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The over sized crapper

extra large toilet seatFollowing comedian Scott Backman can be educational.  Earlier this summer he posted this photograph of an over sized toilet seat that is now available for anyone needing a bit more “support”.  I predict this will soon be a featured item in the Sky Mall catalog and a top seller at Walmart.

New Dewey Square mural unveiled September 23rd

boston public art

Original Dewey Square Mural by Brazilian artists Os Gemeos

Three weeks from today on Tuesday, September 23rd a new mural will grace Dewey Square.  Murals on this sizable wall (70′ x 76′ ) has raised eyebrows in the past (like Os Gemeos mural shown).  The current installation by Matthew Ritchie entitled Salt and Light is coming down and will be replaced by Shinique Smith abstract.

Smith is currently being featured at a MFA exhibit has said she will use her work, Seven Moons, as her inspiration. I’m looking forward to the new installation which is far more bold and colorful than the outgoing mural which I never really connected.

Gay Games IX in Cleveland

Gay Games flag footballThis is a guest blog post from Marc D. a competitor in the Gay Games IX hosted in Cleveland, Ohio earlier this summer.

Gay Games IX was held in Cleveland and Akron, OH August 9-16.  The city was selected in 2009 by the Federation of Gay Games (FGG), winning out over Boston and Washington, DC. I was part of the group from Boston that worked to create our bid and when Cleveland was selected many of us were extremely disappointed, since there were numerous examples of their bid process not following the established guidelines.  However, I don’t want to go into that – it’s water under the bridge at this point – but I did want to share my experiences as a competitor at Gay Games IX.

I was fortunate to be part of the gold-medal winning flag football team – the MassMutual Blue – but that competition was an example of why I would believe Cleveland was a poor choice as a host city.  The term ‘destination city’ was heard a lot but the problem is Cleveland is not a destination city.  As a result, fewer people attended these games; flag football and softball only had 3 teams each in the A/B division; 4 in C; 10 in D; and 2 in the women’s division, etc.  By contrast, Boston hosted a softball tournament over the 4th of July weekend that included nearly 40 teams in 2 divisions – twice as many as participated in Cleveland.

I don’t have official numbers but heard that approximately 6,000 participants were on hand; compared to approximately 10,000 from the two prior Gay Games I attended (2002 in Sydney and 2006 in Chicago).  Regardless of the actual number, I had expected to see people everywhere we went – this is supposed to be the largest LGBT sporting event in the world – yet downtown Cleveland, where I stayed, was very quiet.  So while winning a gold medal was very rewarding, especially since the team we beat hadn’t lost any of its 4 prior games, the fact remains that it was a very small flag football tournament.  The same can be said for many of the other sports; it was a poorly attended Games and that’s disappointing.  I wanted to feel that we were making an impact and that just did not happen.

Fortunately it looks like the Federation of Gay Games has learned their lesson and have picked Paris has the host city for Gay Games 10 in 2018.  I’m already making my plans already and hope to see you there.

Gay Games IX

About the author:  Marc D. is a non-profit development professional who lives in Boston and has a passion for sports. 

 

 

 

 

Temptation Tuesday

shirtless, handsome, hunkToday’s temptation is Joel from Boston. This handsome young man is friendly and personable and makes for the perfect temptation. Since he shared two photos I thought I would feature both (a smoother and slightly furrier variety).  I hope his photos bring a smile to your face.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Free stuff in Boston later this week

Every week there are free activities that are great for dates or just going out on your own.  Break your routine and take advantage of what Boston has to offer.  Here are a few fun activities that will fit any budget and offer you an opportunity to get out and see something new.

MFA Art of the Americas wing opensEvery Wednesday, starting at 4PM Boston’s Museum of Fine Arts (MFA) is free.  BoA card holders also have free admission the first full weekend of every month.

Institute of Contemporary Art BostonEvery Thursday, Boston’s Institute of Contemporary Art (ICA) is free to the public after 5:00 PM.

The first Friday of each month is the South End First Fridays.  More than 60 participating artists open their studios for this monthly event at 450 Harrison Avenue.  Also check out one of my favorite galleries, Boston Sculptors Gallery, at 486 Harrison Avenue.

 

Realm health and fitness tips from Kyle

Need motivation or a new routine? Try Fitocracy! Fitocracy is a social fitness app that lets you choose from a myriad of different exercise routines specific to your goals, and connect with a network of friends to help motivate and keep you accountable.

The app has successfully “gamified” fitness by creating exercise “achievements” and levels to overcome that are both engaging and fun. The model gives tangible results such as unlocking a badge or a new status on the app, that if done correctly will follow through into actual fitness results in the future.

I like using fitocracy as a means of recording my weights, reps, and sets for my workouts and making sure that I improve on the work out the next time I do it. Give it a shot and see what level you can reach!

Kyle at Realm FitnessKyle is a nationally certified personal trainer, certified nutritionist, and lifestyle motivator out of Los Angeles, CA. He has been training for 5 years and has experience working with top-tier celebrity and executive clientele. When he’s not in the gym, Kyle is reading philosophy or writing poetry.

Dog days of summer

Dog Days of SummerI don’t care if it is Labor Day.  It is still warm so I say it is still summer.

The students have returned to Boston

september 1Every city has its own traditions and Boston is no exception. Ranking right up there with the Red Sox home opener, Patriot’s Day (a.k.a. Boston Marathon), and the Head of the Charles (which is technically more of a Cambridge thing) is September 1st.

The universities that call this city home have shaped Boston’s reputation and play a major part in forming our identity. Literally tens of thousands of students have returned to Boston this weekend and along with them came moving cars, vans and trucks of all sizes.

The upside to this temporary insanity is that Boston (which is a sleepy hamlet from early May through August) suddenly jolts back to life. No city (but especially one as tiny as Boston) can ignore the impact these students have on city life. They revive the nightlife, crowd the restaurants and fill the sidewalks.  While I am not ready to say goodbye to summer, the students have returned and it is the start of another academic year.

How to celebrate Labor Day

Labor Day BosGuyI hope you have the day off and can sleep in today.

Kind of racist? Try a can of diet racism

For all of you who say sort of racist stuff. You may enjoy the refreshing taste of diet racism. Lucky for you it is served in every community and every neighborhood from coast to coast.

Scruffy Sunday

man in bed aloneDon’t you just hate it when you fall asleep in bed with your clothes still on.  Of course it looks like his are just starting to come off.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

 

Saturday night video

This previously shared video is a nod to my female viewership and their friends who have witnessed this metamorphosis. 

Thank you Michael

gay leather bearWhile I was in Provincetown last week this little guy showed up as a surprise gift from my friend Michael.  I think this little leather bear is adorable and love him.

Allston Christmas Eve

September 1For those not from the area, you may not be familiar with this rather unique Boston holiday that results from the onslaught of students moving into the area for the start of the next academic year. Don’t believe me? The holiday even is in the Urban Dictionary: allston christmas.

Allston Christmas will really begin tomorrow when renters begin to toss all their unwanted furnishings onto the street as they vacate their sublet or previous apartment and for the next 12+ hours are likely to be unable to get into their new apartment.

Saturday morning comic: Adam and Andy

James AsalClick on the comic strip to enlarge.

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.