Saturday morning coffee

Enjoy your morning cup of joe..

Furry Friday

Thank Gawd It’s Furry Friday (TGIFF).

Past Furry Friday

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together. Leave your answer in the comment section.

I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s brain teaser:  A crime has been committed and the only clue the police have is the person who committed the crime is named John Smith. When the police arrive where he’s rumored to be hiding they find a dentist, a firefighter, a mechanic, and a chemist. Without asking any questions, the police arrest the mechanic. Why?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: Trivia Night w/ Daddy Dave @8PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party 8PM & Casual Friday w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SATURDAY: Wicked Pah & BLUF Social @6PM || Dance Party w/ DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SUNDAY: Bear Karaoke Night @6PM

blend
THURSDAY: Taco Thursday w/ Pride Sports (come and get’em) 5PM-10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party w/ Harlow Havoc @8PM & Friday Supernature w/ DJ Brian Derrick @10PM
SATURDAY: Mayhem Saturdays w/ DJ Aga @10PM
SUNDAY: Mizery Loves Company Drag Brunch (reservations req’d, here)

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: No programming – Kitchen & Bar open
FRIDAY: Bruins vs. Islanders @5PM
SATURDAY: No programming – Kitchen & Bar open
SUNDAY: NBA All-Stars Game 8PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Discoteca Musica w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
FRIDAY: RPDR viewing party @8PM & DJ Stevie Psyclone @10PM
SATURDAY: Dance your ass off w/ DJ Begbick @10PM
SUNDAY FUNDAY: Brunch (make reservation here) @11AM | Bear TEA party w/ DJ Aga @4PM

dbar
FRIDAY: Pop Rocks Karaoke w/ VJ Ryan Grow @10PM
SATURDAY: Slay Saturdays w/ DJ Harlow Havoc @10PM
SUNDAY: Rihanna’s Birthday Tea Dance w/ DJ Begbick @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show hosted by Crystal Crawford
FRIDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Dee De Ray
SATURDAY: Taylor Swift VDay Drag Show & Drag Me To The Main Stage hosted by Destiny
SUNDAY: Sunday Fun Day – Open Mic night w/ Mitzzy @7PM

Legacy & Candibar (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve! Thursday w/ DJ Coleslaw @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Friday w/ DJ Frenchy @10PM
SATURDAY: Furball Glow Underwear party at Legacy w/ music by Shane Marcus @10PM
SUNDAY: Holiday Sunday at Royale w/ music by Cindel @10PM

ManRay / Campus
THURSDAY: Campus (19+) w/ DJ Aga @10PM
FRIDAY: CHROME w/ DJ Chris Ewen @10PM
SATURDAY: Heroes (New Wave & Post Punk) w/ DJ Chris Ewen @10PM

Trophy Room
THURSDAY: No programming – Kitchen & Bar open
FRIDAY: Bruins vs. Islanders @5PM
SATURDAY: No programming – Kitchen & Bar open
SUNDAY: NBA All-Stars Game 8PM

LGBTQ+ Programming / Events

THURSDAY: OUT in Tech hosts Queer Women of Color: Paths to Power Virtual / Online @3PM

THURSDAY: Homo Erratic: Standup Comedy Showcase at Club Cafe @7PM

THURSDAY: Queeraoke: Drink. Sing. Dance. Repeat at Midway Cafe @8:30PM

THURSDAY: Boston Pride Hockey Thursday Night Pick-Up Skate in Cambridge @9PM

FRIDAY: RuPaul Drag Race Viewing Parties various locations @8PM

SATURDAY: Taylor Swift Valentine’s Day Drag Show at Jacques Cabaret @7PM

SUNDAY: Fascination Gear Beer Bust at Dorchester Brewing Co. @4PM

SUNDAY: Bearaoke is at The Alley @8PM

SUNDAY: Gay Mafia presents DJ Cindel at Royale @10PM

DRAG BRUNCHES IN BOSTON

Brunch

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Rihanna Drag Brunch
Saturday @11AM
Summer Shack Boston

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s (Downtown)

Britney & Christina Drag Brunch
Sunday @11AM
Summer Shack Cambridge

Loves a Drag Brunch
Sunday @12PM
Trophy Room

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday @2PM
Carrie Nation Cocktail Club (Beacon Hill)

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

Vintage gay

Much thanks to longtime reader and avid commenter, Angel, from Spain for sharing this fantastic photo.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Caption this photo

Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up one or two of your own. Leave a funny caption in the comment section, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

Make A Wish

Queer Love: Affection and Romance in Contemporary Art

Will you be traveling to New York City in the coming weeks? An exicting new exhibition entitled, Queer Love: Affection and Romance in Contemporary Art, opens in New York City in two locations. The works from “Queer Love” explore the power and significance of intimate queer familial, romantic, and sexual relationships.

The Lehman College Art Gallery in the Bronx and La MaMa Galleria in the Bowery will both host Queer Love: Affection and Romance in Contemporary Art.

The combined exhibition will bring together work from nearly 50 artists, and run from February 14 – April 23 at Lehman College Gallery and February 18 – April 6 at La MaMa Galleria.

The exhibition is free and open to the public at both galleries.

Temptation Tuesday

Patrick Lentz Photography, hairy, handsome, hunk

Since it is Valentine’s Day, I am reposting Patrick Lentz’s 2016 photograph of Nick from Gloucester, MA. Hopefully Nick’s flirtatious photo will be a suitable temptation and distraction to help you start your morning with a smile.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Men in kilts

Finlay Wilson and Alan Lambie share a smooch in matching kilts.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

The weekend is over, and it’s time to go to work.

Whatcha reading?

I spend a lot of time during the winter months reading books. While I read many different genres, I tend to return to gay literature, mystery and suspense, and science fiction and fantasy most frequently. Below are a few recommendations of books I’ve recently read and enjoyed.

If you’ve enjoyed a book recently, leave it as a suggestion in the comments section. I am always looking for suggestions.

Less Is Lost by Andrew Sean Greer was published in 2022 and is a sequel to the much lauded 2017 novel, Less. I know that not everyone enjoyed the first novel, but I loved the story about the bumbling gay author of dubious fame, who brings us along on his wildly spectacular and comical midlife crisis. This book is a sequel and picks up several years later. Less is still living in his former lover’s San Francisco shack, but he is now with his new lover, Freddy Pelu. Freddy narrates Less’ latest attempt to escape dealing with his feelings after his former lover passes and he finds out that he could lose his home and maybe Freddy too.

I enjoyed this sequel but didn’t find it as laugh-out-loud funny as the first novel. Certainly, Greer has the ability to imagine the absurd and our protagonist lurches from one absurdity to another. One of my favorite moments was when Less finds himself naked in a New Mexico hot spring trying to talk to German tourists and eating what he thought were chocolate covered blueberries but turn out to be some sort of hallucinogens.

While the sequel wasn’t as good as the original, I still thought it worth the read and for anyone who enjoys Greer’s sense of humor, this is going to be a fun book to bring with you on a trip or to keep by your bedside to read at night.

The Magician by Colm Tóibín was published in 2021 and the paperback editions (which I read) was published in 2022. The historical fiction novel of Thomas Mann, one of Germany’s most celebrated authors and intellecutals of the 20th century was a really fascinating and easy read. Born into a privileged family in a sleepy German town in the late 1800s, the book introduces us to his exotic mother from Brazil, his distant father, and his uptight, extended family.

Not being familiar with any of Mann’s work didn’t make reading this book any less enjoyable. I liked the first person narrative that Tóibín used to great effect to paint a picture of what it was like growing up in Germany and describing the naivete many Germans (Mann included) had when the Nazis first emerged after “The Great War.” Mann’s fame and influence made him a target of the Nazis and his decision to leave Germany and eventually speak out against Facism put his family and friends at great risk. The novel does a great job of capturing his inner struggle of what to do and the turbulent dynamics / relationships that existed in the Mann Family, which included his wife, six children, in-laws and siblings.

I didn’t expect to read about Mann’s repressed sexuality and profound inner conflict grappling with his attraction to men but was really drawn into this ongoing storyline. Apparently, only after Mann’s diaries were shared in the 1990s (some fifty years after his death) did the world come to know about his struggles with his homosexuality or bisexuality.While the topic of the book may seem quite heavy (and there are some deep themes for sure), the book was a pleasure to read, and I enjoyed it immensely. It is making me contemplate reading Mann’s novel Death in Venice, which was inspired in part by his fantasies about a Polish teenager who the Mann Family met on a vacation. I can’t help but wonder if this might be a gay version of Nabakov’s novel, Lolita?

Swimming in the Dark is the debut novel by Tomasz Jedrowski and was first published in 2020. This is a love story that takes place in early 1980s in Poland when failed economic policies had crippled the country and many were becoming disillusioned with the promises of Communism.

Jedrowski opens the novel with Ludwick suffering a panick attack in his apartment in New York City. He quickly then begins to reminisce about the life he left behind and thinks about his first best friend and crush, Beniek, who he met when he was quite young in grade schoool. The book then fast forwards and picks up after he has completed his final university exam in 1980 and must attend a mandatory “work education camp” for several weeks in the spring. It is here that he meets the object of his affection, Janusz. Their interactions are initially stilted before blossoming into a summer romance. The secretive nature of their sexual awakening and feelings for each other is vaguely reminiscent of Elio and Oliver from Call Me By Your Name, except the backdrop in Communist Poland is far more threatening and frightening.

The two contine to see each other in secret after they return from their summer camping trip and appear as “good friends” to all who know them. The nature of their relationship must remain a secret because homosexuality is considered a crime and career limiting for Janusz who is keen on leveraging his Communist Party connections to get ahead. Ultimately, it is their opposing political views that forces the hand of Ludwik to end the relationship, although ironically it is a high ranking Communist Party member who will also save him by getting him a visa to leave Poland. The heartache both feel as this relationship first fractures and then breaks is beautifully written, and I found it difficult to put this book down. For those who grew up in the 1980s this may have added appeal but I think anyone who enjoys a good (albeit) doomed love story will like this novel.

books, summer reading

If you’re interested in purchasing any of these books and open to supporting local bookstores, try one of the links I’ve shared. Alternatively, you can check your local library for copies of these books by visiting bpl.org.

Brookline Booksmith in Coolidge Corner
Harvard Bookstore in Harvard Square
Porter Square Bookstore in Porter Square
Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe in Back Bay

Scruffy Sunday

It’s time to get up guys.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Dixie Longate comes to Boston April 21

Tickets for the Dixie Longate Tupperware Party are now on sale for her show at The Colonial Theater in Boston on Friday, April 21st. For those who have not heard of or seen Dixie before, trust me when I tell you she is hilarious and you’ll love her show.

Click here to purchase tickets and for more information

ABOUT DIXIE LONGATE Dixie is the fast-talking, gum chewing, ginger-haired Alabama gal who is bringing your grandma’s Tupperware party into the 21st century. Filled with outrageously funny stories, heartfelt accounts, audience participation and a little bit of empowerment and homespun wisdom, Dixie’s Tupperware Party leaves your heart a little bigger and your food a little fresher.

Saturday morning coffee

Enjoy your morning cup of joe.

Furry Friday

Thank Gawd It’s Furry Friday (TGIFF).

Past Furry Friday