Yearly Archives: 2009

Lock’em up


Slate.com has an interesting article by Dahlia Lithwick that addresses the current US prison problem. In February 2008, I wrote about the fact that for the first time in U.S. history, more than 1 in every 100 American adults is in jail or prison in my entry, Tarnishing the American dream. The Slate.com article,”Cage Match: Guantanamo is the least of America’s prison problems”, points out that with 5% of the world’s population, the U.S. houses nearly 25% of the world’s prisoners.

Sen. James Webb, D-Va is currently trying to address meaningful prison reform, and I give this new Senator credit because while there are plenty of reasons this should be done it is unlikely he will earn the support of the American electorate. Probably the only time most people give any thought to our prison system is if / when the subject of housing them in or near their communities is discussed. However, with an incarceration rate nearly 5 times the world average, and local, state, and federal spending on corrections reaching nearly $70 billion per year, something clearly has to be done.

I’ll end with a quote from Senator Webb in the Slate.com article because I think its brevity and point is difficult to dispute,””Either we’re the most evil people on earth, or we’re doing something wrong.” For the record, I don’t think the U.S. is even remotely evil so clearly we must be doing something wrong. We have both moral and financial incentives to think this through more carefully. I hope Sen. Webb can pursuade the U.S. Congress to consider the National Criminal Justice Commission Act of 2009.

Flashback Friday: Boston’s Gay Nightlife

Boston’s gay nightlife has certainly had its share of changes and with the advent of sites like Manhunt you will often hear older gay men bemoan the loss of many gay bars in the city. I concur that Boston’s nightlife can often leave a lot to be desired, but a new chapter is being written here in Boston and most likely in other cities around the country as being gay becomes less a stigma and accepted by the mainstream.

Every other Friday night, ROCCA (a popular South End restaurant with one of the nicest patios in the neighborhood) hosts gay parties. For those who like to get their dance on – the bar Roxy goes gay every Saturday. Additionally, it is hard to step into most bars in the South End and BackBay without seeing several other gay and lesbian groups enjoying cocktails. It is true that the subterfuge is gone and certainly many bars have closed their doors, but the GLBT nightlife in Boston is not dead – far from it. It has just changed to keep up with the times.

The photograph to the left is an old adverstisement that I believe dates back to the 1950s or 1960s 1980s. I’m not sure if Herbie’s Ramrod is somehow related to the present day, Ramrod (in the photo on the right). However, the Tom of Finland-like images seem eerily familiar to Boston’s current bar’s image.

Boston’s AIDS Walk this Sunday

Take a moment and watch this kitschy clip from the AIDS Action Committee Development team. The AIDS Walk is this Sunday, June 7th. Won’t you consider to be a part of this day? Participating increases the number of walkers which in turn raises awareness.

The Walk is the AAC’s largest single fundraiser and in addition to providing headlines it also serves to remind us that there still is no cure for HIV. The money raised from the AIDS walk is considered ‘unrestricted’ which is exceptionally important to social service organization like the AAC, because often they have to do work that is not easy to get funding for and can only be funded through unrestricted dollars.


If you don’t have plans this Sunday, come down to the Hatch Shell on the Esplanade. Join me and 15,000 others – just by showing up you are making a statement and more importantly you are helping to make a difference. Write a check to the AIDS Action Committee (any amount is welcome), put on your sneakers and come down. It is an easy and fun walk that starts at 10:00am.

I’ll be walking with Sergio. You can also send him a donation by linking here.

Granite State says "I do" to Gay Marriage

New Hampshire has become the sixth state to legalize same sex marriage and now leaves lonely Rhode Island as the only state in New England where same sex marriage is not legal. Earlier this afternoon the modified bill passed both the State Senate and House and is expected to be signed by Governor Lynch later today. You can read more in today’s Boston Globe, online at Boston.com.

Sorry for the cheesy graphic but I’m completely inept at graphic design.

Diamond and Ferguson to join the Pops on the 4th

The Boston Globe has posted on Boston.com that Neil Diamond will be accompanying Keith Lockhart and the Boston Pop’s at this year’s free 4th of July concert on the Esplanade.

According to The Boston Globe, the Liberty Mutual press release also said,”The Boston Pops Fireworks Spectacular, which draws approximately 500,000 concert goers annually, will be hosted again by Craig Ferguson of CBS’s ‘The Late Late Show with Craig Ferguson.”

I can already hear the crowd singing along to Diamond’s hit, “Sweet Caroline” and everyone laughing to Ferguson’s off-beat and witty remarks.

Sunday, May 31st

Although I was still convalescing and did not step outside yesterday, I could see that the weather was absolutely beautiful. However, early in the evening there was a brief shower and after the rain subsided the sun broke through the clouds again. Looking out my window, I could clearly see a large rainbow just off the horizon. I wish this picture could do the rainbow justice but it seems to lack the ethereal glow and brilliance of color that was present. The rainbow lasted for nearly a half hour and was a beautiful cap to what appeared to be a gorgeous day.

Thank goodness for Percoset

I’ve been away from my blog for a little more than a week, because over the Memorial Day Weekend I was diagnosed with viral meningitis.

I was fortunate to be able to recognize my symptoms and get to the hospital fairly quickly, because approximately nine years ago I contracted viral meningitis and at the time, I just assumed that I had a migraine. I’m one of the lucky few who do not get headaches so I had no ability to differentiate between a migraine and meningitis. Because it took me a few days before seeking medical attention, my body was significantly weaker and my recovery was far slower.

What is Meningitis?
Meningitis is a relatively rare infection that affects the delicate membranes called meninges (men-in’-jeez). These membranes cover the brain and spinal cord. Meningitis used to occur most commonly in infants, but because a vaccine is now given to infants, this infection now occurs mainly in adults. Many forms of meningitis can be contagious among people in close contact.

Viral meningitis is more common than the bacterial form and generally but not always less serious. It can be triggered by a number of viruses, including several that can cause diarrhea. However, people with viral meningitis are much less likely to have permanent brain damage after the infection resolves.

Outbreaks of meningitis, particularly the bacterial form, are rare in the U.S. However, since the early 1990s outbreaks have been increasing for reasons not yet understood. Viral meningitis tends to be less severe, and most people recover completely. Fungal meningitis is the most rare form and generally occurs only in people with weak immune systems, such as people with AIDS.

Fortunately, I am finally on the mend – although I still tire very quickly and need to remain quiet. Today’s blog entry was sort of a test to see if looking at a computer monitor and ‘exercising’ my brain by engaging in writing would lead to a headache or nausea. I’m glad to write that I still feel good (perhaps that is due to the Percoset, but I’d like to think this proves I’m definitely on the mend).

Acknowledgements:
Much of the above information (and medical image) was found on Health Plan of NY. Thanks also to Seres Vivos website for the dog photo.

Bonjour Roland Garros

Sunday, May 24th, the 2009 French Open begins. Four time champion, Rafael Nadal, is the obvious favorite, but in men’s tennis there are no guarantees. Feisty Muscovite, Dinara Safina, is the top ranked female, but a revolving list of top ranked women players makes it tough to predict who will be victorious when the tournament concludes.

Early round tennis play will be broadcast on ESPN 2. A complete list of the 2009 French Open broadcast schedule can be found on the website, OnTheBaseLine.com by linking here.

The men’s singles draw can be viewed here.
The women’s singles draw can be viewed here.

Off to the Ramrod Performing Arts Centre

I am off to see Ryan Landry’s latest spoof Willie Wanker and the Hershey Highway. I expect a lot of bawdy humor, plenty of camp and witty social commentary.

Boston Globe’s writer, Louise Kennedy said of the Gold Dust Orphans’ latest musical, “…wraps unprintable naughtiness around a surprisingly sweet center.” Sounds perfect to me.

UPDATE
Just returned from seeing Willie Wanker and the Hershey Highway and found it thoroughly enjoyable. The show is a musical and one with some talented vocalists. All told it was worth the time and money and I would suggest catching the show which now heads off to Provincetown for the summer.

Flashback Friday: Post Office Square

In the mid 1950s an unsightly four-story parking garage dominated Post Office Square, and the area was completely devoid of both open and green space.

Some 30 years later, the parking garage was demolished and replaced with a beautiful park (officially named the Norman B Levanthal Park) that is enjoyed by thousands of people (including yours truly) on warm and sunny days. During the week a cafe is open that serves coffee, snacks and lunch. If you would like to learn more about the history of Post Office Square, link here.


Top photo courtesy of Bill Horsman.

Nana’s 1 year anniversary

It was one year ago today that my grandmother, “Nana”, passed away in her home. She was fortunate to have lived a long life and to see all of her children and many of her grandchildren grow up to be happy, healthy adults.

She is survived by all her children and grandchildren as well as two sisters. Although last May 21st was a sad day, as I mentioned in my blog entry about her passing, previous strokes had robbed her of the life her children and grandchildren had grown accustomed to seeing her live. The memories I have of my grandmother are of her cooking, zipping around Winchester, playing bridge, dashing to or from her winter home in Florida, and too many more to properly list. I suppose the point I’m trying to make is that even though I miss her presence, my memories are fond reminders of the amazing woman I’ll always think of as Nana.

Wallpaper Magazine honors banQ

The other night Wallpaper magazine hosted a party at banQ, to celebrate the South End eatery’s designation as “Best New Restaurant in the World.” While I’m a fan of the restaurant and love the location just one block from my house, I’m not sure I would classify the place as the best in the world – after all I have not eaten everywhere in the world (yet). However, I’m glad to see a new restaurant getting some recognition and wish them continued success.

Photograph by John Horner

Although I’m the first to admit that the television is always on, I do not have a DVR and I do not set my schedule around network programs. However, after watching FOX Television’s new show, Glee, that might all have to change. I have not laughed so hard or enjoyed a televsion program this much since Ugly Betty’s maiden season. Glee’s website indicates that this is Ryan Murphy’s latest creation. Murphy is also the creator of “Nip Tuck” – a cult favorite.

Glee centers around Will Schuester, a young optimistic teacher, who wants to revive the school’s glee club. Supporting cast includes some interesting characters including the school’s cheerleading coach, Sue Sylvester, played by Jane Lynch (you would recognize her from her role in the movie, Best in Show). The students in the glee club are also entertaining – such as the hunky football QB,Finn Hudson, played by Cory Montieth and the much maligned, Rachel Berry, played by Lea Michele who has a truly amazing voice.

This show is not going to have broad appeal so I hope it can succeed. For fans of witty one liners and great music there probably is not a better show on TV. My favorite line from tonight’s show came from glee club diva, Mercedes (Amber Riley) when she proclaimed “I ain’t no Kelly Rowland – I’m Beyonce!” Musical scenes included an incredible rendition of Amy Winehouse song, “Ain’t Going to Rehab”, a nod to several musicals including Grease, Les Miserables and Chicago as well as the cheesy 80’s hit from Journey, “Don’t Stop Believin'”. I’m hooked and I’ll be watching this program next Tuesday night. Will you?

You can check out much more on hulu by linking here.

Introducing Abby Dion

Yesterday, May 16th my sister, Elizabeth, gave birth to her third child, Abby Elizabeth Dion. Abby has two older brothers Jack (age 5) and Austin (nearly 3). Making my third visit to the Brigham and Women’s hospital to see mother, father (Travis) and baby was as exciting as it was the first two times I went to see Jack and Austin when they were born.

It will be exciting to see how the addition of a little girl to the family will change the family dynamics in the years to come. As the oldest of 4 children (one brother and two sisters), it is impossible for me to imagine not having little girls in the house growing up, and I’m glad I’ll be able to share that experience with my two nephews as they grow up. I’m also looking forward to having the opportunity to spoil the youngest and only daughter in the family. I’m now an uncle three times over and can not believe how exciting it is.

SoWa Open Market returns

This weekend the SoWa Open Market in the South End returns. The market opens this Saturday and Sunday and will run every Sunday through October 25th from 10:00am to 4:00pm.

This year the market has expanded significantly. An antiques market will be held behind the traditional artisan and crafts market in the former transportation building, which I featured in a former Flashback Friday entry.

Two blocks up Harrison Avenue is an expanded farmer’s market that will also draw visitors to the newly remodeled store fronts along Thayer Street, which include galleries and shops like Mohr & McPherson. No doubt this has contributed to Rocca’s decision to start hosting brunches again during the Open Market. If you have the chance, stop by and check it out.