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How we communicate with each other

Once upon a time, long, long ago there was a decade called the ’90s. Back in those dark ages people primarily communicated with friends and family in person (crazy, right?), phone and email. Although many people had cell phones, these earlier phone models were generally used to talk; no texting, apps or games were included -gasp-.

Suprisingly maybe -depending on your age- not everyone had a cell phone (especially at the start of the 90s) in part because they were expensive, reception was even worse than it is now, battery life was amazingly limited, and they were too big / bulky to easily carry with you.


As with cell phones, people interacted via email and on the web quite differently than they do today. Although the internet was available; bandwidth and connections remained significant issues as people routinely shouted at their computer’s and bemoaned something called “dial-up”.

Sites like AOL and chat rooms were all the rage (there was no such thing as Manhunt or Grindr). There was no Facebook; twitter was something birds would do; and even email was very different in the 90s – inserting images, embedding links, etc… was not always possible.

As communications and technology has progressed, the way I interact with people has changed significantly. For example, the only time I leave my house without my phone is when I’m off to the gym. I’m far more likely to text than I am to call, and I only check my email once or twice a day.

Thinking back 5-10 years, I would have found what I just admitted inconceivable. Although I always had my cell phone with me, the way I used it was so different from today. When texting was initially available, I loathed it (mostly because my phone at the time was crappy), and my preferred method of communicating was email. Oy, I feel old…

Deep thought

Sometimes it can be embarassing to ask for a helping hand.

One more reason to be Gaga

Towleroad blog is reporting Lady Gaga has nixed her deal with Target citing the company’s decision in 2010 to support the anti-gay, Republican politician as the reason for its dissolution.

Target has issued the following statement:“We were very surprised and disappointed by the statements made by Lady Gaga’s organization related to her partnership with Target. Target remains committed to the LGBT community as demonstrated by our contributions to various LGBT organizations, our recently established Policy Committee to review our political giving and our respectful, inclusive workplace environment.”

Gaga has consistently used her celebrity status to ask her fans to support GLBT rights including the elimination of DOMA, Don’t Ask Don’t Tell and support for same sex marriage. In the past she’s issued videos showing her calling her representatives in Congrees and urged her fans to do the same.

By virtue of entering talks with Target and walking away citing Target’s past political contributions she has successfully raised the issue again; much to the dismay of Target executives who tried to do damage control when the story first broke. I’d like to see Gaga work with Target (and maybe she will in the near future), but I’m also happy that Target’s political contributions from 2010 have not been forgotten.

Gaga using her fame and speaking to fans asking Congress to repeal DADT.

Taste of the South End 2011

Last week I first wrote about the Taste of the South End which benefits the AIDS Action Committee, and the event did not disappoint. Although there were no beads or parades to commemorate Fat Tuesday, nearly all who attended left a bit fatter than when they first arrived. And how could you blame them? With 40+ restaurants, wineries, beers and cocktails all tempting the tastebuds it was a food lover’s delight.

Restaurants new to the neighborhood like The Gallows and Noche kept pace with veteran establishments like Mistral and Stella. There were some noticeable absences, which will lead me to ask “Why?” on my next visit to these restaurants. You can see the full list of participants on the Taste website. Support these restaurants and thank them for their participation.

If you were unable to attend the festivities, you can check out this 2-minute video, which shows you some of the tempting treats cooked up for attendees. Again, sincere thanks to all the cooks and volunteers who made this a fantastic event.

The Boston Foodie also has a nice write up with more pictures from the event which you can check out by linking here.

Going to towne

This week was the start of Boston’s Restaurant Week and a friend has scored dinner reservations at towne. Located adjacent to the Hynes Convention Center in Boston’s BackBay neighborhood, this restaurant has received a lot of attention due in part to its size (its pretty darn big by Boston standards) and the two culinary directors, Lydia Shire and Jasper White are much loved local chefs. Earlier this year, I provided a restaurant review of one of Shire’s restaurants, Scampo.

I’m not sure what to expect, but I’ve been obsessing over the reservation; probably because tonight is theTaste of the South End and it has me thinking about food even more than usual. If you are in Boston or thinking of coming to Boston, restaurant week actually runs from March 6-11 and 13-18. There is more information about the event including participating restaurants, here.

Libya: will Obama lead, follow or remain silent?

Will the United States lead, follow or remain silent? I realize there are consequences no matter what we do, but reading the paper each day, watching the news each night and listening to interviews with Libyans calling into news programs sharing what is happening first hand is heartbreaking. Governments in Europe have recognized the uprising which started in Benghazi and now has a coalition governing body. Why haven’t we?

There is a fine line between intervention and instigation, but the fate of many Libyans has been cast, and I want to see the US more engaged. I have no desire to bring our military into another war, but I believe there are alternatives we can pursue. I do have faith that Obama is surrounded by an intelligent team, but I crave action that will help support these people.

I think this cartoon from Sean @JustaJeepGuy blog sums up my concerns perfectly.

Meat flavored water – Yuck!

I’ve never been a fan of flavored waters. I dislike ‘energy drinks’ preferring the real thing so when I saw “Meat Water” with flavors like beef stroganoff, cheese burger and peking duck I practically gagged. Apparently these are popular items sold in Walmart’s in China. I have one word to describe this, Yuck!

Men of Twitter

I’m a fan of Twitter. I love how quick and easy it is to use and connect with people. Another perk is what I’ll refer to as the “Men of Twitter” since there are so many handsome guys on Twitter. Adding to that attraction is the fact that they only talk in 140 characters 🙂

As always, suggestions for profiles to feature in the future are welcome and if you’d like to follow me on Twitter you can find me at @BosGuy. Below are a few more Men of Twitter.

@BradJ214 – Brad has his tweets locked so if you’d like to follow him, you’ll need to send him a request. This 6’2″ hunk from Dallas is a man of few words but his t-shirt gives you some insight into his playful side.
@JLuis_M – Tweets are mostly conversations w/ guys he’s following. He’s quite flirtatious, which makes it hard for me to stop reading and often curious to see what the other person said in the first place.
LoganRay2011 – was born in the Motor City, but grew up out West and now lives in Wyoming or Colorado; not exactly sure. However, I’d consider a road trip to find this guy if I had the time. Dear lord, check out his stomach.

Twitterama Update (Twitterama is my made-up word for tweets resulting in drama.) Turns out that LoganRay2011 is not the handsome guy he claims to be. I’m sure LoganRay2011 is a nice guy but since the point of this series is to feature guys I find handsome who are on Twitter, I felt like I had to cross him off the list. I just couldn’t bring myself to delete the fake hunky profile picture.
BTW – If you like, ReTweet. If you love, follow @BosGuy

Chris Salvatore sings Born This Way

Blog buddy, Alan from AlanIligan referenced a recent post from Dan over at DanNation, which I wanted to also share. According to IMDB, Chris Salvatore is a graduate of Berklee School of Music in the BackBay. Who knew?

In addition to the local connection to Boston, he’s also damn handsome and has a great voice. His latest YouTube video of Lady Gaga’s song, Born This Way is a great interpretation.

I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.

Caption this picture

Not quite sure what to say about this photograph, but I couldn’t resist posting it since I thought it was so funny. I absolutely love the intensity on the face of the kid in the blue print shorts and black shoes; it looks like he’s sneezing. Maybe you would share a humorous caption in the comments section of this post.

Learning to speak "Boston"

People not born in or near Boston often get confused by a native’s accent and although I’ve successfully tamed my Boston accent (for the most part) my word choices are a dead give-away for anyone familiar with what I like to refer to as “Boston SLANGuage”.

The word wicked in recent years (at least in gay circles) conjures up images of a beautiful Broadway musical, but when a Bostonian says the word it has a very different meaning. Wicked, when uttered by a Bostonian (and by the way its said here with a great deal of frequency), is intended as a superlative to stress something. Growing up I probably said something was “Wicked Awesome” a few million times. While it would give my cousins from the mid-Atlantic pause, after a second or two they usually caught on.

Friday fitness update

By the end of last year, I was a bit discouraged by how difficult it was for me to run even a couple of miles and I felt as if I was hitting a plateau with some of my work outs. However, in February I started feeling like I was making significant headway again. I was not struggling as much with my running and thanks to Stu’s patience I started lifting heavier weights and felt myself getting stronger.

Although I can’t recall any recent “new highs” with my lifting, I can definitely tell that I’m making progress. Additionally, I am now regularly running and its not nearly the struggle it was just 2-3 months ago. Yesterday, I ran 4 miles in 0:34:35.

Although the weather remains cold in Boston, spring is definitely approaching and I’ll be digging out my shorts in no time. Are you working out? If so, let me know. I enjoy chatting with guys on my blog or offline via email about this and I think its a great way to help keep each other motivated.

How Heterosexual are you?

1% HeteroBosGuy is 1% Hetero

Yikes, I had no idea I was so easily pegged. Apparently my tweets, which include mentions of “brunch”, “cocktails” and “SouthEnd” have betrayed me! If you have Twitter you can check out how hetero you are by linking here.

Commonwealth Shakespeare Company 2011 season presents, All’s Well That Ends Well

For years the Commonwealth Shakespeare Company has provided free Shakespeare performances on the Boston Common. Although the 2011 performances which are free and open to the public will not begin until the summer, it warms me just to write about this summer tradition.

According to Wikipedia, the play was initially classified as a comedy but is now considered by some as one of his problem plays, so named because it cannot be neatly classified as tragedy or comedy. Inspired by one of Boccaccio’s tales from the Decameron, the play centers on Helena, the orphan daughter of a famous physician. This globe-trotting adventure shows how far one woman will go to win the heart of her beloved.

I never read this play and look forward to seeing it this summer. If you are a native and have never been – check this out and support the local arts community. If you are planning to visit Boston this summer and will be in town when this is showing spend an evening under the stars enjoying this free performance. I smuggle in a bottle or two and order a pizza (yes pizzerias deliver to the Common).

Mark your calendars:
Boston Common – Parkman Bandstand
July 27 – August 14
Tuesday – Saturday @ 8pm
Sundays @ 7pm

Addo Novo comes to the South End

Addo Novo a Portland, Maine modern furniture and lighting atelier is opening its first store in Boston later this month in retail space previously occupied by Red River Trading Company.

Although I cannot afford a lot of their inventory, I can appreciate the beautiful design and am happy to welcome them to the neighborhood. I have no doubt I’ll be checking out what they have and praying there will be a clearance section.

You can check out some of their beautiful furniture here.

Addo Novo
1313 Washington Street
Wilkes Passage Building
857.284.7071