Category Archives: Halloween

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Leave your answer in the comment section. I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s brain teaser:  

There’s a woman in a boat on a lake wearing a coat.
If you want to know her name, it’s in the riddle I just wrote.
What is the woman’s name?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of LGBTQ+ events and parties happening this weekend. Scroll to the bottom of this post to see a listing of drag brunches. Have an event you want included? Email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ Daddy Dave @8PM
FRIDAY: Casual Friday w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Monthly Underbear Party w/ DJ Taffy @9PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

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THURSDAY: UK RPDR w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM & Music by Harlow Havoc @10PM
FRIDAY: Friday Fears w/ music by Twisted Gleam @10PM
SATURDAY: Come out and dance to the music of DJ Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Beyonce Brunch w/ Harlow Havoc & Kori King (reservations on Open Table) @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Bruins plays Rangers @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Celtics play Bulls @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Maple Leafs @7PM & Celtics play Knicks @7:30PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @11AM & Patriots play Colts @1PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca Musica w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday brunch @11AM & Tea at CC @6PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Karaoke w/ DJ Ryan Grow @10PM
SATURDAY: Where The Wild Things Are / DJ Rubi @10PM
SUNDAY: Brunch (reservations on Open Table) @11AM | Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret – Call 617-426-8902 to reserve seats to shows
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! hosted by Amanda Playwith & Crystal Crawford @8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage Hosted by DeeDee de Ray
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ host Violencia & DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Edition w/ DJ Hector Fonseca @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays Halloween Edition at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Bruins plays Rangers @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Celtics play Bulls @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Maple Leafs @7PM & Celtics play Knicks @7:30PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @12PM & Patriots play Colts @1PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: Queeraoke is at Midway Cafe @10PM

SATURDAY: Tea Dance (dog friendly) w/ Provincetown Brewery and DJ Brian Hallligan at The Seaport @1PM

SATURDAY: Strictly Reggae hosted by Boston Urban Pride in Allston @3PM

SATURDAY: Emilio Rojas: Border Pedagogies, Queer Kinships, and Archival Resonances at Emerson Theater @7PM

SATURDAY: LGBTQ NightLife presents Sapphic Nights at Vera’s (Somerville) @10PM

SUNDAY: Yoga with Chuck: Day Retreat for Men-Movement, Meditation & Mindfullness

SUNDAY: Men of Melanin Magic host: Epic R&B Party w/ DJ Whysham at Icon at 7PM

SUNDAY: Bearaoke is at The Alley @8PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Biscuits & Belles
Saturday @11AM
Loretta’s Last Call

Drag Brunch w/ music by Begbick
Saturday 12PM
Bootleg Special

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s (Downtown)

Drag Hoedown Brunch w/ music by Begbick
Sunday @11AM
Nash Bar (Theater District)

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club (Beacon Hill)

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Monday morning mancandy

Halloween, Boston, Provincetown, Providence, Ogunquit

Happy Halloween. Here is some calorie free candy for you to enjoy this morning.

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Leave your answer in the comment section. I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s brain teaser: 

With pointed fangs I sit and wait
With piercing force I dole out fate
Over bloodless victims I proclaim my might
I can eternally join with a single bite.
What am I?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Below is a list of LGBTQ+ events and parties happening this weekend. Scroll to the bottom of this post to see a listing of drag brunches. Have an event you want included? Email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ Daddy Dave @8PM
FRIDAY: Casual Friday @10PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Dance Party @10PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke Night @8PM

blend
THURSDAY: UK RPDR w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM & Music by Harlow Havoc @10PM
FRIDAY: Friday Fears w/ music by Twisted Gleam @10PM
SATURDAE: So Hot Saturdaes w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SUNDAY: Spooky Brunch w/ DJ Begbick (reservations on Open Table) @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Bruins plays Rangers @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Celtics play Bulls @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Maple Leafs @7PM & Celtics play Knicks @7:30PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @11AM & Patriots play Jets @1PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca Musica w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Sunday brunch @11AM & Trick or Tea w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone @6PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Scream Queens DJ Ryan Grow @10PM
SATURDAY: Nightmare on Dot Ave w/ DJ Brian Halligan @10:30PM
SUNDAY: Brunch (reservations on Open Table) @11AM | Haunted Hoedown Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret – Call 617-426-8902 to reserve seats to shows
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! hosted by Amanda Playwith & Crystal Crawford @8PM
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage Hosted by DeeDee de Ray
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ host Violencia & DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Edition w/ DJ Danny Verde at Legacy @10PM
SUNDAY: Hot Mess Sundays Halloween Edition at Candibar @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: Bruins plays Rangers @7:30PM
FRIDAY: Celtics play Bulls @7:30PM
SATURDAY: Bruins play Maple Leafs @7PM & Celtics play Knicks @7:30PM
SUNDAY: Brunch starts @12PM & Patriots play Jets @1PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: Miss Lamplighter’s Hallow-Queen Drag Race Special at Lamplighter Brewing Co. @8PM

THURSDAY: Thirsty Thursgay Dragshow is at Game On! @10PM

THURSDAY: Queeraoke is at Midway Cafe @10PM

FRIDAY: Heroes (18+) IRL w/ DJ Chris Ewen is at Sonia @10PM

SATURDAY: HalloQueer Gaymer Costume Party is at The Alley @6PM

SATURDAY: Calling All Soles: BAGS Sock Drive followed by So Hot Saturdaes at blend @9PM

SATURDAY: Halloween Costume & Dance Party w/ DJ Junior at Volcano Room @10PM

SATURDAY: Gay Bash’d Annual Halloween Party w/ Lil Mariko at The Sinclair @10PM

SUNDAY: Bearaoke is at The Alley @8PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Halloween Drag Lunch
Saturday @12PM
NightShift Brewing

Hallo-Queen Brunch
Saturday @1PM
High Street Place Food Hall

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s (Downtown)

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club (Beacon Hill)

Drag Tease: Spooky Queen Brunch
Sunday @3PM
Lansdowne Street

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Halloween Ball & Drag Scaretacular at Royale

Gay Mafia Boston hosts Boston’s largest party on Halloween night with their all ages DRAGATHON Halloween Ball and Drag show at Royale Boston. Hosted by the Boulet Brothers, come and dance to the beats of DJ TRIXIE MATTEL. Also joining the party will be performances by:

🎃 VIOLET CHACHKI
🎃 GOTTMIK
🎃 LAGANJA ESTRANJA
🎃 PANGINA HEALS
🎃 VIOLENCIA!
🎃 SEVERITY STONE
🎃 KENDRA ONIXXX
🎃 KOCO CAINE
🎃 EVAH DESTRUCTION
🎃 ABHORA
🎃 STATIC
🎃 ANDREW BARRET COX
🎃 AVA GLASSCOTT

For more information and to purchase tickets visit TicketWeb.

Spooky Bear 2022

Provincetown’s annual Halloween celebration, Spooky Bear, will take place next weekend. This year more than a dozen events and parties are scheduled in Provincetown Thursday through Sunday. Below are a partial list of official parties and events as well as a link for more information about where you can get lodging, more parties and other official Spooky Bear events.

Spooky Bear 2022

Jinx Monsoon
Town Hall @6:30PM & 8:30PM

Spooky Bear Underwear Party
Red Room at Velvet @10PM

Costume Contest & Ball: Grimm’s Beary Tales
Crown & Anchor @9PM

Is this your first time coming to Provincetown for Spooky Bear or has it been a few years and have some questions? Feel free to reach out to me at bosguymail@gmail.com and I’ll do my best to steer you in the right direction.

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Leave your answer in the comment section. I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s brain teaser:  What is a ghost’s favorite dessert?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Leave your answer in the comment section. I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s brain teaser:  What room will you never find in a ghost’s house?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

It’s Halloween season: Haunted Houses and what’s happening in Salem, MA

Halloween

Tis the season to scare the crap out of oneself. While I’m no expert on this sort of thing and don’t go to any of these haunted houses, each year I pull together information about haunted houses in the area.

Below you’ll find information and links to several haunted houses in Greater Boston as well as a number of activities for anyone contemplating a visit to Salem, MA this month.

BARRETT’S HAUNTED MANSION: Sunday thru Thursday Barrett’s Haunted Mansion offers FREE Admission to active duty military ID. There is also a $5 off coupon on their tickets page of their website (scrolll to the bottom of the page), bhmansion.com. Follow them on social media on IG: @bhmansion & FB: Barrett’s Haunted Mansion.

FACTORY OF TERROR is located in Fall River (the Worcester location will return next October). More details about tickets and hours can be found on their website, factoryofterror.com. Follow them on social media on IG: @factory_of_terror & FB: Factory of Terror.

HYSTERIA HAUNTED FARM & FLASHLIGHT MAZE is in Danvers, MA at Connor’s Farm. They are open Friday – Sunday through the month of October. For more information and tickets visit their website, hysteriadanvers.com. Follow them on social media on FB: Hysteria Danvers.

SPOOKY WORLD is located in Southern NH and may be the largest haunted house in New England. Based on feedback I read online, you may want to consider purchasing their VIP tickets. For more information about special events and ticket prices visit their website,  Nightmarenewengland.com. Follow them on social media on IG: @SpookyWorld & FB: Spooky World.

WITCH MANSION & HAUNTED HOUSE is appropriately named since it is located in Salem, MA. The mansion opens for select days starting in May but is open 7-days a week in the month of October. For more information about events and tickets, visit their website, Witchmansion.com. Follow themon social media on IG: @WitchMansionSalem & FB: WitchMansion.

For a more complete listing of haunted houses in the area visit here.

Halloween

HALLOWEEN IN SALEM, MA

Few places embrace Halloween like Salem, MA. For those who have never visited Salem in October, I recommend it, but warn you to expect massive crowds. When I was in my 20s a friend had an apartment overlooking the Salem Common, and I’d go to his annual Halloween party. They remain some of my favorite memories from my late 20s.

Are you planning a visit to Salem? Consider taking the MBTA commuter rail to avoid traffic and dealing with parking. You’ll want to take the Newburyport / Rockport Line. The line’s schedule is here.

Voodoo and Vampires & Ghosts Walking Tour
Count Orlok’s Nightmare Gallery: A horror museum
Chambers of Terror
HYSTERIA: Haunts & Horrors
“Festival of the Dead” Psychic Fair and Witches Market
Salem Witch Trial Museum
Salem Ghost Tour

Note that the annual Haunted Happenings Grand Parade will be Thursday, October 6th.

What to do this weekend

Chelsea, gay bars NYC

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event that you would like to see included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: UK Drag Race viewing party followed by Trivia all the fun starts @7PM
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ DJ BEGBICK @10PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Dance Party DJ Brian Halligan @9PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke @8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR UK w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ music by Twisted Gleam and hosts Penny Tentiary & Coco Iman @10PM
SATURDAE: So Hot Saturdaes Halloween Edition w/ DJ Stevie Pysclone @10PM
SUNDAY: Spooky brunch w/ music by Twisted Gleam and host Lady German @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Hurricanes @7PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Celtics play the Wizards @5PM & Bruins play the Panthers @7PM
SUNDAY: Watch the Chargers host the Patriots @4PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ DJ BEGBICK & host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Mizery @10PM
SATURDAY: Wigged Halloween Cabaret @7:30PM & Halloween Costumer Party w/ DJ Brian Derrick & host Mizery @10PM
SUNDAY: Halloween Tea Dance w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Miss Kris @5PM

dbar
FRIDAY: “Scream Queens” Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @8PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ DJ Jay Ine @10PM
SUNDAY: Spook’d Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Another Evening with Patty Bourrée Cabaret downstairs @8PM & Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! @8PM
FRIDAY: Serve-Vivor @7:30PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SUNDAY: Comedy Open Mic Night @7PM and Sultry Sunday Halloween Edition w/ Amanda Playwith & Teashaboo @9:30PM

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Royale (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ Landon Cider & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY @10PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ music by Ranny @10PM
SUNDAY: Dragathon w/ Trixie & Katya and Hot Mess Sundays w/ DJ Richie LaDue at Royale @10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

Featured LGBTQ+ Nights & Events This Weekend

THURSDAY: HRC in ACTION (virtual event) 7PM online reception || 8PM Livestream

THURSDAY: Skip the Small Talk – Speed Friending 7-9PM at Trident Cafe & Booksellers

THURSDAY: Halloween Dinner & Drag Show hosted by Kalysta Kaykes, featuring Zayn X and Raya Sunshine is at World of Beer in East Cambridge starting at 7PM

FRIDAY: Gay Bash’d (18+) with music by Ickarus is at The Sinclair starting at 9:30PM

FRIDAY: Beach Ball Friday w/ DJ Michael Giller at La Makina on Revere Beach

SATURDAY: Wigged starring Cacophony Daniels & Sutton Lee Seymour comes to Club Cafe Saturday night

SATURDAY: Latin Night Halloween Party at La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach at 9PM

SUNDAY: The Road of Rainbows starts at 3PM on the Common (must register first!)

SUNDAY: Lesbian Night Life Halloween Costume Party Tea Dance starts at 4PM at 152 Hampden Street in Nubian Square

SUNDAY: Heroes Halloween Party (18+) w/ DJ Chris Ewen at Sonia – doors open at 8PM

SUNDAY: Dragathon Starring Trixie & Katya comes to Royale for a spooktacular show starting @8PM

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Halloween Party Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing at 9PM

Drag Brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Hallowqueen “Bewitched” Drag Brunch
Saturday 9:00AM – 11:30AM
House of Blues

Spooky Boots Drag Brunch
Saturday, 12:00PM
Bootleg Special

Lulu’s Drag Brunch
Sunday, seatings @11:00AM & 1:00PM
Lulu’s in Allston

Halloween Drag Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM
Tiger Mama in Fenway

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM – 4:00PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

This Weekend in Provincetown

October 28th – 31st is Spooky Bear

Spooky Bear Weekend in Provincetown Oct. 28-31

Provincetown’s annual Spooky Bear Weekend is a fun way to celebrate the Halloween holiday. This year the annual party will take place from Thursday, October 28 – Sunday, October 31. More information about Spooky Bear Weekend 2021 is available on the Northeast Ursamen website.

The weekend will draw thousands and is one of the last busy weekends of the year and can be a lot of fun. Sergio and I have gone to celebrate this holiday many times over the past few years and we never fail to have a lot of fun. This year there are many parties, drag and cabaret shows and tea dances to enjoy. Below are a few of the published parties and venues that will be welcoming you this Halloween. Please keep in mind that proof of vaccination is required before being allowed entry to many of these establishments.

Places to go Spooky Bear Weekend 2021

Below are a few bars that will be open and celebrating Spooky Bear Weekend. Feel free to include any others that I’ve left off in the comments section of this post.

A-House

Boatslip

Harbor Lounge

Macho Bar

Paramount at The Crown

Red Room at The Velvet Lounge

Shipwreck Lounge

The Vault at The Crown

The Wave Bar at The Crown

Other activities you may want to check out while visiting include:

Provincetown Ghost Tours

Sunset Dune Tours

Happy Halloween: Haunted Houses & more

Boston area haunted houses, haunted houses New England

Tis the season to scare the crap out of oneself. While I’m no expert on this sort of thing, each year I pull together a post that shares information about haunted houses in the area. Full disclaimer – I’ve not attended these locations so share your comments on the best haunted houses in the area.

Below is a the listing of haunted houses as well as a number of ‘activities’ for visiting Salem, MA this month.

BARRETT’S HAUNTED MANSION

Sunday thru Thursday Barrett’s Haunted Mansion offers FREE Admission to active duty military ID. There is also a $5 off coupon on their tickets page of their website (scrolll to the bottom of the page), bhmansion.com. Follow them on social media on IG: @bhmansion & FB: Barrett’s Haunted Mansion.

FACTORY OR TERROR

Factory of Terror has two locations in Worcester and Fall River. More details about individual locations, tickets and hours can be found on their website, factoryofterror.com. Follow them on social media on IG:
@factory_of_terror & FB: Factory of Terror.

HYSTERIA HAUNTED FARM & FLASHLIGHT MAZE

Hysteria’s haunted farm and flashlight maze at Connor’s Farm in Danvers, MA is open Friday – Sunday through the month of October. For more information about the haunted farm, flashlight maze and tickets visit their website, hysteriadanvers.com. Follow them on social media on FB: Hysteria Danvers.

SPOOKY WORLD

Spooky World is located in Southern NH and may be the largest haunted house in New England. Based on feedback I read online, you may want to consider purchasing their VIP tickets. For more information about special events and ticket prices visit their website,  Nightmarenewengland.com. Follow them on social media on IG: @SpookyWorld & FB: Spooky World.

For an even more complete listing of haunted houses in Massachusetts visit here.

Halloween in Salem, MA

Halloween

Few cities or towns in the world embrace the Halloween holiday like Salem, MA. For those who have never visited this town in October, I would highly recommend it. When I was in my 20s a friend of mine had an apartment overlooking the Salem Common and I’d go to his annual Halloween party. They remain some of my favorite memories.Visiting Salem? Check out the following:

Voodoo and Vampires & Ghosts Walking Tour
Count Orlok’s Nightmare Gallery: A horror museum
Chambers of Terror
HYSTERIA: Haunts & Horrors
“Festival of the Dead” Psychic Fair and Witches Market
Salem Witch Trial Museum
Salem Ghost Tour

Halloween humor

Maybe this will only make sense to my Italian-American friends.

Halloween in Boston’s South End

Halloween decorations in Boston's South End
Could this be Riff Raff from the Rocky Horror Picture Show?

Despite the ongoing pandemic, economic downturn, and social unrest, many of my neighbors in the South End are spreading holiday cheer with their creative fall and Halloween decorations.

The fall is always a beautiful time to be in Boston and this year’s efforts by my neighbors to embrace the season is appreciated by me and I’m sure many others. Below are some more photos of the creative expressions shared by neighbors embracing the fall and Halloween season. Take time to walk around the neighborhood and check out their creative decorations.

Happy Halloween