Bay Windows is for sale

New England’s largest LGBTQ+ newspaper is for sale

Co-publishers Sue O’Connell and Jeff Coakley are putting New England’s LGBTQ+ newspaper, Bay Windows (and its sister publication South End News) up for sale according to this post on Facebook, this article in Bay Windows, and this article in yesterday’s Boston Globe.

Jim Hoover was Bay Windows first publisher when the newspaper started printing in 1985. He sold the newspaper in the early 2000s to O’Connell and Coakley who have been the co-publishing this weekly paper ever since. In its heyday this was a weekly publication that everyone read. My personal favorite was the missed connections and personals in the back – they could be hilarious to read. For decades, Bay Windows was the source for openings (and closings), LGBTQ+ events and programming, and news that was important to the community. Case in point, everyone read Bay Windows in the early 2000s when Massachusetts became ground zero in the Marriage Equality debate and those first couple years following the State Supreme Court ruling.

While it is sad to read that Bay Windows is up for sale, and I wonder about its future, I do wish Sue O’Connell and Jeff Coakley much luck. Their work and dedication to this paper helped enrich and enliven the LGBTQ+ gay community, and I feel a debt of gratitude toward them.

Furry Friday

I contemplated sharing this as a “Caption this Photo” post, which I publish each Wednesday, but I opted to post as a Furry Friday. What do you think? I think he looks equal parts cute and sexy. 

Past Furry Friday

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Leave your answer in the comment section. I’ll approve responses later in the day to give people a chance to respond without seeing any spoilers.

This week’s brain teaser:   I am only useful when I am full, yet I am full of holes. What am I?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

Fenway Health 50th Anniversary celebration

For fifty years Fenway Health has been serving the LGBTQ community in Boston. Starting in a basement in a building owned by the Christian Science Church, Fenway Health has grown to meet and serve our community through many health crisis including AIDS / HIV, Crystal Meth and Opiods, and more recently COVID-19.

To celebrate this milestone anniversary, Fenway Health is planning to host a virtual celebration next week, Wednesday, April 28th from 6:00 – 8:00 pm. The event is free an open to everyone but to attend you need a good Internet connection and to register on or before 12:00 pm on April 28th.

While the ongoing coronavirus pandemic prevents everyone from coming together in person this year, Fenway Health invites you to join them from the comfort of your home for an evening of celebration.

Vintage gay

Much thanks to Joseph a fellow blogger who stumbled upon this photo while he was doing research for his own blog, Academic Nudes of the 19th Century. He said the photo dates back to the 1930s. I am guessing the photo was taken in or near Mulhouse, France based on the shirt worn by the handsy guy in the first row on the far right.

Photos from the 19th century and first few decades in the 20th century can sometimes be sexually ambiguous, but I find such photos interesting and can’t help but make up stories about the men in these pictures. In this case, I’m drawn to the intimacy of three of the men. The gentleman in the middle of the second row affectionately has his hands on both shoulders of his teammate in front of him. Then there are the two in the first row with their interlocking legs. This would be enough to turn my head but the playful pinch from the friend on the far right suggests he is either a prankster or something more. His expression gives nothing away while the teammate in the middle seems to have quite a smirk, and that makes me wonder what he is thinking.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

This week on Instagram: ibsonlyra

I’d like to introduct you to Dr. Ibson Lyra who practices medicine in Brazil. The handsome doctor is very proud of the work he does and has many photos like this of him at work or still in his scrubs. He posts fairly regularly and aside from his distracting at-work posts, he includes photos of him hanging out and working out in Rio de Janiero as well as some pretty beautiful photos from up north when he is in Natal.

I wish I knew more but with more than 130k followers, perhaps you might already follow him and be able to share what you know about this handsome doctor in the comments section.

You can follow this week’s featured account on Instagram here, and you can check out previously featured IG accounts here.

Caption this photo

Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up one or two of your own. Leave a funny caption in the comment section, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“How’s your aim?”

Book review: The Sun and Her Stars by Donna Rifkind

The Sun and Her Stars by Donna Rifkind is a biography about the extraordinary but little known life of the Jewish, Austrian actress turned Hollywood screenwriter, Salka Viertel, who moved from Europe to southern California in the late 1920s. If you are fascinated by the Golden Age of Hollywood, you’ll find Rifkind’s detailed account of Viertel’s life and those around her fascinating to read.

It was fascinating to compare how several characters in this year’s celebrated film, Mank, were perceived by Salka. The black and white film about screenwriter Herman Mankiewicz writing of the acclaimed movie, “Citizen Kane” takes place at the same time and is nominated for 10 Oscars. Some of the Hollywood heavyweights referenced in both the book and movie include Orson Welles (actor), Ben Hecht (screenwriter / novelist), David Selznick (studio executive), and Charlie Chaplin (actor).

Hitler’s rise to power in the 1930s led to a braindrain of the creative class from Europe. These shellshocked ex-pats fleeing from the horrors of Nazi Germany, were not welcomed by most in America. Rampant, in-your-face antisemitism was pervasive and put many on edge; feeling fortunate to escpe but unsure of their future or ability to rebuild in an alien country and culture. Salka’s home in Santa Monica became a refuge for these people. Her close friend, Greta Garbo, was a frequent visitor as were the many refugees who would flock to her Sunday parties.

The biography also details the personal trials and triumphs of Salka who earned a commanding salary and the respect of studio executives, producers and directors at a time when few women were respected in the male-dominated industry. Rifkind also touches upon the blacklisting that impacted Salka and many other Europeans in the decade that followed WWII because of their political sympathies and foreign accents which made them tagets of McCarthy and those on the HUAAC.

The book was a fascinating read from a pop culture, political and historical perspective, and I’m glad I read about this rather extraordinary woman. Through her efforts she saved the lives of many fleeing from Europe to escape fascism and rubbed elbows with some of the biggest stars and deal-makers in Hollywood’s Golden Age. If you are fascinated by or liked the Oscar-nominated film, Mank, add this to your reading list.

If you’re interested in purchasing this book and open to supporting local bookstores, try one of the links I’ve shared. The links below will take you right to the book so you can order it online in just a couple of clicks.

Brookline Booksmith in Coolidge Corner
Harvard Bookstore in Harvard Square
Porter Square Bookstore in Porter Square
Trident Bookseller’s & Cafe in Back Bay

Temptation Tuesday

This week’s Temptation Tuesday comes to you courtesy of @tennesseetony75. Tony said, “This looks like temptation to me”, and I agree. To paraphrase a line from a popular 1980s film, “I’ll have what he’s having.”

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Boston Gay Men’s book club

The Boston Gay Men’s book club will be meeting later tonight to discuss the 2018 collection of short stories, Sweet & Low, by gay author, Nick White. I will be publishing my review of this book later this month, but I wanted to encourage anyone interested in gay literature to RSVP.

I joined this group for the first time earlier this year when they discussed Eric Cervini’s book, The Deviant’s War and enjoyed listening to people sharing their perspectives. I noticed that a few of the people hadn’t read the book so you needn’t feel uncomfortable about joining if you’ve yet to read the book. You can use the opportunity to hear people’s comments to determine if you think you’ll enjoy it. If you haven’t any plans for this evening, RSVP and join the conversation. All are welcome.

Sweet and Low: Short Stories by Nick White
Monday, April 19th 6:30 – 8:00pm ET

Men in kilts

Looks like a perfectly respectable kilt, but I’m not a big fan of that furry sporran. It looks like it needs a trim.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

This week’s mancandy post is suitably distracting to help you forget it is Monday morning.

BosGuy cooks: Roasted bell peppers

Back in 2014 I shared a post about roasting garlic and bell peppers. I now prefer this method for garlic, which I shared in January this year. It may take longer but it is insanely easy and I can make far more in one batch. I still regularly roast bell peppers for two reasons. First, it is pretty easy, and second, when I buy roasted peppers in a jar sometimes they taste funny so stopped buying jarred roasted veggies a while back.

PREP & ROASTING: Preheat the oven to 400 Farenheit / 200 Celsius or you can do this on a grill over high heat. Wash the peppers and place in the oven on a tray lined with foil for easier clean up and rotate every 8-10 minutes (total cooking time ~30minutes). If you’re using a grill / open flame, you may need to rotate the peppers more quickly.

RESTING AND PEELLING: If there is any work to this recipe it is peeling the skin and removing the seeds from the roasted peppers. Unless you have asbestos fingertips let the peppers rest for 15 minutes because they will scald you. The peppers will look wrinkly and deflated when you take them out of the oven. The skin should easily peel off. You’ll also want to remove the seeds and stem.

cooking

STORAGE: The peppers will keep in the refrigerator for about a week. Add a drizzle of olive oil and keep sealed in a container. I sometimes will also add a few sprigs of Thyme. I’m never quite sure if it adds to the flavoring but it makes me feel like I’m making good use of the fresh herb.

One reason I like to roast bell peppers is because the flavor elevates a dish. This is an easy way to add flavor without calories. I welcome suggestions on how you use roasted bell peppers. Here are some of the ways I use roasted bell peppers.

  • Julienne the bell peppers and add to a salad
  • Puree and add them to your red sauce (combine it with roasted eggplant)
  • Puree with sour cream cream cheese and dill for a decadent dip
  • Puree with ricotta cheese to make baked eggplant rollatinis
  • Include in your omelet with goat cheese (it is crazy good)
  • Add to an antipasto or charcuterie platter for color and flavor

Scruffy Sunday

If you like you can also follow this sexy Spaniard on Twitter at @PorMisBarbas33.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

Enjoy your morning cup of Joe (or whatever you might like to call this handsome guy).