The power of speech

I don’t appreciate or tolerate slurs, but I’m rarely offended when derogatory comments are directed at me – must be thick skin or just a lack of respect for those shouting the epitaphs. However, I thought this PSA from Wanda Sykes that was posted on Wicked Gay Blog was pretty cool.

Grandpa Len and Papa Tony

Unlike many people, I walk to and from work (when I go into the office). Walking provides a unique perspective, because no matter how fast your legs move you can never quite whiz by a building or speed past a city block like you can in a car. Today’s walk took me past the former home of Jordan Marsh (now a Macy’s) and the massive construction underway there, and on my walk home I passed along the Rose Kennedy Parkway which has transformed Boston so radically it is hard to appreciate in words without the benefit of pictures.

In both instances it made me think of two men who have since passed; my grandfathers. My Dad’s father worked for years at Jordan Marsh and my Mother’s father worked in and near Boston his entire life. As I was walking today, I wondered what their reactions would be if they were able to see the city as it is now. I know that they would recognize these neighborhoods, but I wondered what they would make of the changes.

My father’s Dad passed away in the late 1970s when Boston and many cities around the United States were hitting rock bottom. The neighborhood that bordered Jordan Marsh was considered Boston’s Red Light District (aka – The Combat Zone) and was both unsavory and unsafe. Now Downtown Crossing and the Ladder District (as it has become known) is in the midst of a renaissance of sorts and the Combat Zone is all but forgotten. The Ritz Carlton Hotel and Luxury Residences anchor the former Combat Zone and a half dozen other developments have popped up in recent years including the rebirth of two theaters – The Opera House and the Paramount Theater. These changes would have been inconceivable to my Grandpa Len in the 1970s.

Later in the day when I was walking home, I was admiring how beautiful Boston looked. I wondered what my Mother’s father (a savvy real estate investor) would have made of the greenway and all the development that is currently ongoing. For sure, several of the newer buildings in downtown would make him comment (for better or worse – I’m not sure), but overall I think he would be brimming with pride. Unlike my Dad’s father, “Papa”, as I liked to call him did start to see Boston’s rebirth, although none of us would have predicted how far that would ultimately go and how much the city would benefit from the economic and development boom.

I think too often we are so caught up with the present or obsessing about our future that we only think of the past with tinged regret or with passing indifference (i.e. after a loved one passes, if we wished we had done something differently, etc…) Walking to work this morning and back home today was unexpectedly pleasant as I imagined my make-believe conversations with my two grandfathers. I wonder sometimes if it is that rare instance when your past and present intersect so perfectly leaving one so completely content that we are ‘touched by an angel’ to borrow a common phrase. I’ve not thought about either man in quite awhile but on my walk this morning and this evening I felt as if both men were walking by my side. It made my commute far more pleasurable than I ever would have anticipated.

SpeakEasy Stage Theater

Earlier this month I finally got around to signing up as a subscriber to the SpeakEasy Stage Theater. The SpeakEasy performances are held at the Calderwood Pavilion in the SouthEnd and I consider it my local theater although in truth it is a bit more than that. The Company is recognized throughout the area as one of a handful of excellent theaters that consistently earns praise for presenting top quality productions of plays and musicals. Over the years I’ve seen countless shows.

This past Friday, I went to see their current production of a Tony Award winning musical, A Light in the Piazza. The musical is about a mother coming to grips with her own mistakes in life and learning to let her daughter live her own life. The epiphany is set against the backdrop of a mother / daughter visit to Florence. In truth, my favorite part of the show was the beautiful staging and the Florentine, Fabrizio, who falls in love with the daughter, Clara.

I look forward to seeing more shows from this theater and want to encourage others to support local theater. A good story, told live by actors is so enjoyable and such a social way to spend an evening with friends or someone special.

Boston named one of the "Top 10 Solo Cities" by Sperling’s Best Places

Sperling’s annual study of “Best Places” this year concluded that Boston had one of the largest concentrations of single, widowed and divorced men and women aged 25-64 in the country. Cities in this year’s ranking include:

1 San Francisco 44.7%
2 Detroit, MI 44%
3 New York, NY 39.8%
4 Boston, MA 39.2%
5 New Orleans, LA 39.1%
6 Los Angeles, CA 37.7%
7 Fort Lauderdale, FL 37.2%
8 Las Vegas, NV 37%
9 Miami, FL 36.9%
10 Albuquerque, NM 36.8%

While I don’t quite get Detroit or Albuqurque – the rest of the Top 10 Solo Cities are fun places. Seeing Boston listed in such a context is a positive – unlike the list of least single cities which included places such as El Paso, TX; Salt Lake City, UT; and Poughkeepsie, NY. Ugh…

Head of the Charles Regatta

The 43rd annual Head of the Charles Regatta will be held later this month on Saturday, October 18th and Sunday, October 19th. Just as Patriot’s Day (a.k.a. the running of the Boston Marathon) signifies the start of spring to many Bostonians, the regatta held along the banks of the Charles River signifies that it is Autumn. Few cities have so much tradition and history and while many complain that such rituals are stifling, I find them a source of pride.

This years event will draw more than 7,500 athletes and attract upwards of 300,000 spectators making it the world’s largest two day rowing event. For those who have never been one might wonder why so many people attend such an obscure sporting event, but to look at this as just a rowing event is to miss the point and sell the regatta short. The event is so much more than just watching people race down the Charles River. There is plenty to see and do walking along the river banks and watching the races, looking at all the vendors and sponsors who line the river, chatting with people you meet who have travelled from across the country and in some cases the world, cheering rowers as they row feverishly and of course walking through Harvard Square which comes alive in a way that you only see once a year during this event.

I take great pride in these unique traditions and celebrations put on for the benefit of all and free to watch. I wish there were more opportunities like this and look forward to spending some time that weekend in Cambridge cheering, drinking and enjoying myself in general. I would encourage others to take advantage of this annual tradition too. You might be surprised by how much you enjoy yourself.

The Great Schlep

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Crass and vulgar yes, but I love Sarah Silverman and I love the fact that she has made this video encouraging all of her Jewish friends to ‘get on a plane’ to visit their grandparents in Florida and tell them to vote for Obama.

8 Years later

This pretty much sums it up.
To quote President Clinton, “It’s the economy stupid.”

Map Boston

Last week as we walked through Open Studios in Boston’s South End and my partner was drawn to a vendor selling a day planner that doubled as a city guide. The spiral book which opens easily provides beautiful pictures of places through out Boston as well as recommendations for restaurants, bars, stores, etc… to check out and try.

The front of the planner includes key contacts and information ranging from cab companies to places open 24 hours if you need to dash to a pharmacy or simply need to find the closest place to feed your face at 4:00 in the morning. The back of the planner includes even more helpful information including neighborhood maps, subway and commuter rail maps. I really have enjoyed thumbing through the book and plan on checking out some of the places mantioned including Dave’s Fresh Pasta in Somerville, Kingston Station in downtown, and Muqueca in Cambridge.

My hat is off to Morgan First the creator of Map Boston. The calendar makes for a great housewarming gift or present to someone who is new to the area. You can check out the website at www.mapboston.com and purchase the day planner online.

Medical Research Project

I spent 4 hours today at Mass General Hospital (MGH) going through a series of medical tests to formally enroll in a 16-week program that studies the risks of low testosterone levels in men. Millions of men in the U.S. and even more around the world suffer from low levels of testosterone which can lead to bone and muscle loss, changes in cholesterol levels, diabetes and many other health and psychological problems.

I indicated my interest to paricipate in a medical studies survey I received this past spring and over the summer MGH contacted me. After a phone screening and a quick visit to the hospital for some blood in August, they determined I was a great candidate so I decided to offer my body up for science.

While I never would have guessed that this would be my first major study, I made a resolution this past year to try and be a better person by giving more of myself. At the time I was thinking that this would manifest in volunteering for a local non-profit like my brother and several friends have done recently, but then this opportunity presented itself and it seemed like a good fit.

I am a healthy person (as far as I know – thank goodness). However, I’m quite sqeemish when it comes to medicine and I’m not likely to ever help discover a cure or treatment so by participating in studies like this I feel like I’m making my own unique contribution to medical science. For years I’ve been an organ donor, because I do hope that when my body ultimately fails me – it might still be of use to someone or science for study. The thought that by participating in this 16-week study might help lead to some scientific break-throughs that could help others is very appealing.

Believe me when I say that I hope I don’t experience any side affects, but I figure that whatever the inconveniences, the side affects are only temporary. I wish more people would consider signing up for medical studies, because we all rely on research to identify new / better cures and treatments. Most studies – like the one I have volunteered to undertake really only have temporary side affects and do not compromise a person’s health. Your time is what is required and a willingness to help others.


Every neighborhood in Boston has its own unique identity and despite years of significant redevelopment and gentrification, the South End remains home for many resident artists. I hope that the strong ties and history this neighborhood shares as a place that welcomes and encourages such creative self-expression is something that stays as long as I call this place home.

Throughout the year, the first Friday of every month, many artist studios and art galleries in the South End open their doors to the public. The event is aptly named, “First Fridays”, and when the weather is agreeable the streets fill with people of all ages looking for an alternate way to spend a few hours on a Friday evening. However, twice a year, First Fridays are forsaken for a much larger art extravaganza called the SoWa Art Walk that runs all day Saturday and Sunday.

According to the SoWa Art Walk website the event this September will involve more than 300 artists. I always talk this event up to friends and encourage people from other neighborhoods to come and visit.

Fenway in flux

This morning The Boston Globe is reporting that Mayor Menino is backing a plan to create a new street that would run parallel to Yawkey Way in the Fenway and join both Boylston and Beacon Street to help spur further development. Over the past 5-10years, the Fenway neighborhood has seen unprecedented development. Initially starting in the old Sears building on Park Street and in Kenmore Square but more recently in the Fenway neighborhood where mixed use developments have replaced vacant or decrepit buildings.

New tenants to the neighbhorhood include coffee shops, furniture and clothing stores and if the mayor gets his way (which he usually does) then this new development will be anchored on the Beacon Street side by the $500 Million One Kenmore Project which when completed will cover part of the Mass Pike I-90 and be book-ended by two projects on Boylston; one as yet to be named and 1330 Boylston, which just opened this week and includes more than 200 residential units, retail space and is the new home for Fenway Community Health Center (the largest GLBT health facility in the US).

This is a beautiful downtown neighborhood sandwiched between some of the country’s most respected hospitals and one of the city’s most affluent sections – the BackBay. The area has one of the city’s largest and most beautiful parks (the Fens), is home to Fenway Park and thousands of college students who attend universities both in and around the Fenway. The recent development has brought more life to the area, and I am excited to see how this latest project enhances the community.

Clinton / Palin

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I love Tina Fey and Amy Poelher and they were spot on in their respective characters to introduce SNL this past Saturday night. I’m sorry I missed the show if it was half as funny as these two were to open the show.

Work, work, work

I know I’ve been slacking and not spending much time collecting or sharing my thoughts but that has been mostly due to an overly active social and work calendar that has left me with little down time to write. Lately I’ve been posting pictures that I have thought are funny, adding video clips and / or summarizing content that I have read in the news and on other blogs, which in my mind does not really count as a blog entry.

However, right now I’m pretty much absorbed with my work as I help my team prepare for a major event in late November and juggling a travel calendar that has me on the road more than I am accustomed. Last week I was in Dallas for training and early next week I will be in Chicago to talk about the progress of the November event I’ve been absorbed with lately. I was asked to go and talk to this group, because PwC wants more interaction between the industry marketing folk (like me) and the marketing professionals tied to geographies (precisely the people we have reached out to help us with our November event). It is a cool opportunity to share the work we have done to date and a neat chance for me because I get to be the messenger. My travelling will continue the following week (9/22) when I head to NYC for a few more days of training. Then hopefully, my travel will subside and I’ll have more time to rant and rave about whatever is dominating my thoughts.

Did you know smiling can make you more attractive to others?


I stumbled across this picture from one of the handful of blogs I read regularly and thought I would swipe it.

The power of smiling as it was entitled on OMG made me realize beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

B-Side Lounge – Sold!

It has been years since I’ve walked through the doors of the B-side lounge, but it was a Cambridge bar with plenty of personality and a great place to hang out with a friends. I recently started reading a local blog called, drink boston which I first heard about on Boston.com.

According to Lauren Clark (a.k.a.drinkboston), this was a long time coming. Apparently the sale was made to a western-MA beer/bar proprietor by the name of Daniel Lanigan. Now that I live all the way over in the South End, I rarely go into Cambridge, but I wish the new bar (as yet to be named) best of luck. The B-side was a great place to grab a beer or two with friends, and I’m sure it will be missed.