I can’t help but feel like I’d enjoy having my morning cup of coffee with this guy.
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ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.
My apologies! Due to a hectic travel schedule I was not able to share last week’s Adam & Andy comicstrip so I’ve doubled up this week to include what should’ve been posted last Saturday as well as this week’s strip. Enjoy!
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Click here if you would like to see the previous Adam & Andy
Below are approximately 30 different events and parties here in Boston and Ptown for you to check out. In addition to the suggested events below don’t forget my post from earlier this month sharing Haunted Houses to check out and events in Salem, MA this weekend.
Below, I’ve marked events in Ptown for Spooky Bear weekend for those of you heading to the Cape. I’m not sure I’ve included everything so feel free to add any overlooked parties or events in the comments section of this post.
First Fridays want an alternative to Halloween parties – check out SoWa’s 1st Fridays checking out new shows at n’hood art galleries and meeting artists in their SoWa studios from 5-9PM on Friday
Smoke and Mirrors at the ICA if you’re looking for something artsy fartsy but you don’t want to do First Fridays (see above) this may be for you – currently sold out but a limited number of tickets will be available at the door the night of the event from 5:30 – 9PM
Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville
SPOOKY BEAR: Halloween Weekend, Tricks & Treats come over to Shipwreck Lounge starting at 6PM for drinks and to mingle in Ptown
SPOOKY BEAR: Haunted Party Cruise is from 6:30 – 9:30 for a Haunted Halloween Party in Ptown’s Harbor
SPOOKY BEAR: Bearlesque performs starting at 7PM at the Crown and Anchor in Ptown
Phyllis Diller Believes in Me Friday evening at Club Cafe watch Phyllis Gordon who is on the verge of quitting stand-up, she is visited by the comic legend Phyllis Diller. Tix required.
SPOOKY BEAR: Varla Jean Merman performs her show “Pieced Together” at the Art House starting at 9PM in Ptown
Boudoir x Volvox: Venus In Furs- A Queer Techno Playground starts at 9PM at the Lower Level in Cambridge
SPOOKY BEAR: RAM/HalloWOOF is at Paramount at the Crown & Anchor doors open at 9PM in Ptown
Fascination is back again with doors at Jacques Underground opening at 9PM in Bay Village so breakout your leather, latex, whatever and head over
“Heroes” Halloween Weekend – All Saints, All Souls is Friday starting at 10PM at Sonia in Cambridge
Halloween Hangover Party is at blend in Dorchester with DJ Andrea doors open at 10PM and there is no cover
RAW wear your leather and enjoy the great music at Ramrod on Friday – doors open at 10PM in the Fenway
Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX
Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday
SPOOKY BEAR: Inaugural Spooky Bowl is hosted by FLAG Flag Football – games will be played at the Winslow Street Fields on Saturday from 11AM – 1PM with post game celebrations at Shipwreck Lounge in Ptown
SPOOKY BEAR: Come & Scrum is the annual party thrown by Boston’s gay rugby team Ironsides at Harbor Lounge 12PM – 3PM
SPOOKY BEAR: Halloween Weekend, Tricks & Treats come over to Shipwreck Lounge starting at 6PM for drinks and to mingle in Ptown
SPOOKY BEAR: Bearlesque performs starting at 7PM at the Crown and Anchor in Ptown
Fresh Fruit is Born Again these Queens are ready to hit the stage at Club Café to perform for you starting at 8PM
SpeakOUT Fall Speaker Training is an all day program from 8:30 – 6PM for more details click the link — hosted in JP
SPOOKY BEAR: VARLA JEAN MERMAN performs her show “Pieced Together” at the Art House starting at 9PM in Ptown
Underbear while everyone is dressing up this monthly underwear dance party will have you stripping down and dancing to great music at the Alley
Mayhem Saturdays is back with DJ AGA at blend – doors open at 10PM and there is no cover
UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston
Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston
Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)
Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston
New England Patriots vs Baltimore Ravens viewing party starts early but gametime is 8:20PM on Sunday at Cathedral Station (free parking in the back if you arrive early enough) in Boston
Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston
Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston
Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.
Song of the Witches: “Double, double toil and trouble”
BY WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE
(from Macbeth)
Double, double toil and trouble;
Fire burn and caldron bubble.
Fillet of a fenny snake,
In the caldron boil and bake;
Eye of newt and toe of frog,
Wool of bat and tongue of dog,
Adder’s fork and blind-worm’s sting,
Lizard’s leg and howlet’s wing,
For a charm of powerful trouble,
Like a hell-broth boil and bubble.
Double, double toil and trouble;
Fire burn and caldron bubble.
Cool it with a baboon’s blood,
Then the charm is firm and good.
Notes: Macbeth: IV.i 10-19; 35-38
According to the Historical Society of Northern California, this photo was taken in San Francisco’s Castro neighborhood in the 1970s. For more images check out the article The Castro: The rise of a gay neighborhood.
I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.
Considering the time of year, it makes sense that I share a little love for Salem, MA which is the “it” place to be each Halloween. While locals will be quick to point out that this little New England village, rich with American history has more to offer than witch trials and eerie (possibly haunted) homes, at this time of year it seems appropriate to focus on this town’s notorious history.
The town is very picturesque and easy to get to by boat in the summer months or by commuter rail from North Station if you don’t have a car. It is definitely worthy of a visit and can offer some good seaside dining options.
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“First date”
In what has become an unintentional tradition, each October I post this poem on my blog. It is one of my favorite poems and happens to be by the famous 20th century American poet, Robert Frost.
Nothing gold can stay was inspired by the fall foliage in New England and was written nearly 100 years ago, back in 1923.
Nature’s first green is gold
Her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf’s a flower;
But only so an hour.
Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,
So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.
Earlier this year I featured Rab Shields (one half of the Kilted Coaches) as a Furry Friday (you can see him here) so I figured I should feature the equally handsome other half of that duo, Stephen Clarke.
There are a ton of halloween themed events and parties this week including Spooky Bear Weekend, Provincetown’s nod to Halloween. If dressing up isn’t your thing you can check out Underbear this Saturday where the monthly underwear dance party will have everyone stripping down.
I’d also like to give a shout out to Harpoon Brewery who will giving out free candy and popcorn on Monday night and showing Hocus Pocus starting at 6PM or on Tuesday check out Salem’s Lot showing at Club Cafe.
LGBTQ Fall Job Fair is this Monday from 4:30 – 7PM hosted by the MA LGBTQ chamber of commerce
Boston Gay Men’s Book Club is meeting on Monday at 7PM at the Boston Public Library cafe to discuss this month’s book, Before Night Falls by Cuban writer Reinaldo Arenas – all are welcome but do please RSVP
Hocus Pocus at Harpoon will be showing at their brewery with free popcorn and candy in the Seaport starting at 6PM on Monday
Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston
No Filter You can catch #NoFilter this Monday upstairs with a kooky theme, at Jacques with no theme, where anything goes 10PM-12AM in Boston
All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston
Boston Pride Fall Open House is this Tuesday starting at 6:30PM at the Boston Pride offices in Fort Point Channel / Southie
Halloween Horror Movie Night – Salem’s Lot head to Club Cafe on Tuesday night starting at 7PM to see this Stephen King classic
Mass Bears and Cubs Social starts at 7:30PM at Cathedral Station this Tuesday – all welcome – come down to meet and mingle with this friendly bunch
Halloween Trivia night is this Tuesday starting at 8PM at Club Cafe
Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP
Lucky 13 Halloween show tunes hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester
Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston
Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston
Trivia Night comes to Cathedral Station every Wednesday from 8-10PM
Halloween Eve at Latino Wednesdays is at Legacy in the Theater District with a $1,000 costume contest – doors open at 10PM
Spooky Bear Weekend is happening in Provincetown so come down and enjoy the fun – events take place Thursday through Sunday
Free Pool is available all evening at Cathedral Station every Thursday
Boulet Brothers Halloween Spooktacular w/Trixie&Katya open to all ages at Royale on Halloween night from 7-11PM in Boston
RPDR Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Blend, Machine and Club Cafe each Thursday in Boston
Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston
Queeraoke Halloween BASH spend Halloween at Midway Cafe for this fun karaoke night starting at 9PM in JP
Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston
Shea Couleé’s “killer” Halloween Party head over to Candibar for this Halloween party that is certain to fill to capacity
#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe
First Fridays want an alternative to Halloween parties – check out SoWa’s 1st Fridays checking out new shows at n’hood art galleries and meeting artists in their SoWa studios from 5-9PM on Friday
Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville
Phyllis Diller Believes in Me Friday evening at Club Cafe watch Phyllis Gordon who is on the verge of quitting stand-up, she is visited by the comic legend Phyllis Diller. Tix required.
Boudoir x Volvox: Venus In Furs- A Queer Techno Playground starts at 9PM at the Lower Level in Cambridge
“Heroes” Halloween Weekend – All Saints, All Souls is Friday starting at 10PM at Sonia in Cambridge
Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX
FO-MO Fridays are every Friday at Blend in Dorchester – doors open at 10PM
Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday
RAW wear your leather and enjoy the great music at Ramrod on Friday – doors open at 10PM in the Fenway
SpeakOUT Fall Speaker Training is an all day program from 8:30 – 6PM — for more details click the link — hosted in JP
Blend Saturdays bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at Blend in Dorchester
Underbear while everyone is dressing up this monthly underwear dance party will have you stripping down and dancing to great music at the Alley on Saturday
UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston
Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston
Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)
Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston
New England Patriots vs Baltimore Ravens viewing party starts early but gametime is 8:20PM on Sunday at Cathedral Station (free parking in the back if you arrive early enough) in Boston
Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston
Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston
Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.