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Can South End host two Farmer’s Markets in 2016

SoWa Open MarketJust as the South End Open Market season was coming to a close, New England Open Markets announced that they would be moving to the Ink Block in 2016; I wrote about it in my blog post: South End Open Market moves to Ink Block in 2016 but Food Trucks and Farmers Market stay put.

After writing the post I was contacted by New England Open Market and was told that the entire Farmer’s Market would be moving in 2016.  This conflicted with what I had been told by vendors. They were unhappy that the Farmer’s Market would be relocated under the I-93 expressway. Last week two longtime Farmer’s Market vendors confirmed they would not follow New England Open Market and would be joined by other vendors who would prefer to remain on GTI’s property, forming a second market for the neighborhood. How the market will be rebranded or which vendors will remain is unclear but it appears that differences between Chris Masci (owner of New England Open Markets) and Mario Nicosia (GTI Properties) are irreconcilable.

Mario and GTI Properties would seemingly have the upper hand in this feud with the public already familiar with the 450 Harrison Avenue location, ample parking and space for the market sandwiched between GTI’s recently renovated 460 Harrison Ave which now includes 40 new boutiques and Vintage Market. However, my question is can our neighborhood sustain two Farmer’s Markets?

Future Home of the South End Open Market® in 2017 Source: http://newenglandopenmarkets.com/

Future Home of the South End Open Market® in 2017
Source: http://newenglandopenmarkets.com

For more background on their feud which led to this split I’d refer you to The Boston Globe’s story from early October, Bitter split muddles future of South End markets.

Get your tickets to Toys for Joys this Friday

Toys for Joys 7th annual holiday celebration will take place at The Revere Hotel in Boston’s Theater District this Friday, December 11, 2015. Reserve your tickets and stop by to see all the toys, have a cocktail or two and see everyone.

Reserve your tickets today
Like the Toys for Joys Facebook Page
When: Friday, December 11, 2015 – 7:30PM – Midnight
Where: Revere Hotel, 200 Stuart Street (Theater District)

This is one of my favorite holiday parties of the year. It is devoid of rubber chicken dinners, long speeches and pressure to donate more or to ask your guests to make donations. The entire evening is best described as fun.

Temptation Tuesday

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Boston’s Slutcracker runs through December 31st

SlutcrackerAre you on Santa’s Naughty List? Perhaps you should check out The Slutcracker, a Boston tradition since 2008 that is not at all family friendly. The story preserves the structure of the original ballet but the main characters have now grown-up.  A courtship and a devious Aunt Drosselmeyer set the stage for Clara’s transformation and awakening in the Kingdom of Sexual Fantasy.

The Slutcracker opened last week and runs through December 31st at the Somerville Theatre in Davis Square.  Tickets are just $27.00.

Young man writes on Reddit that PDA with his boyfriend makes him nervous

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Nick & Justin from Pittsburgh via instagram.com/justinick_pgh

Earlier this month NewNowNext.com wrote about redditor, AxisXT, who wrote about how nervous he is about public displays of affection with his boyfriend; due in part because of where he lives.  Even living most of my life in a socially progressive part of the United States, I could relate.  I’ve been threatened before, and I know guys who have been beaten up – sadly, not everyone is on board with the mantra, Live and Let Live.

AxisXT wrote in his reddit post:

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 9 months. I really love him and enjoy spending time with him. He’s really affectionate and I love it! But I get so nervous when he nudges me to extend my hand when we are walking in public or when he lightly drums on the table at a restaurant until I give him my hand. I’m perfectly fine when we are alone! Although I do still get nervous when we are having sex.

I’m the top and I have no idea what to do most of the time. But that’s beside the point. I just came to terms with being a bisexual male and he is my first boyfriend, so that may be a reason I get so nervous? I was wondering if you guys have any tips? I live in the deep south (Florida) and being open and myself makes me nervous. (I’m so sorry in advance if I posted this in the wrong place.)

Responses on Reddit were positive (which is good to read). Evan Ross Katz from NewNowNext.com encouraged the young man to be open and candid about his reservations with his boyfriend and reminded him that coming out is a process.

Posts like this remind me: 1 – how lucky I am to live where I do; and 2 – how important it is for all of us to be visible in our communities. While AxisXT may never be comfortable with PDA, I’m sure seeing a gay couple holding hands would make him feel more comfortable in his surroundings.

What to do this week: December 7 – 13

Santa Speedo RunWhat to do this week: December 7th – 13th

Royal Bingo with the Court takes place at Club Cafe with the Imperial Court of Massachusetts starting at 7PM on Monday, December 7 in Boston

Kook Toy Drive is hosted by Penny Champayne and starts at 10PM at The Grotto Bar on Tuesday, December 8 in Provincetown

Special Screening of The Danish Girl Boston’s 32nd Annual LGBT Film Festival presents a preview at 7PM on Wednesday, December 9 in Boston

Hanukkah: The Festival of Lights Enjoy a free evening celebrating Hanukkah at the MFA starting at 5PM on Wednesday, December 9 in Boston

Homes for the Holidays presentation of the 21st annual Peter Medoff Awards starting at 6PM at Club Cafe on Thursday, December 10 in Boston

Fenway Health Men’s Event Kickoff Party is a great opportunity to learn more about this event and to get involved on Thursday, December 10 in Boston

Toys for Joys 7th Annual party to collect toys for underprivileged kids is at the Revere Hotel from 7:30 – Midnight on Friday, December 11 in Boston

Tony Williams’ The Urban Nutcracker is Boston’s original holiday classic and back for its 15th season opening night is Friday, December 11 in Boston

FUZZ is a monthly party hosted at The Alley bar in Downtown Crossing starting at 10:00 PM on Friday, December 11 in Boston

SSR Run is also known as the Santa Speedo Run that takes place in Back Bay on Saturday afternoon, December 12 in Boston

Back To Basics Tea Dance takes place each week at Club Cafe starting at 5PM on Sunday, December 13 in Boston

I’ve started posting a weekly listing of upcoming activities.  Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Modus Vivendi Christmas line of underwear

underwearNot feeling all the holiday cheer you are suppose to feel this time of year?  Maybe Modus Vivendi’s new Christmas line of underwear will help enliven your mood. Matt over at boy culture has a bunch more photos you can check out here.

Great gift or date for a chocolate lover

Back Bay Chocolate Walking TourAre you a chocolate lover or do you know someone who is? The Back Bay Chocolate Walking Tour may be the perfect gift to give or daytime date if you want to mix things up a bit from the typical dinner and a movie.

The Back Bay Chocolate Tour is a 2.5 hour walk that encourages you indulge in some of the tastiest treats available in the Back Bay, while your guide provides tips on tasting, buying and storing high-quality chocolate.

The Back Bay Chocolate Tour takes place each Saturday morning starting at 10:15 and currently GoldStar.com is offering 50% off through the end of January. You can learn more about The Back Bay Chocolate Tour here and you can get those 50% off tickets from GoldStar.com here. And you can read what Yelpers have to say about the tour here.

Scruffy Sunday

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Boston’s Santa Speedo Run 2014

Next week Boston will host their annual Santa Speedo Run (now called SSR). I thought I’d share the video from last year’s run this evening. I’ll have more information about the 2015 SSR on Saturday, December 12th later this week.

LGBT film: Reel In The Closet (free showing Monday, Dec 7, 2015)

Stu Maddux is showing his recent film, Reel in the Closet, on Monday night, December 7th at FenwayHealth. A friend of mine watched it at the SF LGBT film festival and gave it two thumbs up. Details about the free screening is below; RSVP by calling 617-927-6417 or by emailing cbrienza@fenwayhealth.org.Boston LGBT Film Festival, Fenway Health

South End Christmas tree and wreath sale today

Blackstone Square Holiday EventThe Blackstone / Franklin Square Neighborhood Association is hosting their annual Christmas holiday event today from 10AM – 3PM; even Santa makes an appearance from 10AM – 1PM. In addition to Santa, Flour Bakery will have its food truck on hand to serve pastries, cookies and hot chocolate. There will also be a photo booth and plenty of trees and wreaths for sale.

Saturday morning comic: Casey At The Bat

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Casey At The Bat is a comic strip follows the adventures of a young, gay man and his friends in life, love and sports!  Casey At The Bat is the work of the very talented Bob Glasscock who resides in NYC.

You can read back issues and order Casey At The Bat volume 1 from his website, caseyatb.com.

Saturday morning comic: Adam and Andy

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ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.  To see previous Adam and Andy cartoons link here.

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