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What to do this week: January 1-7

handsome, hunk, underwear, hairy, furryDo you have a holiday hangover? Fortunately there are plenty of ways to distract you including the usual suspects: Drag Bingo on Monday at CC, Trivia Tuesday (a new addition) at Dorchester Brewery Co., Atomic Karaoke  at CC on Wednesday, Bear Trivia Night at The Alley and Karaoke Thursdays at Machine (both on Thursday) plus a bunch more fun midweek events.

This weekend the highlight has to be Boston’s No Pants Subway Ride, but there are also plenty of parties including FASCINATION FridayLa Boum: Queer Dance Party and HEROES Saturdays to name just a few.  

Provincetown’s Annual Polar Bear Plunge is Monday, Jan. 1.

MONDAY – THURSDAY

2018 Polar Bear Plunge will take place on Monday, despite ridiculously cold temperatures from 12-3PM at The Harbor Lounge in Provincetown

Drag Bingo on Monday starts at 7PM free to play at Club Cafe in Boston

New Year’s Day Mixer is being hosted by Stonewall Sports from 8:30-10:30PM at Scholars Lounge near DTX in Boston

Trivia Tuesday is every Tuesday at the Dorchester Brewing Company and starts at 7:30PM in Dorchester

Showtune Tuesday hosted by VJ Ryan Grow starts at 9PM every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Stump Trivia with Jonathan Brett is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Queer Boston Board Gamers is meeting on Wednesday from 6-9PM at the Panera Bread at Porter Square in Cambridge

Angelica Maria Features at the Boston Poetry Slam is on Wednesday and starts at 7PM at the Cantab Lounge in Central Square, Cambridge

Atomic Karaoke with DJ Stevie Psyclone & Jonathan Brett is every Wednesday at Club Cafe in Boston

Houseboi 2yr Anniversary! w/ James Cerne and Meatball doors open at 9PM at the Middlesex located between MIT and Central Square in Cambridge

ICA Boston every Thursday from 5PM – 9PM admission is free to the public

Bear Trivia Night is at 8PM every Thursday at The Alley Bar in DTX Boston

Karaoke Thursdays is every Thursday at Machine with your hosts Rob Botelho and Emphysema Menthol 100s in Boston

Detention Thursdays! is hosted every Thursday starting at 9PM with shows at 10:30 & 11:45PM – No Cover – at EGO in Providence

No Pants Subway Ride Boston

Boston’s No Pants Subway Ride is this Sunday

THE WEEKEND

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

SoWa First Fridays runs from 5-9PM at 450 Harrison Avenue in Boston

Wicked Queer Cinema Club presents Summer (Zomer) at the Bright Family Screening Room at the Paramount at 7PM in Boston

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

La Boum: Queer Dance Party is hosting their first party of the year on Friday at The Milky Way in Jamaica Plain

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

HEROES Saturdays plays 80s new wave at Machine with DJ Chris Ewan, starting at 10PM in Boston

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

Boi Butter Brunch is the first Sunday has DJ Colby Drasher plays music, movie clips and more from 1-4PM at Trophy Room on Sunday

Boston’s No Pants Subway Ride is taking place on Sunday from 2-5PM on the MBTA in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Best of 2K17 Rewind Megamashup DJs from Mars

Djs From Mars

Much thanks to Matt over at boyculture blog for sharing this in a post last week. I thought it was a fitting final post for 2017. I love the mashup of music shared  by DJs From Mars in this great video.

Take a listen and enjoy.

The Power of One

The Power of OneMy friend Sheraz (shown above) recently started recording meditation podcasts. The recordings are as much a personal cathartic expression as they are intended to be for others. A recent podcast entitled The Power of One, which he recorded just prior to the Christmas holiday is a brief meditation on goal setting. The topic seems appropriate for New Years – a time when many make resolutions. The entire podcast lasts about 12 minutes and concludes with a 3 minute meditation.

Click Here To Listen: THE POWER OF ONE

I am a firm believer in setting goals so I wanted to give the podcast a shout out and suggest you listen to it when you have a minute (or twelve to be precise).

Previous meditation podcasts include:
Courage To Let Go
Power of Connection Meditation
Introduction: Compassion & Love Meditation

Scruffy Sunday

men in bed, love is loveI wish this was how I could wake up every morning. If I did, I feel like I might hate mornings just a little bit less.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday morning coffee

handsome, hunk, shirtless guy, muscular guyI’d wake up early to make this guy a pot of coffee.

Saturday morning comics

Bob Glass, Bob Glasscock, gay comic, gay cartoonThis week’s Saturday Morning Comics includes an update from Casey At The Bat which had been on a bit of a hiatus but published a sweet holiday comic last week, which I wanted to share with you. If you forgot where Casey At The Bat left off last you can see the previous comic here.

CASEY AT THE BAT is a comic strip follows the adventures of a young, gay man [Casey] and his friends in life, love and sports!  You can learn more about Casey by visiting, caseyatb.com.

Click on this week’s comic to enlargeBob Glass, Bob Glasscock, gay cartoon

BosGuy reviews G2O Spa & Salon

Boston spa, massageG2O Spa and Salon on Newbury Street in Boston’s Back Bay neighborhood has been operating (initially under the name Giuliano Spa) since 1994, and it has been at its current location (278 Newbury Street) since 2010.

The full service spa offers all the traditional services you would associate with a spa and salon as well as several unique treatments you won’t find at other spas in Boston but for this post I want to focus on my 1-hour full body massage.

I will start with my only criticism of the entire spa experience – the somewhat chaotic surroundings on their ground floor where you first enter and pay before leaving. Fortunately once you leave the ground floor all the noise and chaos goes away. The facilities are excellent and I especially appreciate their spacious  men’s locker, which have private showers (which I used after my massage).

My masseur Bill Engvall met me as I came out of the men’s locker room and brought me down to the third floor.  After a quick consultation, he left the room so I could slip off my G20 robe and sandals and get onto the heated bed. I had mentioned to Bill I spend a lot of time hunched over my laptop at a desk job so he focused on my neck and lower back.

Boston spaI feel like every masseur has their own technique but I evaluate a massage based on how attentive they are to areas that need attention and ultimately how refreshed / relaxed I feel after the massage concludes. Bill did a great job and while I was showering off the massage oils, I noticed a marked improvement with my arms and shoulders flexibility. Even better I slept deeply and woke up uncharacteristically refreshed and less grumpy than usual.

A 60-minute massage at G2O starts at $125 and a 90-minute massage starts at $175 and while this may not be something you can do regularly, it is a wonderful treat especially in the winter when the air is so dry and it is so cold out.

BosGuy Rating: 5 out of 5 stars, Awesome.

G2O Spa & Salon
(617) 262-2220
278 Newbury Street (thru the end of 2017)

NOTE: In January G2O will leave 278 Newbury Street and expand into space above the Tannery on Exeter Street. One assumes the new space will be even nicer. I look forward to visiting it in the new year and sharing an updated review.

Other Spa Reviews
Miniluxe 60-minute pedicure a.k.a. “foot facial”
étant 30-minute aromatherapy hand & foot massage
bliss spa Boston 75-minute massage a.k.a. “blissage”
Cabral Wellness Institute massage
étant 60-minuteSwedish massage

Furry Friday

hairy, handsome, hunkThis is a Furry Friday selfie at its best. Have a happy and safe holiday weekend.

Past Furry Friday Posts 

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s brain teaser:  
What moves faster, heat or cold? Be sure to explain why and remember this is a riddle – not a 7th grade science exam!

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

New Year's Eve

It is the final weekend of 2017 and there are a ridiculous number of parties and events happening. I’ve only captured a fraction of what is happening in Boston, Providence, Provincetown and Ogunquit below for you.

If you’re up in Ogunquit be sure to check out Mainestreet’s NYE party Fire & Ice, in Provincetown A-House will be packed for New Year’s Eve celebration, in Providence check out EGOs NYE Block Party and in Boston while there are a lot of choices the largest party will be Chris Harris Presents New Year’s Eve Party at Paradise open til 4AM.

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Boston’s largest NYE Party will be at Paradise

First Light celebrations start Friday morning and conclude with free fireworks on the beach on Monday, January 1  in Provincetown

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

Illusions Holiday Show is at The Crown & Anchor on Friday in Provincetown

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

Ptown, Provincetown, New Years Eve

New Year’s weeeknd in Provincetown has a bunch of parties to check out

NYE Weekend at Shipwreck Lounge invites you to join them Friday, Saturday and Sunday in Provincetown

Well Strung: Home for the Holidays perform on Saturday at Town Hall in Provincetown

Miss Richfield: Fall on your knees is Saturday at 7PM at the Sage Inn in Provincetown

New Year’s Eve Eve is a party hosted at the Oberon on Saturday starting at 9PM in Cambridge

Dont Ask Dont Tell: Luminous ft. Leah V & Dirty Charity is at Great Scott this Saturday in Allston

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

Saga Saturdays Boston’s biggest gay dance party at Paradise in Cambridge

The Donkey Show: NYE Ed. join the cast for the final performance of 2017 and ring in 2018 to your favorite Studio 54 music at the Oberon in Cambridge

gay providence, AJA, Club EGO

The biggest party in Providence is at Club EGO with special guest AJA

EGOs NYE Block Party starts at 9PM and will take over Richmond Street (w/ heated tents) and a special performance by RPDR, AJA in Providence

NYE: Farwell to 2017 is at dbar on Sunday starting at 11PM in Dorchester

The Alley’s NYE Bash will have DJ Steve Marsden playing all your favorite music on Sunday in Boston

New Year’s Eve celebration at the A-House in Provincetown

Fire & Ice is Mainestreet’s New Year’s Eve bash in Ogunquit

Chris Harris Presents New Years Eve is Boston’s largest LGBTQ dance party at Paradise (open til 4AM) in Cambridge

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Under attack in 2017: LGBTQ organizations see increase in donations

This past year many in the LGBTQ community have felt under attack. GLAAD details many direct and indirect things that President Trump has done and said over the past year here; a few highlights include:

  • Minutes after being sworn into office, any mention of the LGBTQ community were erased from White House, Department of State, and Department of Labor websites.
  • This past summer President Trump bans transgender service members from serving in “any capacity” in the U.S. military, threatening to fire 15,000 currently serving troops over Twitter.
  • This fall Trump becomes the first sitting president to speak at the Family Reseach Council’s Values Voter Summit, a convening of fringe groups united around discrimination against LGBTQ people.

Couple these with the 50+ actions and comments highlighted on the GLAAD page with the fact that hate groups like Neo Nazis and the KKK have been provided a platform, that they regularly use to thank President Trump and it isn’t a surprise that many in our community are upset.

Clinton’s abysmal loss came as a shock to our community and after coming to terms with the election results it appears that many of you are once again opening your wallets to resist. An annual analysis of LGBTQ movement by the Movement Advancement Project (MAP) finds revenue and individual contributions for LGBTQ organizations are on the rise again. You can read MAPs key findings press release here and download their report here.

Vintage gay

christmas, gay christmas

This picture is from the Instagram account @LGBT_History and shows Milt & Chris celebrating Christmas in 1954. I love this photo of these two guys (and their little kitty on Chris’ lap).

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Previous Vintage Gay Photos

Words to live by in 2018 from Alexander Woollcott

famous quote, funny, funny quoteAll the Things I Really Like to Do Are Either Illegal, Immoral, or Fattening.

Alexander Humphreys Woollcott was an American critic and commentator for The New Yorker magazine and a member of the Algonquin Round Table. I had never heard of him until I stumbled upon a brief post with the quote above on The Wow Report.

I am dying to use this at a cocktail party so please don’t steal my thunder if you see me out. That goes doubly to my friend Robert who is better known as Etiquetteer, who I have no doubt knows all about Mr. Woollcott.

This week on Instagram: yoyoha

 

josh haraWhen I was growing up I use to draw all the time. For some reason I stopped but I never stopped appreciating the art form – no matter what shape it takes. Josh Hara’s account features drawings on coffee cups with a bit of humor like this one which espouses the benefits of a morning coffee and the problems that can happen later in the day after having a martini or two. The account is one part artistic and one part humorous – check it out.

Follow him on Instagram here, instagram.com/yoyoha.

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holiday, christmas humorHopefully the caption I’ve shared below inspires you to offer up a caption or two of your own. Leave a witty or funny caption as a comment for this post and I’ll approve it for readers to enjoy.

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