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CapeFLYER

Cape FlyerStarting this Friday (May 23) the summertime weekend CapeFLYER train service between Boston and Cape Cod will begin.  This year the CapeFLYER will add an additional stop at Wareham Village in addition to the Buzzards Bay Station and Hyannis Transportation Center.

The trains include bike racks, concessions and free Wi-Fi Internet. They will also continue to coordinate stops with ferry operators to run shuttle service for customers traveling to Nantucket and Martha’s Vineyard.

For more details, including to see complete schedules and ticket information, visit www.capeflyer.com.

Temptation Tuesday

Temptation Tuesday cutieIt is a gym bunny themed Temptation Tuesday. If I had this kid’s physique I would always walk around without a shirt.

Past Temptation Tuesday Posts

Showgirls in Ptown starts next Monday

ryan landry, ptownRyan Landry’s weekly talent show where $500 is awarded each Monday night to the winning act starts next Monday at The A-House in Provincetown.

Tickets are available at House of LaRue (across from the Crown, downstairs) for audience members. Participating showgirls are FREE to enter and should contact Rainbow Frite or Liza Lott to get on the lineup.

For more information check out their Facebook Page Here.

Oregon says “I do” to marriage equality

Marriage equalityThese days it is almost a full time job keeping up with all the Marriage Equality wins.  Today Oregon became the 18th state (not counting Washington D.C.) to fully recognize marriage for same-sex couples.  The map of the USA now looks like a patchwork that must leave people from other countries scratching their head.  What I take away from this map (see below) is that full marriage equality in the US is not only an inevitability – but likely before the next Presidential election.

Judge Michael McShane, US District Court Judge, had this to say on today’s ruling. “Oregon recognizes a marriage of love with the same equal eye that it recognizes a marriage of convenience. It affords the same set of rights and privileges to Tristan and Isolde that it affords to a Hollywood celebrity waking up in Las Vegas with a blurry memory and a ringed finger. It does not, however, afford these very same rights to gay and lesbian couples who wish to marry within the confines of our geographic borders.”

US same sex marriage mapMarriage Equality Map KeyThanks to JMG for the great quote from Judge Michael McShane.

Realm health and fitness tips from Kyle

fitness, health, trainingEssential lift of the week: Why should you deadlift?

The deadlift is an essential aspect of any training regimen. It is highly functional and has the potential to provide aesthetic and postural benefits.

Primary muscles used: Literally every POSTERIOR CHAIN muscle is utilized in this lift. That means: Traps, Posterior delts, Rhomboids, Lats, Glutes, hamstrings and of course forearms.  This is a must for putting on size and gaining overall strength.

Benefits of adding the deadlift to your training regimen
– Great exercise to target glutes and hamstrings
– Challenges the rhomboids and lats to maintain a strong position while holding the bar. This can potentially help your posture by “tightening” your back muscles to help maintain integrity
– Dynamically strengthens your core, giving you a better and stronger abdomen and the potential to have stronger support to stand taller
– Trains you to safely utilize legs, instead of your lower back, to pick things up, which greatly DECREASES your chance of lumbar disk herniation.

Always make certain you have someone checking your form on this lift. Google “how to deadlift” or seek the help of an experienced trainer before trying to perform this exercise. Remember: if it feels sketchy, it is sketchy.

Kyle at Realm FitnessKyle is a nationally certified personal trainer, certified nutritionist, and lifestyle motivator out of Los Angeles, CA. He has been training for 5 years and has experience working with top-tier celebrity and executive clientele. When he’s not in the gym, Kyle is reading philosophy or writing poetry.

Gov. Deval Patrick named Boston Pride Grand Marshal

Governor PatrickBoston Pride announced earlier today that Governor Deval Patrick will be the Grand Marshal at Boston’s 2014 Pride Parade.  The late John Mitzel who passed away this past October has been named Honorary Marshal; recognizing his contributions to the Boston LGBT community as the owner of one of the nation’s first LGBT bookstores.

Both men are remarkable individuals who have done much to help enrich, champion and support the local LGBT community. They truly do live this year’s Pride theme: Be Yourself, Change the World.

More info here.

Moksa all you can eat sushi tonight

Moksa OverboardMoksa in Central Square is celebrating that their patio is back open by hosting a patio party from 5 – 8 PM tonight. They are offering an all you can eat sushi menu for $15.  I’ve never been to Moksa. Has anyone tried their all you can eat sushi parties before? I’m curious to hear more about this regularly occurring promotion.

 

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Happy birthday Opus Affair

The Hawthorne, BostonSix years ago Opus Affair was started by Graham Wright to bring together artists, friend of artists and those who are passionate about art and culture.  Since that time, Opus Affair has grown significantly and regularly hosts all sorts of interesting programs and events; they even recently opened a chapter in Miami.

To commemorate their 6th birthday, tomorrow – Monday, May 19th, Opus Affair will gather at The Hawthorne in Kenmore Square to mix, mingle, enjoy a cocktail or two and raise some money for three local arts charities through their innovative, charitable drinking game (a.k.a. “Punch Bowl Fund”) that you can read more about here.

The details: Hawthorne at 500 Comm. Ave from 6-9PM

No plans after work on Monday? Check out this friendly group. More information here.

Abby’s fancy birthday party

BosGuy nieceMy niece, Abby, turned 5 last Friday and on Sunday my sister arranged for the family birthday party at their house. Abby’s only request for her birthday party was that everyone dress “fancy”.

I had to laugh when I heard the request and thought  this was a request Sergio and I could manage easily enough. So earlier this morning we woke up, pulled out our tuxedos and drove up to New Hampshire to celebrate Abby’s milestone birthday.

As you can see Abby was dressed quite fancy.  I have also included a photo Sergio snapped before we walked in to celebrate Abby’s birthday.

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Courtesy is not political correctness

Politically CorrectEarlier this month James Peron wrote a great article in the Huffington Post entitled Courtesy is not political correctness.

In the article Peron points out that what many are griping about has less to do with censorship than it does with manners; which ironically, is something many who complain about political correctness bemoan the lack of in society.  Peron’s article focuses on John Stossel from Fox News who recently ranted that a Duke University public awareness campaign to encourage people from refraining from using language like “that’s so gay” is an attack on free speech.

I think Peron put it best in his article when he wrote, “Being aware that certain terms are insulting was once called manners or etiquette, now the Right labels it “political correctness.” Encouraging people to avoid using terms such as “bitch,” “fag,” or “no homo” is not soliciting censorship.

I recognize that we have all had instances where our words were twisted by someone who takes offense by our ‘lack of sensitivity’, but those situations aside, asking for communities to strive to be more civil and understanding seems like something we should all work towards.

Scruffy Sunday

handsome, hunkHave a great Sunday.  Get out and enjoy the day.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

 

Vintage ‘Tube

You may have missed this hilarious YouTube video, “Gay Scientists Isolate Christian Gene” from May 2007, but I loved it when I first saw it and I bet you will love it too.

Have a great Saturday night.

Edgar Allan Poe statue to be unveiled in October

Edgar Allen PoeMany may not know that American author and poet, Edgar Allan Poe was born in Boston in the early 19th Century.  Poe ranks as one of my favorite authors. I love his fictional character C. Auguste Dupin who was in The Murders of the Rue Morgue – considered the first detective fiction story written.

To recognize Poe, the city of Boston will install this beautiful statue from sculptor Stefanie Rocknak on October 5.  The statue will stand in Poe Square at the intersection of Boylston Street and Charles Street South.

10 years of marriage equality in Massachusetts

Marriage Equality in Massachusetts ten year anniversaryTen years ago today Massachusetts joined Belgium, The Netherlands and some provinces in Canada, recognizing the rights of gays and lesbians to marry their partner.

As you might expect, at the time most of America was outraged and conservatives used coded language to hide behind their homophobic opinions.  What a difference a decade has made.