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Tweeting from Puerto Rico

While visiting Puerto Rico, I’ve been using TweetPic to post photos from my trip. For example, I tweeted a picture of the view from my balcony at El Conquistador resort here and one of the fountains poolside here.

And I’d be remiss not to point out the man-candy at the new hotel we checked into here. There’s more, check’em out.

I’ll be tweeting a bit more so check out my tweetpic of the eye candy that was at the pool today at La Concha Hotel and follow me if you’re on Twitter at, twitter.com/BosGuy

Friday fitness update

Since writing my entry Back to the gym prior to the Thanksgiving holiday, I’ve been chatting with a few guys who also want to make a concerted effort to meet personal fitness goals so we’ve been motivating each other with emails through the week to help remind each other how important it is to make time for the gym.
Although I’m in lovely Puerto Rico for my cousin’s wedding, I wanted to be sure I posted this update about my activities. The discipline I exhibited at the start of the week is no where to be found at the moment, but I know when I return to frigid Boston, the gym will beckon again – if only from my feelings of guilt about over-indulging while here.

Saturday – November 27th My trainer, Stu, and I have agreed to change my sessions which primarily comprised of full-body workouts using light weights and kettlebells to free weights to help me build more muscle. So on Saturday, we fixated on chest and back, which kicked my butt. Following the workout I was not as sore as I expected so I’m going to have to ask Stu to push me harder when we meet again on Monday.
Sunday – November 28th I shaved 90 seconds off my second run, which was gratifying but running 3 miles in 0:32:30 still is not something that makes me happy. I’d like to run 3 miles in under 30 minutes and then be able to work up enough endurance to run at that speed for 35-45 minutes 2-3 times a week. I’m pretty confident that this is a manageable goal; its just a matter of getting into shape. I have no intentions of running long distance – rather I just want to build up my cardio and use this exercise to help me tame my waist.
Monday – November 29th I’ve now been to the gym 3 times in as many days. This has to be some sort of record dating back to the summer and it really paid off when I met with my trainer, Stu. Today we spent an hour (with minimal goofing off) working out my shoulders and triceps. I’d like to be able to lift heavier weights but I think I handled myself admirably. In a strange sort of way I’m hoping that I’ll be a bit sore tomorrow – it really is how I judge how solid my work outs have been.
Tuesday – November 30th The incoming emails of encouragement and the fact I will be travelling later this week inspired me to do something unheard of – I went to the gym for a fourth day in a row. Today I just did a quick run and I’m glad to say that despite my heart rate beating away at a 170+, I ran 3 miles in 0:30:30 – that’s 10% faster than my time on Friday, November 26th. Hopefully heading to Puerto Rico for my cousins wedding will not knock me to far off the wagon and I’ll be able to get a run or two in while there.

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Well, that’s all for the week. Wednesday was my last day in the office before leaving for Puerto Rico and I spent the night at the Garden cheering on the Celtics with my Dad and then Thursday I boarded my morning flight to Puerto Rico. More to share about working out and life outside the gym will follow later next week after I return home.

Be well and feel free to email me if you want to talk about meeting your own personal fitness goals.

December 1st is World AIDS Day


More than 25 million people have died from AIDS and there are more than 30 million people living with AIDS right now. Reach out to your local AIDS Service Organization and donate your time or money and thank them for their work and dedication. If you live in Boston check out my favorite ASO: The AIDS Action Committee of MA.

Wednesday, December 1st is World AIDS Day

Leaving for Puerto Rico

My cousin Michael is marrying his long-time girlfriend later this week, but unlike his siblings who all got married in their hometown, he opted to marry in Puerto Rico on Friday. Later this week I’ll hop on a plane and head to the Waldorf El Conquistador Resort. I believe there are approximately 130 of us attending the Thursday evening “pre-weddding party” and the Friday nuptials. Sergio and I are leaving the resort on Saturday to return to the La Concha Resort in the Condado section of San Juan for three more nights. We initially visited La Concha back in Feb 09 and really loved both the location and the property. I wrote more about that trip in my entry, 4 Days in Puerto Rico. With temperatures in Boston now hovering in the high 40s and the sun setting by 5pm, I can not wait to get down to the Carribean to feel the warm breeze and spend some time in the sun.

Hitting the gym

After spending the past two days with family, over-indulging with all the fantastic food, I made good on my promise from my post earlier this week, Back to the gym and made sure I went to the gym for what I anticipated would be a nice run on the treadmill.

Imagine my surprise / disapointment when it took me 34 minutes to run a measley 3 miles. The more frustrating news was according to the machine my pulse was racing at 174. Oh, the horror! the horror! Sorry to make a literary reference, but my struggles with this run was a sad confirmation of my epiphany from earlier in the week.

Alan Ilagan, Gay Guy and WranglerMan all had nice words of sympathy in my previous post and mentioned helping encourage each other to stay true to these personal goals. I’m game if you are – shoot me an email so we can correspond directly.

Friday, Nov. 26th stats:
3 mi. in 34 mins
174 pulse rate
Avg speed 5.2
OMG – I better be able to do better
BTW – none of these guys are me. they are merely the “eye candy” I require to remain motivated. Its really that simple with me.

Happy Thanksgiving

I’m celebrating Thanksgiving with family at my parent’s lake house in New Hampshire. Normally I reserve this holiday week to plan an international trip and as such have not been home for Thanksgiving in more than six years. It is nice being home and I’d like to express my wishes of thanks to all who happen upon my blog regardless of where you live and if you celebrate this most American of holidays.

You’re amazing just the way you are

Tonight a scene from the Fox TV show, Glee, had a wedding scene that touched my heart, cheesy as it was. No matter how confident and comfortable I am in my own skin – I wish this show was on television when I was a teenager.

Were you bullied? If you were – can you relate to the storyline? I’d like to hear from you.

Construction workers

My street is currently a construction zone as teams tear up our street for some unknown reason. When the signs went up last week, I had images similar to this guy here and young, fit 20-something cops hanging around to help with traffic, but alas the fantasy of what might be has been replaced with the cold reality that:

1) Its far too chilly for construction workers in Boston to be outside without a shirt.

2) I’m not so certain I’d like to see this crew without a shirt.

3) I should know better by now that the young 20-something cops in Boston are reserved for far rougher work than standing by chatting with the construction crew and sipping a Dunkin Donuts coffee all day.

C’est la vie.

Back to the gym

I’ll be the first to admit that I’ve become lazy about getting myself to the gym on days I’m not seeing my trainer, Stu. Part of the problem stems from the fact that getting meningitis once in September and then again in October really threw me out of my routine and I’ve been slow to get back to working out as much / often as I should. The other part of the equation is seasonal – I simply work out harder and more often in the spring and summer months.

Today’s workout with Stu was great, but it was disapointing to see how much I struggled through sets I could do easily this summer. The two bouts of meningitis not only took me away from the gym, but when I’ve returned it has been slow going to get back into the swing of things and lately we’ve been doing full-body exercises; shying away from lifting.

I want to get serious about getting back into shape and want to focus on this now – not in January after I’ve packed on weight from the holidays. We’ll see how good I am at keeping my word, but I’d really like to get to the gym 1-2 days a week to run for 30-45 minutes. Cardio has always helped me slim down and it helps me with my weight training which can often leave me gasping for breathe after a tough set.

Like I said, “We’ll see”… I’ll write more about this in the weeks that follow to try and keep this on my radar and not slack-off.

Largest flashmob evah…

To paraphrase Oprah… “That is so cool.” Watch the largest flash mob evah (pardon the Boston accent). The BEP’s helped kick off Oprah’s 2009 season with the largest flash mob ever. Oprah’s expressions are priceless.

Dinner at Geoffrey’s w/ Mike and Peter

An unexpected benefit of writing this blog is that I’ve connected with a few people whom I’m not sure I would have ever had the opportunity to meet otherwise. (Take note if you read my blog – don’t be shy, reach out and say hello.) It never occurred to me that I might meet people through my blog, but I’m pleased to say that tonight my partner and I had the chance to meet Mike and Peter. Mike also blogs – you can link to his blog, Mike’s short attention span theater.

It was such a nice evening meeting and having dinner at Geoffrey’s (a local restaurant in the n’hood). Mike and Peter are a handsome couple who have been together for the past 13 years. They were so easy to talk to I completely lost track of time and we may have kept them up past their normal bed times (I think). Over dinner we established we are night owls and Mike and Peter are early birds. Oops… my bad.

Australia: Hot Stuff

Keeping with the theme of my previous post, I figured I’d add another number from last year’s Drag! Camp as Christmas show that I saw at the Sydney Opera House. Feel free to load in HD as the resolution is a bit better and it only takes a minute and of course enjoy the creative interpretation of the Donna Summer classic, Hot Stuff.

Australia: The Men

This week I’ve been revisiting / reposting entries from my trip to Australia last year at this time. I’d be remiss if I did not end my tribute to the men who caught my eye. The handsome profiles were in many cases complimented by a friendly and fun loving personality that endeared me to nearly all Australians. If you or your partner are contemplating a trip to Australia, I would highly recommend visiting. The country and the people do not disapoint. To give you a flavor of the fun natured personality of the people I met while there I’ve included a post from Brenton over at Aussielicious. The flashmob dancing to a Kylie & Dannii Minogue medley on the steps of the opera house, perfectly exemplifies what I was referring to above when I described Australians as friendly and fun loving.

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Anyone who happens to read this blog and either lives in or may be visiting Sydney in early December should consider attending the annual Christmas show, Drag! at the Sydney Opera House. I posted a couple of clips from one of the numbers from last year’s show here.

Australia: Sydney

It was actually one year ago today that I left for Australia. I left Boston on 11/18/09 and arrived in Sydney the morning of 11/20/09. It was so strange skipping a day, but because I flew Business Class I was oddly refreshed from the trip.

My three week vacation through parts of Australia started and ended in Sydney. My first impressions were a bit flat, but I really fell in love with the city after spending a week exploring its beaches and neighborhoods. I’ve included my post about Sydney along with some photos.

Seductive Sydney
originally posted 11-Dec. 2009

I spent the first two and last six nights of my trip to Australia in Sydney, and I left loving the city wishing I had more time.  I did not fall in love with Sydney right away, because initially I was so busy visiting the locations I had always seen in photographs (i.e. Opera House, Darling Harbour, etc…).  The city seemed one-dimensional and lacking charm until I ventured out of downtown to Sydney’s neighborhoods and beaches.  Anyone planning to visit Sydney must make time to visit the tourist sites, but you do yourself wrong if the only view of Sydney you can recall is from standing atop the Sydney Harbour Bridge.  Make the time to venture out – it is worth it.

I was able to catch a drag show at the Sydney Opera House which will go down as the funniest and most extravagant I have ever seen, I’m sure. The show was called, “Drag – Camp as Christmas”. You can check out a promo video clip here or do a search on Facebook to see more.  As I said to a few of the drag queens later that evening, they could teach Ms. Spears a thing or two about how to lip sync.

The drag show was only the tip of what turns out to be a mountain of options when contemplating what to do each evening.  In addition to all the activity in the CBD (Central Business District) night ferries provide endless options and are both easy and affordable.  I also enjoyed spending time on Crown Street in Surrey Hills, which is easily accessible from downtown and filled with galleries, antiques, cafes and pubs. I also enjoyed a great meal on Victoria Street which was quite a mixed crowd and near the gayborhood.

Since I never made it out to see the nightlife in Melbourne, I made a concerted effort to check out what Sydney had to offer.  Like many cities, “the scene” is pretty concentrated on Oxford Street. The area is a bit dumpy similar to the Castro in San Francisco, but I enjoyed checking out the clubs, sipping coffees at Coco Cubano (note there is good wireless here and it is free) and even nosing around in the GLBT bookstore, The bookshop darlinghurst, where I made several purchases.  The two main clubs that I visited could not have been more different except that they both had a lot of energy and some very good people watching.  The clubs I visited Arq and Slide will probably end up changing names (as all clubs do) but I had a great time and would suggest even if you are not a club-kid (as I most definitely am not) it is still worth checking out for fun and laughs. 

As with my write-up about Melbourne, I’ve also included a slide show which is a collection of photographs from my trip, please enjoy.

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Australia: Melbourne

As I mentioned at the start of this week, one year ago I flew to Australia for 3 weeks. To recapture the moment and re-live the experiences, I’m re-posting some of my favorite entries from the trip.

The city of Melbourne really took my breathe away and for anyone contemplating a visit to Australia, I have to strongly recommend visiting this beautiful city. We were lucky to have a special connection with a family that made the stay even more wonderful, but even without them this city would have stopped me dead in my tracks.

Victoria & Hepburn Springs
originally posted 1-Dec. 2009

A huge reason I’ve fallen head over heels with Australia is because of a city called Melbourne. There is a magnificent contrast of architecture that compliment rather than compete with each other and provides a sense of charm that I was hard-pressed to find elsewhere. Some of my favorite activities included: strolling down Lygon Street which is chalk full of Italian cafes, shops and gelateria; checking out the ever so hip Gertrude Street which had a definite San Francisco-vibe; seeing the Fitzroy Gardens and in particular the conservatory; hanging out in Federation Square which has been scorned by many but I think is an excellent example of modern architecture and houses interesting cafes, restaurants, pubs and museums – not the least of which is the Australian Centre for the Moving Image.

Melbourne is surrounded by wine country, which is so easy to visit if you are willing to drive on the other side of the road. I opted to select an overnight in Hepburn Springs, which is next to the quaint town of Daylesford. The drive is easy and picturesque making it a great overnight trip, although I will admit I did not want to leave and would have enjoyed spending more time there. On the positive side, I made the excellent decision to book at the Peppers Springs Retreat which is 1-2 hour drive from Melbourne depending on 1) how fast you drive and 2) how direct your route is to get there. After taking the indirect route to see the countryside, I can tell you that your best bet is to drive directly there (the scenery is beautiful regardless of the route) and the towns prior to Daylesford and Hepburn Springs simply are not worth visting. 

If you do book a stay in the country, I would definitely recommend the Peppers Springs Retreat which is less than a 5 minute drive to Daylesford downtown. Request a room in the main building with a private deck that overlooks the countryside. The two owners, Chris and Wayne, are as warm and friendly as the rest of the staff and the trip provided the perfect respite between visits to Melbourne and Sydney (Australia’s two largest cities). If you want to learn more about the retreat, you can read my glowing review on TripAdvisor.com here. Visiting wineries from the hotel is easy to do, but I preferred the pampering of the natural springs spa on sight and eating at the hotel’s restaurant – rarely have I ever been so full in my life.  Below I’ve included a sampling of photos from my time in Melbourne, the drive out of the city and the stay in Hepburn Springs.

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