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Mary Bonauto to lead marriage equality argument before SCOTUS

The MacArthur FoundationThe LA Times is reporting that gay rights pioneer, Mary Bonauto, who may be best known as the lawyer who won the first gay-marriage rulings in Massachusetts and Vermont, will lead the argument before the Supreme Court in favor of a constitutional right to same-sex marriage nationwide.  She was selected by the attorneys and the couples from four states whose cases will be heard on April 28.

Bonauto will be representing April DeBoer and Jayne Rowse, two nurses from Michigan who are raising four adopted children. She will argue that the 14th Amendment’s guarantee of liberty and equal protection of the laws requires the state to issue them a marriage license.

You can learn more about this amazing woman and her list of accomplishments from her profile on Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD), here.

Gov Mike Pence from Indiana is lying

Indiana anti homosexuality billThis weekend Indiana’s Governor Mike Pence seemed to be everywhere justifying the “religious freedom” bill he signed into law.  He continually denied that this bill was designed to intentionally discriminate against the LGBT community.

I agree with GLAAD, Governor Mike Pence is a liar. Just because so many Indianans are gullible doesn’t mean everyone else is so naive. #BoycottIndiana

OMG

handsome, hunk, black guy, beautiful lips, gayI think my heart literally skipped a beat when I looked at this guy.

Boston LGBT Film Festival opens April 2nd

gay film, queer film, moviesThe Boston LGBT Film Festival opening night is later this week on Thursday, April 2nd at the ICA Boston in the Seaport.  The festival celebrates films by, for and about the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community.

The Boston LGBT Film Festival runs from April 2 – 12th 

This year’s festival opens with the 95-minute romantic comedy, EAT WITH ME. The Director, David Au, will be present at this showing and an after party will follow at Empire.  For more information about this movie, the complete festival calendar and to purchase tickets visit their website, bostonlgbtfilmfest.net.

Saturday night video: Max Emerson and Colby Melvin

Colby MelvinA couple weeks ago I shared Max Emerson’s funny first episode from his Underpants YT series.   Last week Max released his second episode – this time working with the ever so handsome Colby Melvin.  Enjoy the eye candy and tongue-in-cheek video clip.

Sex Love and Labels: Coming to terms in the gay community…

Sex Love and LabelsA friend has started a new blog dedicated to talking about sex, love and labels in the gay community.  You can read his first post, It all started…, which was inspired from a Buzzfeed quiz and a tweet of all things that inquired, “What kind of bottom are you?”  I’ve also added this to my blogroll alongside many of my favorite blogs.

Sex Love and Labels

 

DADT this Saturday at Great Scott in Allston

Don't Ask Don't Tell, Great Scott, Gay Night, BostonSaturday, March 28th from 10:00 p.m. – 2 a.m.
Great Scott in Allston, MA ($10 cover)

Looking for something different to do this weekend? Check out the monthly gay night out in Allston, MA called Don’t Ask Don’t Tell.  There is more information on their Facebook page, here.

climACTS! Wet is Thursday, March 26th

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Photo Credit: Joel Benjamin

The Theater Offensive (TTO) annual FUNdraiser, climACTS! is this Thursday. Join Sergio, Me and a very fun crowd at Royale in the Theater District.  The party is being emceed by David Brown,  DJ Brent Covington will be on hand and Cuban-American performance artist Octavio Campos will impress.

climACTS! Wet is Thursday, March 26th. Get your tickets today

This year’s OUT on the Edge Award will be given to Transparent actress, Alexandra Billings.  And by attending  you will help TTO raise much needed money to continue their programming for the coming year. I guarantee that if you attend you will all but forget this winter and leave flush from all the excitement.

Get Your climACTS! 2015 Tickets Here

Indiana passes anti-LGBT legislation

discriminationIndiana’s State House earlier today approved the nation’s most anti-LGBT legislation.  According to the IndyStar, similar legislation was passed by the State Senate and Indiana’s Governor has said he intends to sign this into law – all under the guise of protecting religious freedom.  The legislation is modeled on a 22-year old federal law known as the Religious Freedom and Restoration Act. You may recall this act because it was what the US Supreme Court cited in allowing Hobby Lobby to opt out of the Affordable Care Act requirement that they cover contraceptives.

This sort of thing really ticks me off because I get so frustrated having these discussions over and over again. Legally barring a group from a business has haunting parallels to the civil rights struggles from the 1950s and 1960s not to mention more recent legislation organizations like GLAD, HRC and others have overturned in the courts for our community.

Shame on you Indiana – and shame on Indianans.  You may not agree with your state government but this is your home and your home makes me sick.

#RingYourGranny for Marriage Equality

The 1980s Queer activist group Act Up was the first to slap “Silence = Death” stickers all over Boston.  While we’ve thankfully moved beyond those times, the basic premise remains true. LGBT issues become more acceptable when they are openly discussed so I applaud the #RingYourGranny campaign in Ireland.

On May 22nd, Ireland will vote on the Marriage Equality referendum, deciding whether or not same-sex couples can get legally married there.  I’m posting this to voice my support and to ask anyone who might have relatives in Ireland to call them and ask them how they plan to vote.  Sometimes all it takes is the courage to speak up.

 

A celebration of censorship

leslie lohman museum, nyc, lgbtqA celebration of censorship is an exhibit at the Leslie-Lohman Museum of Gay and Lesbian Art in New York City that runs through Sunday, May 3rd.

Has anyone seen the exhibit which opened last month?  I’m curious because the description sounds interesting.  The Leslie-Lohman Museum describes the exhibit as follows, “For decades, censors—would-be and actual—have attempted to suppress queer creativity… Taking inspiration from the censorship of Robert Mapplethorpe’s art in the 1980s and 1990s, and the more recent withdrawal of David Wojnarowicz’s A Fire in My Belly from the National Portrait Gallery, we explore the innovative responses to watershed moments in the history of censored LGBTQ art… Here we seek to situate the work within its historical context of censorship and to highlight the resilience of the queer artists who audaciously attempt to address diverse social and political issues in their work.”

If you visit the exhibit, I’d love to hear your thoughts and if you think it is worth checking out.

Leslie-Lohman Museum of Gay and Lesbian Art – 26 Wooster Street –  NYC 

Boyfriends at Milky Way Lounge March 20th

DJ Brent Covington Boyfriends is a fun, gay dance night at the Milky Way Lounge in Jamaica Plain that is hosted on the 3rd Friday of each month.

This month, guest DJ James Derek Dwyer makes a triumphant return and will join resident DJ Brent Covington at Boyfriends later this week.  Doors open at 10:00 p.m. and there is a $5.00 cover; your attitude should be checked at the door.

For more information check out their event page on Facebook, here.

#BoycottDolceGabbana

Boycott Dolce Gabbana, #BoycottDolceGabbanaI wasn’t going to comment on the current controversy regarding Stefano Gabbana’s recent comments until he decided to open his mouth again in response to a call for a boycott of D&G products initiated by Sir Elton John and quickly picked up by many others in the gay community.

This is so reminiscent of Guido Barilla’s, Chairman of Barilla Group, comments in 2013.  It begs the question can the Italians join the rest of the world in the 21st century? Who would’ve ever guessed that the current Pope would prove to be a better friend than the founders of D&G?  I’m terribly disappointed in Stefano Gabbana and his one time partner, Dominico Dolce.  Their concept of what a healthy family looks like is terribly flawed and while they have a right to their opinion they clearly don’t understand who their buyers are. Insulting one of your most important group of buyers is an odd way to foster brand loyalty. Somehow I don’t see creeps like Senator Rick Santorum and Senator Ted Cruz buying D&G. Maybe Dolce & Gabbana can team up with Chick-fil-A.

The Guys Next Door Kickstarter campaign

gay daddy, gay parenting, same sex householdThere are gay daddies and then there are gay daddies.  While one variety you tend to only meet online or out at a bar or club, the latter is more pervasive but not always visible.  In 2013 The Williams Institute estimated that as many as 6 million children are being raised in same sex households.

gay parenting, gay dad, same sex householdA Kickstarter campaign was started to help fund a new movie called The Guys Next Door.  This movie invites you into the home of Erik and Sandro, a married gay couple with two daughters, birthed by their friend Rachel who has a family of her own. Award-winning filmmakers, Allie Humenuk and Amy Geller, follow this extended family for 3+ years capturing life as it unfolds. Told with humor and grace, this feature-length documentary is a poignant and inspiring story of family, friendship and gay rights.

Interested in learning more? Check out their Kickstarter page here.

Boston LGBT Film Festival preview brunch

Boston LGBT flim festival preview brunchHelp support Boston’s 31st LGBT Annual Film Festival by coming down to Post 390 in the Back Bay next Sunday, March 22nd from 1 – 3 pm for their annual festival preview brunch.  Ticket revenue from the Festival Preview Brunch helps to fund the festival; purchase your tickets for $7 in advance or for $10 at the door.

RSVP for the Festival Preview Brunch Here

At Post 390 at 406 Stuart Street, Boston, MA
1:00 pm – 3:00 pm