Have you lost that Christmas spirit

GrinchI’ve read several blog posts from guys saying they just aren’t feeling the holiday spirit this year. I get that life isn’t comprised of sugar plum dreams and some years we just don’t feel it.  However, this makes me feel badly because the season will be over in just a few weeks.

Since we cannot rewind the clock and get back this time, I’d encourage you to make the most of the season by focusing on the things you are most grateful for and those you love most. I can’t help but think that if we focused more on these things then the pressures associated with the holiday and the annoyances forced upon us by retailers might just fade away.

Because I really do want to wish you a happy and safe holiday season.

Temptation Tuesday

Santa Speedo RunLast week I published my annual Santa Speedo Run video and I’m not sure why it didn’t occur to me to have a similar themed Temptation Tuesday, but with my decision to post Christmas-themed guy-candy photos each day this week, I’ve rectified the oversight.  This is a photo of a handsome participant from the 2010 run captured by Edge Boston.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Tweet of the day: NRA liked 1.7 million times

NRAOne day before the Sandy Hook elementary school shooting the NRA tweeted that their facebook page had reached 1.7 million “likes”.  To anyone living in the United States, this would not be a surprise.  My personal views of outlawing all semi-automatic and automatic weapons,  restricting the production of ammunition and insisting upon oversight and regulations that are as strict as other industrialized nations makes me seem like a left-wing freak by comparison to my fellow Americans.

Nearly 30,000 Americans are killed by guns each year

Last week when I Tweeted about the tragedy and wrote a post about the shooting many were quick to point out that if someone wants to commit these crimes gun control would not prevent them.  However, I can’t think of a more naive defense.  Of course I don’t presume that if we had strict gun control laws we would never have shootings, but there is big difference between “never” and a significant drop in deaths caused by guns.  Don’t believe me; look at other democratic, industrialized nations.

The US accounts for 87% of all children killed by guns and 80% of all people killed by guns in the 23 wealthiest nations

Gun control works and it would work here too.  If we didn’t believe armament restrictions and regulation was effective, we wouldn’t make it illegal to  sell grenades, grenade launchers and bazookas. Its not that far of a stretch in the aftermath of this tragedy to imagine how many more might have been killed if these items were not banned so if it makes sense to restrict these armaments where is the defense for allowing Americans to legally purchase semi-automatic and automatic guns and ammunition with less paperwork than renting a car?

The murder rate in the U.S. is almost 20 times higher than the next 22 richest and most populous nations combined

Maybe if we had gun control the tragedy in Sandy Hook would have still happened, but at least as a nation we could say that we’re working to try to prevent it rather than shrugging our shoulders and shaking our heads at the senseless nature of it all.Gun ControlI recognize that there is a lot of discussion about if the shooter from this tragedy was mentally ill (and my guess is he must have been). While there is much work to be done to help those suffering from mental illness I see these as two separate issues.  Without easy access to guns who could say what might have been or if this tragedy would’ve been avoided. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that so many Americans naively assume gun control won’t work; all the data on this suggests otherwise.  I find it sickening that a nation with such incredible vision could be so blind on this topic.

Huffington Post questions Manhunt Billboards

ManHunt AdvertisingLast week Huffington Post asked readers to vote if new ManHunt billboards in Times Square are offensive in their post, Manhunt Ad Appears in New York’s Time Square.

What is the basis of the question?  There are never questions about saucy billboards featuring bone-thin supermodels flaunting bare skin nor does there seem to be any aversion to violent movies being plastered through out Times Square.

While one too many Walt Disney musicals might be playing on Broadway in my opinion, last time I checked this was New York City not Orlando.  People need to grow up and recognize a billboard featuring two men embracing or a bare chested male model is not risque; not even for my conservative hometown, Boston, where ManHunt calls home.

If open displays of sexuality are really disturbing, perhaps we can direct the NYPD to ask all those overexcited tourists in Times Square to stop slipping each other the tongue and openly groping each other first.

Serve and protect

Police ManWork has brought me into NYC today and I’ll be staying in Gotham for the next few days. You better believe that I’m keeping an eye out for this guy so I can personally thank him for his civil service. I’m very thoughtful like that.

Thanks to blogger, Seduced by the New for the eye candy.

Buon Natale

Italian water polo team 2011 ChristmasIn one week it will be Christmas Eve. Regardless of if you celebrate it, I’m using the holiday as an excuse to post Christmas-themed photos of gorgeous guys like this sexy one of the 2011 Italian water polo team.

Toys for Joys Boston 2012

toys-for-joys-inviteThis past Saturday was the 4th annual Toys for Joys in Boston. Each year this event collects thousands of gifts that are in-turn passed along to local charities for their distribution to underprivileged children during the holiday season. I love the cause and enjoy the party each year. If you missed Saturday’s party, but want to contribute to this non-profit’s cause, you may make a donation on their website, here.

Thank you to all who posed for the photos from the 4th Annual Toys for Joys and thank you to Sergio for bringing along the camera.

You go girl

You go girlI am more than a little curious about who is buying this product.

Don’t believe me that this is for real? Check out the promotional video, but beware its a bit gross. After watching the clip, I promptly moved my toothbrush as far away from the toilet as possible. I’m now contemplating storing it in my medicine cabinet.

Free Ikea snowman

Ikea SnowmanLove this. Thanks to Peter Schroder for sharing.

So friggin’ cute

cute-baby-pandaYou an animal lover? You may want to check out these other photographs of baby animals, courtesy of Bored Panda.

Versace EROS

Perfume commercials as a general rule tend to be ridiculous and Versace’s advertisement for their new fragrance EROS is no exception. Do I care? Not when the model looks like this.

Holiday cheer for the twisted

Struggling to get into the holiday spirit? Perhaps you need to ignore conventional wisdom and tradition to make you crack a smile and feel jolly again.  Fortunately, Boston has two great programs running right now which you should check out:  Rudolph the Red Necked Reindeer and The Slutcracker are not to be missed.

Rudolph the Red Necked ReindeerRyan Landry and his cast of misfits otherwise known as the Gold Dust Orphans are receiving rave reviews for their showwhich opened last month in the Fenwayand runs through December 23rd (Thursday – Sunday).  Tickets are $35 for general admission and $45 for reserved seating. You may purchase your tickets here.

ALSO…

slutcrackerThe Slutcraker is a home-grown holiday spectacular that has a very naughty twist to the Christmas classic, The Nutcracker.  Tickets are on sale for this bawdy production, which is currently running at the Somerville Theatre. Tickets are $25 and may be purchased here.

Still unsure? Read my write up from last year.

Sandy Hook Elementary School

School Shooting

Photo from New York Times

I thought I’d acknowledge the tragedy in Connecticut today; 27 murdered in cold blood – 20 of them children between the ages of 5-10.  Sadly Sandy Hook Elementary School now joins the ranks of Columbine, Red Lake High School, and Virginia Tech – forever associated with this unthinkable tragedy. The fact that the victims were so young, the fact that Christmas is around the corner, the fact that I feel this was avoidable if we had stronger gun laws consumes me and was all I could talk about at work today.

I’m trying to reconcile those feelings with a Tweet I just read from the National Rifle Association, proudly proclaiming that more than 1.7 million Americans liked their facebook page to show their support for the nation’s largest gun lobbying group.

Photo from New York Times

Photo from New York Times

There are many reasons to be proud of the United States. Our obsession with guns is not one of them and my heart breaks for all those directly impacted. I have no ties to anyone in that school and I’m shaken to my core.  Sadly there is no recourse and more shootings will likely follow in the new year since Americans stubbornly refuse to support gun control.

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Holiday party etiquette flow chart

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Holiday parties in Boston

There seem to be holiday parties seem nearly every night now and on Wednesday night several parties had me dashing around town.  Below are photos from the Hump Day Holiday Party Sean Williams (a.k.a. BostonMo on Twitter) hosted to gather toys for children in Boston.

CafeTeria Hump Day Party

Later that evening I headed over to the Mitchell Gold 12.12.12. party to celebrate the opening of their newly expanded flagship store in the South End.  DJ Lady Bunny had great music playing all night and the crowd of several hundred attendees seemed to enjoy the party. I know I did.  Below are just a few photos from the party. Mitchell Gold 121212 PartyThanks to all those who were patient enough to pose. Apologies if your photo was not included.