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Boston’s gay book club picks Not Dark Yet by Berit Ellingsen

BBF, Boston Book Festival, handsome, hunk, glassesBoston’s monthly book club, featuring literature by and about gay men has selected Not Dark Yet by Berit Ellingsen for this month’s book. All are welcome to the monthly get together on Monday, February 22nd at 7:00 PM at the Trident Booksellers and Cafe on Newbury Street in the Back Bay.

Berit Ellingsen, Boston LGBT Book ClubBoston’s Monthly LGBT Book Club
Monday, February 22nd at 7:00 PM
Trident Booksellers & Cafe at 338 Newbury Street
More information and to RSVP

ABOUT NOT DARK YET: “Fascinating, surreal, gorgeously written, and like nothing you’ve ever read before, Not Dark Yet is the book we all need to read right now. It is art about science, climate change, and activism, and it vitally explores how we as people deal with a world that is transforming in terrifying ways.”  BuzzFeed

If you’d like to read the book I’d like to encourage you to consider purchasing it from one of Boston’s independent booksellers.

Harvard’s LGBTQ Conference is March 5th

gay HarvardThe third annual LGBTQ Conference at Harvard takes place next month on Saturday, March 5, 2016. The conference will revolve around the theme “Beyond Marriage Equality: Rainbows at the Crossroads”. Read more about the one day conference on their website at www.lgbtqconf.org.

Registration is required and is $20 for students, $25 “early bird special” that is good until Friday, February 26th. You can also register the day of the conference at Harvard for $30.

Register Today Here

Looking for Love on Tinder

chadwick moore love in the time of tinderChadwick Moore’s article Love in the time of Tinder: What I Learned From a Month of Dates in Out Magazine’s “Love Issue” caught my eye.  With Valentine’s Day two weeks away I thought the article might be a downer for those hopeless romantics looking for love in the age of phone apps, but it made me laugh reading through his 21 Tinder dates in New York City.

Maybe the German word schniedrefreude applies here but for those who may be looking for love Moore’s article is certain to make you feel better, knowing all those awkward / painful dates are more the norm and less to do with you. 

Gaily Grind: Rugby players bubble butts

sports, assMost of you read my blog while you’re at work so I make an effort to keep my blog pg rated (well pg-13 rated) so employers won’t block my site; this isn’t an easy task since anything “gay” seems to be equated to sex, which often is categorized as porn and blocked.  While my post is perfectly respectable note that the Gaily Grind article, that I link to is not safe for work unless you happen to work in a proctologist’s office.

Here are 10 Times Rugby Players Showed Off Their Butt (NSFW)

Daddyhunt: The Serial (all episodes)

Daddyhunt: The SerialAre you a Daddy or do you have Daddy-issues? The gay dating app, Daddyhunt has a web series that includes seven one and a half minute episodes combined into one video. The video follows a budding romance between two neighbors that starts after a case of mistaken identity.

The Daddyhunt video campaign is sexy and a great way to help build their brand through viral marketing. If you have 10 minutes, check it out. You can learn more about the Daddyhunt app here.

HuffPost Gay Voices is now Queer Voices

Gay Voices, HuffingtonPost

Today HuffingtonPost’s gay news site officially changed their name to Queer Voices four and a half years after they launched HuffPost Gay Voices.  According to the article explaining the name change, back in 2011 there was a feeling the word “queer” was too divisive so it was eschewed.  However, the inclusive nature of the word “queer” and the fact that times and perceptions have changed tipped the scales in favor of incorporating it in their name.

In the article explaining the name change, the editors say they hope the inclusion of the word queer will help change remaining derogatory perceptions and be more inclusive in both name and content. You can read the full article here.

The Bear-Naked Chef with Adrian De Berardinis Episode 3: Pappardelle Pasta with Bacon & Peas

Adrian De Berardinis, cookingThe Bear-Naked Chef better known as Adrian De Berardinis is back with the third episode of his cooking show. In this episode Adrian cooks parpadelle pasta with bacon & peas in a video that runs about eleven and one half minutes long.

The recipe shown below is inspired by a dish from one of Adrian’s favorite New York City Italian restaurants, Bar Pitti in Soho.

If you’ve not watched the scantily clad (he only wears an apron) chef, I’d suggest you check it out. I made his Paccheri Con Gamberi a couple of weeks ago and it was both easy and delicious.

Boston’s LGBT community is the nation’s 5th largest

boyfriendsThe US Census Bureau ties Boston and Seattle with the 5th highest metro area of LGBT residents as a percentage of the total population. That translates into way more than the 1° of separation we joke about, but because our community has been part of the mainstream culture for so long at times we can seem invisible.

To remain both visible and viable we need to support existing LGBT owned businesses and encourage new ones to open. We need make ourselves more visible so when people move to the area they can find a community and make connections more easily, offering viable options to apps like Grindr & Scruff.

Fortunately, there are groups like the Welcoming Committee, The Fellows, Opus Affair and Gay For Good and many sports clubs that can help guys connect.  For more information about those organizations visit my September 2015 posts, Making friends in Boston through local sports teams and clubs and for a more complete list of LGBT social organizations check out, Making friends in Boston (Social Clubs and Groups).

Weekend in San Juan

handsome, hunk, hairyToday is our last day full day at La Concha Resort in San Juan, Puerto Rico.  The long weekend in the sun has been more relaxing than I would have guessed. It will be a sad return to Boston when we board our plane on Sunday to go home.

Just in case anyone is wondering, unfortunately, this guy was not staying at our resort.

Mancandy post

handsome, hunk, underwear, hairy, furryWhat can I say? Work has me busier than a one legged man in an a$$ kicking competition.  I’m traveling right now and behind in my posts so I’ve opted for this, which I initially had designated for a future Furry Friday. Enjoy.

IMAGINARY COUPLES by Olivier Ciappa

photographyFirst reported in The Advocate back in June 2013, Gay Voices on Huffington Post recently wrote an article about this bold photography project that brings celebrities together to pose as same-sex couples and families to combat homophobia and provide positive images of recognizable figures engaging in queer relationships.

The series, called “IMAGINARY COUPLES,” is the brainchild of French artist and photographer Olivier Ciappa and has been displayed in galleries and cities around the world from Paris to Lima. “IMAGINARY COUPLES” is tentatively scheduled to hit the United States this summer, possibly in Los Angeles.

RuPaul to host: Gay for Play

Gay for Play with RuPaul on Logo TVLast week Logo announced that RuPaul will host Gay For Play Game Show, described as a star-studded trivia game show that will premiere alongside the eighth season of RuPaul’s Drag Race.

Details about the show aren’t currently available, but I know I’ll be putting it on my DVR, and I’m betting a few of you may be inclined to do the same.

Teen’s coming out ad in Houston newpaper gets national attention

HERO, Houston ObserverPerhaps you missed this story, making the rounds last week about Joan and Drake Wilson. Joan Wilson who lives in Washington state was so outraged by the discriminatory HERO vote in Houston late last year, she took out a $200 advertisement in Houston’s daily newspaper to celebrate her son’s decision to come out as gay. You can read the full story in Towleroad here.

What was the HERO vote in Houston all about? Houston Equal Rights Ordinance (HERO) was a public referendum, anti-discrimination ordinance that Houston voted down.  The campaign against HERO became quite nasty and a crusade of sorts for conservatives who made outrageous claims about men taking over women’s bathrooms.

Winter Party Festival in Miami March 2-7th

Winter Party Festival 2016 MiamiFed up with Jonas – the winter storm currently pummeling the East coast? The Winter Party Festival in Miami from March 2-7, 2016 might be just what you need to chase away those winter blues.  The festival starts with Spark  welcome reception on Wednesday, but most of the fun takes place Thursday evening through the weekend.

You can learn more about the parties and events by visiting their website, winterparty.com.

On Wednesday’s we wear…

Mean Girls, handsome, muscle, shirtlessSource: Jayahoo