Why Sergio and I are wearing a safety pin

UnityHave you noticed photos of friends on social media wearing safety pins starting to crop up over the past week? With several news outlets reporting a sudden rise in hate crimes some  have started to wear safety pins. Wearing the safety pins sends a message that those individuals are “safe” allies, willing to step forward and accompany anyone feeling targeted or marginalized.

According to multiple news outlets, there has been a rise in hate crimes over the past week. A USA Today article was one of several written. I found their headline unsettling, Post-election spate of hate crimes worse than post-9/11, experts say, but what bothered me the most about the article was how little it surprised me. This quote shared on Facebook by my friend Don Hamel nicely articulates why I’m not surprised and why I’m so disappointed.

Not all Trump voters are racist, but all of them decided that racism (or homophobia, etc) isn’t a dealbreaker. And to me that is racism. It is easier to be racist to a large group of people you can’t see, don’t know, etc, as opposed to your neighbor or family member, but to me it’s racism just the same.

As Van Jones put it, Trump was willing to “throw some of us away to appeal more deeply to others”, and voting for him signifies that you were willing to throw some people away to get your agenda (which honestly may not even happen…what are the chances of Trump really helping the middle class or fixing healthcare).

I know some people commenting here who voted for Trump are loving and wonderful people but it’s just really really hard to get past the fact that racism, sexism, homophobia, etc was not a dealbreaker for people…

Temptation Tuesday

handsome, hunk, muscle gay, red head manEven though summer is now over here in Boston, if I had a body like this guy’s I’d probably only wear short shorts too.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Giant skating path and holiday market is coming to City Hall Plaza

Boston

Source: bostinno.streetwise.co

Starting in December, City Hall Plaza will look radically different with a custom-designed outdoor skating path will span approximately 11,000 square feet.

The City’s release said, “Open to the public seven days a week, Bostonians and visitors alike will be dazzled by the winter activities, holiday shopping from a mix of local and international vendors, an eclectic array of hospitality experiences at the Urban Lodge, Vinopolis Interactive Wine Experiences, The Chocolate Story, and attractions including Santa’s House and a pedal-powered Holiday Tree.”

Disheartened by the election? Read, It’s Not Over

Michelangelo SignorileFor those of you who are nervous about a Trump Administration, I would recommend you buy Michelangelo Signorile’s book, It’s Not Over

Signorile postulates that the progress the LGBTQ community has made during the Obama Administration has infuriated the Right and stiffened the resolve of social conservatives who are determined to win this cultural war.  He also turns a critical eye to many of our supposed “allies” in Washington, the media and Hollywood  who too often remain complacent and in the words of the book “become a roadblock to progress.”

While I doubt Signorile could’ve predicted a Trump victory, much of what he warns of happening in his book does appear to unfold. Take heart by taking a closer look at his suggestions for how to combat those darker forces in our society and politics, which now feel emboldened by a Trump Presidency. With roughly half of all Americans casting their vote for Donald Trump, the next two years must be spent building bridges with those who voted for Trump as a protest against Clinton but typically vote Democrat and also rallying those who opted not to go to the polls to ensure even more Americans vote in 2020.

What to do this week: November 14 – 20

Provincetown presents Mr. New England Leather Weekend

Provincetown presents Mr. New England Leather Weekend

What to do this week:  November 14-20th

Boston Gay Men’s Book Club meets to discuss Salón de Belleza at 7PM at Trident Booksellers & Cafe on Monday, November 14 in Boston

Pie in the Sky Bingo with the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence helps raise money for Community Servings at Club Cafe on Monday, November 14 in Boston

Fascination Monday is a gear / kink / fetish party hosted the second Monday at Jacques in Boston

Geek Trivia is guaranteed fun and has lots of prizes (trivia starts at 8PM) hosted every Tuesday at Club Cafe in Boston

BAGLY, Harvest HomecomingBAGLY’s Annual Harvest Homecoming is from 7-9PM at Club Cafe on Tuesday, November 15 in Boston

Show Tune Tuesdays takes place every Tuesday at dbar in Dorchester

Karaoke Night starts at 10PM every Tuesday at Jacques in Boston

Tuesday Night Trivia is at The Alley Cat every Tuesday starting at 8PM in Providence

November Project: Stair workout at Harvard takes place at the Harvard Stadium from 6:30-7:30AM every Wednesday in Boston

boston-ironsidesBoston Ironsides Lip Sync Competition starts at 7PM on Wednesday, November 16 at Club Cafe in Boston

Stump Trivia impress your friends with all the trivia you know from 5 – 10PM every Wednesday at Cathedral Station in Boston

Charity Bachelor Auction raises money for the Harbor to the Bay charity on Thursday, November 17 at Club Cafe in Boston

The Men’s Event Kickoff Party starts at 6PM on Thursday, November 17 at Circle Furniture in Boston

THUMP Thursdaes is every Thursday at Peggy O’Neil’s Pub in Dorchester

firemen calendarTurn Up The Heat 2017 Boston Firefighter Calendar Launch Party starts at 8PM on Thursday, November 17 at Royale in Boston

Mr. New England Leather Weekend starts on Friday, November 18 and runs through the weekend in Provincetown

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) meets at 6PM at Brooklyn Boulders every Friday in Somerville

Andy Cohen is at the Back Bay Events Center whoring discussing his latest book starting at 7PM on Friday, November 18 in Boston

The Coolidge, After MidnightAfter Midnight Movie Series Presents: Flash Gordon this week at The Coolidge starting at 11:59PM on Friday, November 18 in Brookline

Controversy is the weekly gay hip hop dancehall party that starts at 10PM at Machine every Saturday in Boston

Magnum Saturdays focuses on your favorite music from the early 2000s this week at dbar on Saturday, November 19 in Dorchester

Saga Saturdays is Boston’s newest gay night featuring some of the best DJs and plenty of great dancing at Paradise in Cambridge

Becoming Judy – A  Coming Out Cabaret Show is at 8PM at Club Cafe on Saturday November 19 in Boston

Imperial Court of BostonQueen Mother’s Ball: Coronation XIII presents a royal “Whodunnit” at their charity ball at the Courtyard Marriott on Saturday, November 19 in Boston

Ego Saturdays with DJ Richie LaDue from 10PM – 3AM in Providence

Back 2 Basics Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 5PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

David Sedaris comes to Symphony Hall at 7PM on Sunday, November 20 in Boston

Safe in Sound Sundays is a new EDM night from 9PM – 1AM at the Dark Lady in Providence

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Seven reasons to move to Mass instead of Canada

Massachusetts legalize MarijuanaDid you hear? Americans crashed Canada’s Immigration, Refugees, and Citizenship website Tuesday night as it became apparent that Donald Trump would become our nation’s next President. In response, The Boston Globe created an entertaining video citing seven reasons you should consider a move to Massachusetts instead.

I’ve done a copy and paste below but you can watch the video here.

1. If Obamacare is repealed, Massachusetts will still have universal health care. It’s been state law since 2006 and is what the Affordable Care Act was modeled on. It’s very popular, and it’s not going anywhere.

2. Ditto for marriage equality. Massachusetts’ highest court legalized same-sex marriage in 2004. So even if a conservative Supreme Court overturned itself on the issue, it would still be legal here.

3. Mass just legalized recreational marijuana on Tuesday.

4. Apparently, Massachusetts and Hawaii are the only states in the country in which every county voted for Hillary Clinton.

5. Aside from Mass. very popular (and moderate) governor, all statewide offices are held by Democrats, who also control both the state House and Senate.

6. If you REALLY need some poutine, Montreal is only a 6-hour drive from Boston.

7. Best of all, there is no convoluted immigration process with high hurdles to clear. Just aim toward New England and stop when every other store is a Dunkin’ Donuts.

Urbanity Dance: Call of Courage

 

urbanity-dance-call-of-courageLater this week Urbanity Dance will present Call of Courage at the Strand Theater in Dorchester. In light of the results of the recent Presidential election this performance could not come at a better time.

Urbanity perfectly mixes tones of humor, raw emotion, and the extraordinary, to develop a complicated image of courage and honor personal truths of growing up in today’s society. Urbanity Dancers play with power structures rooted in social interaction to create an immersive story of empowerment and peer intervention.

To learn more and to get tickets visit, urbanitydance.org/call-of-courage.

Not a single county voted for Trump in Mass.

presidential election resultsSome of you may have seen this graphic making the rounds on Facebook. I don’t know if the assertion is correct, but according to rwbomc on Reddit, Massachusetts was the only state in the U.S. where Trump did not win a single county. With Hillary no longer in the picture, I’m going to hijack Clinton’s hashtag and modify it to #ImWithMass.

Scruffy Sunday

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Time to rise and shine.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Lions Tail: New craft cocktail restaurant and bar coming to Ink Block

lions-tail-ink-block-south-endEarlier this week the @InkBlockBoston twitter account announced that a “craft cocktail” and high end dining spot called Lions Tail will be opening.  A link for job opportunities as well as the restaurant’s facebook and twitter accounts are on the restaurant’s website, www.lionstailboston.com

No further information has been provided regarding a scheduled opening but check back for more updates and like their Facebook page, here.

Saturday morning coffee

handsome, hunk, man drinking coffee, man in underwear

Source: @MenAndCoffee (Instagram)

If it wasn’t for the coffee, I’d have no identifiable personality whatsover. 
– David Letterman

Saturday morning comic: Adam and Andy

gay comic, gay cartoonClick on the comic strip to enlarge

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.  To see previous Adam and Andy cartoons link here.

Bonus fur

Furry Friday, muscles, hairyEnjoy the weekend and thanks for stopping by to check out my blog.

Andy Cohen coming to Boston (tickets now on sale)

andy-cohenThe Harvard Book Store welcomes Emmy Award–winning television executive and Watch What Happens: Live host Andy Cohen—author of Most Talkative: Stories from the Front Lines of Pop Culture and The Andy Cohen Diaries—for a discussion of his latest book, Superficial: More Adventures from the Andy Cohen Diaries.  Andy will be joined in-conversation by WBUR’s Robin Young.

Use the link below to nab a slight discount in ticket prices thanks to those fabulous people over at The Welcoming Committee.

Andy Cohen at Back Bay Events Center – Friday, Nov 18

Tickets went on sale earlier today so don’t delay.

Furry Friday

hairy, hunkPast Furry Friday Posts