Work, work, work…

This past week has been a blur.  I knew that the pace in the office would pick up and I’m proud that I’ve been able to keep up.  Since my co-workers have come back from vacation and returned to the office on Tuesday, September 8th – work has been very busy.

I’m not much for people who constantly talk about how busy they are so I rarely address my work in this blog unless it pertains to something I am doing which I find cool or interesting and want to share.  However, the past two weeks (and this last week in particular) have really kicked my butt. Groceries, laundry, returning calls, checking e-mails and yes, blogging have all fallen by the wayside.

The break-neck pace will not cease for another couple of weeks when a report I’m helping launch, a webcast series I am pulling together and a handful of other very interesting projects I’ve been asked to help lead all get off the ground. I have no regrets about my involvement and like each project. It is the convergence of multiple deadlines that provide me (and my team) little wiggle room and has kept me up late working and wondering, “are there are enough hours in the day?” 

Oddly, last year around this time I was logging some pretty crazy work hours as I scheduled and led meetings across the U.S. for a project called “From Proposals to Policy”.  I’ve only been with my employer for 18 months so perhaps I should just plan for every fall to be a bit chaotic.  Even though the work is gratifying and I like my team, I’m looking forward to returning to a more sane work schedule.

Sweet seats at Fenway

Friday’s Red Sox game against Tampa Bay was cancelled and rescheduled for today because of all the rain.  Through a strange twist of fate, I gave my two tickets away because the friend I was bringing to the game came into even better seats than I had purchased. 

My only regret about going to today’s game was that I did not have the foresight to bring along my camera.  Seated 3 rows back from the Red Sox batting circle we were no more than 10′ from the players as they warmed-up and chatted with each other.  The fact that the weather was gorgeous, Clay Buchholz pitched a fantastic game, and the Red Sox went on to win made it even better.

Flashback Friday: September 11, 2001

Not all flashbacks are pleasant, but I would be remiss not to mention how September 11, 2001 impacted the more than 170 families in Massachusetts who lost loved ones.  I recall that back on September 9, 2001 I had said good night to my good friend Graham (pictured above) who was leaving for L.A. in two days. We were to connect the following weekend. 

Realizing the personal nature of the tragedy on the afternoon of September 11th as friends called me to find out if Graham had made his flight is etched in my memory, and I imagine will stay with me for the rest of my life.  Taken too soon and still missed today, my flashback is in memory of all those people who lost someone they loved on Tuesday, September 11, 2001 but for me mostly about my friend Graham Berkeley.  Listed below is a quick video of Boston’s humble but very serene memorial to that tragedy. 

Don’t stop believing

Check out Sam Tsui. Not only does he have a really great voice, but he’s quite creative cloning himself to sing lead and back up in this self-made video. I wonder if he puts a gold star after his name like Rachel Barry from Glee.

Bye bye banQ — hello Ginger Park

photograph by: John Horner
The blog, Boston Restaurant Talk posted a write up from The Boston Globe mentioning that banQ, an upscale Asian-influenced restaurant on Washington Street in the South End, is going to be renamed, Ginger Park.
The Globe’s article mentions that Ginger Park will be a reasonably-priced restaurant featuring Asian food (with an emphasis on Chinese cuisine).  I wonder what “reasonably-priced” means?

Hitting the gym

I have not commented on on my gym routine since mid-July when I wrote about how I finally felt back in form after recovering from a bout of meningitis.  Rather than revisit that uncomfortable time, you can read more about my most recent episode of contracting meningitis (yes, I said “most recent”) and my sincere appreciation for percoset in my entry, Thank goodness for percoset.

I’ve relied heavily on my training sessions with Stu at the BSC-South End to keep me focussed. Much to my dismay (if I’m really being honest here) I’ve only gone to the gym when I’ve had an appointment with Stu.  It is for that reason I re-signed for 20 more sessions with Stu just a week ago.  I realized that without him there to push me I would likely fall into my routine of sorry-ass excuses for not going to the gym. 

Tonight I had my second session from the 20-pack and he really pushed me hard.  Today was all about the back and abdominals.  I can’t begin to tell you how envious I am of those who have abdominal definition.  I started working out with Stu so I could gain better tummy definition and to essentially bulk up to avoid potential injury in my back. So despite the fact that he kicked my you know what today – I eagerly crunched, lifted and gasped my way through the entire workout.  

I suppose my gym routines are meant to both mitigate all the french fries which I seem to willingly say yes to at restaurants when the waiter asks, “fries or salad?”  As well as an attempt to show how much I truly do value my health.  I make so many decisions each day, which in hindsight probably are not in the best interest of my personal health so these sessions with Stu are really meant to help me make up for some of my transgressions (like my love for ice cream).

I do hope to get better about going to the gym and made a very serious promise to myself as I gasped my way through today’s workout that I would definitely, certainly, absolutely, positively get myself to the gym for a killer workout at least one more time this week. Please send me your positive thoughts and wish me luck, because I know what my calendar looks like this week and how weak I am when it comes to self-discipline.

Social media: LinkedIn

There is a lot of talk about social media in business today and even more confusion about how to leverage some of the more talked about / successful sites.  I’m not an expert on all forms of social media, but I do particularly like two: LinkedIn and Twitter.

Social media is defined by wikipedia as media that can be disseminated through social interaction, that is highly accessible and has scalable publishing techniques. Social media are distinct from more traditional media (e.g. newspapers, television, and film) and is relatively inexpensive and accessible.  It is precisely this accessibility that makes social media both great and a great pain.  For that reason I wanted to share today’s article by Scott Kirsner in The Boston Globe entitled, “Make better introductions”. This article focuses on the benefits of LinkedIn.

LinkedIn is often considered a networking website designed solely for career advancement.  While the site is an excellent tool to leverage and meet people if you are searching for work, it is so much more.  As with so many social media tools – sometimes the full potential is either not fully realized at first or is perceived “too much work”.  In both cases these assumptions are incorrect. I won’t write endlessly about ways one can leverage LinkedIn since the Sunday article does a good job.  However, I will list the ten recommendations – check out the article here for more detail.

  1. Spell your name wrong.
  2. Get recommended.
  3. Take advantage of the toolbars.
  4. Write a compelling headline.
  5. List everything.
  6. LinkedIn can replace business cards.
  7. Automated searches.
  8. Stealthy vs. public prowling.
  9. LinkedIn isn’t Facebook.
  10. Build your network now.

I’ll also add a few of my thoughts / recommendations, which I’ve found provide nearly instant responses and results; they include:

Use the Question & Answer feature.  Asking the right kind of questions can result in possible leads for your firm and answering questions can lead to increasing your profile online by making you an expert in certain categories.

Don’t accept connections of people you don’t know.  The purpose of this site is to connect so it might seem counterintuitive, but if I’m connected to someone I don’t know what does that say about the stregnth of my network?  While I might not regularly stay in contact with everyone, if I were to reach out to someone in my network they should know who I am.  Sometimes the “Facebook-affect” takes place on LinkedIn (a desire to increase contacts no matter how tenuous or estranged they might seem).  Recruiters often have these profiles and it suits their needs as they can reach out to a large pool of candidates but that is not why I’m on LinkedIn, and I don’t view someone’s worth by the number of connections they have – neither should you.

Lastly, visit this site regularly.  LinkedIn is constantly adding new tools that help connect people.  Even if this site does not have obvious benefits – realize this is a lost opportunity for you to connect and strengthen your existing contacts.  Your professional brand is yours to promote or let languish – nobody is ever going to give you a performance review on how you market yourself, but free opportunities that have real value are rare in business.

Later this month I’ll write about another social media site I love – Twitter.  Until then you can reach out to me at www.linkedin.com/in/bostonmarketingguy.

Weekend in New Hampshire

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I spent part of the Labor Day weekend up in New Hampshire at my parent’s new house on Lake Winnipesaukee.  The weather was beautiful and the new home a tranquil location even with my newborn niece, Abby, and two nephews, Jack (5) and Austin (3). 

The only real drawback to the place is that it takes 2 – 2.5 hours and while the destination is worth the drive, it is hardly pretty getting there.  Construction on the house only just finished so next summer it will be interesting to see just how often we make it up to spend time outside of Boston and with family for quick get aways out of the city.

Flashback Friday: Boston South Station

Boston’s South Station is located at the edge of the financial district (also straddling the leather district, chinatown and fort point channel) on Atlantic Avenue and Summer Street in Dewey Square.  In addition to servicing buses and the local subway (MBTA system), regional bus and train service leaves from this busy station 24/7.  I regularly hop on the Acela for business trips to NYC and always enjoy walking through this beautiful building which has been renovated many, many times (most recently in 2001 and 2005) without compromising its architectural charm.

The train station first opened at the start of 1899 and the exterior still looks much as it did back at the end of the 19th century.

Boston South Station through the years:

Cardinal O’Malley did right by attending senator Kennedy’s funeral mass

Today, I was stopped nearly dead in my tracks when I read the headline, O’Malley defends role at Kennedy rites.  For those not in the know, O’Malley is the Cardinal of Boston and he attended the funeral mass for the late Sen. Kennedy mostly as an observer, leaving the ritual service to priests who had a closer, more personal relationship with Ted Kennedy and the Kennedy family.

The “beef” which some of the more conservative constituents of the Catholic faith stems around Kennedy’s unwaivering support for abortion rights. While I understand the strong feelings many Catholics have regarding this issue, I was stunned because in nearly every other important teaching of the Catholic church Senator Kennedy was a stalwart supporter…
– Opposition to the death penalty
– Support for social programs that provide food, aide and training for the poor, sick and mentally ill
– Early and ardent supporter of civil rights

It never ceases to amaze me that if a person has spent a life time of service supporting and championing causes (often unpopular) such as opposing the death penalty or creating social welfare programs as Kennedy did – the fact that he also supported abortion nullifies his good works.  The hypocrisy of many if not most of these conservative Catholics is that they too pick and choose where their personal faith leads them astray from church teaching.  How many of these conservative Catholics support or have been quiet in their defense of the death penalty? How many were opposed and worked to close down Guantanamo for human rights violations?  The Catholic church is equally committed to those causes and as such these individuals should then by their own measure be denied communion as they clamoured for Kennedy and others who supported abortion rights.  Regardless, even if these critics have lived an exemplary life and not waivered in their support for these and other programs which the church supports – perhaps they have lost their ability to realize the greatest teaching of all – love & forgiveness. 

Faith is a prickly subject because it often comes from a perspective of moral superiority, which leaves me cold and continues to distance me from the church I once held so dearly and found much comfort in attending.  I was pleased that Cardinal O’Malley did not remain silent and used his blog to chastise those critical of his decision even if I no longer consider myself a practicising Catholic.

Fox TV replayed the pilot episode of glee which initially aired in mid May.  I have high hopes for this new program. For those who appreciate music and dancing as well as a bit of wit and juvenile drama, this will be the show of choice.  Fox will be airing episodes on Wednesdays at 9pm.  Check out the clip below for a sample of what you can expect.

Why is my blog broken?

Despite the fact that I’m not necessarily new to blogging, I still struggle to effectively leverage all the bells / whistles that blogger provides.  It is no less infuriating knowing that this is about as easy a GUI as exists and  technical neophytes (c’est moi) are “supposedly” able to use these tools without issue.

My biggest frustration right now is that I’ve noticed the blogs which do post my entries in their “Blog List” seem to all have this entry (see poor John Rogers’ ugly mug to the left).  I’m flattered and appreciate that people do this, but sadly that post is quite old, dating back to January of this year.  It’s painful to admit ones limitations and post them front and center but after several failed attempts to fix this problem I feel like I’m left with one of two choices: 1) Rip my computer from the wall while incoherently screaming profanities and throw it out my window 2) Ask for help.  Ignoring how cathartic option one might be and focussing on potential harm that would come to innocent pedestrians some 4 stories below my apartment, I’ve opted for the second choice.  Any techies out there willing to be my blogger-sherpa? I would just like to caution that I need you to use small words and make no assumptions. My technical knowledge is about as deep as the kiddie-pool.  If not, I might have to reconsider option one. Note to little sister and brother — I’m serious when I tell you that you need to re-double your efforts to meet and fall madly in love with someone who works in I.T.

Worst date ever

Last week I included a vlog about dating etiquette because the person so succinctly (and with humor I might add) described his personal frustrations with dating.  At one point in the commentary he references a bad date and so I’ve inserted the “bad date” here for any to watch.  I would however, recommend that if you have not seen the first clip to scroll down 3 entries or link here to watch it.

Bad day

I have several friends who love waking up early.  They enjoy a morning ritual that I’ll never understand nor want to mimic. By contrast, I never really feel my best until my work day has concluded and even if I don’t go out regularly, I stay up probably later than I should. 

Sadly, Boston is an early to bed – early to rise kind of town. I think it has something to do with their maritime heritage and Yankee sensibilities which give us ridiculous sayings like “the early bird catches the worm”. Yuck, I hate worms… I would rather stay up and hear the voices from friends enjoying a late night conversation over a bottle of wine at a restaurant or from an open window in an apartment. However, as I walked home from Backbay tonight, there was no hushed conversation to be overheard – actually, there was hardly another soul in sight.