.com.

Story originally via Homotography.

Another blog I respect and enjoy, Accidental Bear, has also put several of his self portraits on view.

Fenway Men’s Event is March 19

Fenway Health 2016 Mens EventIn three weeks Fenway Health will host one of the LGBT community’s largest fundraisers in New England.  The Men’s Event, which takes place on Saturday, March 19th will draw more than 1,300 supporters of Fenway Health to raise funds for one of the nation’s largest LGBT clinics and to bring our community together to celebrate our accomplishments.

Tickets remain available for the 2016 Men’s Event on Saturday, March 19. To learn more about the event or to purchase tickets visit, mensevent.org.

Boston’s slow but certain swing towards modernism

Photo Credit: Liza Voll

Photo Credit: Liza Voll

The following was written by BosGuy friend and occasional blog contributer, Michael C.

RANT – Ask anyone living in Boston and they’ll agree that it is a city with an almost fetishistic fixation on the old-school. The traditional colonial esthetic and the often misguided notion of deference to historical accuracy. In fact, this fixation has earned Boston the reputation among its more avant-garde residents as the city where everything is forced to “blend in”. No esthetic deviations from Victorian and Beaux Arts allowed here! Although most of my friends have already listened to my spiel, for the benefit of everyone else who hasn’t, I’ll say again that the most glaring example of Boston’s mentality has manifested itself through the new Liberty Mutual building – causing every modernist hair on this guy’s head to stand on its root. The way I see it, we had an opportunity that in a big city comes about once – maybe twice – every fifty years or so: to build a major landmark from the ground up. And how did we respond to that challenge? Perhaps by creating something exciting that will go on to become an architectural reference point for generations of future architects – an architectural icon? Oh no – instead, we thought it was a better idea to erect – again, from the ground up – a monolith that’s deliberately intended to mimic its neighbor, the original Hancock building, completed in 1922. Cutting edge, eh? These are the moments I catch myself exclaiming, sometimes out loud, “Seriously?!

While we’re at it, can we talk about the MFA and Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum? We commissioned two starchitects, Norman Foster and Renzo Piano, to design the state-of-the-art additions to the respective museum buildings. Several years of much-publicized mega construction and anticipation later and all we have is two boxy, painfully unimaginative, boring stone and glass cubes. Why bother commissioning celebrity architects only to stifle their creativity and compromise their vision? Excuse me, but has anyone seen the new wing at Toronto’s Royal Ontario Museum? Oh I’m sorry, I forgot – that’s a “monstrosity” by Boston standards. Oh quit your grumbling, you say. What about the ICA, our museum dedicated to modern art? Do you mean, that token modern building that’s banished to Fan Pier, like a petulant child in time-out since 2006, because out there in the wilderness there’s nothing to make it conform to. That building, designed by Diller Scofidio + Renfro, that happens to be conveniently hidden out of immediate sight so as not to upset our Quaker sensibilities? Yes, that one.

END OF RANT – But lest you think I’m judgmental grouch, let me clarify the rationale behind my grouching. I’m actually going somewhere with this. You see, having resigned to the expectation that Boston will remain the city that says no to 21st century esthetics, I’ve found myself pleasantly surprised and my spirits lifted by my recent string of experiences in our fair city’s cultural scene. Let me share a few.

THE PERFORMING ARTS – As a passionate lover of opera, that decidedly old-school art form, I’ve always felt frustrated with the Boston Lyric Opera company’s reluctance to recognize that, in the absence of a hefty endowment and production budget like the Met’s, grand opera on limited funding is miserable. Miserable in look and feel. Miserable in creativity. Generally, pretty pathetic. But by George, recently BLO’s got it! As they demonstrated through their last couple of seasons, when one embraces Modern like one means it, the results can be quite astonishing, and with no fewer octogenarian patrons than in past seasons. Wagner’s Flying Dutchman, performed amid raw scaffolding and moving rough seas projected on the massive stage wall. La Traviata and Cosi Fan Tutte, both operas in period costume albeit on dreamy, Dali-esque sets. And of course La Bohème, the bread and butter of the global lyric stage, still set in Paris, but moved from late 19th century to the 1960s with bell-bottom denim and shaggy shearling vests. To boot, embracing a modern production typically carries the added bonus of freeing up budget, which allows focus on what matters the most – the music – while forcing beauty to shine through simplicity and minimalism without polluting it with shoddy ornamentation and kitschy embellishment. So, kudos to BLO from your humble young(er) patron! As an afterthought however, one does have to wonder whether those schlocky sets and school-play costumes of the past were more a result of bowing to the demands of a visually conservative audience rather than the work of a narrow-minded production team.

THE PUBLIC ART– Another breath of fresh air is the large-scale, 10-floor tall “swimmer” mural by secretive French artist JR on the southwestern side of 200 Clarendon, formerly the Hancock Tower. A man on a diving raft, floating in the middle of a “sea” of glass. How cool is that? Spectacular in its appearance and so clever in its simplicity (why didn’t I think of that?). Then there’s Janet Echelman’s hypnotic aerial sculpture As If It Were Already Here that for six months graced the space above the Rose Kennedy Greenway outside South Station. Does this art installation represent art in the sense that it depicts a person or a flower or a landscape? Who cares? The question we should be asking ourselves is “does it make me think?” Even if that means scratching my head trying to understand what the hell I’m looking at, the piece has fulfilled its purpose. You may never figure it out and that’s perfectly fine, but consider this: it’s in the financial district. It’s a part of town crowded with men in pleated pants and shirts that fit looser than a tent. Isn’t it just awesome to inject into that habitat something forward-looking, something quirky, something esoteric and different? Don’t answer – it’s a rhetorical question.

THE NEIGHBORHOOD – Have you seen that remarkable home on South End’s Taylor Street, which I’ve dubbed “the Shutter House”? I have no idea what the owners had to do to get the city to OK it (and frankly I’m not even sure I want to know) but whatever they had to do, it was well worth the certain ordeal. For people who love modern architecture the appeal is pretty straightforward. Others may see it as a hideous affront to the neighborhood’s homogeneous character, style and historical integrity and it’s their right and privilege to see it that way. But in fact, that home acts as an enhancer of the quaint charm of the picturesque Victorian one-block street, if not its whole immediately surrounding neighborhood. By its arrival on the block as an alternative modern kid in an overwhelmingly historic environment, Shutter House has achieved a great success: for from attacking history, it complements and elevates it, making it even prettier – and more obvious to appreciate. Personal tastes notwithstanding, the house is esthetically beautiful. Even if you don’t believe in esthetic diversity, period, you may want to read the Globe’s write-up on Shutter House. Getting acquainted with it will almost certainly help you at least appreciate it as the triumph it represents. As long as something is well-made with good taste, meticulous care and obvious passion, it’s beautiful. Get over it and guess what – there are some real eye sores out there and this brave little house isn’t one of them.

THE HIGH HORSE, DISMOUNTED – OK, I’ll stop. Let’s just say that to watch Boston’s esthetic palate evolve over the next 5 years given this glacial shift in direction, will be riveting – and I’ll leave it at that. With the supremely boring but unquestionably modern Millennium Tower nearly finished and the impressively funky (dare I say, gasp, futuristic?) new Government Center T station entrance nearing completion, modernists and eurotrash all over town are holding their collective breath. But let’s not jump the gun here. Baby steps is the name of the game, and that is something even the most enthusiastic modernist must respect. As the traditionalist Bostonian will argue, if you want to see glass high-rises and funky museums getting yanked out of the ground every week, move to Miami. This is Boston. Fair enough, I say. But let me ask you this, traditionalists – yes, you. While busy rolling around in your conformist self-righteousness, have you noticed that the shape of the new Government Center T station is a nod to the Old State House a block down the street? If that’s not the ultimate bow to history by modernism, I don’t know what is – just saying.

Michael CAbout the author:  A former banker, Michael C offsets the sobriety of his professional life with his passion for design, music, the arts and anything beautiful.

© Michael Constantinides 2016 – all rights reserved

Saturday morning comic: Adam and Andy

gay comic strip, gay cartoonClick on the comic strip to enlarge

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.  To see previous Adam and Andy cartoons link here.

Bonus fur

hairy chest, hunk, denimHave a good weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.

TTO’s climACTS! sale ends February 29th

TTO, The Theater Offensive

climACTS! UNDERGROUND
Thursday, April 28 at 6:00 pm

Pre-sale Discounted Tickets Start at $80 (ends on 2/29)

The Theater Offensive (TTO) annual FUNdraiser, climACTS! is Thursday, April 28th at Stage Nightclub – 19 Boylston Place Boston.  The party will be emceed by David Brown,  DJ Brent Covington will be on hand and Cuban-American performance artist Octavio Campos will be joined by an ensemble of sexy dancers and performers.

Check out this video I put together from a climACTS! fundraiser from a couple years ago. It will better explain what I mean when I say this isn’t your typical, stuffy fundraiser; it is actually quite a bit of fun.

If you’ve never attended the TTO’s annual fundraiser, I’d highly recommend you check it out.  For more information or to get tickets link here.

Boston Ballet presents Onegin

Ballet

Boston Ballet presents Onegin
Photo courtesy of Boston Ballet and Gene Schiavone

Boston Ballet presents Onegin February 25 – March 6, 2016

Thursday, February 25th was opening night for the Boston Ballet at the Boston Opera House. Onegin is based on the early-19th century verse novel titled “Eugene Onegin” by Alexander Pushkin. This heart wrenchingly beautiful production was originally created in 1965 with music by Tchaikovsky.

If you love traditional ballet productions get tickets. The three act ballet with a live orchestra is filled with romance and drama. A patron I chatted with between Act II and Act III described the ballet best when she said to me, “it is so Russian”.  The ballet runs for approximately two and a half hours with two intermissions, concluding at 10PM, perfect timing for grabbing a nightcap.

Get Your Tickets Here

Furry Friday

Furry Friday, handsome, hunk, uniformI know this guy has been photoshopped something fierce but you still have to admit it is an amazing photo and perfect for a Furry Friday.

Past Furry Friday Posts

BosGuy brain teaser

Bostongue, doctorEach Friday I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and to exercise your brain.  This week’s riddle is a tough one so don’t get discouraged if you can’t figure it out on your own. Get help or share it with a friend or colleague to see if you can figure it out together.

I’ll confirm answers later in the day so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to try and solve the riddle.

Select the link below to try to solve riddles from previous weeks.

This weeks riddle: 
One word in three different ways fits in all the blanks. Can you figure it out?

“The ________ doctor was ________ to perform the operation because there was _______.”

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

Museum season in Boston

Pennsylvania Railroad World War II Memorial

Pennsylvania Railroad World War II Memorial

I jokingly refer to January, February and March as my “museum season” because it is the time of year I am most likely to spend a few hours strolling through one of Boston’s museums to pass an afternoon.  While some may prefer movies, I like to get out and stretch my legs by waking through some of the permanent exhibits at museums like the Museum of Fine Arts Boston.

Boston’s winter has been so mild this year that it has encroached on “museum season” – not that I’m complaining. But with spring and truly milder weather still a couple months away I wanted to suggest planning a weekend visit to an area museum either as something to do on your own or with friends.

art, Tire Jumping In Front of My Window

Tire Jumping In Front of My Window
By Allan Rohan Crite

It is a great way to pass time and for larger museums like the MFA Boston and the Harvard Art Museums, which have so many permanent collections, there is certain to be one that will pique your interest.  For example, the image above caught my eye, because I recognized it immediately as a scene from Boston.  This painting which is part of the MFA’s Art of the America’s collection was finished in 1947 by a local artist who lived above that store on the corner of Dilworth and Northhampton Street for nearly 50 years.

For those of you who may not want to spend several hours roaming a museum or might be looking for something that won’t cost much, remember that admission is free every Thursday from 5 – 9 PM at Boston’s Institute of Contemporary Art.

Dine Out Boston tips

Dine Out Boston 2016Make reservations today. Boston’s best restaurants fill quickly.

Dine Out Boston, which runs for two weeks in early and mid-March starts in a little more than a week. If this is your first Dine Out Boston I’d suggest you consider the following tips or guidelines to maximize your experience.

– Not all participating establishments are worth visiting. Restaurants serve 3 courses from a Prix Fixe menu for $28 $33 or $38.  If most of the restaurant’s main plates are normally less than $20.00 you are not likely saving much money. Look for restaurants with a higher price point.

– Dine Out Boston is meant to bring crowds into restaurants during a time that is normally quiet (that is why Saturday, March 12 is not officially part of the two week promotion).  To avoid crowds and not compromise on the service, make reservations for Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday.

– Because of those crowds that I just referenced it is important that you make reservations ASAP.  The better restaurants fill quickly and waiting is not in your best interest.

– Select a restaurant you have never had a chance to visit. Use this opportunity to explore new places that have opened or that may normally be more than you would spend to take advantage of the savings.  You may be pleasantly surprised and discover a new favorite restaurant.

Participating Restaurants: fully searchable by neighborhood, cuisine and price

Dr. Feelgood

feverYou give me fever when you kiss me
Fever when you hold me tight
Fever! in the morning Fever all through the night

American Repertory Theater presents: 1984

1984 American Repertory TheaterA.R.T. presents 1984 February 14 – March 6, 2016

This past weekend Sergio and I saw 1984 at the  A.R.T. in Cambridge.  It goes without saying that the production is gripping and intense. The fact that the book was written in post-WWII London, published in 1949, yet remains so relevant nearly 70 years later is amazing.

The one act play, which includes live video and plenty of dramatic lighting to drive home points as subtly as a club beating you over the head.  As Winston struggles with Big Brother and the Thought Police I found  myself sitting on the edge of my seat and you will too I bet.

The production was developed by the UK touring company, Headlong in 2013 and has played all over Britain, including two separate runs on the West End. If tickets remain, hurry up and get them while they last and then plan on grabbing a drink, because you’ll definitely want to talk about what you just saw.

A.R.T. Tickets to see 1984