Men of Twitter

Each Monday I post #MenOfTwitter profiles of men who catch my eye and whom I think you may enjoy following. As always, suggestions for profiles to feature are welcome. If you’d like to follow me on twitter, you can find me @BosGuy. Below are this week’s #MenOfTwitter.

If so inclined, leave them a nice comment and start following on Twitter.

BrodieWest – Brodie lives in Sydney Australia and works for DNA Magazine as their marketing and advertising manager.  Don’t be deceived – behind that million dollar smile is a brain and a person who has something to say.  Brodie’s good body is due to his focus on fitness, which probably started when he played for the Tassie Tigers in Australia’s National Hockey League.  Should you be in Sydney for Mardi Gras, look for this party boy with a heart. #AwesomeAussie

Lukey99 – Luke is originally from Wales but now calls London home.  It is a pity Twitter doesn’t allow you to listen to his Welsh accent when reading his Tweets.  Luke joins a long line of men from the UK who I’ve featured and I think he’ll do them all quite proud.  Aside from his piercing blue eyes and good physique, he has a rather creative bent.  He currently works as a project manager for a very cool design agency in London.  Luke is very friendly and easy to chat with on Twitter so do yourself a favor and check him out. #BlueEyedBloke

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2012 Boston No Pants Subway Ride

On Sunday, January 8th hundreds of men and women descended upon Dewey Square to partake in the Boston chapter’s Society of Spontaneity’s annual “No Pants Subway Ride”.

This was the 5th annual event in Boston which is also hosted in cities around the world.  The video below is more cheeky than naughty (as we saw from the advertising) it is far less revealing than the billboards and signs you will see if you ride the subway in Boston.

Spontaneous cheers were regularly heard through out the subway from young kids. Parents were horrified to see their children run from them to hug and ask their favorite superheroes why they were in Boston.  And security in the Copley Mall had all they could do to stop people from photographing the two superheroes who were walking to the post party at King’s in Back Bay. 

You can learn more about the Boston Society of Spontaneity here.

LGBT bookstores

Queerty’s article, The Last Chapter: A Look At LGBT Bookstores Around the World, got me to thinking about this small and quirky group  that have defied the odds by remaining open, and I’d like to wish all these owners success in 2012 and beyond. I love LGBT bookstores and consider Boston lucky to still have at least one in operation.

Not too long ago most large cities had a collection of LGBT bookstores that catered to the community, but over the years, most of these have closed.  Truth be told, I’m not much of a shopper, but I’ve always enjoyed nosing around a neighborhood bookstore and have visited a few of the places featured in the article.  Check out Queerty’s list and consider stopping by one of these shops.

If you live in Boston or plan to visit, certainly check out Calamus Bookstore in the Leather District near South Station and Chinatown.  If you’re unfamiliar with Boston, the Leather District may be a bit misleading. The neighborhood derives its name from the city’s leather tanneries located here in the 19th & 20th centuries. However, by sheer coincidence, you can buy all sorts of leather apparel at the Marquis de Sade which is just above Calamus bookstore.

More LGBT bookstores listed by city

Atlanta – Outwrite

Boston – Calamus Books

London – Gay’s the word

Paris – Les Mots a la Bouche

Philadelphia – Giovanni’s Room

Vancouver – Little Sisters

Washington DC – Kramerbooks

Share in the comments section of this post the names of any LGBT bookstores not mentioned – include the bookstore’s name, web address and city.  If I get a fair number of stores, I’ll compile a list and republish in the near future.

Bills, Bills, Bills by Glee’s Darren Criss

Have bills from your holiday spending started to arrive?

Maybe this video of the charming Darren Criss and the Glee cast singing a cool mash up of Destiny’s Child – Bills Bills Bills – will put a smile on your face. I hope the damage to your wallet was not too severe and the holidays were good to you.

Does this chair make my ass look big?

Boston No Pants Subway Ride this Sunday

Sunday, January 8th is the annual No Pants Subway Ride.  The event, which started in NYC, now takes place in many cities (including Boston).  You can read more about the 2012 No Pants Subway Ride here.

The weather in Boston will not be as cold as last year and thank goodness there is no snow but it is still projected to be downright chilly so if you plan on participating, dress warmly from the waist up. Below you can check out the video I created from Boston’s 2011 No Pants Subway Ride.

Catholic Church says have COURAGE; BosGuy says F.U.

The Catholic Church is at it once again going out of its way to tick me off.  This time my ire can be traced to a diocese here in New England.

Yesterday, the Archdiocese of Hartford announced it would start ministering to people with same-sex attraction through a program called COURAGE, which currently has more than 100 chapters in the US.

People who are struggling with reconciling their faith and sexual identity can expect more of the same harmful teachings the Catholic Church loves to embrace:  Love the sinner; Hate the sin.

Strange that the Church loves to only quote the most virulent lines about homosexuality from the Book of Leviticus in the Old Testament, even though the book essentially damns everyone in modern civilization to Hell.  How convenient to leave out that being gay is equally evil as eating pork or masturbating.  I think the thing I find most frustrating about this group called COURAGE is that what it is asking of these people seems less courageous and more cowardly.  #Shameful

Move over California, Massachusetts is the most energy-efficient state

Earlier this week I wrote a post entitled, Why Massachusetts drives Conservatives crazy, which listed several attributes about my home state that I think should be emulated rather than ridiculed.  Following the post, it was brought to my attention that earlier this past fall Massachusetts was ranked the most energy efficient state in the United States by the American Council for an Energy-Efficient Economy (ACEEE), a private research group.The article which was reported in USA Today provides some highlights and national trends.   Massachusetts success is attributed to a 2008 Cap and Trade bill Governor Patrick signed after his predecessor, Gov. Mitt Romney, vetoed it in 2007.  An Inside Climate News article reports the Massachusetts legislation has created 3,800 jobs and nearly $500 million in economic activity in the last four years in my state.    You can read more about how Massachusetts has channeled its investments to help make it the most energy efficient state here.

No doubt, attributing MA success to Cap and Trade legislation will prove to be one more reason Conservatives will find fault with and taunt Massachusetts regardless of the results it has apparently yielded.

Friday cannot come fast enough

Technically it has been a short work week for me since my office was closed on Monday, January 2nd, but I can’t wait to sleep in and not think about work for two consecutive days.  If this were a tweet, I’d end it with #Living4TheWkd.

BosGuy cooks: Shrimp and pasta

Pasta provides a slow release of energy without spiking your blood sugar levels.  However, I like pasta because it tastes so delicious, you can buy it ahead of time and is quick and easy to cook.

Shrimp is low in saturated fat, a very good source of protein, but like all shellfish is high in cholesterol. I only buy shrimp if I’m going to consume it that evening. Despite their differences these two ingredients not only compliment each other nutritionally, but also go great together in a dinner.  This recipe serves 4, costs approximately $12-$14 to purchase all the ingredients (less the dry sherry and seasonings) and can be made in under 30 minutes.I like to prep the garlic, tomato, carrot and leek before I start cooking so I can continue without pause.  Start by boiling water for your pasta then add the shrimp in a bowl with the dry sherry. You can use something else if you do not have sherry or prefer other flavoring.  The shrimp will absorb the flavor of the liquid you use and it will help prevent it from drying out when it cooks.

As a next step add the leeks, garlic and carrots with 3 tbsp. of butter to a large pan on medium / medium-high heat.  Let these ingredients combine and soften.  I also add a pinch of salt and Italian seasonings at this point and mix thoroughly. If these cook too quickly – lower the heat and cover or remove from the burner.

Once the pasta has been added to the boiling water, wait a few minutes then add the shrimp and remaining tablespoon of butter to the vegetables.  For extra flavoring you can also add a tsp of fresh lemon juice.  After the pasta is nearly cooked, I like to take a full ladle of water from the boiling pot and add it to the shrimp and vegetables.  This will add more sauce and keep everything from drying out.  You can add more liquid if you like but you can’t remove it once its added.  Draining excess liquid will result in loss of flavor.The above left photo shows the pan when the shrimp is first added (turn the heat down slightly).  After cooking for 3-5 minutes the shrimp should be mostly cooked.  Add the pasta while still al dente (slightly under cooked) and stir all the ingredients together so the sauce and flavors can mingle as shown in above right photo (click on pictures to enlarge).

Book review: Winnie-the-Pooh

Over the holidays I donated a lot of books that had been collecting dust at my place to my local library.  In the process of cleaning house (so to speak), I stumbled upon my copy of Winnie-the-Pooh by A.A. Milne with decorations by Ernest H. Shepard.

I used the down time this past week to read the book again, which can be read from cover-to-cover or as consecutive short stories about Christopher Robin, Pooh and all his friends.  I forgot how much I loved the illustrations and the stories (okay – I’ll admit I skipped through a few of the stories deferring to some of my favorites like In Which Pooh Goes Visiting and Gets Into a Tight Place).  I can’t think of a better book to start the year reading and would strongly recommend adding this to your personal library.  Apologies for those who have completely switched to eBooks because I’m not sure the nostalgia and appreciation for Milne’s famous bear will translate.

Restaurant review: Mela

Once upon a time if you wanted to eat Indian in Boston you had to go to the Back Bay, which is home to more curry houses than any other neighborhood.  Fortunately a few years ago a successful local management company that owns several Indian restaurants in Boston opened Mela in the South End.

Mela consistently cooks flavorful dishes at a reasonable price.  Dinner including an appetizer, main dish and dessert (no drink or tip included) will cost $20.00 – $25.00 per person.  However, if you are like me temptations like Samosas and Naan will lead you to order more than you can eat and result in bringing home extra food. Mela recently added a limited organic menu featuring locally sourced ingredients, which I didn’t try on this visit but wanted to mention.

Tomato & Coconut soup – $5.00  and  Vegetable Samosa – $4.00

For our main dishes we ordered chicken tikka masala, a tandori-style plate cooked in rich tomato cream sauce.  We also ordered baingan bhartha which is a house specialty that includes baked eggplant with onion, garlic, ginger and spices.  Both meals were extremely satisfying and flavorful.  Not depicted below is the large bowl of jasmine rice which accompanies all entrees.

Chicken Tikka Masala $15   and   Baingan Bhartha $13

Mela is open for lunch as well as dinner and is relatively easy to get a table except during peak hours on weekends when a reservation are recommended.

Mela is in the South End at 578 Tremont Street  Tel: (617) 859-4805

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Why Massachusetts drives Conservatives crazy

Massachusetts has long been viewed (and probably rightfully so) as one of the most liberal states in the nation.  Social activists, academia, and politicians from Massachusetts have been a strong and consistent voice for the Left in a nation that is increasingly center Right.

We’re thinking of having a Massachusetts rally at some point in New Hampshire, sort of a please don’t turn America into Massachusetts” – Newt Gingrich, December 2011

Conservatives nash their teeth and say “Massachusetts” as a pejorative, and the current Republican Presidential candidates are no exception.  But all kidding aside, what is it that bothers Conservatives?  Here’s a quick look at some of the things that I think makes my state one to be emulated rather than ridiculed.

Massachusetts unemployment rate (while still too high) has consistently remained well below the national average (currently the Massachusetts unemployment rate is 7%).  While this isn’t the lowest – for states with a sizable population (5 million or more) only Maryland, Minnesota and Virginia have lower unemployment rates. (Source)

No matter how you measure it, Massachusetts has one of the healthiest populations with one of the lowest rates of obesity and fewest smokers.  In 2006, we became the first (and only) state to mandate universal healthcare so all residents have access to health insurance. (Source)

Despite claims MA is destroying American families (MA was the first state to legalize same sex marriage in 2004), we have the lowest divorce rate in the US (1.8% per 1,000 people).  (Source)

Massachusetts is one of the wealthiest states in the country (by the way that means we have less people as a percentage of our population relying on welfare and other social programs  Conservatives seem to hate so much). (Source) It also happens to be one of the few states to see childhood poverty rates drop last year. (Source)

One reason Massachusetts may be so wealthy is because as a percentage of the population, more people in our state hold a college degree than any other (not including Washington D.C.), making our state’s population one of the most highly educated in the US. (Source)

Massachusetts has its share of problems and has made terrible mistakes in the past, but we are learning from them and leading the nation by many measures.  So the next time you hear a Conservative bashing Massachusetts, pause and ask them what exactly about the quality of life we have here bothers them so much.

BosGuy is a cry baby

I really am quite the cry baby.  My firm generously closed offices early on Friday, December 23rd and only re-opened this morning, Tuesday, January 3rd. Its been a wonderful week relaxing and spending time with family and friends, but this morning when I awoke early, I couldn’t help but stifle a little bit of a tear that it was all over.  Yes, I’m most definitely a cry baby.

Gay For Good Boston chapter

With the holidays now behind us and 2012 full of potential, I wanted to tell you about a local chapter of a national organization called Gay for Good (G4G). Originally started in L.A. in 2008, there are now chapters in Boston, Chicago, Orange County, Pittsburgh, San Diego and San Francisco.

G4G organizes monthly volunteering opportunities that allows men and women the chance to give back to their local community and meet people.  To find out more about these opportunities you only need to register on their website gayforgood.org or you can check them out on facebook, Gay For Good Boston.

With many of us making resolutions to get more involved, give back and or meet more people I wanted to let you know about this great group.  Some of the volunteering opportunities the Boston chapter arranged in 2011 included: Rosie’s Place, Boston Healthcare for the Homeless and Community Servings, Franklin Park Zoo, Greater Boston Food Bank, Cradles to Crayons and Toys for Joys.  Below are photos from 2011 activities, which typically occur on weekends. After volunteering many often go out, adding a nice social aspect to the organization that allows you to further meet the members of this group.