M.I.T.’s cool architecture

For anyone who has visited Boston they know the city’s architecture is synonymous with brick and brownstone. Check out some recent photos I took from BackBay last month for an example of what I’m referring to. Nearly half of my neighborhood (the South End) is comprised of mid-nineteenth century brick Victorian bow-front town houses. Despite this city’s love affair of all things brick – there is some really beautiful architecture that is really exciting if you are in to that sort of thing (and I am).

The NY Times has a cool article in today’s business /real estate section about M.I.T.’s campus transformation and the very edgy and modern buildings they have built across the Charles River. According to the article, M.I.T. has spent $1.4 billion constructing 10 buildings over the past decade. No wonder there does not appear to be a downturn in construction industry in the Boston area. They’ve engaged giants in architecture to build these “trophy buildings” including the likes of Frank Gehry.

I’ve included some photos of buildings on the M.I.T. campus I like.

M.I.T. Media Lab
M.I.T. Stata Center
You can read the full article here.
You can view the slide show of construction projects here.

Guy candy

Since Halloween is just around the corner I figured I’d provide some guy candy to spruce up my site. I wonder if he’s really Brasilian or if that just happened to be the bathing suit he was given. He looks like some of the guys you’d see on Ipanema Beach in Rio.

Windows 7 mobile software


Microsoft’s ad campaign for their new Windows 7 mobile software is funny, spoofing peoples addiction to their smartphone, and the new software may be quite cool, but I have to say the image above which was shared with news outlets all around the country to promote Microsoft’s latest attempt to break into the mobile market seems weak.

For the record, I’m a Microsoft fan (my first job out of school was with Microsoft down in Atlanta), but the phone lacks any kind of wow factor as near as I can tell. If anyone ends up purchasing one of these phones when they start going on sale next month, I’d be curious and would ask that you e-mail me to let me know if you like it.

What you want to do?


I’ve seen this song popping up on a handful of blogs and now I can’t get the catchy hooks from the chorus out of my head. I assume a video is forthcoming from Nelly Furtado so if you like keep an eye out on her fan page. Beware the song is catchy and you may end up humming it all day long like I’ve been doing.

Hanging the painting


Thank you to everyone who left a comment and the few who e-mailed me directly. I never anticipated so many responses.

I suppose the question of “which way” was misleading because before posting the question on my blog the decision had been made to hang the painting as the artist had intended – vertically / portrait. It was very validating to see that nearly everyone who did comment or e-mail expressed that this was also how it should be displayed. Thank you again.

Enjoy your weekend

Social media psychology


Suddenly I feel like I understand why these social media platforms have become so popular!

Nothing gold can stay

Nature’s first green is gold,
Her hardest hue to hold.

Her early leaf’s a flower;
But only so an hour.

Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,

So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.

According to Wikipedia, this poem by Robert Frost was first written and published in the Yale Review in 1923. It is one of my favorite poems and each autumn I like to post this to share the beauty of Frost’s words.

Which way?

I’ve included two photographs of the painting by Fernando de Oliveria we purchased this past weekend through a charity silent auction. A couple people left comments in my entry An evening at the Four Seasons that they would like to see the painting so I’ve posted it. We really like the painting and have a few places we can hang it. Let me know how you prefer this displayed.

You can click on either image to make it larger.

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Why I’m a Democrat

Sometimes friends and family are surprised by my support for the Democratic Party and more specifically the Liberal base of that party, but my political views were shaped in the 80s and 90s when I was coming to grips with both my sexuality and the politics of that time.

In the mid- to late-80s I could not understand why President Ronald Reagan sat idly by while tens of thousands of quilts were being sewn in memory of those who died from AIDS. In the 90s the Christian Coalition reached the heights of its influence in the Republican Party and with leaders like Speaker Gingrich they drove through discriminatory legislation like Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell all while funding local initiatives to limit and deny gay men and women basic rights such as adoption, hospital visitation rights, etc…

No longer a kid and no longer apologizing for my sexual orientation, my disdain for the Republican Party started to turn to rage when in the 2000 Presidential election Bush returned campaign donations to The Log Cabin Republicans (a GLBT Republican group) and several high profile gay donors, because they were gay and then was applauded by the entire leadership of the Republican Party.

Obama’s win knocked the wind out of the Republican Party. But now the party is back and will likely take control of one or both of the houses in the U.S. Congress. Unfortunately, this isn’t the result of the Party moving to the center or becoming more inclusive. This comes from what I describe as an unholy alliance with the newly, rebranded Christian Conservative now called The Tea Party.

So discussions about taxes, economics, foreign or domestic policy aside – until the Republican Party defends GLBT rights and calls out the homophobic slurs their supporters seem content to regularly hurl at me and people like me, I will not consider any other alternative when I enter a voting booth. To the rest of the US who seem to be readily accepted and have representation in both parties – I say lucky you, but think of me when you’re voting because who you elect impacts me too.

Update – 10/5/2010
Earlier this month, GOP Senate leader, Tom DeMint’s told attendees at a rally that had significant media coverage he would work to deny gays the right to be in certain professions, such as teaching school.

No wonder I feel like I’m at war with this party? Insert the word Jewish, Black, Latino in place of the word “gays” and the Republican party would be distancing themselves. Sadly this is just the latest in an onslaught of weekly garbage I have to listen to. Is it any wonder gay kids are being bullied or feeling isolated. Look what the “adults” of this country are saying with impunity and often times to the cheers of thousands. You can read the full story here.

An evening at the Four Seasons

Last night’s gala at the Four Seasons was beautiful. I’ve included a few photographs Sergio snapped on his i-phone. Much thanks to Jeff Smith for inviting us to join him at his table and James, his partner, for being an excellent host introducing us to their friends. It was a fantastic evening from start to finish. Thanks to some aggressive bidding from Sergio we’re now the proud owners of a new painting from the Brazilian-born, Boston artist, Fernando de Oliveria.

Jeff’s attention to detail was evident through out the program; even down to the exquisite table settings and dramatic centerpieces.

After dinner and the evenings’ heroes were recognized the program concluded with a surprise appearance from cast members of Wicked, which is currently in Boston. Elphie and Glinda performed three numbers accompanied by only the baby grand piano at their side. After the performance they were gracious enough to pose with me for a quick picture.
After the event, we went down to the Bristol Lounge, and had a nightcap. Steve A. was good enough to come and join us rather than meeting at Club Cafe.

Double date: Black tie event and cocktails at Club Cafe

Tonight Sergio and I are off to the Four Seasons to attend a black tie fundraiser for the Visiting Nurses Association of Boston. Proceeds from this event go to support the VNA’s Maternal Child Health and Charitable Care Programs, which serves almost 2,400 children and their families in Massachusetts.

A good friend who works at the VNA Boston invited us to join him at his table so we’re dusting off our tuxedos to get them ready for tonight. I was pleasantly suprised to find that I still fit into my tuxedo pants (although I think I’ll refrain from eating for the rest of the day so I don’t push my luck).

The event concludes early so I plan to come home and change to meet Steve A. (author of Long Haired Boy blog) who is flying in from the Cayman Islands. Sadly we’ll only be able to connect tonight because he’s off to see a show on Sunday and flies back home the following day. Such is the life of this jet-setting tall drink of water who I met in person for the first time earlier this summer.


I was reviewing my recent posts and realized that there’s been a lot of venting. I’ve either been lamenting being ill, hurt or commenting on various politically-charged themes.

I want to lighten this up a bit so I’ve added some guy candy to brighten my day and to bring smiles to those nice enough to stop by my site. Thank you again for your comments and checking out my little corner of the internet.

MI Asst A.G. bullying gay student

Did you know that for 6 months, Andrew Shirvell, assistant attorney general for the state of Michigan, has waged an online bullying campaign against college student Chris Armstrong, an openly gay student assembly president at U Michigan in Ann Arbor? I didn’t and I want to spread the word… I hope you will too.

CNN broadcaster, Anderson Cooper, had Shirvell on his show earlier this week and last night Cooper invited Shirvell’s boss, Michigan Attorney General Cox (a man with a history of turning a deaf ear to GLBT issues), to his show to ask why he has allowed such aggressive behavior from his assistant. Needless to say, the story is both bizarre and frightening. There’s a lot on the internet about this story – Queerty has a good posting you can read here.

I was going to read Shirvell’s blog today, but after his appearance on CNN he blocked his site. I was student council president when I was in college, and I can’t imagine what I would have done if someone did the same thing to me. I found Shirvell’s office number and have decided to post it – his work telephone no. is (517) 373-4875.

Additionally, his boss, MI AG Mike Cox office e-mail is miag@michigan.gov. I’m going to send an e-mail to Mr. Cox for what its worth. The main number for the A.G.s office in Lansing, MI is (517) 373-1110

10/1/10 UPDATE
Boy Culture Blog has posted that Michigan A.G. Mike Cox has clarified reports that Andrew Shirvell has been suspended — Note that he has not – Shirvell has taken a voluntary, paid leave of absence following months of harassing U of M student body president Chris Armstrong, whose homosexuality Shirvell literally views as a sign the younger man is ‘Satan’s emissary’.

To this I say WTF? So now Shirvell can spend 24/7 fixating on terrorizing this kid? And why shouldn’t he? No disciplinary actions are underway; he’s still receiving pay and benefits. Are you kidding me Michigan?

Heal thyself and get to the gym you fat ass

Today is the first day I’ve not taken Flexeril and 600mg of Ibuprofen three times a day to help me cope with the pain from my strained neck / back muscles. I’m still quite tender and not nearly 100%, but I’m finally feeling human again. Needing to take medication really bums me out. Despite what you’ve been reading (if you’ve been reading), I’m rarely sick and not accustomed to taking medication.
Unfortunately, between being ill with meningitis and medicating myself after hurting my back and neck I counted that I’ve been down and out for 16 of the past 28 days. In addition to making me down right depressed, being ill and incapacitated has also seriously messed with my work out routine which had been paying some serious dividends. To compound matters, I’ve been quite regularly eating chocolate in quantities that would make a French pastry chef blanch. What can I say? I seek comfort from chocolate.

Anyway the result has been that I feel like all my progress in the gym has come undone. This evening when I looked into the mirror I felt like I was starting to resemble the Family Guy.
I’m still not able to work out but I’m hoping to return to my trainer, Stu, next week. If only for my mental health I need to get back into my gym routine. When I’m working out I’m more disciplined about what I eat and the further I get from the gym the more lax my eating habits get.