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Modern day (and local) LGBT hero awarded MacArthur Fellowship

The MacArthur FoundationIt is easy to forget that we live in some pretty historic times.  Decades from now, young gay men and women will read about the struggle for marriage equality and the legal battles won by Mary Bonauto. In my opinion her accomplishments put her on equal footing to names like Harvey Milk, Larry Kramer and Barney Frank.

Michelle Golden’s letter to The Boston Globe last week was spot on when she wrote, “Bonauto has long been revered in my household, for the successes for human rights that she and Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders have achieved, as well as for her vision and perseverance. Our family literally would not legally exist were it not for her. Bonauto’s legal triumphs have come from a combination of keen intellect and understanding of the law as well as a ferocious tenacity.

I remember when some national LGBT groups were critical of the Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders taking up the cause of marriage equality. Some said the fight was doomed from the start and would cause a backlash, setting the LGBT community back decades.  Mary and the organization she led knew better and pushed forward, citing legal precedents; many of which her organization won in the 1990s that helped make the case for marriage equality.

Congratulations to Mary Bonauto for being named as one of this year’s MacArthur Fellowship; often referred to as the “Genius Grant”. You deserve the recognition; our community is in your debt.

Monday blues

Monday BluesWouldn’t that be perfect? Sadly it isn’t an option for me.

Indian summah

handsome, speedo, hunkSummer has returned to Boston this weekend with a vengeance and for a few minutes today I experienced some serious de ja vu, thinking it was July.

The Butcher Shop Harvest Fest 2014

Butcher Shop Boston, Barbara LynchChef Barbara Lynch and The Butcher Shop will celebrate the Fall season at Harvest Fest 2014 in the South End on the corner of Waltham & Tremont Street on Sunday, October 5th. The event includes festivities and 20+ restaurants & purveyors.

Attendees may savor endless small plates featuring foie gras, oysters, artisanal cheeses, stuffed Maine lobster tail, charcuterie, grilled Wagyu, and seasonal vegetables harvested from Siena Farms.Sip small-grower, food friendly wines with Barbara Lynch Gruppo’s wine director Cat Silirie, and toast the afternoon with local craft beers from Harpoon Brewery.

Sunday, October 5th from 2 – 6 PM

VIP tickets are now sold out but general admission tickets for $150 remain available (for the time being). For a complete list of participating restaurants, planned events or to purchase tickets to this event link here.

Scruffy Sunday

Scruffy Sunday out of bedThink of this as the ‘legs’ edition.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday night video: Erasure

Since Erasure is in Boston tonight on their Violet Flame Tour I thought I’d play a classic Erasure song.  Have a great time if you are heading to see these guys tonight. They put on a great show.

Peaches Christ “Hocus Pocus” in Castro tonight

Peaches Christ, Castro Theater I normally focus my content on Boston, Ptown and Ogunquit but tonight I wish I was in San Francisco to see Peaches Christ theatrical production and latest stage play, Coven: Return of the Manderson Sisters.

The show is at the Castro Theatre and looks to be a blast.  Are you in San Francisco? Do you have plans to check out this production? Do tell. I’d love to be there to see it.

Ticket Info Here!

Debunking The Top Five Myths About LGBT Non-Discrimination Laws

5 most popular myths about LGBT non-discrimination lawsLiving in Massachusetts it is easy to forget that there are cities and states around the country that do not have LGBT non-discrimination laws on the books.

While homophobia exists everywhere, there is power in having the law on your side and over time those laws influence behavior and help to change attitudes because the LGBT community is more welcomed and as a result able to live more openly.

Watch this video and share it.

D.O.J. to ask SCOTUS to uphold marriage equality rulings

Marriage EqualityOutgoing U.S. Attorney General Eric Holder announced on Friday that the Department of Justice would ask the U.S. Supreme Court to uphold same-sex marriage rulings from lower courts.

Don’t think elections count? Think again. Can you imagine any Republican President’s administration arguing on behalf of and in defense of LGBT rights?

More on this here.

Saturday morning comic: Adam and Andy

Saturday morning comic, gay comicClick on the comic strip to enlarge.

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Nicki Minaj video dubbed with farts

Juvenile, crass, rude – yes, but it still makes me laugh.  Checkout this new Nicki Minaj video dubbed with only farts. Apparently no matter how old I get, there remains an 8 year old boy in me.  In all fairness, it does significantly improve Ms. Minaj’s music.

Bonus fur

hairy torso, male chestThis week’s bonus fur post is incognito, but I don’t mind a bit.  Do you?

Santa Speedo Run 2014 registration opens Tuesday

Boston Santa Speedo RunThe 15th Annual SSRun will take place on Saturday, December 6, 2014, and registration opens 9AM on Tuesday, September 30th. Even if you don’t plan on running, mark the date on your calendar to come down to Back Bay and check out all the fun.  You can get more details from their website, www.ssrunners.org

Furry Friday

shirtless, handsome, hunk

 Past Furry Friday Posts

BosGuy brain teaser

brain teaser, rodinEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain.

If you are stumped, feel free to get help – share it with a friend or colleague to see if you can figure it out together.

I’ll confirm answers later in the day so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance.

This week’s riddle:

Weight in my belly,
Trees on my back,
Nails in my ribs,
Feet I do lack.

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.