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Why sexual orientation needs to be a protected class

David Mullins, Charlie Craig, Masterpiece Cakeshop, Jack Phillips, MASTERPIECE CAKESHOP v. COLORADO CIVIL RIGHTS COMMISSIONThe Satanic Temple, which blogger Joe My God pointed out doesn’t really believe in Satan but is an atheist organization with the mission to “encourage benevolence and empathy among all people” made news last week on a topic that might at first seem frivolous but has real-life implications if you are gay.

Lucien Greaves, co-founder and spokesperson for The Satanic Temple, has said if the U.S. Supreme Court decides (as it is expected to) that “religious freedom” is more important than civil rights, when they hear the case Masterpiece Cakeshop v. Colorado Civil Rights Commission No. 16-111 his organization has a devilishly clever plan to troll Masterpiece Cakeshop and others like them – but more on that later. First hear me out on why this is important to you.

What if the best surgeon in your city refused to treat you, citing religious freedom?

While I would normally suggest the couple find another  business (one who supports the LGBTQ community), let me point out that by allowing this discrimination, it poses a problem that goes far beyond its hypocrisy. Nobody believes for a minute that this argument would be tolerated if the cakemaker suggested he couldn’t make cakes for Jews, who for example, could easily be classified as opposing this owner’s religious views. However, I digress. The real issue here is by allowing one business to discriminate and not provide service to a gay couple based on their selective religious teachings means that other services could also make similar claims. Although it seems far fetched, what if the best surgeon in your city refused to  treat you to you based on his / her religious freedom beliefs? Don’t think it could happen? Don’t be so sure.

making sexual orientation a protected class is both important and relevant.

Although this court case has been described as  a matter of Free Speech vs. Civil Rights, I don’t see it that way. The fact that sexual orientation is not a protected class under the Civil Rights Act of 1964, (unlike race and religion) means there is a good chance (considering the makeup of the court) that refusing to serve anyone who is LGBTQ could be affirmed as a constitutional liberty.

For this reason, The Satanic Temple (TST) announced a plan for those who feel alienated by the privileged status religion holds over sexual orientation: Request your homophobic baker make a cake for Satan. While this hardly resolves the problem, perhaps it can drive home the point that discriminating based on what a person looks like, what they believe or who they are is always wrong and providing religious protections that infringe on the rights of minority groups is inherently a bad idea for everyone involved.

Temptation Tuesday

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Final week to see Men on Boats

Boston theater, bosartsIt is the final week to see The SpeakEasy Stage Company’s production of Men on Boats, currently being performed at the Calderwood Pavilion in the South End.

If you are looking to make plans for later this week consider picking up tickets to see this gender-bending cast of performers who use carefully exaggerated theatrics to tell the story of an actual 1869 expedition led by John Wesley Powell to chart the Colorado River.

I want tickets to SpeakEasy Stage Co’s Men on Boats

Men in kilts

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What to do this week: October 2-8

gay sports, Boston Flag flag FootballHeading into a long holiday (Columbus Day) weekend, there is a lot happening in and around Boston including the Gay Bowl XVII, Ogunquit Bearfest and Ptown Soccer Classsic XXI (all of which start later this week and run through the weekend).

During the week there is still plenty happening including No Filter: BitchCraft at Jacques on Tuesday, Gay Bowl XVII Pep Rally at the Emerald Lounge on Wednesday and Comedy Night at Club Cafe on Thursday.

Over the weekend you can also check out First Fridays in SoWa, Guerrilla Queer BarFASCINATION Friday; on Saturday there is the big HRC New England Gala Dinner & Auction, the monthly Underbear party; and on Sunday check out Trophy Room’s Bear Brunch then head over to Club Cafe for their Sunday “Gen-X” Tea Dance.

MONDAY – THURSDAY

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No Filter: BitchCraft with special guest Severity Stone has a spooky witch theme for this monthly drag show party at Jacques starting at 10PM in Boston

Taco Tuesday is a fun way to socialize and eat on the cheap in the South End; first come, first serve – hosted every Tuesday at Tremont 647 in Boston

BRASH Weekly Queer Party is hosted every Tuesday at Brass Union from 9PM – 1AM in Union Square, Somerville

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Geek Trivia is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Bowl XVII Pep Rally takes place at the Emerald Lounge in the Revere Hotel on Wednesday starting at 7:30PM in Boston

Gay Bowl XVII kicks off on Thursday and runs through the weekend with sporting events in Metro Boston and social events in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting this Thursday from 6-9PM at the Panera Bread at Porter Square in Cambridge

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

MacBeth is being performed at The Oberon on Thursday, October 5 and Friday October 6 in Cambridge

Comedy Night at Club Cafe with your host Tricia Auld featuring local comics starting at 7PM in Boston

Ogunquit Bearfest kicks off on Thursday and runs through the weekend in Ogunquit

Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

THE WEEKEND

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Ptown Soccer Classic XXI starts Friday and runs through the weekend, including Welcome Party, Wigs & Heels Tea Dance, Soccer Balls Dance Party,  Dinner Banquet, and of course soccer in Provincetown

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

WickedQueer Cinema Club presents Heartstone at the Paramount Center – Emerson College on Friday from 7-10PM in Boston

Alan Cummings Sings Sappy Songs for one night only at the Sander’s Theatre at Harvard University, starting at 8PM on Friday

Guerrilla Queer Bar

Guerrilla Queer Bar (GQB) celebrates 10 years is this Friday

Guerrilla Queer Bar (GQB) is celebrating 10 Years! so come and join them on Friday at Hurricane O’Reilly’s starting at 9PM

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday and Saturday night in Ogunquit

Ocean State Classic Opening Party takes place at The Dark Lady on Friday in Providence

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open every Saturday and Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

HRC New England Gala Dinner & Auction takes place at the Seaport Hotel & World Trade Center on Saturday in Boston

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Underbear is a monthly bear dance party (no cover and free clothing check) that has music from DJ Taffy at The Alley Bar in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

Bear Brunch is hosted every second Sunday of the month at the Trophy Room bar from 1-4PM in Boston

Sunday “Gen-X” Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Columbus Day Sunday with DJ Ralphi Rosario from Chris Harris Presents at Royale in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

BosGuy reviews étant in South End

étant is a neighborhood spa that has been in the South End since 1998. Over the years I have been there to get a massage and always enjoyed the professionalism and quality of their service. However, I do prefer to be able to shower after getting a full body massage and because they don’t have facilities to wash, I have in the past opted to go to other spas outside of my neighborhood.

The final week of September I took time off from work to spend part of the day with my father. My father has some circulation issues with his feet so I scheduled a thirty-minute aromatherapy hand & foot massage for the two of us; and asked the masseurs to focus on our feet. I’m not certain if my father has ever had a massage of any kind – let alone one that focuses on just the feet. He may have been a little nervous before starting but Keith Maddy (who worked on my father) was a pro because when my father emerged from his room he looked very relaxed and maybe even a little surprised by how much he enjoyed himself.

My masseur, Keelon Andrews, did an exceptional job, finding pressure points on the top, bottom and sides of my feet and even massaging my shins, which were surprisingly sore. The combination of the scented face mask, relaxing music and Keelon’s strong hands was magical and after it was done I was doubly grateful for the unseasonably warm weather that allowed us to walk out of étant wearing sandals. While the 30-minute massage isn’t cheap, it is a more affordable option than a full body massage, making it a great treat if you’re on a budget.

étant is a neighborhood spa with great staff. If they could increase their space and possibly expand to offer more facilities (e.g. saunas, showers, etc), they could be a destination spa in the city.

étant is located at 524 Tremont Street in the South End and can be found online at etant.com.

étant Aromatherapy Hand & Foot Massage 30-minutes, $65
with paraffin treatment forty-five minutes, $80

BosGuy Rating: 4 out of 5 stars, Awesome.

Other Spa Reviews
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Miniluxe 60-minute pedicure a.k.a. “foot facial”
Cabral Wellness Institute massage

Scruffy Sunday

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Saturday morning coffee

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Saturday morning comic

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And here is a bonus cartoon courtesy of James Asal Jr.gay cartoon, gay comic, James Asal Jr.Want to read one more? Click here.

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.

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Enjoy the weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.

Wicked Queer Cinema Club presents Heartstone

Fat CatDo you love independent film? You may want to check out the Wicked Queer, (formerly “The Boston LGBT Film Festival”) Cinema Club. This group in conjunction with ArtsEmerson meets monthly to screen LGBT film and next Friday (October 6) they meet to see, Heartstone.

Heartstone takes place in a remote fishing village in Iceland. Teenage boys Thor and Christian experience a turbulent summer as one tries to win the heart of a girl while the other discovers new feelings toward his best friend. When summer ends and the harsh nature of Iceland takes back its rights, it’s time to leave the playground and face adulthood.

Click on the link below to learn more and get your tickets today.

Heartstone
Friday, October 6 at 7PM || $11.00
At The Paramount Center at Emerson College

Furry Friday

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BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s brain teaser:  

HINT: Look closely at the letters. The answer has to do with how you write them.

A = 1, B = 0, C = 1, D = 0, E = X
What does E equal and why?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

Will & Grace

Must See TV, megan mullally, gays rule, will and grace, will & grace, karen walkerGuess what I’ll be watching tonight at 9PM ET on NBC?

What to do this weekend

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Provincetown’s Mates Leather Weekend

This weekend Provincetown hosts the twenty-first Mates Leather Weekend, Boston hosts the Berklee Beantown Jazz Festival (Saturday only) and So Hot Saturdaes is hosting the city’s largest Disco Party on Saturday.

On Sunday be sure to check out the SoWa Open Market (it closes for the season at the end of October) and later in the afternoon is Club Cafe’s Sunday Tea Dance, starting at 6PM.

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Billiards Tournament is hosted each Friday starting at 7PM at Mainestreet in Ogunquit

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Friday night in Ogunquit

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Uniforms and Cigars Mates Leather Weekend party is on Friday at The Crown & Anchor in Provincetown

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

Twerk Fridays at is an 18+ night at Ego in Providence

The Coolidge After Midnight: When A Stranger Calls shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Friday in Brookline

SoWa Open Market SoWa Open Market is now open Saturday and Sunday from 10AM – 4PM through the end of October in Boston

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Berklee Beantown Jazz Festival is an excellent (and free) outdoor music festival that takes place in the South End on Saturday from 2PM – 6PM in Boston

Boston Fashion Week Kick Off Party by a Maven’s World starts at 7PM at Royale in Boston

Dueling Divas are back for the summer at Mainestreet every Saturday night in Ogunquit

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

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So Hot Saturdaes: Disco Party starts at 9PM and will fill to capacity so arrive early at Peggy O’Neil’s in Dorchester

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

The Coolidge After Midnight: Peeping Tom starring Keanu Reeves shows at The Coolidge Theater starting at 11:59PM on Saturday in Brookline

Gay Beer Club Runs the Oktoberfest 5K at 9:30 in the morning on Sunday in Cambridge

Drag Tag Sale is from 1PM – 6PM at Jacques Cabaret on Sunday in Boston

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Club Cafe Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.