A bit of song and dance to brighten your day

With nearly 7.6 million views, I may very well be the last person to have watched this clip on YouTube. However, I wanted to add this to my blog if only for posterity sake. I’ve just finished watching SYTYCD because although I have no coordination and even less rhythm, I absolutely love this sort of thing. If you can, watch this in HD.

Thanks to my sister Elizabeth for forwarding me this clip.

Provincetown – July 2009


The weather was absolutely spectacular while I was down in Provincetown. The town was filled to capacity (so much for the economy keeping people away).

Time was spent relaxing at the Boatslip, going to Tea Dance in the afternoon and out at night, a bit of shopping here and there and several memorable meals including a lobster dinner at a beautiful house in the East End that had spectacular views of the water and the Provincetown’s Pilgrim Monument.

I’ve only been away for two days, and I’m already missing it terribly. As much as I love Boston, Provincetown is where I feel most at home.

Tweeting Pink

I’m not exactly sure what is taken into account by Stockholm Pride as they ‘rank’ one’s Twitter account, but I thought it was funny all the same.

Thanks to OMG for the tip.

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Off to Provincetown

Do you like my groovy shades? I found them last August on a random trip to the tiny town at the tip of the Cape. They are a nod to Dame Edna.

Tomorrow I’m leaving right from work to catch the last high-speed ferry to Provincetown, and I will not return until Monday evening. I’m excited about relaxing with friends and enjoying the weather, and looking forward to life without a computer for a few days… so no more blogging ’til I return.

Abby Dion – 8 weeks old this Friday

I have no regrets that I do not have children of my own in large part due to the fact that I get to play with and care for my two nephews (Jack and Austin) and now my first and only neice, Abby.

Where has Dick Cheney gone?

Approximately one week ago news stations and blogs were obsessed by reports that the Director of the C.I.A. – Leon Panetta – had recently visited Congress and disclosed that for the past 8 years there had been a secret counterterrorism program that had intentionally been concealed from the Senate and House intelligence committees.

The NY Times July 11th article, “Cheney is linked to concealment of C.I.A. Project” implicates V.P. Cheney. The Times asserts, “The report that Mr. Cheney was behind the decision to conceal the still-unidentified program from Congress deepened the mystery surrounding it, suggesting that the Bush administration had put a high priority on the program and its secrecy.”

It turns out that the program was designed to target leaders of Qaeda, which I think most Americans (especially in the days that followed the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001) would favor. The Times issued a follow up story in their July 13th article, “C.I.A. had plans to assassinate Qaeda leaders”. The article indicates that “Mr. Panetta scuttled the program, which would have relied on paramilitary teams, shortly after the C.I.A.’s counterterrorism center recently informed him of its existence. The next day, June 24, he told Congressional Intelligence Committees that the plan had been hidden from lawmakers, initially at the instruction of former Vice President Dick Cheney,” again implicating former V.P. Cheney.

I know many people do not have a problem with the idea of taking out leaders of terrorist organizations, but that is really not the issue that makes me so uncomfortable. Rather it is the lack of disregard for the “checks and balances” that makes our Democracy work (and worthwhile) that time and again seem to have been completely disregarded in the Bush administration. This concept that George W. Bush and Dick Cheney knew what was best and could only be effective if they were allowed to operate without supervision and without having to answer for their actions leaves me sick to my stomach. What would be the reaction (I wonder aloud) if President Obama and V.P. Biden operated in such a manner? What if they acted with the best of intentions but refused to disclose information, respect other branches of government and twisted laws to find interpretations that suited their means?

In the weeks leading up to this controversy, V.P. Dick Cheney was on the proverbial war path asserting that President Obama was compromising the safety of the U.S. He made several visits to the Sunday morning talk shows (i.e. Meet the Press, Face the Nation, etc…) and his daughter, Liz, was almost a permanent fixture on MSNBC and CNN expressing her disdain for the new administrations’ actions.

However in the days that have followed since Panetta shut down the Bush era counter terrorism program, there has not been a single peep from anyone named Cheney. Why the sudden silence now? Silence is not an impartial judge, and I’m left to wonder if the former V.P. believes the public’s assumptions are preferable to his answering these accusations. Mr. Cheney are you even more evil and despicable than my assumptions would lead me to believe?

Vive La France – Happy Bastille Day

Today is the French version of our July 4th and since I’m a fan of nearly all holidays, I plan on going out after work to enjoy a nice sancerre to toast French Independence and the sudden rash of warm weather that I have so deperately missed this summer.

I’ve noticed that Bing, Microsoft’s response to Google has a beautiful photograph of the Louvre in Paris on it’s homepage. I’m quickly becoming a fan of Bing. If you’d like to read a recent review, check out yesterday’s article in the NY Times, Bing delivers credibility to Microsoft.

Off to Ogunquit for the weekend

I am travelling to Ogunquit, ME for the weekend to spend time beachside with friends. The weather looks like it will cooperate and thanks to my two good friends Ralph and Joao, I’ll be crashing in their summer house, which is more spacious and comfortable than the home I live.

I think of Ogunquit, ME as a much smaller and quieter version of Provincetown. It has several bars, certainly more than its share of gay men for such a small little beach town and plenty of fun.

More about Ogunquit:
www.gayogunquit.com
www.ogunquit.gaycities.com
www.edgeboston.com

Flashback Friday: All the Rage

This was the first gay-themed movie that I ever saw which was filmed in and written about gay life in Boston. All the Rage is about a pretentious South End gay man obsessed with the pursuit of physical, sexual, and romantic perfection. Sound like someone you might know? The stereotype works even if the movie sometimes let you down.

As is the case with many gay-themed films, the movie is a bit cliché and the writing and acting at times made me wince, but it was an entertaining enough and worth the rental. The entire movie was filmed in Boston during the mid- to late-90s.


Official movie trailer

This afternoon The Boston Globe is reporting that Massachusetts has become the first to challenge the constitutionality of a federal law that defines marriage as the union of a man and a woman, saying Congress intruded into a matter that should be left to individual states.

Read the full article here.

The Defense of Marriage Act or more commonly known as DOMA is a hateful piece of legislation that was passed in 1996 when Bill Clinton was president. At the time, Speaker Gingrich and other social conservatives were nervous that Hawaii would possibly legalize gay marriage and so the Defense of Marriage Act was pushed through Congress to “protect American families”.

My TripAdvisor Profile

As a self-proclaimed travel nut, I freely admit that I’ll be the first to skip major expenses to ensure that I have enough money saved to take a couple of nice vacations each year. I love to travel and think I’m probably at my happiest when I’m visiting some place I’ve never been before. However, prior to leaving for any destination (especially one I’m not familiar), I heavily leverage the TripAdvisor.com website. The site has excellent forums where you can read travellers reviews (and you can submit your own comments if you’ve travelled some place too).

I’ve made several connections on this travel website. If you too use TripAdvisor.com, let’s connect – my profile name is Albiani and you can link directly to read more about me and my travel preferences by linking here.

I’ve included my travel map, which shows all the destinations I’ve visited thus far as well as my favorite locations which are signified with a blue star.

  1. Paris, France
  2. Rome, Italy
  3. San Francisco, CA, USA
  4. Amsterdam, The Netherlands
  5. Buenos Aires, Argentina
  6. Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
  7. New York City, NY, USA
  8. Prague, Czech Republic
  9. Provincetown, MA, USA
  10. San Diego, CA, USA

Motley has a new website


In the past I’ve written about Motley, which is a cool shop located in Boston’s South End. Over the weekend Seth, a long-time employee, informed me that the new store owners (Jason and Joseph) had recently updated the store’s website and had added store merchandise. A quick visit has confirmed this so I thought I would give Motley Boston a shout out. Beware that not everything appears to be on the site just yet, but this is a definite improvement. The website proudly proclaims Motley is “Boston’s best little store” and I have to agree. Now go and buy something from them to support local and independent merchants otherwise we’ll be likely to have another bank or real estate office open on Tremont Street, and I’ll have to scream with frustration.

Make HIV testing routine

The Boston Globe has an interesting editorial today in support of a bill sponsored by Somerville state senator, Pat Jehlen, which calls for the state to make HIV testing as routine as getting your cholesterol tested.

The writer makes some compelling points such as, “31 percent of those testing positive for the virus become afflicted with full-blown AIDS within two months. This means that for years they have been unknowingly infected, missing out on treatment and likely infecting others.”

The AIDS Action Committee of MA (AAC) has addressed this issue on their blog with an entry entitled, “Massachusetts Needs an Integrated Comprehensive HIV Testing Plan”.

I’m not familiar with the bill, and I’m curious what your thoughts might be? The full editorial can be read on Boston.com or by linking here.

"You need Pro Caulk!"

When the Pro Caulk informercial first came on the television this afternoon, I could not stop laughing. I think this is the funniest thing I’ve heard in a long time. At one point the voice over actually shouts, “With Pro Caulk you can do it like a professional!”

http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/v/AFMF6CAjcQA&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0&color1=0x3a3a3a&color2=0x999999

Agony of defeat


Probably the most amazing Wimbledon match just concluded with Andy Roddick losing to Roger Federer in the men’s Wimbledon championship match. I truly feel for Andy and hope he rallies to come back. He may not have won today’s match but he played like a champion for sure.