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Furry Friday

handsome, hairy, black manThis week’s post has that cute neighbor appeal. Now I just need to find out who he is and have him move next door so we can live happily ever after.

Past Furry Friday Posts

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brain

Each Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

This week’s brain teaser: What can you catch but never throw?

Leave your best guess below as a comment, and I’ll approve the answers later. This is a tough one so don’t get discouraged!

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Here are 25+ parties, events and activities to consider this weekend in and around Boston. Make plans with friends and enjoy the long holiday weekend for all of you who have MLK day off.

FRIDAY

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

The Diva’s Experience is at the Museum of Science each Friday at 7:30PM at the Hayden Planetarium – tix required and strongly encouraged to purchase in advance – showtime is approximately 40 minutes

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

SWEAT: Leather Daddy Night with DJ James Cerne & offAxis Adam Fearing Leather, Rubber, Fetish, Pup Gear encouraged but not required. Come and be yourself! Pop Up Demos TBA at Machine on Friday starting at 10PM

HEROES Ashes To Ashes Tribute to Bowie with DJ Chris Ewen is this Friday at Sonia in Central Square on Friday in Central Square

Groove Fridays plays disco (new and old,) house, remixes, and more- all with video and amazing visualizers with DJ Brian Derrick every third Friday at blend in Dorchester

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

boyfriendsSATURDAY

Drag Queen Story Hour is every third Saturday in the children’s section from 11AM – 12PM at the Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe in Boston

Saturday afternoon Sips with a Somm is this Saturday at 4PM at Boston Chops (South End) with beverage director and Advanced Sommelier Nick Daddona will include Vino Italiano, The Rhone Rangers, ABC’s of France, Winter Warmers, and American Cabernet – tickets req’d in South End

Queer Board Game Night is at 6PM at the Trident Booksellers & Cafe on Newbury Street in Boston

Mayhem Saturdays with DJ AGA is this weekend so bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at blend in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

GAY BASH’D returns to the Oberon this Saturday with everyone’s favorite DJ Colby Drasher – click for full line up of performers – doors open at 10PM

Legacy Saturday Nights come down and dance to music from Alex Costa starting at 10PM in the Theater District

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

handsome guy, gay boston, what's happening in Boston, LGBTQ BostonSUNDAY

SoWa Vintage Market continues to run every Sunday from 10AM to 4PM at 450 Harrison Avenue in the South End

Mass Bears & Cubs social is this Sunday from 2-5PM at blend in Dorchester

Bear Tea Dance (Hanky Code) hosted by The History Project with great music from DJ BEGBICK starts at 5PM on Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

SIP presents Come Together (NEW LOCATION) returns this Sunday with DJ Brian Halligan at The Good Life in downtown starting at 6PM in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Gay Beer Club Sundays is at Stoddard’s in DTX, starting at 7PM – all welcome

PRIVATE LIFE (New Gay Night) dancing, drag and dinner at Shore Leave in SoWa with James Cerne and Char starting at 8PM

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

DREAM with Ralphi Rosario presented by The Gay Mafia is at Royale on Sunday of MLK weekend in the Theater District

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

The Cake: I ate up this play and so will you

Last week I wrote a post about Boston Lyric Stage latest production, The Cake, and after seeing the show, I wanted to encourage you to get tickets to see it for yourself, but if you need further reason, read The Boston Globe’s review, Humor and humanity are the icing on The Cake.

The Cake uses humor to address a subject that has been grabbing headlines for years. Despite the fact that we’ve all heard more than we probably care about individuals using religion as an excuse to deny service to LGBTQ community, to watch the drama unfold on stage is more compelling than you might think. Thanks to the excellent script and solid cast, it is quite funny to watch as well.

I found it very hard to dislike Della, a traditional Southern baker who has a crisis of conscience when her deceased best friend’s daughter returns to ask her to make her dream wedding cake for her and her fiancé. Della is not unlike many Americans who fail to see the hypocrisy in their selective interpretations of passages from the Bible (specifically Leviticus) that condemn homosexuality, people who eat shellfish, pork, etc…  yet only homosexuals are denied service – not those who enjoy a good lobster dinner. Della’s love for Jen (or Jenny as she calls her) compels her to reexamine some of those long held beliefs.

Make plans with a friend or another couple and get tickets before it closes on February 9th. Like me, I’m sure that after you see the show, you’ll never look at a pile of mashed potatoes quite the same way again.

The Cake
January 10 – February 9, 2020
Click here for more information or to buy tickets

Vintage gay

dapper gay coupleUnsure when or where this photo may have been taken but this dapper couple caught my eye when I was looking for photos and wanted to share with you.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

This week on Instagram: kyl_e_t

ginger, hot ginger, handsome, man in bedSay hello to Kyle who hails from Fife Scotland but now calls Edinburgh Scotland home. Kyle is an engineer who obviously spends a lot of time at the gym. Most of this ginger’s photos are selfies and shirtless photos. He also has a number of photos goofing around with his buddies in Scotland and elsewhere.

This is definitely a mancandy account and for those of you who are fans of gingers – this one is a must follow.

You can follow this Instagram account at, instagram.com/kyl_e_t.

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.

Caption this photo

wrestling, wrestlerHopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up a caption or two of your own. Leave a witty or funny caption as a comment for this post, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“You can kiss my ass”

Pre-Broadway run for Neil Simon’s Plaza Suite opens in Boston this February

boston theaterMatthew Broderick & Sarah Jessica Parker: Neil Simon’s Plaza Suite

Two-time Tony Award winner, Matthew Broderick, and two-time Emmy Award winner, Sarah Jessica Parker, perform next month in the pre-Broadway engagement at the Emerson Colonial Theater in Boston.

The famous couple have not performed together on stage in more than 20 years but the Neil Simon comedy, Plaza Suite, seems like a great show to bring them together and Boston is lucky enough to get a first glimpse at how their real life chemistry might translate on stage in this hilarious play about love and marriage. Little known fact that was shared in the release says that the Simon play made its world premiere at The Colonial more than fifty years ago in 1968.

Plaza Suite at the Emerson Colonial
February 5 – 22, 2020
More Information Here

Temptation Tuesday

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Men in kilts

Trying to class up this weekly post with this rather dapper man.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

What to do this week: January 13-19

snuggle buddy, handsome, hairy chest, hunk, gayLots happening this week leading up to MLK Day, including some new nights you may not know about including a Drag Variety Show at Bill’s Bar on Thursday, SWEAT: Leather Daddy Night is back for the first time this year on Friday, SIP returns on Sunday at a new location and PRIVATE LIFE at Shore Leave in the South End. The biggest party of the week will definitely be at Royale on Sunday night DREAM with Ralphi Rosario.

If clubbing isn’t your thing, no worries as there are plenty of options for you including Mini-Film Series: Camp Classic Mommie Dearest, Dollar Dumpling Thursdays, and Queer Board Game Night to name a few.

Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

All Star Mondays – Fairy Tales is a weekly drag show with performances at 11:30PM and 12:30AM at Machine in Boston

Dirty Water Saloon Line Dancing for Queers & friends has country-western two-step, west coast swing and line dancing each Tuesday from 7-10PM (all are welcome) at the Milky Way Lounge in JP

Boston Drag Gauntlet Legends 5 legendary drag performers compete in 3 challenges for local charities and the title of Boston Drag Gauntlet Legend on Tuesday at 7:30PM at Jacques in Bay Village

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Trivia Night comes to Cathedral Station every Wednesday from 8-10PM

Dollar Dumpling Thursdays fits just about anyone’s budget so come over to Red Lantern and have a few dumplings with friends or just to people watch on Thursday starting at 5PM in Boston

Mini-Film Series: Camp Classic Mommie Dearest on Thursday at 6PM at The History Project – tickets must be reserved in advance in Boston

Free Pool is available all evening at Cathedral Station every Thursday

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

NEW Drag Variety Show: LIVE! from the Clearance Rack hosted by Atlas Bleach, serves up live music, sketch comedy, and sickening drag performance at Bill’s Bar starting at 8:30PM in the Fenway

#Yaasss Thursdays with hosts Penny Tentiary, Yune Neptune, and resident DJ Begbick plays the area’s best hip hop and top 40 at Club Cafe

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

The Diva’s Experience is at the Museum of Science each Friday at 7:30PM at the Hayden Planetarium – tix required and strongly encouraged to purchase in advance – showtime is approximately 40 minutes

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

SWEAT: Leather Daddy Night with DJ James Cerne & offAxis Adam Fearing Leather, Rubber, Fetish, Pup Gear encouraged but not required. Come and be yourself! Pop Up Demos TBA at Machine on Friday starting at 10PM

HEROES Ashes To Ashes Tribute to Bowie with DJ Chris Ewen is this Friday at Sonia in Central Square on Friday in Central Square

Groove Fridays plays disco (new and old,) house, remixes, and more- all with video and amazing visualizers with DJ Brian Derrick every third Friday at blend in Dorchester

Anthem Fridays is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Drag Queen Story Hour is every third Saturday in the children’s section from 11AM – 12PM at the Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe in Boston

Saturday afternoon Sips with a Somm is this Saturday at 4PM at Boston Chops (South End) with beverage director and Advanced Sommelier Nick Daddona will include Vino Italiano, The Rhone Rangers, ABC’s of France, Winter Warmers, and American Cabernet – tickets req’d in South End

Queer Board Game Night is at 6PM at the Trident Booksellers & Cafe on Newbury Street in Boston

Mayhem Saturdays with DJ AGA is this weekend so bring your friends for a fun night out with great music and no cover at blend in Dorchester

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

GAY BASH’D returns to the Oberon this Saturday with everyone’s favorite DJ Colby Drasher – click for full line up of performers – doors open at 10PM

Legacy Saturday Nights come down and dance to music from Alex Costa starting at 10PM in the Theater District

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

SoWa Vintage Market continues to run every Sunday from 10AM to 4PM at 450 Harrison Avenue in the South End

Mass Bears & Cubs social is this Sunday from 2-5PM at blend in Dorchester

Bear Tea Dance (Hanky Code) hosted by The History Project with great music from DJ BEGBICK starts at 5PM on Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

SIP presents Come Together (NEW LOCATION) returns this Sunday with DJ Brian Halligan at The Good Life in downtown starting at 6PM in Boston

Naked Yoga for Men meets in the Boston area most Sundays at 6:30 PM (note that classes fill in advance and you must pre-register with the group)

Gay Beer Club Sundays is at Stoddard’s in DTX, starting at 7PM – all welcome

PRIVATE LIFE (New Gay Night) dancing, drag and dinner at Shore Leave in SoWa with James Cerne and Char starting at 8PM

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

DREAM with Ralphi Rosario presented by The Gay Mafia is at Royale on Sunday of MLK weekend in the Theater District

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Beautiful Buenos Aires

Last month Sergio and I traveled through parts of Argentina and spent 5 nights in beautiful Buenos Aires at the Park Tower Hotel in the Retiro neighborhood; near Puerto Madero and adjacent to Recoleta. This was our second visit to the city; our first visit to B.A. was back in the early 2000s.

Above you can see some photos of Sergio posing in front of a Pride flag in a public park, Obelisco de Buenos Aires and the Casa Rosada which translates into the Pink House and is where the President of Argentina resides.

There were some things we wanted to revisit like the Recoleta Cemetary  (shown above) where prominent families from B.A. are buried – Eva Peron among them; going back to the Floralis Genérica or the Tulip as I kept referring to it (shown below); and spending more time in the Palermo neighborhood.

Floralis GenéricaTo make the most of the beautiful weather, we made a conscious decision to spend as much time as we could outside walking through our favorite neighborhoods and visiting their many gorgeous parks. It was a special treat for this New Englander to be wearing shorts and a t-shirt in December and made me feel like Sergio and I were chasing summer.

Below are some of photos taken on our visit. I could probably write an entire post on the parks and green spaces throughout Buenos Aires. The city is breathtaking, and I already want to go back again.

Some of our favorite parks included Buenos Aires Ecological Reserve, a massive reserve in the heart of the city; Parque Thays most notable for its Nude Male Torso sculpture by Fernando Botero; Floralis Genérica a.k.a. the tulip sculpture made of steel and aluminum; Buenos Aires Botanical Garden in the Palermo neighborhood and the Japanese Gardens.

graffiti mundoIf you enjoy art and are looking to do something a little different, I’d recommend checking out the guided walking tours of Buenos Aires graffiti art. We signed up for a 3 hour walking tour through different neighborhoods in BA and it was really fascinating. The tour guides tell you about the individual artists, their backgrounds, and their trademark techniques that have helped distinguish them. After we took the tour we were able to spot the work of a few of the artists who had been featured on our tour in other parts of the city. The girl with the blue hair from pum pum shown above was one of my favorites.

If you’re interested in learning more you can check out the tour guides website and the various tours they offer at graffitimundo.com.

While there are many fantastic restaurants in Buenos Aires, Sergio and I did not indulge in any gourmet experiences. However we did return to B.A.’s famous Cafe Tortoni to indulge in an afternoon coffee and dessert.

We also really enjoyed the Four Seasons Buenos Aires lounge, Pony Line. Thanks to a tip from a bartender there we were directed to a subterranean bar about 3 blocks away in a Flower & Wine shop called Floreria Atlantico where you enter the basement bar through a fake refrigerator door (see Sergio in photo above).

Despite being disappointed that we didn’t see everything we had hoped, I know I’ll be back to Buenos Aires. It is an amazing city and one to add to your bucket list if you’ve never visited.

Scruffy Sunday

Well good morning Eliad Cohen. Let me know if I can bring you anything.

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Saturday morning coffee

handsome, hunk, arm pitts, hairy guyLooks like this guy is in serious need of some coffee and needs some help.

Saturday morning comics

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

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