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Furry Friday

hairy man, furry, handsome

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BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brain

Each Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

This week’s brain teaser:  I am four times as old as my daughter. In 20 years time I shall be twice as old as her. How old are we now?

Leave your best guess below as a comment, and I’ll approve the answers later. This is a tough one so don’t get discouraged!

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

DJ, disc jockeyHere are 20+ events / programs / parties that will be taking place in and around Boston this weekend.  Share this post with your friends and make plans to go out and have a great weekend.

If there is a program that I’ve overlooked, please add it in the comments section and if it is a reoccurring event let me know so I can add it to this post which I pull together each week.

FRIDAY

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Boston Gay Professionals MeetUp network and connect with other LGBTQ professionals at this monthly meet up – this month at the Liberty Hotel on Friday starting at 6:30PM in Beacon Hill

The Diva’s Experience is at the Museum of Science each Friday at 7:30PM at the Hayden Planetarium – tix required and strongly encouraged to purchase in advance – showtime is approximately 40 minutes

The Cake (Opening Night) Lyric Stage Company opens with a funny and timely play that runs through February 9th in Boston

Fabulous Underground Comedy Kids Standup is at Jacques this Friday starting at 9PM in Bay Village

Fuzz love Kylie (and so do you) so check out this monthly dance party at the Alley on Friday starting at 10PM in Boston’s DTX

FO-MO Fridays is back this weekend at blend with DJ BEGBICK starting at 10PM (no cover) in Dorchester

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Movies After Midnite: The Faculty shows at the Coolidge starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

handsome, hunk, man wearing underwearSATURDAY

GAG REFLEX: Gay Stand-Up Comedy Show a new comedy night comes to Boston starting this Saturday starting at 6:30PM at Club Cafe

Prime Time at Oberon (Grand Opening) hosted by the Men of Melanin Magic with music from DJ BEGBICK – come and check out this new monthly gay dance party in Cambridge

DJ Alex Acosta spins at Legacy in the Theater District on Saturday – doors open at 10:30 in Boston

Blend Saturdays bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend in Dorchester

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

The Pink Party forget about what Mean Girls taught you and this Saturday dress in pink then head to dbar in Dorchester

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Movies After Midnite: The Thing shows at the Coolidge starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

NPSR, NPSRbostonSUNDAY

SoWa Vintage Market continues to run every Sunday from 10AM to 4PM at 450 Harrison Avenue in the South End

No Pants Subway Ride join this fun tradition hosted by cities around the world here in Boston and ride the MBTA in your underwear from 1-3PM on Sunday in Boston

Y2k Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

No Pants Subway Ride Boston is this Sunday

No Pants Subway Ride Boston

Boston’s No Pants Subway Ride is this Sunday

Calling all exhibitionists and pranksters: Boston’s 14th annual No Pants Subway Ride (NPSR) is this Sunday, January 12th from 1-3PM.  Details for participating in the No Pants Subway Ride (and the fun no pants after party) are posted here.

Meet at 1 Pemberton Square (near Gov’t Center) by 1:00 PM. Look for someone with an umbrella (and possibly a cape) who will give you instructions on the specific route you’ll be asked to travel. NOTE: Show up fully clothed – you will be instructed (when / where to remove your pants once on the MBTA). After riding the MBTA a pants optional after party will be at McGreevy’s (911 Boylston Street, Boston). Watch this helpful video for more information and tips.

About the Boston NPSR:
Attendees will ride various T lines wearing all of their normal winter clothes with the minor exception of missing pants. Throughout the ride, participants are encouraged to act as if nothing is out of the ordinary. G-strings, jockstraps, etc… are not allowed – the idea is to be cheeky without showing your cheeks if you understand my meaning.

This week on Instagram: jongomezdelap

Jon Gómez de la Peña, handsome, hunk hairyWhat can I tell you about Jon other than he is a Spanish photographer (and sometimes model) who calls Barcelona home – oh and in case you’re blind he also has a great body and handsome face.

This is definitely a mancandy account sprinkled with artistic and kooky photos. If his photos on Instagram are an accurate representation of who he is, then I think I’d like to be friends with this guy. He clearly has a great sense of humor.

You can follow this Instagram account at, instagram.com/jongomezdelap.

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.

Caption this photo

Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below of Saul Sarmiento (which I swiped from Matt over at boyculture blog late last year) inspires you to offer up a caption or two of your own.

Leave a witty or funny caption as a comment for this post, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“Showoff”

Boston’s Lyric Stage Company presents, The Cake

Boston Lyric Stage is a great local theater company located on Clarendon Street on the Back Bay / South End line and later this week they will open with, The Cake, their first production of the calendar year.

Using humor, the play addresses religious-based discrimination and the crisis of conscience some have when it comes to participating or contributing to same sex marriages. The play opens with Della, a traditional Southern baker, who learns she will be cast on her favorite television baking competition just as she is reunited with her deceased best friend’s daughter, Jen.  The sparks fly when Della is forced to question her strongly-held beliefs after Jen asks her to make her dream wedding cake for her and her future wife. Della must re-examine her deeply held beliefs, as questions of morals, judgment and family swirl around them all in this heartfelt and deliciously funny play.

The production opens this week on Friday, January 10 and runs through Sunday, February 9. Sergio and I will be checking it out this weekend and I hope you will see it as well. With tickets starting at $25 and special discounts for seniors and students this is a great option and worth checking out.

The Cake
January 10 – February 9, 2020
Click here for more information or to buy tickets

Temptation Tuesday

handsome, hunk, guy wearing headphones, DJStarting the year off with a distractingly handsome Temptation Tuesday post.

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Men in kilts

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What to do this week: January 6-12

Have a holiday hangover? Looking for a distraction from the winter chill? Check out one or more of these programs / events / parties and share with your friends. If there is a program that I’ve overlooked, please add it in the comments section and if it is a reoccurring event let me know so I can add it to this post which I pull together each week.

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Boston’s Bisexual Resource Center annual meeting is on Monday at the Boston Public Library at 6:30PM

Boston Gay Men’s Book Club meets this Monday at 7PM at Boston Beer Works by Fenway Park to discuss this month’s novel – all welcome

Drag Queen Trivia is at A4cade in Central Square starting at 7PM on Monday

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

gay bostonStump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

The Nowhere Near Broadway Revue is back this Wednesday starting at 9PM at Club Cafe in Boston

Back to the 80s is a weekly dance party each Wednesday at Machine starting at 10PM in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Trivia Night comes to Cathedral Station every Wednesday from 8-10PM

Free Pool is available all evening at Cathedral Station every Thursday

MOVIE: Valley of the Dolls will play starting at 6PM at the History Project – no cost but they do ask you to RSVP to ensure there are enough seats for all

Queer Boston Board Gamers “Game Night” will meet this Thursday at Smith Campus Center starting at 6PM in Boston

Cabaret night w/ Andy Lantz & Frankie Campofelice is at Club Cafe’s Napoleon Room on Thursday starting at 8PM 

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Boston Gay Professionals MeetUp network and connect with other LGBTQ professionals at this monthly meet up – this month at the Liberty Hotel on Friday starting at 6:30PM in Beacon Hill

The Diva’s Experience is at the Museum of Science each Friday at 7:30PM at the Hayden Planetarium – tix required and strongly encouraged to purchase in advance – showtime is approximately 40 minutes

The Cake (Opening Night) Lyric Stage Company opens with a funny and timely play that runs through February 9th in Boston

Fabulous Underground Comedy Kids Standup is at Jacques this Friday starting at 9PM in Bay Village

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

Everyone loves Kylie at Fuzz this Friday

Fuzz love Kylie (and so do you) so check out this monthly dance party at the Alley on Friday starting at 10PM in Boston’s DTX

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Blend Saturdays bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend in Dorchester

GAG REFLEX: Gay Stand-Up Comedy Show a new comedy night comes to Boston starting this Saturday starting at 6:30PM at Club Cafe

The Pink Party forget about what Mean Girls taught you and this Saturday dress in pink then head to dbar in Dorchester

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Vintage Market continues to run every Sunday from 10AM to 4PM at 450 Harrison Avenue in the South End

NPSR, NPSRboston

No Pants Subway Ride in Boston this Sunday

No Pants Subway Ride join this fun tradition hosted by cities around the world here in Boston and ride the MBTA in your underwear from 1-3PM on Sunday in Boston

Y2k Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Remembering Mendoza Argentina

This past December I had the opportunity to visit Mendoza, Argentina, which is best known for its proximity to the Andes Mountains and wine country. Prior to my visit, I knew very little about Argentinian wines, but Nick Dadonna, Beverage Director for Boston Urban Hospitality Group (Boston Chops, Deuxave, dbar), was an incredible help, and I have returned to the United States with a far greater appreciation for wine making, knowledge of Malbec, and foods to pair this wine with when I entertain at our next dinner party.

Catena Zapata, Zuccardi, Lujan du Cuyo, Uco ValleyWhen I started planning this trip, I had initially wanted to stay at a vineyard but that became impractical so we ended up staying in Mendoza at the Sheraton, which turned out to be a great property with access to interesting areas of town.

Unfortunately Sergio wasn’t feeling great so I ended up touring a handful of gorgeous wineries on my own. I did have the good sense to hire a driver ahead of time so I could indulge without worrying about driving. Should you find yourself booking a trip to Mendoza I would recommend doing the same. Even though parts of wine country are very close to downtown, having a driver makes a huge difference and provided me with a lot of flexibility. Below are some of the highlights from my two days touring wineries.

Lujan de Cuyo, Mendoza WineryA twenty minute drive south of Mendoza brought me to Bodega Catena Zapata one of Argentina’s oldest wineries located in Lujan de Cuyo. This award winning family-owned winery dates back to 1902 when it was founded by Italian immigrant, Nicola Catena.

In a nod to their new world status, the winery built a pyramid-like design based on Mayan architecture for their beautiful bodega and logo.  The winery is very proud of their history and Argentina’s role in saving the Malbec grape, which had been Eleanor of Aquitaine’s preferred wine of choice, but was essentially wiped out in Europe due to a disease in the 19th century that attacked European vineyards.  The lovely tour, learning about the history of the Malbec and this illustrious Argentinian family was interesting but it was the tasting (see the wines above) I’ll remember best. My favorite from the tasting proved to be Luca Old Vine Malbec 2017.

Following a 2+ hour tour and tasting I was more than satisfied but later that day I needed to rally for a private luncheon at Casa Rena’s gorgeous restaurant. I’ve included photos from the 2+ hour luncheon, 7-course meal (the sorbet not shown) accompanied by six wines (click the image below to enlarge).Lojan de Cuyo bodegaSitting outside with views of the vineyard and beautiful landscaping, I gorged on this gourmet lunch. Unfortunately, I was running so late I couldn’t stay for the tour of the winery but the lunch and wines were fantastic. After lunch I could barely move but I somehow managed to power through the rest of the day.

Uco Valley, Mendoza ArgentinaOn my final day of tastings, we drove to Uco Valley (a 90-minute drive from Mendoza). This would turn out to be my favorite winery. Nestled in Uco Valley with the massive Andes Mountain Range off to the west, Zuccardi winery was founded in the early 1960s by an Engineer who was trying to modernize irrigation in the region.

Three generations have been involved in making wines here. The family made a decision to use local, sustainable materials wherever possible to build this bodega so it would blend into the landscape. And local artisans and builders were hired to help construct this gorgeous winery, which also applies that same sustainable approach to making wine by using concrete vats to turn their grapes into wine (see below).

However, what I shall remember best from my time at the winery is the amazing lunch that was prepared for me in their restaurant. The photo at the very top of the post was the main plate but it was preceded by two other dishes and followed by dessert. Just like the previous day at Casa Rena, Zuccardi’s lunch proved to be a gourmet marathon with four courses and eight wines served (OMG). It’s no wonder that after I rolled out of Uco Valley I told Sergio I needed to take a break otherwise I might die from overindulgence.

I loved my time in Mendoza and learning more about Argentinian wines. If you’re a wine lover, you really need to check out Argentina’s wine country.

Scruffy Sunday

man in bed shirtlessPrevious Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

handsome hunk sipping coffeeI’m trying not to be too envious that this guy can enjoy his morning coffee outside in little more than a towel. This week’s post makes me miss summer.

Saturday morning comics

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Click on this week’s comic strip to enlarge

Click here if you would like to see  the previous Adam & Andy

SpeakEasy Stage presents, Pass Over

SpeakEasy Stage opens the New Year with a powerful new play called Pass Over.  The play which centers around two young black men, crafts everyday profanity into poetic and humorous riffs, as Moses and Kitch share their dreams of deliverance, until an ominous stranger changes their world forever.

The play opens tonight in the South End and will run through January 25th. Tickets are incredibly affordable, starting at just $25, but it only runs for a few weeks. Make plans with friends to see this production and get your tickets today.

Pass Over
January 3 – 25, 2020
Click here for more information and to buy tickets