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Seven reasons to move to Mass instead of Canada

Massachusetts legalize MarijuanaDid you hear? Americans crashed Canada’s Immigration, Refugees, and Citizenship website Tuesday night as it became apparent that Donald Trump would become our nation’s next President. In response, The Boston Globe created an entertaining video citing seven reasons you should consider a move to Massachusetts instead.

I’ve done a copy and paste below but you can watch the video here.

1. If Obamacare is repealed, Massachusetts will still have universal health care. It’s been state law since 2006 and is what the Affordable Care Act was modeled on. It’s very popular, and it’s not going anywhere.

2. Ditto for marriage equality. Massachusetts’ highest court legalized same-sex marriage in 2004. So even if a conservative Supreme Court overturned itself on the issue, it would still be legal here.

3. Mass just legalized recreational marijuana on Tuesday.

4. Apparently, Massachusetts and Hawaii are the only states in the country in which every county voted for Hillary Clinton.

5. Aside from Mass. very popular (and moderate) governor, all statewide offices are held by Democrats, who also control both the state House and Senate.

6. If you REALLY need some poutine, Montreal is only a 6-hour drive from Boston.

7. Best of all, there is no convoluted immigration process with high hurdles to clear. Just aim toward New England and stop when every other store is a Dunkin’ Donuts.

Urbanity Dance: Call of Courage

 

urbanity-dance-call-of-courageLater this week Urbanity Dance will present Call of Courage at the Strand Theater in Dorchester. In light of the results of the recent Presidential election this performance could not come at a better time.

Urbanity perfectly mixes tones of humor, raw emotion, and the extraordinary, to develop a complicated image of courage and honor personal truths of growing up in today’s society. Urbanity Dancers play with power structures rooted in social interaction to create an immersive story of empowerment and peer intervention.

To learn more and to get tickets visit, urbanitydance.org/call-of-courage.

Not a single county voted for Trump in Mass.

presidential election resultsSome of you may have seen this graphic making the rounds on Facebook. I don’t know if the assertion is correct, but according to rwbomc on Reddit, Massachusetts was the only state in the U.S. where Trump did not win a single county. With Hillary no longer in the picture, I’m going to hijack Clinton’s hashtag and modify it to #ImWithMass.

Scruffy Sunday

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Time to rise and shine.

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Lions Tail: New craft cocktail restaurant and bar coming to Ink Block

lions-tail-ink-block-south-endEarlier this week the @InkBlockBoston twitter account announced that a “craft cocktail” and high end dining spot called Lions Tail will be opening.  A link for job opportunities as well as the restaurant’s facebook and twitter accounts are on the restaurant’s website, www.lionstailboston.com

No further information has been provided regarding a scheduled opening but check back for more updates and like their Facebook page, here.

Saturday morning coffee

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Source: @MenAndCoffee (Instagram)

If it wasn’t for the coffee, I’d have no identifiable personality whatsover. 
– David Letterman

Saturday morning comic: Adam and Andy

gay comic, gay cartoonClick on the comic strip to enlarge

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.  To see previous Adam and Andy cartoons link here.

Bonus fur

Furry Friday, muscles, hairyEnjoy the weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.

Andy Cohen coming to Boston (tickets now on sale)

andy-cohenThe Harvard Book Store welcomes Emmy Award–winning television executive and Watch What Happens: Live host Andy Cohen—author of Most Talkative: Stories from the Front Lines of Pop Culture and The Andy Cohen Diaries—for a discussion of his latest book, Superficial: More Adventures from the Andy Cohen Diaries.  Andy will be joined in-conversation by WBUR’s Robin Young.

Use the link below to nab a slight discount in ticket prices thanks to those fabulous people over at The Welcoming Committee.

Andy Cohen at Back Bay Events Center – Friday, Nov 18

Tickets went on sale earlier today so don’t delay.

Furry Friday

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BosGuy brain teaser

brain teaser, shirtless manEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain.  If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s riddle:
The more you take, the more you leave behind. What am I?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

Grit and determination: The next four years

Michelle ObamaPrior to Tuesday, November 8th there was a lot of people questioning what Donald Trump and his supporters would do after the election. Strangely, celebrating was never seriously considered and now it is the supporters of Hillary Clinton who are talking about not accepting the results of the election so I want to remind everyone of Michelle Obama’s inspiring quote.

Acknowledging is not Accepting
A lot of very prolific people have shared their thoughts about the election and after reading several articles I’ve come to my own conclusions. First, acknowledging isn’t accepting, but if we want others to respect democracy we have to acknowledge results even when we find them upsetting. One of my biggest issues with many people over the past 8 years was their inability to acknowledge Obama as a legitimate President (I lump Trump in that group).

Love and Hope > Hate and Anger
Another lesson I am reminding myself is that while I am seething with resentment: resentment with roughly half my fellow Americans; resentment with the Electoral System; resentment towards Trump for raising up and empowering hate groups; and… the list goes on and on. I must remember that I do believe in the power of love and hope and it is these emotions I want to have consume and motivate me – not anger and hate. I look to men like the non-violent, civil rights leader, Martin Luther King Jr. for this inspiration.MLK quote hope smaller

I have a voice and I’ll be damned if I’m going keep quiet
While I may feel more marginalized today and wonder what is going to happen next, I tell myself that this election has served as a wake up call. I had hoped that after November 8th I could stop talking about politics. That will not happen now. On the campaign trail Bernie Sanders’ calls for a revolution (a peaceful revolution BTW) resonated. Calls for social justice from the Black Lives Matters movement inspired. And of course the LGBTQ movement and Pride now takes on added significance.  The people who support these movements are still here and they need your help. So while I am troubled by certain groups who feel emboldened by a Trump victory, I am also looking to the Sanders movement, Black Lives Matters, LGBTQ community and others to come together, because to borrow a phrase I really do believe, “Together, we are stronger“.

Trump’s victory has upset me to my core, and for the moment changed how I view my country even calling into question what I think it means to be an American. I will not let that disappointment mutate into hate or despair, and I hope you will not let that happen either.

Some great articles worth reading:
Here’s Why We Grieve
Dear Queer America: Here is what we must do now that Trump will be President
Trump Victory Alarms Gay and Transgender Groups

Toys for Joys registration is open

Toys for Joys, T4J 2016If you previously tried to register for the annual holiday fundraiser / party but were unable, you can go back to their website and register now. Sergio and I were able to successfully register earlier this week.

Registration site for: Toys 4 Joys Gift Gala

Vintage gay

Christopher Isherwood (left) and W. H. Auden (right) photographed by Carl Van Vechten, 6 February 1939

Christopher Isherwood (left) and W. H. Auden (right) photographed by Carl Van Vechten, 6 February 1939

Christopher Isherwood and W.H. Auden were a couple for a few years, shortly after a friend introduced them in 1925. Both were from England but neither remained there, traveling throughout and living in Europe and the United States.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share for a future post? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Four more states vote to legalize marijuana

legalize potWhile the political commentators rehash the election, I have no stomach for it and am sickened by the thought of a Trump presidency so I thought I would point out what an historic night it was at the ballot box for a less obvious reason.

After Tuesday’s results, the number of states that agreed to legalize marijuana for recreational has doubled from four to eight with California, Maine, Massachusetts and Nevada voters approving state ballot initiatives. Only in Arizona where voting remains too close to call appears to have bucked a national trend and said, “No”. For residents of Massachusetts this means that as of December 15th it will be legal to possess small amounts of marijuana and for residents to grow pot in their homes. Retail sales will not begin until Jan. 2018.

Americans living in states where marijuana is / will be legal for recreational use now includes:

Alaska
California
Colorado
Maine
Massachusetts
Nevada
Oregon
Washington
Washington D.C.