Men in kilts

Vince Alexander is a UK-based model who looks good in (or out of) pretty much anything he models.

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Monday morning mancandy

May this week mancandy post of the ever so handsome, Dane Peterson, distract you from the fact that it is yet again Monday morning.

Varla Jean Merman comes to Club Cafe

This fall Varla Jean Merman has taken her popular summer show in Provincetown, Little Prick, on tour. She is currently wrapping up a successful tour on the West Coast and will be coming to Boston to perform for two nights at Club Cafe on Friday and Saturday, November 19th & 20th.

Be sure to get your tickets, because Varla’s shows will sell out.

Scruffy Sunday

Since it’s Halloween, I’m going to suggest he is more of a treat than a trick, although many of you might prefer he be the latter. Have a wonderful day.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

As much as I loved Linda Richman on SNL, this is my idea of coffee talk.

Saturday morning comics

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Click on this week’s comic strip to enlarge

Click here if you would like to see the previous Adam & Andy

Furry Friday

Thank god it’s Furry Friday. Have a great weekend everyone.

Past Furry Friday

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday, I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

Here is a riddle that sounds as if it were meant for the Halloween season, but the answer I’m looking for has nothing to do with Bram Stoker’s famous novel. Can you guess the correct answer?

This week’s brain teaser:

With pointed fangs I sit and wait
With piercing force, I dole out fate
Over bloodless victims, I proclaim my might
I can eternally join with a single bite.
What am I?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

Chelsea, gay bars NYC

Below is a list of what is happening in Boston and Provincetown. Show your love by supporting our gay bars and businesses. If you have an event that you would like to see included, email bosguymail@gmail.com.

Boston Gay Bars

The Alley
THURSDAY: UK Drag Race viewing party followed by Trivia all the fun starts @7PM
FRIDAY: Casual Fridays w/ DJ BEGBICK @10PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Dance Party DJ Brian Halligan @9PM
SUNDAY: Bearaoke @8PM

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THURSDAY: RPDR UK w/ host Harlow Havoc @8PM
FRIDAY: Friday Feels w/ music by Twisted Gleam and hosts Penny Tentiary & Coco Iman @10PM
SATURDAE: So Hot Saturdaes Halloween Edition w/ DJ Stevie Pysclone @10PM
SUNDAY: Spooky brunch w/ music by Twisted Gleam and host Lady German @11AM

Cathedral Station
THURSDAY: Watch the Bruins play the Hurricanes @7PM
SATURDAY: Watch the Celtics play the Wizards @5PM & Bruins play the Panthers @7PM
SUNDAY: Watch the Chargers host the Patriots @4PM

Club Cafe
THURSDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ DJ BEGBICK & host Mizery @10PM
FRIDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Mizery @10PM
SATURDAY: Wigged Halloween Cabaret @7:30PM & Halloween Costumer Party w/ DJ Brian Derrick & host Mizery @10PM
SUNDAY: Halloween Tea Dance w/ DJ Stevie Psyclone & host Miss Kris @5PM

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FRIDAY: “Scream Queens” Karaoke Night w/ Ryan Grow @8PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ DJ Jay Ine @10PM
SUNDAY: Spook’d Tea Dance w/ DJ Joe Bermudez @4PM

Jacques Cabaret
THURSDAY: Another Evening with Patty Bourrée Cabaret downstairs @8PM & Now That’s What I Call A Drag Show! @8PM
FRIDAY: Serve-Vivor @7:30PM & Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SATURDAY: Drag Me To The Main Stage @7PM & 10PM
SUNDAY: Comedy Open Mic Night @7PM and Sultry Sunday Halloween Edition w/ Amanda Playwith & Teashaboo @9:30PM

Call 617-426-8902 for show information and to reserve seats.

Legacy & Royale (Gay Mafia Boston)
THURSDAY: Serve Thursdays w/ Landon Cider & Mixologist Rob Botelho @10PM
FRIDAY: Bussdown Fridays w/ DJ FrenchY @10PM
SATURDAY: Halloween Costume Party w/ music by Ranny @10PM
SUNDAY: Dragathon w/ Trixie & Katya and Hot Mess Sundays w/ DJ Richie LaDue at Royale @10PM

Trophy Room has reopened! No programming scheduled at the moment.

Featured LGBTQ+ Nights & Events This Weekend

THURSDAY: HRC in ACTION (virtual event) 7PM online reception || 8PM Livestream

THURSDAY: Skip the Small Talk – Speed Friending 7-9PM at Trident Cafe & Booksellers

THURSDAY: Halloween Dinner & Drag Show hosted by Kalysta Kaykes, featuring Zayn X and Raya Sunshine is at World of Beer in East Cambridge starting at 7PM

FRIDAY: Gay Bash’d (18+) with music by Ickarus is at The Sinclair starting at 9:30PM

FRIDAY: Beach Ball Friday w/ DJ Michael Giller at La Makina on Revere Beach

SATURDAY: Wigged starring Cacophony Daniels & Sutton Lee Seymour comes to Club Cafe Saturday night

SATURDAY: Latin Night Halloween Party at La Makina nightclub on Revere Beach at 9PM

SUNDAY: The Road of Rainbows starts at 3PM on the Common (must register first!)

SUNDAY: Lesbian Night Life Halloween Costume Party Tea Dance starts at 4PM at 152 Hampden Street in Nubian Square

SUNDAY: Heroes Halloween Party (18+) w/ DJ Chris Ewen at Sonia – doors open at 8PM

SUNDAY: Dragathon Starring Trixie & Katya comes to Royale for a spooktacular show starting @8PM

SUNDAY: LEATHER-ETTE: Halloween Party Leather attire encouraged at Phoenix Landing at 9PM

Drag Brunches in Boston

Some drag brunches require tickets purchased ahead of time. Click the event links shared below for ticketing and reservation information.

Illusions The Drag Brunch Boston
Saturday & Sunday shows @1:30PM
Hosted upstairs at Hennessey’s

Hallowqueen “Bewitched” Drag Brunch
Saturday 9:00AM – 11:30AM
House of Blues

Spooky Boots Drag Brunch
Saturday, 12:00PM
Bootleg Special

Lulu’s Drag Brunch
Sunday, seatings @11:00AM & 1:00PM
Lulu’s in Allston

Halloween Drag Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM
Tiger Mama in Fenway

Drag Me To Brunch
Sunday 12:00PM – 4:00PM
Hosted at Carrie Cocktail Nation Club

And finally… another resource for what is happening at Boston gay bars is KikiPedia.

This Weekend in Provincetown

October 28th – 31st is Spooky Bear

Vintage gay

I really love this photo of a dapper gay couple from the 1920s. While I don’t know who they are, the photo is included in a 2019 article posted by the History Channel called, “How Gay Culture Blossomed During the Roaring Twenties” I highly recommend you check out the article if you’re a fan of this weekly post and gay culture / history in general. It is an easy 5-10 minute read full of information including how (and where) drag started and how for a brief window in time gay men and women had a degree of freedom in a few major cities before the start of the Great Depression and WWII.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Yoga day retreat for GBTQ Men with Chuck Raffoni

The holiday season can be a stressful time for many people so with the start of the 2021 holiday season just weeks away, you may find that Chuck Raffoni’s Yoga Day Retreat for GBTQ-Men is just what you need. Help him spread word and share with friends. This could be a great way to spend the day together or as an early holiday gift to yourself.

Yoga Day Retreat for GBTQ Men
Sunday, November 14, 2021 || 10:30AM to 4:30PM
KJ Fitness – Tewksbury, MA

The day-long retreat will be led by Chuck Raffoni ( E-RYT200) who has been featured on NBC’s TODAY SHOW for teaching yoga to men. The intent is to bring men together for a day of yoga, mindfulness and meditation. Together, attendees will explore how these practices can enhance their lives by helping them deal with stress, aging, body image, sexuality and better relate and support each other.

If you are able to lay and sit on the floor comfortably for extended periods, can get yourself up off the floor without assistance, and do not have any injuries that a doctor has told you to avoid exercise, you will be able to participate in this retreat.

For more information about the retreat, which runs from 10:30AM – 4:30PM on Sunday, November 14th or to secure your space (this will fill up), please visit, Yoga Day Retreat for GBTQ Men.

Caption this photo

Hopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up one or two of your own. Leave a funny caption in the comment section, and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

“Repeat after me, on Wednesdays we… wait a minute that’s not what we do.”

Temptation Tuesday

With summer now a memory and fall in full swing, I find photos of men at the beach even more tempting. It doesn’t hurt that this guy’s body is perfect.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Men in kilts

It has been a while since I last posted a photo of Finlay Wilson a.k.a. @Scottishyogaboy on Twitter. That’s his handsome brother on the right. It is long overdue so I’m glad I was able to fix that.

Previous Men in Kilts Posts

Monday morning mancandy

May this week’s PG-13 rated mancandy post distract you from the fact that it is Monday.