Category Archives: Travel

Consumer advocate site for air travel grievances

airline humorThe fact that airline travel can be incredibly unpleasant at times isn’t news to anyone.  Part of the frustrations we experience (in my opinion) is due to the fact that the American public has become increasingly rude and selfish, but another part of that equation is directly related to the fact that airline employees are poorly staffed, managed and compensated. This post is regarding problems that sometimes emerge due to the latter; the fault of the airlines.

Last month the Huffington Post had an interesting article about what the U.S. Government is doing about airline complaints.  The author of the article, Christopher Elliott writes, “For years, the Transportation Department relied on big fines to deter violations of federal law by airlines. Under the current leadership, however, the emphasis seems to be shifting to advocacy for individuals.

What I take away from this article is that you need to be your own advocate if an airline has not honored their commitment or may have violated airline travel rules and the US DOT can be a valuable resource for you.  If you have a legitimate complaint about an airline violating rules / regulations the article encourages you to reach out to the DOT online at transportation.gov/airconsumer or by phone at (202) 366-2220.

Destination San Juan, Puerto Rico

Hola San Juan, Puerto RicoIn an earlier post from today, I wrote about the importance of getting away to help you cope with a New England winter. Even though Sergio and I only just returned from Brazil this past weekend we have started our countdown for our pending visit to San Juan, Puerto Rico at the end of this month.

We first visited Puerto Rico about 5 years ago to escape the winter for a few days. We ended up staying at the La Concha Hotel (a Renaissance hotel property by the Marriott) and have returned to it several times because we enjoy it so much. On January 28th we will check-in again. Should you happen to be in San Juan at this time let me know and perhaps we can meet for a cocktail one evening.

gay travel, lgbt travel, travelPuerto Rico is a great place to visit during Boston’s Winter.  Jet Blue has daily non-stop flights from Boston.  We have also visited El Conquistador Resort and The W Resort on Vieques. If you are contemplating a visit somewhere warm and you have travel questions feel free to reach out to me.

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View of Belo Horizonte, Brazil looking Northwest

View of Belo Horizonte, Brazil looking Northwest

By the time this post goes live Sergio and I should be settled in São Paulo, Brazil after spending the previous 10 days visiting with Sergio’s family in his hometown of Belo Horizonte.  The metro area population of Belo Horizonte is 5M+ making it comparable in population to Dallas but much more densely populated.

I’ve been coming to Belo Horizonte to visit family for years now but the incredible hills and indistinguishable skyline comprised of mid-rises make it impossible for me to get my bearings except for when I can take in vistas like the one shown above from the posh Mangabeiras neighborhood.

Bar Imperial - Savassi Neighborhood

Bar Imperial – Savassi Neighborhood

Belo has more than its share of little bars where people congregate to drink and talk outside since the weather is pleasant most of the year.  When we go out, we tend to eat and drink in Savassi.  Thanks to a very friendly exchange rate, eating and drinking in Brazil right now is very affordable for Americans and Europeans, which also means that we had more than our fair share of Midnight snacks.

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Midnight snacks in Belo Horizonte’s trendy Savassi neighborhood

One of my favorite places to meet is Cafe com Letras. The food is surprisingly good and it is a popular destination for gay and lesbians to congregate – located just blocks from other gay friendly destinations like Bar Imperial, 2015 (soon to be changing its name to 2016 in March) and Josephine’s.

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St. Francisco de Assis chapel in Pampulha

In addition to a nightlife that lasts until the sunrise, there are plenty of places of interest including Pampulha –  a residential neighborhood defined by its man-made lake and the modern architecture designed by Brazil’s most celebrated architect Oscar Niemeyer.  For those of you who feel less inspired by architecture there are plenty of other sights to take in as you leisurely stroll along the man- made lake walking / jogging / bike path on a Saturday or Sunday morning.

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The Men of Pampulha

Off to Brazil

BrazilAs this post is publishing Sergio and I will be at the airport boarding our flight to Miami where we will then connect to fly to Brazil to spend the Christmas holiday with his family before going on to Sao Paulo where we will spend New Years Eve to ring in 2016. We would like to wish everyone a very happy holiday season and a healthy and prosperous New Year.

Happy Thanksgiving

Rio de Janeiro BrazilAccording to AAA nearly 50 million Americans will travel more than 50 miles from home this weekend to celebrate the Thanksgiving holiday with friends and family.  Sergio and I will have already left Boston and driven up to northern New England.  Our early start was intentional to avoid the expected traffic that comes with the holiday.  Whatever you are doing or however you may be spending the Thanksgiving holiday I hope your travels are smooth.

20th annual LGBT travel survey

travel, handsome, hunkI would like to invite you to take the 20th annual LGBT travel survey hosted by Community Marketing & Insights Inc.  The survey is used to help open doors and minds around the world and to help make the travel industry more LGBT-welcoming. Responses are kept completely confidential and will never be used for any direct marketing or solicitation purposes.

If you complete the survey by Tuesday, December 1, 2015 you can choose to be entered into a drawing for a chance to win one of twenty US $50 cash prizes.

www.LGBTsurvey.com

For more information about Community Marketing & Insights Inc link here.

Throwback Thursday: BosGuy in Pisa

Travel, Throw back Thursday, TBTThis past weekend I stumbled upon this photo of me (age 22), while Sergio and I were doing some housecleaning. I had all but forgotten this photo of me posing by the Leaning Tower of Pisa, holding my tattered copy of Let’s Go Europe, but once I got over the shock of the difference in my hairline, it made me smile.

Backpacking through Europe after college was only possible because of the generous gift my parents gave me and it changed my life. While I had learned a lot at college, this trip taught me more about myself and others than I learned in college and it awoke in me a desire to travel and see the world. I am still afflicted some 25 years later and have been fortunate to be able to visit twenty countries. I’m not nearly done seeing the world and this photo serves as a reminder that it is time to think about booking another trip abroad.

How to avoid the winter blues: Vacation

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Grand Cayman – February 2014

Every year around this time I write a series on how to fend off the winter blues; no small feat if you contemplate how severe our previous two winters have been. This year, I’m only going to post this one tip and will save the other suggestions for when winter finally arrives.

Avoiding the winter blues: Book a vacation now: Think of it as therapy, or for your mental health. The anticipation of the trip and the memories in the days that follow your return will help immensely. I recommend taking a long weekend if more time away isn’t feasible and look to book a trip in late January or anytime in February. This is when winter is at its worst here and a great time to get away.

Travel tips: Book now. Airfares will significantly increase in the coming weeks. Plan your departures / arrivals during the middle of the week; flights are often more affordable and if you go away for a week it gives you a short work week before leaving and after returning.

Aspen Gay Ski Week 2016

Aspen Gay Ski Week 2016Too soon? Maybe for some but if you are an avid skier and snowboarder then you may want to mark your calendars that Aspen Gay Ski Week is January 17-24, 2016. While I don’t ski often anymore, the apres ski & hot tub parties sound like a lot of fun.  To see the full list of events visit, gayskiweek.com/events.

Just a heads up that I took a quick peek online and right now United is flying non-stop, Boston – Denver, round trip Jan 17-24 for less than $300; you know that those airfares will not last for long.

An American in Havana: The cars

travel, gay travelI have written a few posts about my recent trip to Havana, Cuba, but it would seem odd not to dedicate a post to the cars you see all over Havana.  While not every car is a 1950s American automobile, there are truly more than you would believe.

gay travel, travel, carCars in Havana fall into one of three categories; vintage American cars, old Russian cars that stick out like a sore thumb (like the one above), and newer cars from Asia and to a lesser extent Europe. The vintage American cars are truly a sight to see and while some look like they are held together by electrical tape, glue and a prayer, many appear to be in great condition. Below I’ve included some of my favorite pictures of the cars of Havana.

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Check out the newer car in the background. Not every car is from the 1950s.

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This vintage Ford taxi was outside the Hotel Nacional de Cuba (Definitely put this place on your list to see when you visit Havana.)

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I felt like I saw this exact model in the Indiana Jones movies. 

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Havana taxis lined up in front of Cuba’s Capitol Building (which happens to look a lot like a building we have in DC).

Blog posts from this series:
Post 1: An American in Havana
Post 2: An American in Havana: The Cuban people
Post 3: An American in Havana: The architecture
Post 4: An American in Havana: Old Havana
Post 5: An American in Havana: The food
Post 6: An American in Havana: The cars

An American in Havana: The food

food, dining, havana, cubaPrior to arriving in Cuba I kept hearing that the food ranged from bland to bad. And that is exactly how I would describe some of the food we had while visiting, but the good news is there are some really good restaurants. Rather than focusing on the disappointing meals, I thought I’d highlight two of my favorite.

dining, food, cuba, havana, old havanaThe day we spent walking through Old Havana we had lunch at Paladar Dona Eutimia.  The tiny hole-in-a-wall restaurant with a tiny patio in the front had a bit of a wait when we arrived so we gave our names to the host and walked to El Patio Restaurante, (which I would recommend for drinks).  After having a cocktail followed by complimentary shots of Cuban rum at El Patio, we were more than ready for lunch. The good news is that the handsome host / manager took a liking to our table and ended up waiting on us. After he heard our American accents and friendly demeanor more rum seemed to materialize. While I’ll admit I had a good rum buzz, I can assure you the food was as delicious as it was affordable. The majority of appetizers range in price from $2 – $4 and main plates range from $7 – $12.

Unfortunately my ‘rum buzz’ meant that I was too stimulated to remember to take photographs of our meal.  Although as you can see at the start (before all that rum) I remembered to take a picture of the menu (see above). The food was fairly simple – think of it as ‘home style Cuban’ – but it was delicious. I ended up ordering the Suprema de Pollo Grille (grilled chicken breast) for $7.00.  All meals came with large bowls of rice, beans and fried plantains. Needless to say we all left very satisfied.

dining, havana, cubaBy contrast, the next meal I would like to share was much more chic. El Cocinero is located in the Vedado neighborhood and occupies space that was formerly a vegetable oil factory. They have a beautiful outdoor dining room patio on the second floor as well as a small indoor dining room that has an urban vibe. If you climb to the top of the building’s roof deck, you can get food (although it is not the full dining room menu) and drinks under the night sky in Havana. The night we were there the roof deck was full of foreigners and well-heeled Cubans sipping cocktails, enjoying their food and listening to a great DJ. I didn’t take notes on the price of the plates we ordered but dinner which included starters, main dishes, dessert and (lots of) cocktails came out to $30 per person.

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Blog posts from this series:
Post 1: An American in Havana
Post 2: An American in Havana: The Cuban people
Post 3: An American in Havana: The architecture
Post 4: An American in Havana: Old Havana
Post 5: An American in Havana: The food
Post 6: An American in Havana: The cars

An American in Havana: Old Havana

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Cathedral of The Virgin Mary of the Immaculate Conception (A.K.A. Havana Cathedral)

If you’ve traveled through South America or visited San Juan, Puerto Rico, you would probably be familiar with the “Old Town” section of Havana.  The Spanish did an amazing job of replicating their European towns in the New World and Havana is no exception.  It appears as if the Cuban government is trying to revitalize the area by cleaning up and fixing many of the buildings.  This is clearly an important tourist destination. When we were visiting, all of Old Town was awash with tourists from all over the world; many American.

Cuba, travel, gay travelWe actually had a fantastic meal while visiting Old Havana at this tiny restaurant at the end of a street, but I’ll talk more about that in a future post regarding the food of Cuba.

While visiting you’d be remiss to skip over Old Havana even if you’ve seen other Latin and South American Old Towns.  Located near the port and by the Malecon it is an easy and popular place to spend the day.  We started exploring this part of the city by taking a taxi to the Arts & Crafts Market located along the port in Old Havana in what appears to have formerly been a warehouse or possibly a train or bus depot.  From there we meandered through the streets of Old Town until we ended up near the Cathedral of Havana.  We stopped for a round of cocktails at El Patio before heading over to a tiny hole in the wall cafe where we had a delicious lunch.

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The Cuban Capitol Building is an exact but smaller replica of the  U.S. Capitol Building in Washington, D.C.

The Cuban Capitol building and the Great Theater of Havana are by Old Town and should also be visited even if just from the outside like we did.  Interestingly, Cuba’s Capitol building is an exact replica of the US Capitol Building; just 1/3 the size of the US building in Washington, D.C.  This was the most tangible reminder of what was clearly a friendly and close relationship that our countries once shared.  It was surreal standing on the steps of Cuba’s Capitol building – an exact replica of the US Capitol Building – with 1950s American cars whizzing by you.

Blog posts from this series:
Post 1: An American in Havana
Post 2: An American in Havana: The Cuban people
Post 3: An American in Havana: The architecture
Post 4: An American in Havana: Old Havana
Post 5: An American in Havana: The food
Post 6: An American in Havana: The cars

An American in Havana: The architecture

travel, gay travel, caribbeanAs I mentioned in my previous post, Havana has a shabby chic vibe that even a city like New Orleans would envy.  But one needn’t just visit Old Havana to see some amazing architecture.  The neighborhood we stayed was filled with homes that appeared to date back to the first half of the 20th century (if not older) and exuded an old world charm with high ceilings and architectural details from that time.

architectureHavana Cuba architectureA lot of homes were once family residences but now many of them are overflowing with multiple families since there seems to be a housing crunch in Havana.  I asked why some appear decrepit and some looked like they had been restored to their former glory and was told that it really came down to money.  I was told one way you can tell if a family had money was if their house had recently been painted.  It was stories like this that often time gave me pause to consider the implications of our relations with Cuba. Unlike many poor nations, I couldn’t help but get the impression that this could all so easily be averted.

While most of Havana remains in a depressing state of disrepair it would be unfair not to share with you examples of the “New Havana”.  Like this restaurant that recently opened in the neighborhood we were staying on our visit to Cuba. Sara in Havana, travel, gay traveltravel, gay travelIn addition to “Sara” which I’ve shared in photographs of above, there are also national treasures like the Hotel Nacional de Cuba which according to our guide was the playground for many American mobsters in the 1940s and 1950s and is still a functioning hotel.

travel, gay travelThe hotel has beautiful views of the ocean and manicured grounds that include a tunnel rumored to run below the streets of Havana; intended as one of many escape routes for Fidel Castro back during the days of Bay of Pigs.

Blog posts from this series:
Post 1: An American in Havana
Post 2: An American in Havana: The Cuban people
Post 3: An American in Havana: The architecture
Post 4: An American in Havana: Old Havana
Post 5: An American in Havana: The food
Post 6: An American in Havana: The cars

An American in Havana: The Cuban people

travel, gay travel, caribbeanI wasn’t certain what to expect when I visited Havana.  I presumed (correctly so) that Cubans didn’t hold me accountable for the politics that have divided our nations for more than 50 years, but I hadn’t realized how much I would enjoy talking to them. The Cubans we met were fairly open about their frustrations with their government but proud of all they had accomplished in terms of public health, education and contributions to culture and arts.  They live in a society plagued by chronic shortages due to the ineptitude of their government and the US embargo. Despite those barriers I couldn’t help but notice all the trendy Cuban men and women strolling down Avenida 23 and along the Malecon. We were told that consumer goods make it into the general population from family members and friends who live abroad. It seemed like nearly everyone either has a relative or a connection with someone living in the United States or Europe who sends back currency and consumer goods.  It made me realize while our embargo has put a great strain on Cuba it hasn’t stopped the flow of goods nor squelched their appetite for them.

While I thought much of Havana appeared to be crumbling all around me. I did like it’s shabby-chic vibe.  It has that romantic charm and sexual energy all larger Latin cities possess, but it seems more romantic and in some cases tragic with the backdrop of decrepit buildings and 1950s American cars zipping by you.

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Public art is plentiful and we met and talked to a few artists while visiting.  I was surprised that I saw very few images of Castro while in Havana; Che Guevara, cigars, 1950s American cars and pop icons are nearly everywhere you look.

gay travel, travel, art, cuban artIf you visit Havana, I recommend checking out the Arts & Crafts Market located along the port in Old Havana. Sure, its is tourist trap and you’ll likely bump into more than a few Americans while you’re there, but it is a great way to see how Cubans are interpreting the world around them before setting out to explore Old Havana.

Blog posts from this series:
Post 1: An American in Havana
Post 2: An American in Havana: The Cuban people
Post 3: An American in Havana: The architecture
Post 4: An American in Havana: Old Havana
Post 5: An American in Havana: The food
Post 6: An American in Havana: The cars

An American in Havana

travel, gay travel, caribbean, old cars, antique carsCuba is approximately 90 miles south of Florida in the Caribbean Sea but the commercial, economic and financial embargo our country has imposed since October 1960 has placed Cuba in a time warp that makes it a unique place for anyone to visit.

As long as I’ve been alive the US embargo has been in place and while it has slowed the pace of change, it hasn’t halted it entirely.  It is amazing to visit a large international city without a single American fast food chain, coffee shop, bank or retail outlet.  In spite of this young gay men and women can be spotted wearing the latest fashion from the US and Europe.

In the posts below I share my experience, visiting this unique destination for the first time, writing about life in Cuba, the gorgeous architecture, Old Havana, the food and of course the cars.

Blog posts from this series:
Post 1: An American in Havana
Post 2: An American in Havana: The Cuban people
Post 3: An American in Havana: The architecture
Post 4: An American in Havana: Old Havana
Post 5: An American in Havana: The food
Post 6: An American in Havana: The cars