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Tea dances in Boston today

Don’t let the crappy weather this month bum you out. Four great DJs are playing your favorite music this afternoon so you can make Sunday a fun day.

Club Cafe and DJ Stevie Psyclone are hosting their monthly Bear Tea Dance so bring your handkerchiefs. If you need help on what color and which pocket to place it in, visit this guide page on the handkerchief code.

dbar in Dorchester continues with their weekly summer tea dance party and with DJ Susan Esthera playing your favorite music.

blend also in Dorchester is hosting their equaliTEA Disco Dance party with DJ Brian Derrick and the fabulous co-hosts Penny & Mizery with proceeds going to benefit the not-for-profit Verna Felton.

La Makina at Revere Beach is hosting the only Latino Tea Dance in Boston today with DJ Freddy Sanchez & Alex Nova.

Scruffy Sunday

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

Everyone say hello to Diego Rodriguez Doig. I featured him as a Temptation Tuesday back in June and he proved to be quite popular so I thought I’d share these playful photos of the handsome model / travel blogger.

Saturday morning comics

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Click on this week’s comic strip to enlarge

Click here if you would like to see the previous Adam & Andy

Furry Friday

Thank goodness it’s Furry Friday.

Past Furry Friday

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

This weeks riddle: 
I have only one letter but my name is spelled with eight, what am I?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

dbar patio tea dances in Dorchester

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provinceton this weekend. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event you want included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ host Dave Sawyer at 8PM
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ resident DJ BEGBICK at10PM
SATURDAY: Bear Week Closing Party w/ DJ Brian Derrick at 10PM
SUNDAY: Idol Karaoke at 8PM

blend
THURSDAY: RPDR All-Star viewing party at 8PM
FRIDAY: Supernature DJ Brian Derrick at 10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays DJ AGA at 10PM
SUNDAY: Mizery loves company disco brunch at 11AM & EqualiTEA w/ DJ Brian Derrick at 4PM

Cathedral Station Open but no programming scheduled.

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: RPDR All-Star viewing party at 8PM & DJ FrenchY at 10PM, special show at 12:30AM
FRIDAY: DJ Stevie Psyclone at 10PM
SATURDAY:  DJ FrenchY at 10PM
SUNDAY: Bear Tea: Hanky Code w/DJ Stevie Psyclone at 5PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke Night – Give me back my mic w/ Ryan Grow at 8PM
SATURDAY: The category is… dance party w/ DJ Jay Ine at 10PM
SUNDAY: Weekly patio tea dance w/ DJ Susan Estera at 4PM

Jacques Cabaret
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage at 10PM
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage at 7:15 & 10PM
Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Candi Bar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ DJ Coleslaw at Legacy at 10PM
FRIDAY: NEW GAY NIGHT Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY at Legacy at 10PM
SATURDAY: The New Normal w/ DJ Ranny at 10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess w/ DJ Richie LaDue & Coleslaw at Candi Bar at 10PM

Trophy Room will be reopening for business soon.

LGBTQ+ nights & events

THURSDAY: NEW GAY NIGHT Chemical Thursdays w/ DJ Darko and hosted by Lady German from ConnmanEvents at the Volcano Room in Revere Beach.

FRIDAY: M&M Presents GLOW Fridays w/ DJ Michael Giller and host Lady German at Revere Beach.

FRIDAY: For those of you north of Boston, check out Scandalous Moonlight in Lowell.

gay boston, kiki beach

SATURDAY: Kiki Beach If you’re unsure where the boys go on M Street Beach, check out the map on the Kiki Beach Boston Facebook Page, but when in doubt follow the good music and speedos.

SATURDAY: Doll’d Up Saturdays w/ DJ Caso is a new weekly LGBTQ+ dance party in Allston.

SATURDAY: White Party w/ DJ Edwin at La Makina Night Club at Revere Beach.

SUNDAY: M Street Beach TakeOver continues each Sunday from 10AM – 5PM.

SUNDAY: NEW GAY NIGHT Sunday T-Dance with DJ Freddy Sanchez & Alex Nova at La Makina in Revere.

Drag brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

OMG 90s Drag Brunch
Saturday, 7/17 @11:00AM – 1:30PM at House of Blues

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday 7/17 & Sunday 7/18 shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Mizery Loves Company Drag Brunch w/ Mizery
Sunday, 7/18 @11:00AM at blend

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Provincetown gay bars & entertainment

Ptown

For more information about live entertainment in Provincetown this week (and all month) click here. Click the links below for more information about each bar.

A House – One of Provincetown’s most popular dance clubs.

Aqua Bar – Located at the Aquarium Marketplace, with views of the harbor.

Backstreet Club – Previously Club Purgatory will NOT reopen this summer.

Buoy Bar – Located on Commercial Street at The Boatslip. It is fabulous for people watching (esp after Tea).

The Club – Lea Delaria’s supper club includes live entertainment in the lounge.

Dive Bar – Weekend piano bar at The Crown & Anchor.

Harbor Lounge – Waterfront cocktail lounge in the East End.

Little Bar – Provincetown’s oldest bar.

Macho Bar – Provincetown’s longest running leather and denim bar.

Monkey Bar – Will NOT reopen this summer.

Paramount – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is Ptown’s largest dance club.

Porchside Lounge – Located at The Gifford House.

Provincetown Brewery – Popular brew pub on Bradford Street.

Shipwreck Lounge – Located at the Brass Key Guest House.

Tin Pan Alley – This restaurant has a lively piano bar that has a friendly crowd.

The Vault – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a leather / fetish bar.

Velvet Lounge – Dance club with DJ Mark Louque spinning each Friday.

The Wave Bar – Located at the Crown & Anchor. This is a fun video bar.

Missing a favorite bar / club in Provincetown? Share it in the comments section. If the status of these bars / clubs change, it will be noted.

Vintage gay

This week’s photo comes from the blog homohistory.com. No information was provided about where or when this picture was taken but these two men photographed in an embrace look to be possibly from the 1940s. Can anyone shed some light on the photo?

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Shakespeare on the Common returns

Photo from CSC website

One of my favorite summer traditions in Boston is attending one of the free performances by the Commonwealth Shakespeare Company on the Boston Common. Last year the tradition was suspended due to the COVID-19 pandemic, but this year the theater company returns with a production of The Tempest. All shows are free and will begin one week from today, running through Sunday, August 8th.

For everyone’s safety, this year’s production will be streamlined with an intermission-free performance. In addition, audience size will be limited according to state and city guidelines on capacity and social distancing. Due to these capacity constraints, advanced registration is strongly recommended for ease of arrival and priority access to seating. However, walk-ups will be welcome the night of each performance. For more information, visit the Commonwealth Shakespeare Co. website.

About the Commonwealth Shakespeare Company: The Commonwealth Shakespeare Company was formed in 1996 by artistic director Steven Maler and associate Joan Moynagh to bring free, outdoor Shakespeare to the city of Boston.

Caption this photo

I love this image despite the fact that it is a tad blurry. The photo was one of several shared with me this spring from BosGuy reader, A.M.A., who sent a number of photos of men from the 1950s and 1960s. When I saw this photograph, I immediately thought it practically begged to be captioned. 

Hopefully the photo above and the caption I’ve shared below will inspire you to offer up one or two of your own. Leave a funny caption as a comment, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“Summer loving had me a blast
Summer loving happened so fast
I met a guy crazy for me
Met a boy cute as can be”

LGBTQ art shows in a city near you this summer

Safe/Haven: Gay Life in 1950s Cherry Grove at the NY Historical Society

NBC News has an interesting article that will appeal to queer art lovers. The article, LGBTQ art shows are lighting up museums from Boston to Berlin, showcases several ongoing exhibits including the MFA exhibit, by Samantha Nye | My Hearts in a Whirl that opened last month.

I’ve copied the exhibit’s description and shared it below but the NBC article (see link above) features multiple shows taking place this summer in cities worldwide including: Berlin, Houston, London, Los Angeles, Miami, New York City, Phoenix, and Providence.

Museum of Fine Arts / Boston: In this queerified and age-embracing homage to classic 1950s and ‘60s Scopitone film reels — a precursor to music videos that played inside special jukeboxes in cocktail lounges nationwide, Samantha Nye recreates the old film shorts shot-for-shot with queer elder actors, discarding ageist and ableist definitions of sexuality and eroticism, and expanding our vision of love, sex, agency and belonging. 

Temptation Tuesday

This week I’m featuring photos from a few of Modus Vivendi summer 2021 bathing suit lines. This fashion line consistently posts incredibly tempting photographs and aggressively markets their products to the gay community.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Men in kilts

It is Bear Week in Provincetown so I’m sharing this picture of two bears roaming through the forest. I’m partial to the plaid kilt. The green kilt looked like a terry cloth towel until I zoomed.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

May this week’s post distract you from the fact that it is a Monday morning.