Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening

poetry, family, NH, LakeEvery winter I share this poem – a personal favorite from one of my favorite poets, Robert Frost. Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening is a poem Frost wrote nearly 100 years ago in 1922 and was first published a year later in his Pulitzer Prize winning, New Hampshire volume.

STOPPING BY WOODS ON A SNOWY EVENING

Whose woods these are I think I know.
His house is in the village, though;
He will not see me stopping here
To watch his woods fill up with snow.

My little horse must think it queer
To stop without a farmhouse near
Between the woods and frozen lake
The darkest evening of the year.

He gives his harness bells a shake
To ask if there is some mistake.
The only other sound’s the sweep
Of easy wind and downy flake.

The woods are lovely, dark, and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

handsome, hunk, black man, shirtless black man, man drinking coffeeEnjoy your morning cup of joe (or whatever you may want to call him).

Saturday morning comics

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ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.

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CASEY AT THE BAT is a comic strip follows the adventures of a young, gay man [Casey] and his friends in life, love and sports!  You can learn more about Casey by visiting, caseyatb.com.

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Paige Turner comes to Boston

Drag comedy, drag me to the top, gay boston, club cafeJoin Sergio and me at Paige Turner’s show at Club Cafe on Friday, February 16th. Ms. Turner makes her debut performance in Boston with in her one woman show, Drag Me To The Top!

Learn the unvarnished truth of how Paige climbed her way to the top in a world filled with bottoms. The show is filled with live singing, outrageous comedy, videos and over the top parodies that will have you laughing throughout. Ms. Turner is a Glam Award winner and known for her over the top parodies on You Tube, which you can check out here: PaigeTurnerNYC.

What: Paige Turner – Drag Me To The Top!
When: Friday, February 16th at 8PM
Where: At Club Cafe Boston
Tickets: Drag Me To The Top Tickets & Show Info

Furry Friday

handsome, hunk, hairy, black man, black man without a shirtThis week’s Furry Friday is for everyone with a bit of daddy-complex (and for those of you who are only now realizing you have one).

Past Furry Friday Posts 

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s brain teaser:  
If someone is holding a bee in their hand, what is in their eye?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

South End rumor: Tremont 647 to close and become Japanese bistro

Andy HusbandsOn Wednesday the staff at Andy Husbands Tremont 647 and Sister Sorel were told that both restaurants will close permanently on April 1 with plans to reopen as a Japanese bistro at a later date.

Andy Husbands’ Tremont 647 has been operating in the South End since 1996 and is a popular (and affordable) neighborhood bar and restaurant that will definitely be missed by many. At this point there are no details regarding the Japanese restaurant that will be replace them.

Andy Husbands has in recent years expanded beyond his humble adjoining South End restaurants opening two barbecue restaurants called The Smoke Shop, the first of which opened in Kendall Square in 2016 and the second which opened in Fort Point Channel this past November.

UPDATE: Chef behind Japanese Restaurant replacing 647 & Sister
via EaterBoston

What to do this weekend

Don’t stay at home this weekend. I’ve pulled together a little something for everyone. Some alternatives to the bar scene include The Welcoming Committee’s WoW Weekend “skiki” taking place all weekend at Sunday River and the 43rd Boston Sci-Fi Film Festival opens on Friday.

If you want to get out and dance you can check out the monthly dance party,  Fuzz at The Alley, The Donkey Show is always a great option if you want to mix things up or Machine’s H E R O E S Saturday will be playing New Wave music. On Sunday start your day with Trophy Room’s Bear Brunch then check out Dragapalooza Paint Party + Drag Show for Charity at Jacques or head over to Club Cafe for their weekly Sunday Tea Dance.

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WoW Weekend: Let’s have a skiki is hosted by Boston’s The Welcoming Committee up at Sunday River Mountain Friday – Sunday in Maine

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

43rd Boston Sci-Fi Film Festival starts on Friday and continues through the 19th at the Somerville Theater in Davis Square, Somerville

Fuzz is a monthly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Bruce Derfler at the Alley Bar in DTX

Movie: Ravenous plays at 11:59PM on Friday as part of The Coolidge’s “After Midnite” series in Brookline

Movie: A Clockwork Orange is showing on Saturday at 4:15 and 9:30 at The Brattle Theater in Harvard Square – Cambridge

Theater

Donkey Show plays every Saturday at the Oberon

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

H E R O E S Saturday plays the best of 80s new wave on Saturday night downstairs in the pool room at Machine starting at 10:30PM in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

Movie: Freddy’s Dead The Final Nightmare plays at 11:59PM on Saturday as part of The Coolidge’s “After Midnite” series in Brookline

Movie: The Hunger Games is showing on Sunday at 3:15 and 8:30 at The Brattle Theater in Harvard Square – Cambridge

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Bear Brunch hosted by the Mass Bears & Cubs is back at The Trophy Room on Sunday, starting at 1PM, with music by DJ Brian Halligan in Boston

Dragapalooza Paint Party + Drag Show for Charity  hosted by Boston’s Black Pride will be a blast with live performances by Teashaboo, Karisma Geneva Jackson-Tae, Kris Knievil Fan Club,Amanda Playwith, Kerra Daniels, Tee Sparks, and more on Sunday from 4:30-8PM at Jacques in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Sip with Severity Stone comes to Jacques on Sunday from 6-10PM with DJ Brian Halligan playing your favorite disco music in Boston

Boston’s Gay Beer Club is at Trophy Room on Sunday at 7PM (all are welcome!)

Boston’s Gay Beer Club Sundays at Trophy is this weekend starting at 7PM (all are welcome!) at Trophy Room in Boston

OutBreath: LGBTQ Meditation Group come together (past experience is not required) on Sunday, 7-9PM at Shambhala Meditation Center in Brookline

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Boston Gay Men’s Book Club meets February 26th

shirtless guy, man with glasses, reading, bookIf you are looking for ways to meet people that doesn’t involve sports or going to bars, Boston’s Gay Men Book Club, which meets every month at the Trident Booksellers & Cafe on Newbury Street might be the perfect social outlet for you.  This month the group is reading Quit the Race by Jonathan Strong, who teaches fiction-writing at Tufts University and lives in Rockport, MA with his partner, the short-story writer S. P. Elledge.

What: Boston Gay Men’s Book Club Meeting
When: Monday, February 26th at 7PM
Where: Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe at 338 Newbury Street
RSVP: Here

Quit the Race is the story of Joel, a musician and composer, and Sean, a social worker, whose long-term relationship is tested when they find themselves pulling in opposite directions as they enter the last chapter of their lives. Set in Strong’s home city of Chicago and rural Wisconsin, the novel is a love story after the love has been lived in and change is coming. Joel and Sean discover that they have different assumptions about domestic life.

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This book can be purchased online at major resellers but you may also buy this in person or online at local bookstores. If you’re open to supporting local bookstores try one of these links, which will take you right to the book so you can make a quick purchase online if that is your preference.

Brookline Booksmith 279 Harvard Street by Coolidge Corner
Harvard Bookstore  1256 Mass Ave in Harvard Square
Papercuts JP 5 Green Street, Jamaica Plain
Porter Square Bookstore 25 White Street in Porter Square
Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe 338 Newbury Street in Back Bay

The Boston Gay Men’s Book Club will meet at the Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe on Monday, February 26th at 7PM. The group welcomes everyone but does request people RSVP if they plan to attend. You can join the group and RSVP, here.

Vintage gay

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I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Group asks Amazon to focus HQ2 search on states that don’t discriminate against LGBTQ

Amazon HQ2Most people are aware of the stroke of Public Relations brilliance that is Amazon’s search for second headquarters (HQ2). Cities have lined up and prostrated themselves for the chance to bring what is expected to be tens of thousands of well-paying jobs at Amazon’s HQ2. Few cities in America have followed this story more closely than Boston, which continues to be named as a top contender, despite initial claims from some that the city couldn’t compete.

Who can say where Amazon will set up shop and what sort of criteria they will use as a determining factor, but last week a gay-rights advocate group started a campaign called “No Gay? No Way!” to bring attention to states bidding for HQ2 who have antiquated and in some cases anti-LGBTQ laws on their books. They are asking Amazon not to set up their HQ2 in a state that does not protect  employees from discrimination for their sexual orientation or gender identity.no gay? no way!, amazon headquarters, Amazon HQ2Although nobody knows for certain the three cities most often referenced as being atop Amazon’s list include Atlanta, Austin and Boston. However, of those three cities, only Boston resides in a state that has fair and equal laws protecting against discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity.

This activist group is planning to demonstrate near Amazon’s headquarters in Seattle tomorrow, Thursday, February 8th, just as the company prepares to issue its Q4 earnings. The group has hired a plane to fly overhead trailing a “No gay? No way!” banner and is placing billboards on trucks driving through Seattle as well as online ads saying “Hey, Alexa? Why would Amazon even consider HQ2 in a state that discriminates against LGBT people?”

If you’d like to read more about the campaign link here: No Gay? No Way!

This week on Instagram: southendboston

South End, Julian LevesqueOne of my favorite Instagram accounts is run by Julien Levesque (whom I’ve not had the pleasure of meeting). His account posts beautiful photographs of  my neighborhood, Boston’s South End. I think what impresses me the most is that he has been posting photos for quite a while and my neighborhood is really quite small, but it is filled with some beautiful parks and 19th century row houses like shown above from one of his previous Instagram photos.

Follow him on Instagram here, instagram.com/southendboston.

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.

Caption this photo

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Gay for Good Boston

Over the years I’ve promoted a variety of volunteering opportunities from Boston’s Gay For Good chapter. This organization aims to energize and mobilize the LGBT+ community to interact with the greater community by volunteering time to various social welfare and environmental service projects.

Each month, Gay For Good Boston selects a different non-profit to donate their time for a community service project. No money is required on your part but space for volunteering opportunities is generally limited so it is best to be a member to know when the opportunities are posted. If you think you’d like to learn more about this group, like their Facebook page and visit their website, gayforgood.org/chapters/boston.

 I want to feature the LGBTQ groups and organizations that help people connect and enrich Boston’s gay life. If you’d like to have your club / team featured, please email me at bosguymail@gmail.com or via FB messenger.