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The members of the council who initially voted to ban OUTVETS should step down

gay boston, lgbt rightsAn “emergency” meeting was held on Friday by the 13-members of the Allied War Veterans Council of South Boston — the group who organize the annual St. Patrick’s Day parade. Following that meeting, they announced they signed an ‘‘acceptance letter’’, clearing the way for OUTVETS to participate, which in effect reversed their original announcement barring the group from the 2017 parade.

While the organizers ultimately did the right thing they’ve once again cast a shadow over an uncomfortable legacy of discrimination.

It was unclear if the reversal of the decision was a result of a second vote by the council, but what is clear is that several of the members of the council need to step down and allow new members to replace them. While the organizers ultimately did the right thing they’ve once again cast a shadow over an uncomfortable legacy of discrimination that most of us had thought was put to rest when the LGBT group (OUTVETS) were first allowed to march in Boston’s St. Patrick’s Day parade in 2015.

The damage done by the members of the council who initially voted not to allow OUTVETS to march was self inflicted and news of their decision was picked up by local, national and international media. Those who initially sought to justify their vote to ban OUTVETS claimed it was the use of the groups rainbow in their logo that was the source of them being denied to which Bryan Bishop, OUTVETS Director replied,  “…I told them if that’s the case, then every picture of a rainbow in the parade that leads to a pot of gold needs to be removed.”

However, the bizarre excuse sounded more like a vain attempt to deflect criticism and calls of discrimination that put the parade in jeopardy as more of Boston’s Southie residents started speaking up and as several high profile parade sponsors sought to distance themselves by ending their relationship.

Previous posts on this topic
Rainbow flag cited as reason to deny OUTVETS in Boston’s St. Patrick’s Day Parade (March 9)

LGBT group denied to march in Boston’s St. Patrick’s Day parade (March 8)

Saturday morning coffee

shirtless guy looking out a window, pensive, sexy man, hairy man, hairy chestWe have the same coffee cups. It must be a sign we were meant for each other.

Saturday morning comic: Adam & Andy

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ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.  To see previous Adam and Andy cartoons link here.

Bonus fur

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Cheers: Mayor looks to add 152 new liquor licenses in Boston

Stella Patio PartyEarlier this week Mayor Marty Walsh office working in conjunction with City Councilor Ayanna Pressley would add another 152 non-transferable liquor licenses to the City of Boston over the next three years. The proposal would bring the following to Boston from 2017 to 2019:

-Ten citywide (seven all-alcohol licenses and three malt & wine) licenses a year, with no more than three a year able to go to Back Bay, Beacon Hill, and North End each (30 total)

-Five licenses (three all-alcohol and two malt & wine) a year, 15 per neighborhood over three years, for each of the following: Dorchester, E. Boston, Hyde Park, Jamaica Plain, Mattapan, Mission Hill and Roxbury (105 total)

-Five licenses (three all-alcohol and two malt & wine) a year for Main Streets Districts (15 total) as well as one all-alcohol license for the Boston Center for the Arts in the South End (hooray!) And finally the Lawn on D would get one all-alcohol license.

More needs to be done to reform the State’s antiquated liquor licensing laws but this is a move in the right direction. You can read the full article from BostInno, here.

Furry Friday

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Past Furry Friday Posts

BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. If you are stumped, share it with a friend or colleague and see if you can figure out the answer together.

I’ll confirm answers in the afternoon so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance to guess.

This week’s riddle:
I’m the longest ruling monarch in history,
The most ruthless that you’ll ever see.

I travel the country with blistering haste.
Laying castles and outposts to waste.

Swatting down cavalry, disassembling the faith,
If I should fall, I’ll see you again on the 8th.

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

Addicted to Netflix “The 100” and Ricky Whittle

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Actor Ricky Whittle

It finally happened. Sergio and I got bit by the Netflix bug. As amazing as it may seem to some, until recently our TV consumption was solely via Comcast, but a few weeks ago a friend got us hooked on a Netflix series called The 100

The series which initially started on The CW in March 2014 is a post-apocalyptic sci-fi drama loosely based on a 2013 book by the same name. The series follows a group of 100 teens who are sent back to Earth to see if it is inhabitable from “The Ark” a space station that holds survivors who fled Earth just in time to escape a nuclear war but is now failing some four generations later. Much to the surprise of “The 100” who land on Earth, they find that indeed the planet is survivable now and more surprisingly there are humans living on Earth.

English actor, Ricky Whittle, is one of those “grounders” as The 100 refer to the Earth dwellers. Needless to say, despite the occasional cheesy scene and an inconsistent story line at times, we are hooked. Actor Ricky Whittle who plays the character Lincoln is a big reason for that. Anyone else watching this series?

 

Visit the ICA Boston tonight

Institute of Contemporary Art BostonThe Institute of Contemporary Art (ICA) Boston is free on Thursday evenings, starting at 5PM. I realized it had been a while since I last posted this so I thought I’d remind those of you who may be looking for something a little different to do after work.  The good news is that since I last posted this reminder in the spring of 2015 a bunch of new restaurants and bars have opened in the neighborhood giving you several options after strolling through the the ICA.

Free Thursdays at the ICA run from 5:00 pm to 9:00 pm.  Curious to see what is on display? Check out their website here:  www.icaboston.org/exhibitions.

Rainbow flag cited as reason to deny OUTVETS in Boston’s St. Patrick’s Day parade

St. Patrick's Day Parade Boston, LGBTQ, GayNo doubt the 13-members of the Allied War Veterans Council of South Boston who organize the annual St. Patrick’s Day parade knew there would be a backlash and bad press from their decision to not allow OUTVETS, a LGBTQ veterans group which had been allowed to march in the previous two parades, but the condemnations that have come from the Governor, Mayor, Parade Grand Marshal and politicians who had planned to join the parade combined with the growing list of corporate sponsors now distancing themselves and withering scorn from Southie residents may be more than they bargained for.

OUTVETS Boston

U.S. Rep. Stephen Lynch who is a Southie resident pledged yesterday to help resolve this issue saying, “I will get on this as soon as I possibly can and try to ferret out the problem and resolve it, and have it so that the OUTVETS are not only allowed to march, but are welcome to march.”

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Bryan Bishop, OUTVETS Director is on record telling the Boston Globe the reason for not being invited to the parade stems from their logo, which features a small rainbow patch. Bishop said the council members view the rainbow imagery — a symbol of solidarity among LGBTQ advocates — violates the code of conduct because the council saw it as representative of gay sexuality. Bishop’s response was spot on IMHO, replying,  “They said people felt that rainbows represent the gay community… I told them if that’s the case, then every picture of a rainbow in the parade that leads to a pot of gold needs to be removed.”

The excuse provided to Bishop sounds flimsy at best which only further convinces me that the Allied War Veterans Council of South Boston neither thought through their reasoning or are prepared for the mounting pressure which if OUTVETS remains barred from marching will likely be all the media and press coverage discusses on the day of the parade.

More about on this story here:
St. Patrick’s parade organizers to reconsider gay veteran’s ban
Boston Globe, March 9, 2017

Backlash, boycott threats in Boston after gay vets banned from St. Patrick’s Day parade Washington Post, March 9, 2017

Politicians to skip Boston’s St. Patrick’s Day parade after gay group is banned
NY Times, March 8, 2017

Vintage gay

Scott Thorson and Liberace

Entertainer Liberace, left, is seen with Scott Thorson, his bodyguard, chauffeur and confidant, at a Boston area restaurant in 1981. (AP Photo/Pete Anastasi)

For those unfamiliar with Liberace and his intense relationship with the very troubled, Scott Thorson, I’d suggest you watch HBO’s 2013 brilliant film starring Michael Douglas as Liberace and Matt Damon as his lover, Scott Thorson – Behind the Candelabra.

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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SpeakEasy Stage presents Grand Concourse

SpeakEasy Stage Grand Concourse

SpeakEasy Stage production of Grand Concourse || Photo by Glenn Perry Photography.

This past week The SpeakEasy Stage Co. production of Grand Concourse opened. The one hour and forty minute drama addresses the mysteries of faith, forgiveness and compassion in a soup kitchen in the Bronx.

Despite the heavy sounding subject matter, the four member cast have several funny lines that guarantee periodic outbursts of laughter. For those who enjoy Latin men, Alejandro Simoes who plays the character of Oscar will make you smile whenever he is on stage (mas Alejandro por favor!) While I enjoyed the four member cast, and they worked well together, it was the slightly crazy character Emma played by Ally Dawson who I followed whenever she was on stage, wondering what she might say or do next.

This is the fourth production for the SpeakEasy Stage Co. 2016/2017 season, which has had one excellent show after another. Grand Concourse closes in approximately three weeks so make plans today and purchase tickets to go see this show. It will make for a fun night out or date option.

Purchase Tickets to Grand Concourse Today

AUDIENCE DISCUSSION
3/9, 3/16, 3/23, 3/30 following 7:30 pm performances you can share your reactions in a special post-show forum hosted by a member of the SpeakEasy.

ARTISTS’ FORUM
3/12, 3/19, 3/26 following 3:00 pm performances you can participate in a talkback with artists from the show.

This week on Instagram: eliad_cohen

papa, handsome, hairy, furry, hunk, musclesWith nearly a million followers chances are if you read this blog and have an IG account you’re already familiar with this handsome guy. I wish I could say we knew each other and were friends but this is the closest I’m likely to ever get to Eliad.  However, he does have a fun account to follow as he travels the globe.

Do you like this weekly post? Check out previously featured IG accounts here.

LGBT group denied to march in Boston St. Patrick’s Day parade

gay boston, lgbt rightsIn case you missed it, today’s Boston Globe is reporting something I read on Facebook last night, but didn’t believe (this is the age of fake news after all).

It appears that the Gay veterans group (OUTVETS), which has marched in the two previous St. Patrick’s Day parades in Boston is saying it was denied spot in South Boston parade later this month.

OUTVETS posted a statement on its Facebook page late Tuesday. Ed Flynn, a South Boston resident and a member of the South Boston Allied War Veterans Council — the parade’s organizer — confirmed that the group did not receive approval to participate in the March 19th parade.

Thus far neither Mayor Walsh nor Governor Baker have commented and the organizers of the parade which voted 9-4 against allowing the veterans group to march in the parade had not returned emails by the time the article published.

Follow the OUTVETS facebook page for updates.

You can read the full Boston Globe article here.

Caption this photo

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Each Wednesday morning I post a photograph and ask readers to offer a funny caption. Hopefully the photo above and my caption below inspires you to share a few of your own in the comments section of my blog.

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