Kisses for Kim part deux

Cole, Hunter, The Maverick MenLast week I wrote about a campaign started by two straight guys called #KissesForKim to show their support for marriage equality and to show Kim Davis (the rather notorious Kentucky clerk) that love is greater than hate.  To show their support for this affirming message my friends Dirk Caber and Jesse Jackman shared a rather romantic kiss poolside.

While I still maintain that Kim is a homophobic imbecile , I do like the message of #KissesForKim, because of its love and life affirming statement; live and let live. So I was happy to see my friends (also notorious in their own right) The Maverick Men send me a picture to show their support #KissesForKim.

Let me know your thoughts and feel free to share photos of you kissing the one you love with the same hashtag. While I don’t know that it will change Mrs. Kim Davis’ mind, I do think it sends a wonderful statement that another person’s spite will not triumph and that in itself is rather sweet to savor. Thanks again Cole & Hunter.

Ogunquit Bear Fest 2015

Ogunquit Bearfest 2015No plans for the weekend and looking for something to do? Ogunquit is hosting Bear Fest 2015. You can purchase a four day advance ticket to all the events for $20

Click here for more information for Ogunquit Bear Fest

An American in Havana: The Cuban people

travel, gay travel, caribbeanI wasn’t certain what to expect when I visited Havana.  I presumed (correctly so) that Cubans didn’t hold me accountable for the politics that have divided our nations for more than 50 years, but I hadn’t realized how much I would enjoy talking to them. The Cubans we met were fairly open about their frustrations with their government but proud of all they had accomplished in terms of public health, education and contributions to culture and arts.  They live in a society plagued by chronic shortages due to the ineptitude of their government and the US embargo. Despite those barriers I couldn’t help but notice all the trendy Cuban men and women strolling down Avenida 23 and along the Malecon. We were told that consumer goods make it into the general population from family members and friends who live abroad. It seemed like nearly everyone either has a relative or a connection with someone living in the United States or Europe who sends back currency and consumer goods.  It made me realize while our embargo has put a great strain on Cuba it hasn’t stopped the flow of goods nor squelched their appetite for them.

While I thought much of Havana appeared to be crumbling all around me. I did like it’s shabby-chic vibe.  It has that romantic charm and sexual energy all larger Latin cities possess, but it seems more romantic and in some cases tragic with the backdrop of decrepit buildings and 1950s American cars zipping by you.

Travel, Gay Travel, Cuban Art

Public art is plentiful and we met and talked to a few artists while visiting.  I was surprised that I saw very few images of Castro while in Havana; Che Guevara, cigars, 1950s American cars and pop icons are nearly everywhere you look.

gay travel, travel, art, cuban artIf you visit Havana, I recommend checking out the Arts & Crafts Market located along the port in Old Havana. Sure, its is tourist trap and you’ll likely bump into more than a few Americans while you’re there, but it is a great way to see how Cubans are interpreting the world around them before setting out to explore Old Havana.

Blog posts from this series:
Post 1: An American in Havana
Post 2: An American in Havana: The Cuban people
Post 3: An American in Havana: The architecture
Post 4: An American in Havana: Old Havana
Post 5: An American in Havana: The food
Post 6: An American in Havana: The cars

What to do this week: September 21-27

Oberon Theater Donkey ShowWhat to do this week: September 21-27th

Geek Trivia is hosted every Tuesday night at Club Cafe.  Come over and show off your grasp of useless information on Tuesday, September 22 in Boston

Ptown Tennessee Williams Theater Festival celebrates its tenth anniversary, Thursday, September 24-27 in Provincetown

Bearfest 2015 at Mainestreet Thursday, September 24 – 27 in Ogunquit

ICA after 5 is a free program that has a different theme each week.  This week’s theme is Instagram Latte Art on Friday, September 25 in Boston

Berklee Beantown Jazz Festival is a fun, free outdoor event in the South End on Saturday, September 26 in Boston

TWC Donkey Show Takeover at Club Oberon in Harvard Square is a blast. If tickets remain check it out on Saturday, September 26 in Boston

Boston Freedom Rally to advocate for the legalization of marijuana will host their rally Saturday and Sunday, September 26-27 in Boston

South End Open Market in SoWa 10am – 4pm check out the farmer’s market, food trucks and artisans on Sunday, September 27 in Boston

Run on Spectacle Island is back with a 5K or 5Mile option. Registration required to participate in the run on Sunday, September 27 in Boston

I’ve started posting a weekly listing of upcoming activities.  Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

Sunday cartoon: The Pope is a Muslim

PopeI wonder how this Pope will be received by the Republican Presidential candidates when he visits the US later this week?

Provincetown Tennessee Williams Theater Festival

Year TENN, PtownThe Provincetown Tennessee Williams Theater Festival celebrates its 10th anniversary later this week with Year TENN: A Decade of Tennessee Williams in Provincetown, Sept. 24-27. The Festival features a collection of landmark productions and brand new plays that honor the Festival’s past and the legacy of Tennessee Williams.

For more information about the annual festival visit their website at twptown.org.

An American in Havana

travel, gay travel, caribbean, old cars, antique carsCuba is approximately 90 miles south of Florida in the Caribbean Sea but the commercial, economic and financial embargo our country has imposed since October 1960 has placed Cuba in a time warp that makes it a unique place for anyone to visit.

As long as I’ve been alive the US embargo has been in place and while it has slowed the pace of change, it hasn’t halted it entirely.  It is amazing to visit a large international city without a single American fast food chain, coffee shop, bank or retail outlet.  In spite of this young gay men and women can be spotted wearing the latest fashion from the US and Europe.

In the posts below I share my experience, visiting this unique destination for the first time, writing about life in Cuba, the gorgeous architecture, Old Havana, the food and of course the cars.

Blog posts from this series:
Post 1: An American in Havana
Post 2: An American in Havana: The Cuban people
Post 3: An American in Havana: The architecture
Post 4: An American in Havana: Old Havana
Post 5: An American in Havana: The food
Post 6: An American in Havana: The cars

Scruffy Sunday

hairy, furry, chest, abs, muscles, handsome, hunk, underwear

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SpeakEasy Stage Co presents, appropriate

Appropriate SpeakEasy Stage Co BostonLast week SpeakEasy Stage Company opened their 25th season with the New England premiere of the family drama, appropriateThe play picks up as members of the Lafayette family come home to a crumbling plantation in rural Arkansas to mourn the loss of their father and settle his estate.

appropriate
September 12 – October 10
For more information and to purchase tickets

Sparks start to fly pretty quickly as the Lafayette family come together for the first time in years.  Family members start to verbalize long held grudges in an attempt to clear the air and make peace but bonds are tested when a terrible discovery is made.  The painful and sometimes tense confrontations on stage provide an interesting mirror to tensions we see in our society.

Boston Globe review: In ‘Appropriate’, family tensions and something more

Sergio and I really enjoyed the production and would be curious to hear what you think.  Come out and check out the SpeakEasy Stage Co’s. latest production and congratulate this Boston theater company that has been bringing wonderful plays and musicals for an impressive 25 seasons.  Congratulations SpeakEasy Stage Co.

Cuppa Coffee at Troy Boston opens Monday

Todd MooreCuppaCoffee owner and Sydney native, Todd Moore, will open his second location in Boston on Monday, September 21st in the trendy full service, South End apartment building, Troy Boston.

Cuppa Coffee at Troy Boston is located at 57 Traveler Street on the corner of Traveler and Albany Street. The coffee shop is the 18th coffee house to open in the South End, making the South End (strictly a guess here) the most coffee-friendly neighborhood in downtown Boston.  You would be hard pressed to walk more than 2-3 blocks in the South End without stumbling upon a great coffee house. By the way only 5 of those 18 coffee houses are from national or international chains.

Boston coffeeMore information about all those great coffee houses – here.

Saturday morning comic: Casey At The Bat

CLICK ON IMAGE BELOW TO ENLARGE TO READgay comic strip, gay cartoon

Casey At The Bat is a comic strip follows the adventures of a young, gay man and his friends in life, love and sports!  Casey At The Bat is the work of the very talented Bob Glasscock who resides in NYC.

You can read back issues and order Casey At The Bat volume 1 from his website, caseyatb.com.

Saturday morning comic: Adam and Andy

gay cartoon, gay comic stripClick on the comic strip to enlarge

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.  To see previous Adam and Andy cartoons link here.

Bonus fur

Hairy Chest GuyHave a great weekend

#KissesForKim

#KissesForKim

Jesse Jackman & Dirk Caber

According to an article on Queerty a lot of heterosexual men are tired of Kim Davis and her ilk’s antics. Earlier this week two friends uploaded a video to YouTube with a message for the Notorious K.I.M., giving birth to #KissesForKim. I love their message and think they are on to something.  The LGBT community and our allies are far more influential when we are spreading a message of forgiveness and inclusion than when we react out of anger and seek retribution.

You don’t have to be straight to show your support.  My friends Jesse and Dirk were nice enough to share this photo to show their support.  Do you have a photo you want to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

Furry Friday

hunk, handsomeI know that most of you want full body shots but I like to mix it up every once in awhile and this guy is good looking enough to pull this off.  Damn he is handsome.

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