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SELECT Oyster Bar opens in Back Bay

Boston seafood restaurant

Photo courtesy of SELECT Oyster Bar

I don’t typically write about restaurants I’ve yet to visit but my interest is definitely piqued with the recent opening of SELECT Oyster Bar in the Back Bay.  I couldn’t be happier to learn that Chef Michael Serpa is using this tiny new space in a Victorian Brownstone on Gloucester Street in the Back Bay to feature local seafood.  This all may sound quite similar to one of Boston’s perennial favorite seafood restaurants located in the North End, Neptune Oyster, but that would make sense since Serpa was previously the Executive Chef at Neptune Oyster.

The new restaurant is open for dinner Monday through Sunday with lunch service starting soon.  If you’ve been to SELECT already do tell by leaving a comment along with some of your first impressions.

For more information visit their website selectoyster.com.

Caption this photo

Caption this PhotoThanks to FB buddy, Dana, who posted this a while back.  The minute I saw it I knew it would make for a great “Caption this photo” post.  Share a witty comment that comes to mind when you see this image.

Religious freedom is code for legalizing discrimination

Religious FreedomMuch thanks to Jordan for sharing.

Broadway comes to Provincetown

Crown and Anchor, Only at the Crown, PtownThe Crown & Anchor is once again playing host to an impressive line up of Broadway stars coming to perform in Provincetown this summer.  While summer may seem months off, tickets to shows are already on sale so snap up the best tickets while they remain.  At this early date you can have everything paid off long before you arrive in Ptown.

Bernadette Peters performs at Town Hall on Saturday July 18 (Bear Week)
Billy Porter performs at Paramount August 16-18th (Carnival Week)
Barbara Cook performs at Paramount June 29-30th
Jennifer Holiday performs at Paramount July 5-7th (Independence Week)
Jeremy Jordan performs at Paramount July 27-28th (Family Week)
Linda Lavin performs at Paramount August 3-4th
Shirley Jones performs at Paramount August 10-11th

Why the “Religious Freedom” discussion is both disingenuous and dangerous

Indiana anti homosexuality billMoral Majority – Family Values – Religious Freedom

What do the above phrases have in common with each other?  They are all catch-phrases employed by Republicans looking to redefine social discourse.  In the 1970s Nixon often referred to the “Moral Majority” to appeal to white, Protestant voters since racially divisive language was no longer acceptable. Two decades later “Family Values” was often cited as a way for Christian Conservatives to deflect criticism for insisting upon the need to legislate their religious beliefs.

Religious FreedomLet’s be clear the reason every conservative is suddenly claiming the Federal Religious Freedom Restoration Act (RFRA) doesn’t go far enough to protect “Religious Freedom” is more of this same bullshit.  Conservatives recognize that just as using racially charged language is no longer acceptable it is no longer acceptable to use homophobic slurs so they’ve modified their language to drum up outrage and portray themselves as victims.

When you hear someone talking about “religious freedom” stop and engage them immediately.  Don’t wave it off or ignore this language, because it is code for discrimination but presented in more palatable messaging. American’s believe in religious freedom just as much as individual liberties and the LGBT community must push back and ask what exactly about serving our community infringes upon their religious freedom?

Religious freedomWe know that silence creates a vacuum and in that vacuum this conservative messaging will thrive. Ask intelligent questions and start a dialog with anyone you hear talking about how their religious freedoms are being infringed. There is a similar parallel to the lack of substance behind the anti-marriage equality argument – but absent your dialog – Americans will come to accept and believe religious rights are being compromised and need to be protected; at the expense of your rights.

Temptation Tuesday

handsome, hunk, shirtless, abs, gay, bathing suitHe’s so rock solid, I could wash my laundry on his abs.  Come to think of it, that might be the only way I’d enjoy doing my laundry.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Sign language

Give a man a gunSource: jefferly.com

FUZZ this Friday at Pi Alley

muscle bearThis Friday get all sweaty dancing to all the great music played by DJ Brent Covington and DJ Taffy at the Alley Bar in Downtown Crossing (just blocks from the Park, DTX and State Street T stations).

FUZZ
Friday, April 10th
10 PM – 2 AM

For more information and to stay up to date with FUZZ, check out their Facebook page, here.

Red Sox season starts today

baseball, jock, hunkThe Boston Red Sox play their first game of the 2015 MLB season later today at 3:05 pm  in Philadelphia. Fenway Park’s home opener won’t be until the following Monday when they host Washington, D.C.’s Nationals.

Hopefully the weather will warm up in a hurry so it will be more enjoyable to visit Fenway Park, and here is to hoping that this season proves to be less frustrating than 2014 for Red Sox Nation.

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Blue eyed Daddy

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Dinnerfest 2015 is April 26th

victory programs, blc, boston living centerLast month I wrote that the Victory Programs will hold their annual Dinnerfest fundraiser two weeks from today on Sunday, April 26th from 3-6PM at The Red Lantern Restaurant in Boston in the South End.

This fundraiser has been going on in Boston for years and helps this organization provide critical services to our community.   With more than 100 packages from Boston’s best restaurants it also provides you with an opportunity to feel good about donating to a worthy charity and getting a chance to bid on dining packages from some of the best restaurants in Boston.

Mark the date in your calendar, and buy your tickets to the event here.

Happy Easter

Easter BunnyEaster is one of those holidays that has little meaning anymore.  I consider myself a “cultural Catholic”, meaning while religion has no place in my life now it did at one point and the memories from that time still influence who I am today.

When I was younger the holiday took on significant meaning, but now I think of it as the start of spring and an opportunity to spend time with family.

Regardless of what Easter means to you.  I hope you have a nice Sunday.

Scruffy Sunday

Handsome couple, sexy guys, men in bed, cuddling, underwearHave a good morning and enjoy the day.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Kevin Boggs Born This Way Pride show at DC’s Speakeasy

Last month I included what I can only describe as a funny & touching video of Kevin Boggs who explains how he first met U2 frontman, Bono, in my post, Better Said Than Done by Storyteller John Kevin Boggs

Below I’ve included another video of Kevin Boggs from last year’s Born This Way Pride Show at Washington D.C.’s Speakeasy.  Kevin Boggs recently passed away and although we never met his stories continue to inspire and entertain me. I hope you enjoy this video from Kevin Boggs.

I’m playing SuperBetter

SuperBetter, BosGuyOn a recent TED Radio Hour podcast I was listening to the importance of “play”. In particular I was taken by Jane McGonigal’s portion of the podcast where she explained how she invented a game that she renamed later to “SuperBetter” to help her through a particularly difficult time in her life. SuperBetterDesigned and backed by science, SuperBetter helps individuals build personal resilience: the ability to stay strong, motivated and optimistic even in the face of difficult challenges.  You can learn more about SuperBetter here. While many have used this game to help them have a more positive outlook on life, deal with stress, lose weight, etc… I opted to try this for a 10-week period just for the sake of playing a game that is intended to help us be better.  I’ve added weekly tasks like making sure I get up and spend at least 10 minutes outside or otherwise active and making time to reach out to friends I’ve not talked to recently.

Who knows where this will take me but I love the idea of turning goals into games and intentionally injecting humor and fun in my routine.  I’m a pretty happy guy to begin with but with scientific evidence showing that playing SuperBetter will naturally increase my dopamine levels makes me more than just curious.

SuperBetter