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Acela

I have to head to NYC for an afternoon meeting on Friday, which means I’ll be hopping on Acela.  I prefer train travel when going between NYC and Boston.  There are far fewer hassles, it is less likely to be delayed and there is so much more space to stretch out.  I do wish they could upgrade the rails to make the journey pass more quickly, but I don’t complain because I feel lucky that I have this as an option.  Have you used Amtrak’s high-speed railway (otherwise known as Acela)? 

Sadly, I’ll only be in NYC for a few hours so there won’t be any opportunity to enjoy the city.

Weekend in Boston

The weather this weekend was hot and sunny with temperatures in the low to mid-90s.  Normally I would have gone to Provincetown to escape the heat, but a good friend came to Boston to celebrate his 40th birthday (happy belated birthday Tom).   I think he had a fun time – we started the evening at my place with a champagne toast then walked down the street to Myers and Chang.  After dinner people came back for a nightcap and conversation.
Sunday turned out to be a lazy day with friends dropping by unexpectedly.  It was great to see everyone.  The combination of my air conditioned apartment, some delicious white wine and good conversation made the afternoon and evening pass quickly. I couldn’t believe that it was a just past 10pm when I closed the door and waved good bye to everyone.  Perhaps for some people the random “drop-ins” would not be welcome, but it is something that I love about where I live.  I think it is great to have friends drop by unexpectedly.  I don’t think I could have planned a more relaxing Sunday – even if I tried.

Thank you

It has been a busy week – perhaps you’ve noticed my lack of posts?  Maybe not.  Regardless, I can’t function like a normal person when the weather is this beautiful. I don’t know how people who live where the weather is beautiful year round actually get work done.  I think the sun must fry my neural connections, because like this post I become a babbling idiot.

Anyway, I wanted to say thank you to a few blogs that have recently linked to me.  I’m flattered and appreciate it.  Apologies in advance for anyone I may have missed.

Alan Ilagan – a personal blog about Alan’s life in upstate NY
Aussielicious – a rather cool blog from a guy who lives in Sydney Australia
The Lisp – a blog filled with loads of sarcasm and plenty of gay humor
The Spirit of St. Lewis – a personal blog from a friendly midwesterner

UPDATE
Oops… I knew my memory being what it is – that I would inadvertantly leave someone off this list.
My new life – is a personal blog of a ‘regular guy’ (to use his own words) of a Virginian.
Mike’s short attention span – personal blog from a fellow Bostonian who lives in Southie – check him out.

Again, thanks to all…

Weekend forecast

With temperatures near 90 degrees already and nearly a cloud in the sky to provide any sort of shade, it appears that Boston will enjoy yet another gorgeous weekend.  I’ll be in Boston (melting) to celebrate a friend’s birthday.  Are you heading to the beach? I’m jealous.

Traditional marriage includes…

Marriage has had a checkered past in the U.S. The arguments for many of the restrictions placed on marriage are made to sound altruistic but the truth is attempts to limit groups from marrying has always been a subversive way to isolate and discriminate. I stumbled upon this image (see below) from the Murmurs of Desire blog.

What a frightening past for an institution that is suppose to be about love and loving others.

Here comes the rain

I’m seeing a lot of posts on blogs that I read with videos from 80s bands lately so I’ve decided to hop on the bandwagon and have posted this video from the 80s glam / punk band, The Cult.  I’ve taken the metaphor literally today since thunder showers are predicted off and on through out the afternoon.

What 80s bands or songs have you been listening to recently?

Provincetown – East End photos

Part-time vegetarian

Despite my commitment to the gym, I’d been unable to drop the weight I wanted so a few weeks ago I opted to modify my diet to augement my efforts in the gym.  In mid-to-late June I stopped eating meat and increased my in-take of fruit and veggies.  After one week I dropped 7 lbs. I’m not really sure that anyone could see the difference, but psychologically it was a huge boost. 

Of course, after spending the weekend in Provincetown over the 4th of July, I was humbled by the number of defined abdominals and the general fitness level of the guys there so I’ve redoubled my efforts with my personal trainer Stu. 

How are you doing with your diet and work out routine?  Do you work out regularly? I’m in pretty good shape, but I would like to continue to build muscle mass and shrink my waist with which I seem to be permanently at war.  I plan on maintaining my ‘vegetarian’ status through the summer since it has helped me shave off a few extra pounds, but I’m interested to hear if you have any fitness or diet tips.

Weekend fun in Boston

Not in Provincetown or Ogunquit this weekend?  Although Boston can get very quiet during the summer months, there is still plenty to do if you want to get out or blow off some steam.  I’ve listed some options which likely vary from your routine.  Maybe I’ll see you out in the city – if so, please say hello.

Friday Boston Guerrilla Queer Bar will take over Kitty O’Shea’s, which is near the State Street T stop at 131 State Street.  Guys will start arriving at 9PM.

Saturday is the Fever Party at the Good Life which is just a couple blocks from Downtown Crossing at 2 Kingston Street.  The fun will start after 10PM.

Sunday check out the SoWa Open Market, which runs from 10 AM – 4 PM.  This market which runs May through October every Sunday (except holiday weekends) has moved one block to 460 Harrison Avenue.

DOMA Act declared unconstitutional by federal judge in Massachusetts

On Thursday, a US district court judge in Boston declared unconstitutional a 1996 law that bars federal recognition of same-sex marriage.  Judge Joseph L. Tauro, ruling in two separate challenges to the Defense of Marriage Act, declared that the law “induces the Commonwealth to violate the equal protection rights of its citizens’’ and “plainly intrudes on a core area of state sovereignty, the ability to define the marital status of its citizens.’’

You can read the full article in today’s Boston Globe by linking here.

Castro Mannequin

This was one of the pictures I took when I was in S.F. last month.  I could not resist snapping this picture and meant to share it upon returning because it made me laugh when I saw it.

Summer reading

What are you reading this summer to pass the hours?  This past week I read Robert Parker’s book, Widow’s Walk.  I love his fictional character Spenser and how his stories take place in Boston.  After, I picked up the Jeffrey Archer novel, A Prisoner of Birth, which is sort of a modern day Count of Monte Cristo.  I’ve read several of Archer’s novels and they are always epic stories that I get completely sucked into.
I have to head off to the library to pick up a few more books.  What have you been reading? Any suggestions?

Ptown Pics from the 4th

Here are photos from Provincetown over the 4th of July weekend.  Many thanks to all the friendly smiles and guys happy to strike a pose for my humble little slide show. 

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Ptown chronicles

I’ve arrived back in Boston after spending the past four nights in Provincetown for the holiday weekend.  Since leaving, I’ve participated in my first gay wedding, finally developed an enviable tan, and made a few friends.

Fourth of July is one of the busiest weeks to visit Provincetown and having just returned I can understand why — it was so much fun.  My long weekend really started on Thursday, July 1st when Sergio and I showed up to the Tea Dance at The Boatslip.  I was able to introduce Sergio to David and Sean (the couple I wrote about in my entry, Happily ever after).  The happy couple was nervous (but excited) about their pending nuptials which would take place at the Episcopal Church in the East End on Friday.  With their permission, I’ve posted a quick two minute video of some of the highlights of the ceremony. 

Not long after their ceremony concluded Sean and David had to catch the Ptown ferry back to Boston. However, we were able to grab a quick bite then have one last cocktail at the Crown & Anchor. It was sad to say good bye after sharing such an intensely personal moment, but I do hope to stay in touch.  By the time it came to say good-bye, I was referring to them as friends – not a couple I had just met.

The happy newlyweds (and me) post wedding jitters:

While that may have been the climax – the remainder of the weekend was hardly anti-climactic.  Friday through Sunday Sergio and I spent our days on the Boatslip’s deck relaxing in the sun.  One afternoon we were invited to a pre-Tea party by a couple that we met through David and Sean who happen to live down the street from us (small world, huh?)  Shoud you be reading this – thank you Buddy and Patrick for your delicious punch cocktail and your hospitality.

We also checked out Varla Jean Merman’s show, The Loose Chanteuse, which was hilarious and a nice break from the bar scene. In addition to enjoying the show we were seated next to two handsome guys visiting from NYC, Dome and Tarek.  Dome (the one in the red suit) had never been to Provincetown and like a good friend, Tarek convinced him to spend the 4th of July here.  Lucky for us that we met them at the Varla show.  The next morning we ended up sitting together at the Boatslip.

Dome has mentioned that he may be coming to Boston for schooling so we may get a chance to meet and woo him to my hometown.  It would be great to see these guys again they are handsome, friendly and articulate; that’s a hat trick of desireable characteristics.

To capture some of the fun we had and show the fire works which brought nearly everyone from Cape Cod (or so it seemed) to Provincetown on July 4th, I’ve pulled together a roughly edited video.  Sorry its not of better quality, but I am merely a novice and still learning.

I want an iPhone (NSFW)

Hilarious… just beware the dialog is a bit profane.