Caption this photo

travel humor, overcrowded planeAmerican Thanksgiving is tomorrow making this one of the busiest weeks of the year to travel so I thought this image was timely to use for this weekly post. Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up a caption or two of your own. Leave a witty or funny caption as a comment for this post, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“The new super affordable upper deck seating”

New residential development proposed at 566 Columbus Ave in South End

A new residential development has been proposed for 566 Columbus Avenue. The building which sits at the busy intersection of Mass and Columbus Ave was purchased earlier this year by New Boston Ventures, and the new owners have proposed redeveloping the site into a new six-story mixed use commercial and residential building (rendering shown above).

The proposed project (currently unnamed) would feature a community oriented ground floor with approximately 5,000 sf of commercial space that would include a social enterprise café with outdoor seating, an art gallery, and improved community space for the United South End Settlements, which has been in the existing building since the mid 1970s.

The proposed project would include 66 residential home ownership units, 11 of which would be reserved for artist live/work spaces, as well as 42 below-grade parking spaces. The proposal would seem to make much better use of the space as it exists today (see below).

United South End Settlements

Temptation Tuesday

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Men in kilts

shirtless hunk wearing a kiltI’m not sure if this is a kilt or not – it’s kind of impossible to tell what the heck he is wearing but it sure is fun to look at.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

What to do this week: November 25 – December 1

handsome, hunk, sexy manThe 2019 Holiday Season has started. Later this week will be Thanksgiving and there are a lot of parties taking place starting Wednesday to welcome people who are back visiting family for the holiday.

Several notable events are taking place this week including irreverent shows like Married With Children – A Drag Parody on Tuesday and Ryan Landry’s holiday show, Christmas on Uranus that opens on Friday. If you’re looking for something a bit more traditional, check out Boston Ballet Nutcracker  which opens on Friday. Lastly Madonna – Madame X Tour comes to Boston on Sunday night.

MONDAY – THURSDAY

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

All Star Mondays is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Married With Children – A Drag Parody is a bi-weekly parody of the classic sitcom with this week’s episode 1×01 “Pilot” Tuesday at Club Cafe at 7:30PM

Mass Bears & Cubs Social come out to Cathedral Station and meet this friendly, fun group of men who regularly organize socials like this as well as local volunteering activities – stop by anytime after 7:30 on Tuesday

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Bombay Sapphire Gin Tasting is this Wednesday at Cathedral Station from 8-10PM in the South End

Dark Meet Wednesday is a fun dance party on Thanksgiving Eve at Sonia’s in Central Square starting at 9PM

Thanksgiving Eve Bash at Legacy & CandiBar 3 DJs and 2 dance floors make this the biggest party of the night so head into the Theater District doors open at 10PM

90s Thanksgiving Eve dance party is where you want to go to if you want to dance to boy bands all night long at dbar starting at 10PM in Dorchester

Blend’s Thanksgiving Eve Bash with DJ AGA is going to be fun – doors open at 10PM in Dorchester

Thanksgiving Eve: Blackout Party with DJ Stevie Psyclone is at Club Cafe in Boston – doors open at 10PM

Trivia Night comes to Cathedral Station every Wednesday from 8-10PM

Free Pool is available all evening at Cathedral Station every Thursday

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Yaasssgiving with resident DJ Begbick so you can dance off all that food to the area’s best hip hop and top 40 music at Club Cafe

shirtless, wicked gawjus, black, black man, absTHE WEEKEND

2019 Annual Day After Thanksgiving Drag Bingo with Tiki Bronstei join in on this annual Ptown tradition on Friday from 3:30 – 5:30PM at The Crown & Anchor in Provincetown

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Christmas on Uranus (Opening Night) Ryan Landyr and his Gold Dust Orphans return with their holiday show starting Friday, November 29th and running through December 22nd at the Lithuanian Hall Theater in Southie

Boston Ballet Nutcracker (Opening Night) check out this amazing holiday tradition – join the Boston Ballet community for a performance of this classic ballet at the Opera House starting Friday and running through Dec 29

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

H E R O E S plays 80s New Wave, Post-Punk and Goth this Friday at Sonia’s starting at 10PM in Cambridge

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Provincetown Lobster Pot Tree Lighting is in Ptown starting at 5:30PM

So Hot Saturdae’s: Leotard Party bring your friends for a fun night out with great music from DJ Stevie Psyclone at Blend in Dorchester

Celebrate the Music: Decades Month DJ Jay Ine will be spinning the best music from this decade at dbar – doors open at 10 in Dorchester

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Vintage Market continues to run every Sunday from 10AM to 4PM at 450 Harrison Avenue in the South End

World AIDS Day: Wellness and You at MWProductions’ 24 Hour Vigil The Fenway Institute, in collaboration with Medicine Wheel Productions, will  host activities and conversations around your health and wellness 2- 5PM at the BCA Cyclorama in the South End

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Madonna – Madame X Tour pulls into Boston on Sunday night – do you have your tickets?

Week 13, Patriots vs Houston viewing party is at Cathedral Station this Sunday; game time is 8:20PM but get there early as this place fills quickly

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Can Boston get more than just money from the sale of the Hynes

Last weekend I found myself reading Jaclyn Cashman’s article in the Boston Herald, “Sale of Hynes must include commitment to arts center”, and I’d encourage you to do the same.

She asserts that the building should not just go to the highest bidder but to a buyer that will commit serious square footage dedicated to the arts. Boston has spent the better part of the last decade bending over backwards, accommodating developers looking to build luxury residences that do little to enhance the quality of life in Boston and it is now time to make investments that can benefit all.

Scruffy Sunday

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I know this guy barely has a five o’clock shadow but I felt compelled to make an exception and hope you agree. Next week I’ll be back with more scruff.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

handsome guy with his coffeeThis is for all of you who tell me you like your coffee strong.

Saturday morning comics

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Click on this week’s comic strip to enlarge

Click here if you would like to see  the previous Adam & Andy

Furry Friday

handsome, hairy chest, hunk, shirtless Can’t believe it but this is my 400th Furry Friday post. Thank you so much for everyone who has come to visit my blog. I appreciate all the kind words and comments that you share.

Past Furry Friday Posts

BosGuy brain teaser

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Each Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s brain teaser: I fly without wings, I cry without eyes. What am I?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Mr. New England Leather in Provincetown

Mr. New England Leather Weekend is in Provincetown

This weekend I have found and listed 25+ events and parties taking place in and around Boston. If you’re looking to get out of town, head to Ptown for Mr. New England Leather Weekend.

However, if you’re sticking around Boston be sure to get out and enjoy yourself. There are a ton of things happening this weekend including a new gay dance night this Friday called GEAR in Cambridge to Drag Queen Story Hour on Saturday to a Patriots viewing party on Sunday afternoon.

gay bostonFRIDAY

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Rucks & Tucks – Fall 2019 come down to Club Cafe on Friday at 6:30 to cheer on the rugby players who will be dressing in drag for their annual lip sync battle extravaganza

Winter Soccer Season Kick Off is at blend in Dorchester starting at 7:30PM

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

Jonas Brothers vs One Direction Dance Party takes place this Friday downstairs at the Middle East in Cambridge

GEAR Launch Party from the guys that bring you SWEAT, MOBD, RAW & REVOLUTION – check out this new dance night at Sonia’s on Friday in Cambridge

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

SATURDAY

Drag Queen Story Hour is at the Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe this Saturday from 11AM to 12PM in the Back Bay

38th Annual HRC New England Dinner more than 1,000 LGBTQ and their allies will gather this Saturday for the HRC New England dinner / fundraiser

Queer Board Game Night returns to the Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe this Saturday starting at 6PM in the Back Bay

LGBTQ+ PoC Karaoke sing, support, and consider making a $10 or more donation to keep the lights on at this BYOB pop up party in Upham’s Corner

Onesie Party hosted by the Men of Melanin Magic is at Machine this Saturday

The BACK ROOM returns this Saturday upstairs at the Middle East doors open at 10:30PM in Central Square

DONT ASK DONT TELL: Faux Pas is this Saturday at Great Scott in Allston starting at 10PM – creative attire encouraged

Celebrate the Music! Decades Month will be playing your favorite music from the early 2000s come wearing your favorite concert and boy band shirts at dbar this Saturday starting at 10PM

Mayhem Saturdays is back this Saturday at blend – doors open at 10PM (no cover) in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SUNDAY

SoWa Vintage Market continues to run every Sunday from 10AM to 4PM at 450 Harrison Avenue in the South End

Drag Divas Give Back will be donating proceeds to the very worthy Boston Living Center this Sunday when they perform at the Bell in Hand in Boston

Week 12, Patriots vs Dallas viewing party is at Cathedral Station this Sunday;  game time is 4:30PM but get there early as this place fills quickly

Retro Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Tickets on sale for Landry’s ‘Christmas on Uranus’

boston fringe theater, gay theaterThe Gold Dust Orphans annual holiday show will take place at The Lithuanian Hall Theater at 368 West Broadway in Southie, starting Friday, November 29th and running through Sunday, December 22nd. Ticket prices for General Admission seating start at $49.99 + a $3.49 service charge.

While details about the holiday musical are slim, a website has been set up for ticket sales to see, Christmas on Uranus. Unfortunately, Sergio and I will have to miss this year’s production because we will be traveling but I’d like to encourage others to go check out this show.

Christmas on Uranus
Lithuanian Hall Theater
November 29 – December 22, 2019

Vintage gay

gay motorcycle club, tom of finlandThis week I’m doing something a bit different. I stumbled upon a story that includes a half dozen or more photographs of a gay motorcycle club from the 1960s taken by photographer Sylvan Rand.  Check out Rand’s photos from his time with the Gay Motorcycle Club.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

This week on Instagram: boston

boston, boston skyline, back bayI’m unsure if I’ve featured this Instagram account previously but wanted to share it because the photos of Boston are spectacular.

The official account of The Boston Globe’s boston.com, this Instagram account really shows how beautiful my hometown can be. The account includes photos of various neighborhoods, events and iconic buildings. Anyone who is familiar with Boston will enjoy following this account.

You can follow this account on Instagram here, instagram.com/boston.

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.