Boston Ballet soloist John Lam

The Boston Ballet is often overlooked when my friends make plans to go out, and I thought by sharing a conversation I had with John Lam, a Boston Ballet Soloist, it might help raise awareness and encourage people to support this amazing cultural institution in Boston.

Last Friday I sat down with John on the top floor of the Boston Ballet in the South End. Watching dancers lounge and chat after a long day of rehearsals was surreal, and I asked John how one ends up with a career as a ballet dancer. John’s story surprised me. His parents emigrated to Northern California in the 1980s as refugees from Vietnam, and enrolled him in ballet through an inner city scholarship program when he was 4.

His parents who were of humble origins enrolled him not out of a love for dance, but because they needed him to be watched after while they worked their multiple jobs. His passion for dance and ballet in particular manifest years later. As a teenager, while dancing in Marin County he met Mikko Nissinen; years later Mikko would become the Artistic Director for the Boston Ballet and recruit John.

When talking about The Boston Ballet 2012-2013 season, John talks with admiration about their amazing range in shows. Next Thursday I will be at opening night to watch the Fall Program, and I’m looking forward to seeing more of that range. Tickets start at $29 (less if you are a student). For more about this year’s season visit here.

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Is it Friday yet

LGBT conference parties w/ TWC (Guerrilla Queer Bar)

The 15th LGBT MBA conference, starts tomorrow (Thursday, Oct 18th) in Boston.  The conference was last held in Boston in 2005 and this year’s event is expected to be much larger with more than 1,000 attendees from North America, Latin America, Europe and Asia.  The goal of this annual conference is to promote the networking, visibility, and education capabilities of LGBT business leaders around the globe.

To all those who are coming to Boston for the event, I’d like to say Welcome!  To those who live in Boston and are trying to think of something different to do this weekend, I’d suggest crashing their party on Friday.  The Conference organizers have joined forces with Boston’s very cool The Welcoming Committee “Guerrilla Queer Bar” and together they will take over Tequila Rain in the Fenway starting at 9pm.  A $5 cover charge discount is available to conference attendees.

For the ADHD: Friday, 9pm at Tequila Rain on Lansdowne St.

Paul Ryan pretends to volunteer

Source: Associated Press

The photo above has been making the rounds on the internet recently. The Romney / Ryan campaign has been trying to show that they care about all Americans (not just the super wealthy), but their platitudes seem to ring hollow and this photo does nothing to help matters.

Look closely at this photograph – notice anything amiss?

The Romney / Ryan campaign touted this photo of Paul Ryan and his family volunteering at a food kitchen in Ohio recently.  The only problem is the kitchen was not open and had been already cleaned for the candidate and his family.  The volunteering was actually a photo opp but promoted as “volunteering to help the less fortunate.”  When the campaign was questioned they backtracked to indicate this was meant to be an example of volunteering the Ryan family had done in the past.

Say what? Are you kidding me? 

Prior to this photo-fiasco I hadn’t given the candidate’s volunteering a second thought.  However, the integrity of the Romney / Ryan ticket has been questionable.  This photo of Paul Ryan scrubbing a pot that had already been cleaned by someone else, in a soup kitchen without any homeless present makes the caricature of these men as elitists only concerned for the super wealthy even more of reality in my mind.

You can read more about this on Salon.com.

American Field pop up market

Boston American FieldThis weekend, Ball and Buck will be hosting the inaugural “American Field” All American Menswear pop up market at the Power Station at 540 Harrison Avenue in the South End’s SoWa district.

More than 50 vendors will be showcasing, and selling, their Made in USA products. Food trucks will be serving great eats and it appears there will even be a beer garden featuring Local Micro Breweries.

540 Harrison Ave, Saturday & Sunday Oct 20 – 21

More information about the event here, www.americanfield.us

“I do” support marriage equality

I do Truvy and TrampSean – A.K.A.  Just a Jeep Guy Blogger (and Truvy & Tramp) support Marriage Equality

Last month I wrote about The Seattle Times “I do” social media campaign supporting the Marriage Equality referendum on their ballot in November. To show my support, each day this week I will post photos of people posing with The Seattle Times “I do” sign.

Will you speak out and show your support?

If you would like me to post a picture of you, please download this PDF, take a picture with this sign, and email it to: BosGuymail@gmail.com.

Brazil is within sight

One month from today I board a flight to Brazil where I will spend a couple of weeks visiting family and relaxing.

The first week will be with my partner’s family in Belo Horizonte.  Then we will fly down to Florianopolis to relax for almost a week before zipping up to Sao Paulo for our final two nights.  We still have a lot of planning to do including scheduling our flights inside Brazil and making reservations in Floripa. Making these travel plans is getting me excited to revisit Brazil.  Do you have any trips on the horizon?

Suddenly it makes sense

suddenly it makes senseThere is something amazing about seeing ballet dancers up close that adds an entirely different appeal (perhaps not always intended).

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Smallest penis competition

When I stumbled upon this, I thought it was too funny and simply had to share.  Earlier this month, Rawstory reported that erotica site Singlesex.dk is holding  a “Smallest Penis Competition”.  Apparently men are encouraged to send photos of their private parts; the man with the smallest penis wins an iPhone.

The owner of the sex site, Morten Fabricius said he hoped the funny and quirky aspect of the competition would enable people to poke a little fun at a sensitive subject.  The rules are simple: send in a photo to the website with your erection and a measuring tape next to it and send the photo in before January 13, 2013.

Head of the Charles Regatta

HOCRThis weekend The Charles River, which divides Boston from Cambridge will host the 48th Head of the Charles (the largest regatta in the world).

The sporting event attracts 9,000+ athletes from all over the world, competing in more than 50 races over two days; 300,000 spectators are expected to descend upon Boston / Cambridge (many of them college students proudly and somewhat drunkenly cheering on their school).

RegattaRegatta is Saturday & Sunday from 8AM – 5PM

This event is uniquely Boston’s (and Cambridge’s too).  Like the Boston marathon, its an athletic event that falls far outside the purview of mainstream sports, but is a tradition many here support and enjoy.  If you are new to Boston or rediscovering the city, I would encourage you to come down and watch the Regatta. Harvard Square pubs and streets are overflowing with people and the city is abuzz with rowers who have come from all over to compete so leave your cars at home and use public transportation or bike to get close to the river.

“I do” support marriage equality

Rob  – Gloucester, MA  supports Marriage Equality

Last month I wrote about The Seattle Times “I do” social media campaign supporting the Marriage Equality referendum on their ballot in November. To show my support, each day this week I will post photos of people posing with The Seattle Times “I do” sign.

Will you speak out and show your support?

If you would like me to post a picture of you, please download this PDF, take a picture with this sign, and email it to: BosGuymail@gmail.com.

Ali  – Maine  supports Marriage Equality

Sharon  – NH supports Marriage Equality

Uber offers free taxi rides until Thursday

car serviceYou read that correctly, car service startup, Uber, is offering free taxi rides in Boston (up to $25 in value) when requested through their app from 5 a.m. Tuesday (today) until 8 p.m. on Thursday.

“No strings — all someone has to do is signup for Uber and they can take as many taxi rides for free as they’d like through Thursday,” Uber’s Boston general manager Michael Pao said in an email.  More information about their promotion is here.

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NFL’s shameful profiteering from breast cancer

Those who follow my blog know that I have very little interest in football, but last week I happened to watch the New England Patriots game and noticed the pink emblazoned uniforms.

According to the Business Insider article Is the NFL profiting off of breast cancer?,  the NFL claims by purchasing pink items in the NFL Shop, fans can “support the fight against breast cancer with pink NFL breast cancer awareness gear.” is very misleading.

However, only 5% of these sales are being donated to the American Cancer Society. If the pink products have a typical 100% mark-up at retail, that means the NFL is keeping 90% of the profit from the sale of Breast Cancer Awareness gear.  So purchasing these items does little to help with research and prevention and predominantly ends up lining the pockets of billionaire NFL owners.

Shame on you NFL

Future Boston public art event at Emerald Lounge

Future Boston is hosting an event on Wednesday, October 17th, to showcase the works of 100 local artists with an installation collage at the Revere Hotel’s Emerald Lounge from 7PM – 12:00AM.