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Men in kilts
Wearing a harness + kilt is really good look if you can pull it off. Something for the guys here in Boston to consider if they plan on going to Fascination on Friday or to Snowbound in Provincetown later this weekend.
What to do this week: February 19 – 25
It may be the middle of winter in Boston but there is a lot happening including Snowbound Leather Weekend XI which takes place in Provincetown this weekend. However, if you plan on staying in town this week be sure to check out some of the following programs this week.
Opus Affair Monthly Cocktail Mixer is always fun and today they will meet after work in Davis Square. On Tuesday join Amplifying Voices: A conversation with leaders of color from 6-8PM the South End, on Wednesday Bi+/Curious Guyz Social Night takes place at Club Cafe on Thursday RuPaul’s Drag Race All Star 3 viewing parties take place at 8PM on at Jacques Cabaret, The Alley Bar and Trophy Room.
Over the weekend be sure to check out Boston’s Gay Men’s Chorus who will perform There’s No Place Like Home: A Wicked Good Cabaret on Friday and Saturday at Club Cafe. On Saturday there are several fun parties including So hot saturdaes: girl groups theme and Don’t Ask Don’t Tell: Star Wars vs. Star Trek. Close out your weekend by heading over to CC for their Sunday Bear Tea Dance.
Pizza & Game Night is every Monday from 5-9PM (check out their ping pong and foosball tables) at Dorchester Brewery in Dorchester
Feminist & Queer Happy Hour is on Monday at A4cade by Area Four in Central Square from 5:30-8:30PM in Cambridge
Opus Affair Monthly Cocktail Mixer takes place after work on Monday from 6-9PM at Saloon on Elm Street in Davis Square in Somerville
Drag Bingo is every Monday starting at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston
Amplifying Voices: A conversation with leaders of color is on Tuesday evening from 6-8PM at the BCA in the South End, Boston
Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester
Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester
Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston
Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston
Bi+/Curious Guyz Social Night is a monthly meet up for bisexual men to meet and socialize on Wednesday from 6-8PM at Club Cafe in Boston
Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston
Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting Thursday from 6-9PM at the Panera Bread at Porter Square in Cambridge
Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston
RuPaul’s Drag Race All Star 3 Multiple viewing parties will take place at 8PM on Thursday at Jacques in Bay Village, The Alley Bar in DTX and Trophy Room in South End
Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston
Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence
#Yaasss Thursdays presents: Sissy That Walk weekly drag competition the last Thursday of each month Showtime: 12:30AM at Club Cafe in Boston
THE WEEKEND
Snowbound Leather Weekend XI kicks off on Friday and runs through the weekend in Provincetown
Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville
There’s No Place Like Home: A Wicked Good Cabaret Boston Gay Men’s Chorus will perform their cabaret show on Friday and Saturday at Club Cafe
Versus: It’s Britney B**** takes place at Thunder Road Music Club & Rock n’ Roll Bistro on Friday starting at 9PM in Somerville
Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX
Latin Friday is upstairs at Machine every Friday starting at 10PM in Boston
FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston
Winter SpeakOUT speaker training session runs all day on Saturday from 8:30AM-6PM at Suffolk University
DotOUT goes bowling on Saturday from 4-7PM at Boston Bowl in Dorchester
Don’t Ask Don’t Tell: Star Wars vs. Star Trek Outfits / costumes welcomed to this fun monthly party at Great Scott in Allston
So hot saturdaes: girl groups theme is at Peggy’s this Saturday starting at 10PM in Dorchester
Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX
18+ 4th Satur-Haze with Laganja from RuPaul’s Drag Race is on Saturday night at Machine in Boston
Sunday Bear Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston
Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston
Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston
Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston
Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.
Snowbound Mates Leather Weekend is Feb 23-25
Get outta the cold & into the heat
Snowbound Mates Leather Weekend XI in Provincetown is next weekend (February 23-25). The annual winter weekend party is produced by Mates Leather Weekend and Full Kit Gear and this year the weekend includes events at The Watership Inn, The Atlantic House, Bayside Betsy’s, The Crown & Anchor and Gifford House Inn.
All the fun starts on Friday, February 23rd with a Beer Blast at the Watership Inn from 6-8 pm followed by the slightly more frisky if not risqué White Out & C*ck Party at Paramount, starting at 9:30. Parties and events run through out the weekend and you can see the full list of activities by visiting the official website, matesleatherweekend.com/snowbound.
Scruffy Sunday
Saturday morning comics

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip and purchase Adam and Andy cartoon collections by visiting their website at adamandandy.com.
Fenway Men’s Event is Saturday, March 10
Saturday, March 10th Fenway Health will celebrate 25 years of The Men’s Event and 1,300 gay and bisexual men, transgender people and our allies will attend this important fundraiser at the Boston Marriott Copley. This year’s Congressman Studds Award Winner is the popular, former Massachusetts Governor, Deval Patrick.
A chilling shift in political currents has taken place in the United States since Patrick was our governor and the LGBTQ community has gone from having a friend in the White House to a President who’s policies and actions specifically target the LGBTQ community. It is important for our community to come together and support each other which is one reason Sergio and I will be attending this year’s program. Tickets remain available for the 2018 Men’s Event on Saturday, March 10. To learn more about the event or to purchase tickets visit, mensevent.org.
Much thanks to UB2 Inc for posting such a lovely video of last year’s celebration. I’ve included their YT clip below for everyone to enjoy.
Furry Friday
This week I’m featuring Chris Mazdzer who set U.S. Olympic history this past Sunday by capturing the Silver Medal in the luge men’s singles competition. I know that he has been a popular person since Cosmo released their video of several handsome male Olympians providing cringe-worthy pick up lines, but if you happened to miss it you can watch it here.
Vintage gay
I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.
Cynical love poem by Dorothy Parker

Photo of George Olesky by Nile Hawver / Nile Scott Shots from SpeakEasy Stage Co. “Shakespeare in Love”
Dorothy Parker’s six-line poem from the 1920s is a cynical assessment of romance. However in the age of Tinder and exchanging dozens of emails or texts before coming together or organically meeting, Ms. Parker’s cynicism seems remarkably current for a poem that is nearly 100 years old.
By the time you swear you’re his,
Shivering, and sighing,
And he vows his passion is
Indefinite, undying –
Lady, make a note of this:
One of you is lying.
– Dorothy Parker, from Unfortunate Coincidence
This week on Instagram: textsfromyourex
I know that Valentine’s Day isn’t necessarily everyone’s favorite holiday for those who may be cursing rather than celebrating the Hallmark holiday, I wanted to share this Instagram account. Feel free to peruse the posts or possibly submit one of your own to add to the collection.
Follow him on Instagram here, instagram.com/textsfromyourex.
Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.
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Boston Gay Men’s Chorus
Founded more than 35 years ago in 1982,The Boston Gay Men’s Chorus (BGMC), is a successful community-based chorus. The 200-member chorus literally uses their voices to celebrate and inspire through their performances which include a wide spectrum of classical and popular music.
Later this month the BGMC will be performing “A Wicked Good Cabaret” at Club Cafe on Friday, February 23 at 8PM; Saturday, February 24 at 5 and 8PM as well as Sunday, February 25 at 3PM. GET YOUR TICKETS HERE!
If you cannot make it to Club Cafe but would like to learn more about the organization and show your support, you can purchase tickets to ENCORE 18, which is BGMC’s annual fundraiser. This year the event will be at the Omni Parker House on Saturday, May 5th. More information is here.
I want to feature the LGBTQ groups and organizations that help people connect and enrich Boston’s gay life. If you’d like to have your club / team featured, please email me at bosguymail@gmail.com or via FB messenger.














