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Furry Friday

jens de fries, ardillagenocida

Much thanks to friend and reader, Brian M for suggesting I post a photo of this Spanish hunk. You can also follow him on his Twitter account (like I do) at @jensdefries

Past Furry Friday

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brain

Each Friday, I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Leave your answer in the comment section. I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s riddle comes from NPR’s Sunday Puzzle and was initially submitted by Alan Hochbaum, of Duluth, GA.

This week’s brain teaser:  Which word is least like the others? Third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eighth, ninth – explain your answer.

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston. Support these gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party & FUZZ “Bear Week Kick Off” Party @10PM
SATURDAY: BLUF (Leather) @7PM & Tremors w/ DJ Scott Helms @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

blend
THURSDAY: Taco Thursdays start @5PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party w/ Harlow Havoc @8PM & Friday Feels w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Andrea @10PM
SUNDAY: Pop Star Drag Brunch w/ Harlow Havoc & Zon Phoenix 11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Red Sox host the Yankees @7PM
FRIDAY: Red Sox host the Yankees @7PM
SATURDAY: Red Sox host the Yankees @7PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @11AM | Red Sox host the Yankees @7PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca Musica Latina w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & Bear Week Send Off Party w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday brunch @11AM & Sunday Tea Dance @6PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke w/ VJ Ryan Grow @10PM
SATURDAY: Slay Saturday w/ DJ Brian Halligan @10PM
SUNDAY: Brunch @11AM & Tea at d w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret – Call 617-426-8902 to reserve seats to shows
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! hosted by Amanda Playwith & Crystal Crawford @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage Hosted by DeeDee de Ray 
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ host Violencia & DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Frenchy @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Red Sox host the Yankees @7PM
FRIDAY: Red Sox host the Yankees @7PM
SATURDAY: Red Sox host the Yankees @7PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @12PM | Red Sox host the Yankees @7PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: Queeraoke at Midway Cafe @10PM

friends, friendship

FRIDAY: Gay Men’s Speed Dating at Scholars @7PM

male chest, chest hair, hairy

FRIDAY: Bear Week Send Off w/ DJ Taffy & DJ Brent Covington at The Alley @10PM

SATURDAY: Drag Queen Story Time w/ Patty Bourrée at The Loring Greenough House @10AM

SATURDAY: QTBIPOC Queer Mixer by LGBTQ NightLife at Union Tavern @9PM

SATURDAY: Boom Saturday Latin Night returns to the Volcano room @9PM

SUNDAY: Lesbian NightLife Monthly Tea Dance at DBCo @4PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Taylor Swift Drag Brunch
Saturday @11AM
Summer Shack in the Back Bay

DRAGtacular Brunch: One Hit Wonders
Saturday @12PM
Laugh Boston in the Seaport

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Drag Brunch w/ Stef Anya, Christina Faguilera & Alana Thicc
Sunday @11AM & @2PM
Bambara Kitchen & Bar

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay: Loving Documentary

Hugh Nini, Neal Treadwell

I first wrote about Hugh Nini and Neal Treadwell after they published their book, Loving: History of Men in Love 1850s – 1950s. Since then more than a few of their photos have found their way into my weekly Vintage Gay post. Now Hugh and Neil have collaborated with their friend Jackie Hoegger to create a short documentary chronicling reactions from around the world to their book, “LOVING A Photographic History of Men in Love 1850s – 1950s” you can watch here.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

For more information about this amazing picture book visit, loving1000.org.

Independence Week(end) in Ptown

Sergio and I visited Provincetown for the start of Independence Week celebrations and it was nice to see that things have largely returned to normal. The town is packed – the circuit boys are back, the families from all over the Cape are visiting, and the town is proudly decorated in red, white and blue.

Crown & Anchor Inn owners, Jonathan Hawkins and Paolo Martini

We were able to meet up with the proud new owners of The Crown & Anchor, Jonathan Hawkins and Paolo Martini. Since purchasing the property they have made several notable changes to the hotel, restaurant and bars.

Jonathan was nice enough to take us through the property giving us glimpses of the hotel rooms that have been updated and a moving exhibit called Ides of Gender by Zach Oren who photographed more than 500 trans folks which you can learn more about here.

Sunday’s Overboard Pool Party at Crown & Anchor with DJ James Cerne

This was the first year that the crowds seem to have returned in earnest and everyone is having a good time. Last year’s event was marred by terrible weather followed by an outbreak of COVID that garnered Provincetown bad press, but that is all in the past and I want to wish everyone there this week a wonderful time.

If you have plans in the coming weeks or months to visit Provincetown and you have any questions, feel free to reach out to me. Finally, if you will be visiting Ptown, be sure to see a show. You can find out who is performing and where on my list of 2022 Provincetown Summer Performances.

Caption this photo

Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up one or two of your own. Leave a funny caption in the comment section, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“Not impressed”

Book review: The Guncle by Steven Rowley

This is the second novel by Rowley that I’ve read. The first, The Editor, I thoroughly enjoyed and wrote about back in 2020, here. So when I was racing through a bookstore at Boston’s Logan Airport, I was pleasantly surprised to see Rowley’s 2021 novel, The Guncle, and picked it up before heading out for a holiday weekend of fun at the beach.

The novel introduces us to Patrick O’Hara a once upon a time famous actor who starred on a popular TV sitcom – now on reruns. The actor turned recluse left Hollywood and retreated to Palm Springs after the show ended and he lost the love of his life. However, he is forced to leave Palm Springs after a death of his former best friend and sister-in-law. Returing to Connecticut for the funeral is anything but smooth sailing as family rifts and distrust surfaces but his bond with his brother is unshakeable and when he confides that he is addicted to opiods and will be checking into rehab to get his life in order to be the father his two children now need, he begs Patrick to take the kids back to Palm Springs with him for the summer – until he can get his life back in order. Initially horrified by the request, Patrick relents when his older sister asserts herself and tries to take the children.

What ensues is absolute hilarity. The interactions and bond that develops between Guncle, Maise (age 9) and Grant (age 6) is heartwarming. Rowley’s funny sense of humor which was pervasive in The Editor is on display here as well. Soon after Patrick brings the children back to his home Palm Springs this exchange takes place while out at breakfast.

“You’re forty-three!” Maise bellowed.
“Who are you the DMV? Lower your voice.”
“That’s almost fifty!” Grant’s eyes grew big.
Patrick took the jab then closed his eyse and bit his lower lip;
the observation was just shy of a hate crime.

Patrick’s nickname “Guncle” takes some getting use to but eventually he embraces the title and takes to it by sharing what he calls “Guncle’s Rules” to teach what he believes are important life lessons for the kids. A personal favorite is Guncle Rule #5, “If a gay man hands you his phone, look only at what he’s showing you. If it’s a photo, don’t swipe. And for god’s sake, don’t hopen any unfamiliar apps.”

I won’t go into anymore detail other than to share this was a really fun read and one that I would definitely recommend for anyone looking for a lighthearted novel to read.

If you’re interested in purchasing this book and open to supporting local bookstores, try one of the links I’ve shared. You’ll be able to order it online in just a couple of clicks. Alternatively, you can check your local library for a copy of this book. Here is a link to the BPL copy for The Guncle.

Brookline Booksmith in Coolidge Corner
Harvard Bookstore in Harvard Square
Porter Square Bookstore in Porter Square
Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe in Back Bay

Temptation Tuesday

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Men in kilts

Happy birthday America! In honor of July 4th, I’m posting this. If you have a kilt with a red, white and blue theme, please share it with me.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

Independence

Happy birthday America

Chaka Khan joins the Boston Pops for a July 4th Party on the Esplanade

Tomorrow evening the Boston Pops annual Fireworks Spectacular will take place with headliner, Chaka Khan. The tradition which started in 1929 has become a right of passage and when I first moved back to Boston, I spent more than a few July 4th holidays on the Esplanade to watch the celebrations in-person. As the years have passed, I’ve moved from the Esplanade to watching the show from friends’ apartments in the Back Bay and more recently from home, which is where I think we will watch this year’s show.

If you too would like to watch this from your home, The Boston Pops Fireworks Spectacular will be on Bloomberg TV, and locally the show will be simulcast on Boston’s WHDH-TV. Additionally, you can listen to the concert in the Greater Boston area on 106.1 FM / 1330 AM / 1450 AM / 92.9-HD2, and nationally, the concert can be found on SiriusXM channel 119, online at bloombergradio.com, and via mobile on the Bloomberg and iHeartRadio apps.

Scruffy Sunday

I would love to have brunch with this guy and find out what he did this weekend.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

Much thanks to Tennessee Tony for sharing this photo and suggesting it for my weekly post.

Saturday morning comics

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy

Click on this week’s comic strip to enlarge

Click here if you would like to see the previous Adam & Andy

Furry Friday

It is the start of a long holiday weekend in the US to celebrate Independence, and I hope you have a wonderful weekend however you choose to celebrate.

Past Furry Friday