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That sucks!

Its been a spectacular summer in Boston and I’ve taken full advantage of every opportunity that has come my way. Later this weekend I’ll post some additional pictures from my trip to Provincetown last week to further illustrate this point.
However, all those great memories came to a crashing halt when I received my American Express bill earlier this week. Talk about a buzz-kill. The invoice which details every transaction was a record 3 pages long filled with purchases of bottles of champagne (mental note I do need to pick up another bottle), stays at lovely B&Bs in Provincetown, and the more than occassional dinner out.

Realizing that I’ve spent more than I anticipated and have to stop the spending spree makes me want to paraphrase my 6 year old nephew, Jack, when he learnt that sometimes things don’t always work out the way you would like, “That sucks.” My sister the excellent mother that she is, quickly corrected him to say, “That stinks.” But I think I’ll stick to Jack’s initial reaction as it sums up my feelings exactly.

Why homosexuality should be banned


I’ve posted this video before but in light of yesterday’s ruling by Federal Judge Vaughn Walker to strike down California’s odious Prop 8, I thought I would post this again. Enjoy the 2-minute clip and pass it along.

I’m not very discplined

For 18 months I’ve been working out with a personal trainer to help keep me focused and disciplined about going to the gym but last month I used up all my training sessions. With the exception of when I had contracted meningitis last spring and when I went to Australia for 3-weeks last November and December, I’ve been pretty faithful about going to the gym to meet my trainer.

My partner is currently unemployed so I seriously debated not purchasing anymore sessions for the remainder of the summer, but I’m so glad I re-signed. Three weeks ago, my trainer, Stu, took his first vacation since I’ve met him. He was great to give me work-outs I could do while he was away, but tonight I realized that I’ve only been to the gym twice in nearly 21-days (and not once did I do one of his suggested workouts). To compound matters, while I was in Provincetown I ate and drank like it was Thanksgiving everyday. I’m not saying that I was in as tough shape as this guy… but I would love to have this guy’s shape if you know what I mean. Unfortunately my non-existent diet and inactivity doesn’t seem to be working.

Make reservations now for Restaurant Week

Keeping with the dining-theme from my previous post, I thought I would suggest to any foodies out there who may be reading my blog that they should not delay in making their reservations for Boston Restaurant Week, which is actually two weeks and begins Sunday, August 15th.

For first time restaurant week participants, I would suggest choosing establishments that charge in the high $20s or $30s for a main course. Often I hear people go to restaurants where the three course meal only saves them $5-$10 and I wonder why they bothered with the prix-fixe menu. Try someplace that is outside your price range to see what the chef has pulled together. This way if you really enjoy your meal you can go back another time for a special occassion and be confident you will have a wonderful dining experience. I’ve included logos of a few participating restaurants, but check out the restaurant week website for more information.

Tuesday is $2 Tacos at Tremont 647

Did you know that Tremont 647 and Sister Sorel offer $2 Tacos every Tuesday? Last night, after I returned from my day trip to Philadelphia, Sergio and I were hungry for dinner so we walked down to Sister Sorel for a quick bite. The place was absolutely jammed so we ducked in to see what all the fuss was about. We weren’t able to get a seat and I have plans next Tuesday, but I plan on checking this out first hand before the summer ends.

According to the comments on Yelp, it is delicious and worth the visit so if you live in or near the South End and like tacos – this may be a dining excursion worth trying.

Heading to Philadelphia for the day


On Tuesday, August 3rd I’ll find myself in the city of brotherly love for an all day meeting; sadly leaving me no time for love.

Provincetown Sunset – Friday, July 30th




Chatting with Steve

Steve writes a blog I read called, long haired boy, and although he lives in the Cayman Islands he was in Boston visiting so we agreed to meet at Club Cafe. It was strange to meet someone who’s blog I read but have never met before. To be perfectly candid – I did not know quite what to expect, but I’m so happy we connected. Steve is tall and lean with an endearing smile and a soft island accent, which sounds exotic to my ears. He’s also quite charming – he greeted me with a copy of the book, Journey into Power by Baron Baptiste, which I thought was very thoughtful and completely unexpected.

We chatted for about 90 minutes sharing more details about our personal and professional lives. We’ve lived quite different lives but it was so easy to talk and relate to Steve and at the end of the night I was so pleased to have had the chance to meet him in person. Steve’s off to Provincetown for the next couple days — if you have a favorite restaurant or some suggestions on some of your favorite activities in Ptown please share a comment with him on his blog. I know he’d appreciate the feedback.


Just one more day in Provincetown before I head back to Boston. The weather has proven to live up to the hype with plenty of sun. The evenings have been beautiful as well. I did not take the photo of the sunset above, but the picture captures dusk in Provincetown beautifully so I thought I would share it. Tonight we have a dinner party deep in the East End, which I’m looking forward to attending.

Bellagio fountain – Las Vegas

Sergio has been playing with the Microsoft video editing tool that came with his new Dell and I think he’s done a great job overlaying some rather dramatic music to video he took on his last visit to Las Vegas.  It takes a minute or two to download if you don’t have a great internet connection, but check it out.


Music: Carl Orff’s Carmina Burana’s – O Fortuna

Off to Provincetown

All summer the weather in Boston has been hot and sunny, keeping everyone sweating in the city.  Mind you, I’m not complaining. I prefer this weather and love the heat; especially since I have a wonderful apartment with central airconditioning.  The forecast later in the week looks to be a few degrees cooler than recent weeks with temperatures mostly in the mid and low 80s.

This suits me just fine, because I’ll be heading back to Provincetown this week staying from Tuesday thru Saturday.  Although, I have little trust in the extended forecast, it is always reassuring to see lots of sun and warm temperatures predicted.  Good friends have rented a house in the West End and Sergio and I will crash there Tuesday night before checking into Enzo’s on Commercial Street.  We have a delicious lobster dinner planned this Friday (I’ll try to snap photos to share in a future post), but otherwise I don’t really have much planned other than relaxing and having fun.
Enzo’s Guest House 

Blogging may be a bit inconsistent this week as a result, but please do check back. I certainly do appreciate your comments and e-mails.

Bathroom voyeurs

Earlier this week the gay guy / straight guy blog posted the picture above in their entry “ego check: a men’s room in Queenstown“.  The picture is from the men’s bathroom at the Sofitel in Queenstown and it reminded me of a bathroom in the trendy Palermo neighborhood of Buenos Aires that I needed to use after drinking too much Malbec.  The women in the Argentinian men’s room aren’t quite as young, but it still illicited a similar response and made me laugh.

Strangely, Sergio seems not to even notice the inquisitive looks from the women in the Las Vegas Hilton bathroom casting downward glances when he visited the urinals in 2008.

Free Shakespeare on the Common performances in Boston start next week

The Commonwealth Shakespeare Co. performances of Othello will start one week from tonight on Wednesday, July 28th. More than 75,000 people are expected to attend one of the 16 free performances, which will take place by the Parkman Bandstand on the Common.

The Commonwealth Shakespeare Co. consistently turns out excellent performances for everyone to enjoy and I’m looking forward to see this year’s production. Othello is one of my favorite dramas. Its themes of racism, love, jealousy, and betrayal always keep me on the edge of my seat.

I hope even more than the projected 75,000 people come to enjoy an evening of Shakespeare under the stars.  Bostonians are lucky to have so many great cultural events that are free and so accessible.  Just a few weeks ago the Boston Pop’s 4th of July Celebration and fireworks garnered national attention.  Now Bostonians can come to the Common to see the Commonwealth Shakespeare Co. performances, which run July 28 – August 15 (Tuesday thru Saturday @ 8pm – Sunday @ 7pm).

Union Park, South End – Boston

Union Park runs from Tremont to Shawmut Street in the South End.  The street is lined with beautiful, brick bowfront row houses from the 1850s that surround an oval park and includes two water fountains on each end lined with fragrant flowers. 
On summer evenings neighbors from these buildings sit on their steps (or stoop as I refer to them) and sip cool beverages to people watch and enjoy the warm summer nights. 

Refudiating the Tea Party

Have you noticed that the Republican Party seems to have been high jacked by people best categorized as cuckoo? I’m referring to the “tea party” movement.  Although it comes as no surprise to those who know me – I’ve never identified as a Republican nor do I have much love for the party, but I’ve always viewed them as legitimate political party and envied their ability to organize and fund raise.  However, lately they have become a caricature – hard to take serious despite the fact they can and will continue to wield considerable power within American Politics.

Tea Party members strike me as quite a mean-spirited and surly group.  They never tire of assuring anyone with a camera that they are “fired up” and they love to make up words like refudiate or nucular to sound like they are intelligent.  Sadly, this hostile group is not intentionally trying to sound illiterate.  I think they believe they are showcasing their grasp of the English language.

I wonder out loud what more traditional members of the Republican Party like my parents make of these quacks.  Many in my family vote their wallet.  Issues like human rights (waterboarding anyone?), social equality for women, minorities and gays are of personal importance but won’t trump voting for candidates that promise smaller gov’t no matter how hollow that promise turns out to be or where they may stand on issues like gay marriage, domestic partner rights, etc…

Having said that, I know the poor use of the English language regularly spoken by Republican leaders must grind on their nerves – my parents especially. I grew up in a house where we were regularly corrected if we spoke incorrectly and complimented when we were particularly articulate. So I have to wonder what they and others like them make of the new “Republican Elite” be it Sarah Palin insisting that “refudiate” is a real word or the former President Bush (and now half the country) who pronounce nuclear as “nucular”.   It may be wrong, but I have a tough time taking someone seriously who shouts angry epitaphs about English only or takes xenophobic stands with regards to immigration reform but can not spell or speak the language they claim to cherish.