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This week on Instagram: green.joel

joel green, handosme, hunk, beautiful black man, muscular shirtless manThis week on Instagram I’m featuring Joel Green, a personal trainer and model, who seems to always be on the move, traveling the world. I know very little about this person except that the camera loves him, and I cannot take my eyes off of him. Check out his IG account and you’ll see photos from around Europe and Asia. If you are like me, it might take you several minutes of staring before you even realize the exotic surroundings.

Follow this account on Instagram here, instagram.com/green.joel/.

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.

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Boston Gay Men’s Chorus performs with Todrick Hall

Next month The Boston Gay Men’s Chorus (BGMC) spring concert “Raise You Up,” gives voice (literally) to the themes of racial injustice and the resilience of the human spirit.  The BGMC will be joined on stage with the super cool and fantastically talented Todrick Hall at New England Conservatory’s beautiful Jordan Hall on Saturday, March 16 and Sunday, March 17.

The first half of the show will feature “Seven Last Words of the Unarmed” to give voice to the last words of Michael Brown, Amadou Diallo, Kenneth Chamberlain, John Crawford, Eric Garner, Oscar Grant, and Trayvon Martin.

About the Boston Gay Men’s Chorus BGMC is one of New England’s largest and most successful community-based choruses. Founded in 1982, the 200-voice ensemble sings a wide spectrum of classical and popular music and creates social change by providing a positive, affirming image of the gay and lesbian community. The Chorus is heard live by more than 10,000 people each season and thousands more through recording, television and internet broadcasts.

Temptation Tuesday

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What to do this week: February 11 – 17

hairy,Lots happening this week so check out the full list of activities and events but here are a few shout outs for you to consider: Remnant Brewing Get Together  hosted by BAGLY on Tuesday; Guy Social’s fun Play Date: arcade night + mixer on Wednesday; and The Coolidge screening of Lost in Translation on Thursday (Vday).

If you need a good laugh check out S&M Comedy Night on Friday at Jacques or Don’t Tell Comedy: Cambridge on Saturday. If you want to dance check out ‘Stache Bash for Special Olympics or H E R O E S  which take place in neighboring clubs on Friday. On Saturday check out BLEND w/ DJ Aga Saturdays or head over to dbar for their Love Ball

On Sunday there is plenty happening including Drag Me to Brunch followed by Dragathon: All Stars Live at Royale in the evening. Alternatively you can also check out Mass native Cazwell LIVE at Machine.

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Lost in Translation plays this week at The Coolidge

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Conversation on LGBT Aging: Housing takes place Tuesday from 10AM – 1PM at the Bruce C Bolling Building in Roxbury where a panel will address housing issues and concerns for LGBT seniors

Remnant Brewing Get Together is hosted by BAGLY this Tuesday starting at 6:30PM in Somerville

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

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Play Date: an arcade night + mixer Guy Social Boston hosts a fun night out on Wednesday at Versus Arcade bar in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Big Screen Classics: Lost in Translation is probably one of  my favorite Bill Murray films of all time and made me fall in love with Scarlett Johanssen; catch this classic on Thursday at the Coolidge starting at 7PM in Brookline

Queer Connections hosted by The Welcoming Committee on Thursday provides you with a chance to meet and make friends and possibly connect with someone on a deeper level – all the fun starts at 7PM at the Vintage Restaurant and Lounge near the Greenway

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Throb – Queeraoke Vday Takeover lets you dance all night with the doors opening at 9:30PM at the Midway Cafe in JP

#Yaasss Thursdays presents: Sissy That Walk weekly drag competition the last Thursday of each month Showtime: 12:30AM at Club Cafe in Boston

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Stache Bash is at the Middle East this weekend

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

#LoveYourself is hosted by FenwayHealth and includes food, music and fun games at Club Cafe on Friday from 6-9PM

S&M Comedy Night returns to Jacques Cabaret starting at 7:30PM on Friday

The Beyonce Experience fuses the sounds of Beyonce with stunning visuals under the Charles Hayden Planetarium dome every Friday and Saturday at 8:30PM through February

RPDR All Stars 4 Viewing Parties are at The Alley Bar, Club Cafe and Trophy Room each Friday through March 1st in Boston

‘Stache Bash for Special Olympics join Boston’s LGBT athletic community at the Middle East in Central Square on Friday night for some great music, fun and to help raise money for Special Olympics of Massachusetts

H E R O E S  Retro dance party is this Friday from 10PM-2AM at Sonia (formerly TT The Bear’s Place) in Central Square

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Don’t Tell Comedy: Cambridge check out this secretive comedy night that hosts pop-ups all over Boston with talented comedians (note it is BYOB) on Saturday at 7:30 somewhere in Central Square

BLEND Saturdays – Mayhem with DJ Aga takes place this Saturday – doors open at 10PM at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester

The Love Ball is this Saturday at dbar with DJ Jay Ine in Dorchester

Serving Face starts early on Friday downstairs at Jacques on Saturday – enjoy pop up drag performances, fun music and plenty of fun

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

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Drag Me to Brunch with the gorgeous Destinyis back this Sunday starting at 2PM at Carrie Nation over by Government Center

Dragathon: All Stars Live is in Boston this Sunday at Royale starting at 6PM

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

GBC Dorchester Sunday’s at SBK head over to Savin Bar & Kitchen to hang out with the very social Gay Beer Club (all welcome) on Sunday from 7-10PM

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Cazwell LIVE at Machine (18+) come see Mass-native Cazwell perform on Sunday at Machine (doors open at 10PM)

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Presidents’ Day Sunday: Dragathon Official After Party! starts at 11PM on Sunday at Royale

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Boston Public Garden

bret clancy, boston skyline, boston winterEstablished in 1837 The Boston Public Garden is a beautiful park in the center of town. I thought I’d share this gorgeous photo taken by Bret Clancy who has many photos of Boston on his IG account and available for sale on Etsy here. Much thanks to Arts Boston Instagram for posting this picturesque photo of kids playing hockey last month.

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

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Saturday morning comics

gay cartoon, gay comic, James Asal Jr., Adam and Andy cartoonADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

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Are you a fan of Adam & Andy? You can now purchase “Adam & Andy The Definitive Collection”, which includes comics from 2015 – 2018, selected classics, character profiles and is available in paperback or hardcover. You can purchase a copy by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Most frequently googled Valentine’s day gifts by state

Earlier today I saw this image posted on Twitter by @OnlyInBoston. Who can say how this data gets compiled but I do find it mildly entertaining. Apparently “Couples Cooking Classes” is the most frequently googled gift idea here. What is the most frequently googled Valentine’s Day-related gift idea in your state?

Furry Friday

Ross JirglThis week’s photo of the super sexy Ross Jirgl comes from the All Male Pics group on Facebook.

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BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s brain teaser:  
If someone is holding a bee in their hand, what is in their eye?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

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Lots happening this weekend. Here are a few events I’d like to give a shout out to but check out the full listing below and make plans with friends. Do you like independent film? Check out the Sundance Film Festival Shorts at the ICA;  Friday and Saturday get tickets to The Beyonce Experience at the Museum of Science; cap the weekend with the Mass Bears and Cubs Sunday Brunch.

White Out Weekend (WOW) takes place up at Sunday Rivers Mountain in Maine Friday through Sunday

Sundance Film Festival Shorts plays at the ICA Boston and runs through Sunday, February 10 (tickets are required)

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

The Beyonce Experience fuses the sounds of Beyonce with stunning visuals under the Charles Hayden Planetarium dome every Friday and Saturday at 8:30PM through February

RPDR All Stars 4 Viewing Parties are at The Alley BarClub Cafeand Trophy Room each Friday through March 1st in Boston

La Boum Queer Dance Party is hosted the first Friday of each month starting at 10PM at the Milky Way in JP

FUZZ is a monthly gay dance party hosted the second Friday of each month with DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy at the Alley in Boston

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday 

Strapped: Inflatable Twister Party is this Saturday at Machine – doors open at 10PM in Boston

Mates Leather Weekend, Provincetown

Grunt Saturdays dance party at the Alley Bar in DTX

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Silver Saturdays is back at Blend with a tribute to Chris Harris; join DJ Stevie Psyclone spin your favorite music – doors open at 10PM in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Brunch of Queens is this Sunday at the Bell & Hand from 11AM – 4PM

Mass Bears and Cubs Sunday Brunch is at Trophy Rom this Sunday starting at 1PM

Queer and Trans Figure Drawing starts at 2PM every 4th Sunday of the month at the Dorchester Art Project (click the link for more details)

*sip* DJ Brian Halligan w/guest Miranda Wrights is on Sunday from 6PM-10PM  at Jacques

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Board game speed dating for gay men

I have no idea if this is a first time event or simply the first time I’ve heard about this but for anyone in the dating pool this might be an event worth checking out. The evening combines board games and dating — sounds fun as long as you’re not stuck playing Sorry.

Gay Men Board Game Speed Dating
Friendly Toast – Kendall Sq
Wednesday, March 6, 2019
Click here for more information

Tickets are required to partake so if you think you’d like to check out Gay Men Board Game Speed Dating be sure to get a ticket.