GOP: caught between a rock and a gay place

Richard Tsei, Bay WindowsToday’s Boston Globe has an interesting article addressing the rift between the Republican Party and American public regarding marriage equality.  Matt Viser’s article, GOP hopefuls challenged by growing gay marriage tide, is really worth reading.  Viser briefly touches upon how continued opposition to marriage equality could pose problems with attracting younger voters who overwhelmingly support marriage equality.  Republican analysts have every right to worry, because with nearly 80 million Millennials now in the workforce and voting, Republicans can no longer afford to only appeal to Baby Boomers.  The Republican Party needs to be able to woo Millennials if they want to be able to win national elections.

The primary process for both political parties tends to allow the party base to flex its muscle and shape issues that are important to them.  With Democrats a populist message perhaps best articulated by my US Senator, Elizabeth Warren, will potentially move Democrats further left.  Republicans seem stuck on a 2004 political playbook using xenophobic and homophobic language to appeal to their base and while this will win primaries – it has not served their party in Presidential elections.  How will centrist political heavy weights like Jeb Bush and Chris Christie traverse their party’s self-made political land mines?  I don’t know but I’m glad to see the reality of their reactionary stances coming to bite them in the ass.  It is time for both major political parties to move beyond pandering to homophobic elements in their party.

Damn Fine Cinema: The Films of David Lynch

Brattle Theatre, movieAttention fans of David Lynch.  The Brattle Theatre is celebrating the 30th anniversary of Twin Peaks with a career retrospective, Damn Fine Cinema: The Films of David Lynch.

The series opens Monday, February 23rd — the night Laura Palmer was murdered — with the Twin Peaks pilot, and it runs through March 5 with screenings of Lynch’s feature films, shorts, and commercial work.  You can see the full schedule of showings and purchase tickets online on The Brattle Theatre website.

Weekly religious service attendance by state

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Gallup recently released survey results that show slightly more than half (51%) of Utah residents say they attend religious services every week, more than any other state. At the other end of the spectrum is Vermont, where fewer than 1 in 5 (17%) of residents say they attend religious services every week.

Overall the South averaged the highest percentage of people who said they attended religious services every week and the Northeast had the lowest percentage.  You can read the full findings on Gallup’s site here.

Scruffy Sunday

Handsome, hunk, shirtless, man in bedSeems appropriate to post such a distractingly handsome guy this week which coincidentally happens to be my 100th Scruffy Sunday post.  Do you still like these weekly posts or have they run its course and should they be retired?

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday night video: I want it that way

Here is another video from Post Modern Jukebox.  This remake of the Backstreet Boys hit I Want It That Way, features Shoshana Bean and I have to admit, despite a slow start, I really love this version and I hope you do too.

Have a great Saturday night.

Tweet of the day: Cindy Crawford without Photoshop

Tweet of the Day Cindy CrawfordLast week this image of Cindy Crawford created quite a stir on Twitter.  I think Charlotte Wilder put it best when describing her reaction when she wrote, “Until last weekend, I thought of myself as the kind of woman who wasn’t affected by how the media portrays women. I thought I was too aware and too savvy to hold myself to standards of beauty that are unreal. Magazines Photoshop everybody and everything. Everyone knows that.

I’m not posting this image to comment on how Cindy Crawford looks.  I’m posting this picture because I think even jaded savvy consumers like you and me are deluded if we think we have a healthy understanding of what a gorgeous woman like Cindy Crawford looks like as she ages (quite gracefully I might add).

I don’t begrudge anyone who wants to Photoshop their photos or engage in any kind of nip and tuck to help hide their years, but I do think that we would all be better off if we kept this image firmly in mind.  Cindy Crawford is beautiful, but she isn’t 18 years old so let’s stop pretending that is an ideal one can maintain. Youth is precious because it is fleeting. If it was forever it wouldn’t be coveted.

You can read more about how this photograph here.

Who likes short shorts?

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I know this is a post that is totally pandering, but I can’t help myself. I just might have to bookmark this post for future reference. He’s making me love short shorts.

Saturday morning comic: Adam and Andy

James Asal Jr., gay comic strip

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ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Bonus Fur

Hairy Chest, muscles, hunkI can’t help but wonder what the rest of this guy looks like.

Lawn D hosts “Slopefest” this weekend in Boston

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Now that I have your attention…

It appears that the organizers over at Lawn D in Southie (near the convention center) are taking Dale Carnegie’s quote, “If life gives you lemons, make lemonade.” to heart. Originally scheduled for Valentine’s weekend, the Lawn on D in Southie moved Slopefest to this weekend.

Friday, 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm, downhill winter sport exhibition
Saturday, 11:00 am – 8:00 pm, snow tubing downhill winter sport exhibition
Sunday, 11:00 am – 8:00 pm, snow tubing

A custom-designed illuminated bar carved out of ice will be present alongside the 70′ long slope that is made of fresh, packed powder snow.  The MCCA will supply snow tubes for anyone who buys tickets.  Tickets will be sold on site for $3 a run or $5 for two runs.  For all you voyeurs out there you can check out the Snow Riders exhibition on Friday and Saturday where experienced skiers and snowboarders will show off their moves.

DJs will be playing music and you can enjoy food and alcohol by fire pits.  Finally a use for all this snow. More details about is available here.

Furry Friday

handsome, boy next door, shirtless, hairy chest, hunkI think this guy has that “guy next door” vibe. Pity he isn’t my neighbor.

Past Furry Friday Posts

BosGuy brain teaser

brain teaser, rodin, riddleEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain.  If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away.

I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s riddle:   What kind of clothes do lawyers wear?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

Spring training starts

spring trainingIt may not seem possible if you live in the frozen tundra (otherwise known as Boston) but pitchers and catchers for the Boston Red Sox report for spring training tomorrow, Friday, February 20th.

The rest of the team will head down to Florida and have their first day of training on Wednesday, February 25th.  I’d rather not dwell on last season and am looking forward to opening day on Monday, April 13, 2015.

Here are a few more baseball themed pictures to get you excited for the 2015 MLB season which starts in about six weeks. sportsbaseball, sports, hunk, handsome, jockbaseball, jock, hunk

 

Grand Cayman places of interest

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Seven Mile Beach on Grand Cayman Island

Grand Cayman is a Caribbean Island located just to the west of Jamaica and south of Cuba.  The tiny 20-something mile island in the Western Caribbean has plenty to offer but without a doubt its most famous attribute is its Seven Mile Beach.

Sergio at Stingray City

Sergio at Stingray City

If you’re not a beach person, Grand Cayman offers decent snorkeling and an opportunity to play with wild stingrays at “Stingray City”.  Stingray City is a sandbar a few miles off the coast of Grand Cayman where you can go and see and feed wild stingrays. We booked a trip with Captain Marvin’s, and I would happily recommend this company because of how much fun Sergio and I had there.

Travel, Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands

Camana Bay City Centre

If you’ve had too much sun or need to purchase something check out Camana Bay City Centre, which is a mixed use development that includes a handful of restaurants, clothing stores, cinema and bookstore (among other things).

For more tips on island  activities check out Trip Advisor or contact me, and I’d be happy to share a few more suggestions suitable to your taste and near where you will be staying.

 

Introduction to ballet 5 week class

Ballet DancerAlways wanted to learn to dance? Looking for a different way to develop long, lean muscle tone or maybe you just need a distraction from winter?

My friend Christopher will be teaching a new five-week course where you can learn the fundamentals of classical ballet technique. Taking the class will help you build strength and is open to all – no previous dancing experience is necessary.

Sound interesting? Give the class a try and while you are at it, grab a friend or two to join you.  Classes begin February 27, 2015 at Boston Ballet School’s Newton Studio and on March 7, 2015 at Boston Ballet School’s Boston Studio in the South End.  The course includes a free ticket to Boston Ballet’s Shades of Sound on March 28.

For more information e-mail school@bostonballet.org or call 617.456.6333.