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Opus Affair at Bastille Kitchen – Mon. Nov. 24 6-9PM

Opus AffairOpus Affair is hosting their monthly cocktail social at Bastille Kitchen on Melcher Street in Fort Point Channel. This month’s Punch Bowl Fund will raise money for one of these three arts charities: Boston Opera Collaborative, Arts Connect International, and Shelter Music Boston.

RSVP – No Cost (and lots of fun) – Bastille Kitchen 6-9PM

What is Opus Affair’s Punch Bowl Fund? Think of it as a charitable drinking game where you are invited to contribute $5 (cash) to the fund. In return you recieve a drink ticket for a glass of punch and a ballot to vote for one of the three featured arts organizations. At the end of the night, the organization with the most votes will collect the total amount raised that night.

Who is Opus Affair?  They are a community of artists and friends who love the arts who get together for cocktails and to chat about the arts scene.  If you’ve never been to one of their socials stop by and check them out.

25 Years ago this month

gay flagTwenty-five years ago in November 1989,  Governor Michael Dukakis signed a bill banning discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation in housing, employment, credit, and access to restaurants and other businesses.  It may be hard to appreciate this milestone but this was an amazing victory for our community and would distinguish Massachusetts as a gay rights leader in the nation.

With the stroke of the pen the Massachusetts Governor ended a nasty 17-year battle and our state became only the second in the nation to pass a law protecting the employment and other rights of gays and lesbians.  The Boston Globe has a great article addressing this major milestone worth reading, A key moment in gay rights fight

South End restaurant Union Bar & Grille to close

Aquitaine Group, Boston, South EndBig changes are in store for one of Aquitaine Group’s signature south end restaurants. Effective January 1, 2015 Union Bar & Grille, which first opened eleven years ago in the autumn of 2003 will close.  Aquitaine Group, which owns Union will retain the space and reopen a new restaurant under a new name with a targeted opening for April 2015.  There is no information about the new concept, menu or who will help run the re-branded space.  However, the Aquitaine Group understands the competitive South End restaurant industry better than most and have an impressive track record.

Aquitaine Group, South End restaurant, SoWaA lot has changed since October 2013 when Union opened.  They were one of the first restaurants in the emerging SoWa district of the South End. Despite the fact that earlier that year Wilkes Passage and Rollins Square had opened, the restaurant scene in the South End didn’t cross over Tremont Street with but a few exceptions. Union’s presence with their gourmet, house ground burger and 10k Tuna changed all that and shortly after more restaurants followed.

I have a lot of fond memories of Union but the restaurant has lost its way and newer restaurants nearby like The Gallows and Boston Chops have proven to be tough competition for a restaurant that has not been updated in over a decade.  I look forward to the new space when it reopens in the spring of 2015 and wish them all the best.

Scruffy Sunday

handsome guy, hunkWhat a nice way to wake up.  I like morning cuddles.

Previous Scruffy Sunday Posts

Saturday night video: Toddrick Hall “Bitch Perfect”

gay parody, pitch perfect parodyTodrick Hall just posted this ahhhmazing gay parody of Pitch Perfect that will make you laugh out loud.   The faux movie trailer shares the story of the gay acapella team “The Bottom Notes” as they interview and audition new members.

Just when you thought acapella couldn’t get any gayer…

Frog Pond skating rink is now open

It’s official – The Frog PonFrog Pond ice skatingd on the Boston Common opened today at 10 a.m.  If you are looking for something different to do and want to get outside, head over to the Boston Common and skate under the stars.  While I’m not much of a skater, a half hour or so of ice skating seems like a great date night option; guaranteed to provide great people watching, some good laughs.  Follow up the skating by grabbing a hot cocoa or hot toddy in one of the surrounding neighborhoods: Beacon Hill, Back Bay and Downtown Crossing.

The Frog Pond rents skates for $10 and the rink is open until 10PM tonight.  The rink opens daily at 10AM but the hours do vary so check their website for the details at www.bostonfrogpond.com.

Nobody is that good looking

GrindrNobody is good looking enough for me to be able to get beyond someone this dumb. I’m flummoxed by both his confusion of the Middle East and a region of the US as well as his fourth grade-level spelling of the country Egypt.

Source: Kenneth in the 212

Saturday morning comic: Adam and Andy

James Asal Jr.

Click on the comic strip to enlarge.

ADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about this strip by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Bonus fur

handsome guy, shirtless guy, gay, hunkHave a great evening.

Boston needs more theater space

Fringe theater, Boston

Gold Dust Orphans perform “Jesus Christ, it’s Christmas” at Ramrod nightclub            December 4-21, 2014

Last week’s Boston Sunday Globe Ideas section had a large editorial piece entitled Arts everywhere.  It included articles praising and supporting the city’s commitment to further invest in the arts scene.  It also included some novel concepts including a great piece by Peter DuBois, artistic director for Huntington Theatre Co who calls for more theater space for what he refers to as “fringe theaters” and I couldn’t agree with him more.

Boston’s local theater scene is in the midst of a Renaissance.  The quality of performances, the variety of shows and the depth of talent is better now than I can ever recall.  However, that ingenuity and the audacity that these ‘fringe’ theater companies provide needs to be nurtured.  DuBois suggestion that the city needs to streamline permitting to create short-term ‘pop-up’ theaters and to provide tax incentives to landlords to open up under-utilized space for makeshift art venues is spot on.  The closure of The Factory Theater (in the Piano Factory) earlier this year only highlights the plight of these smaller, edgier theater companies.

Furry Friday

handsome, shirtless guy, hunkPast Furry Friday Posts

BosGuy brain teaser

brain teaser, rodinEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain.

If you are stumped, feel free to get help – share it with a friend or colleague to see if you can figure it out together.

I’ll confirm answers later in the day so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away. I want to give everyone a chance.

This week’s riddle: How can you throw a ball as hard as you can and have it come back to you, even if it doesn’t hit anything, there is nothing attached to it, and no one else catches or throws it?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

Mister New England Leather this weekend in Ptown

Mr. New England Leather in ProvincetownNovember 21 – 23, 2014 is the inaugural Mister New England Leather Weekend in Provincetown. There is more more information about the events scheduled online at,  mrnewenglandleather.org and on their facebook page.

1999 Billecart-Salmon “Cuvée Nicolas François Billecart” NFB Brut Champagne

Champagne Billecart-Salmon Brut 1999Recently my sister and her fiancé came to visit us.  To celebrate their recent engagement we popped a bottle of 1999 Billecart-Salmon Champagne.  While Sergio and I truly enjoy Champagne, we had not tried this before.

The Champagne is 60% pinot noir and 40% chardonnay and has a whitish-gold coloring that you can see from my photograph shown below.  The taste is crisp and finishes with a light minerality that I really enjoyed.  My preference was to drink this Champagne unaccompanied, appreciating its flavors and watching the bubbles dance vertically up my champagne flute.

Unfortunately I do not recall how we acquired this bottle and assume it must have been brought to our home from a friend or guest so I cannot offer advice on where to purchase it, but a quick look online shows this for sale from $60-$90.  My sincere thanks to whomever brought this to our home we truly enjoyed it.

This would make for a generous gift for friends who enjoy Champagne whom you may be contemplating buying something during the holiday season.

1999 Billecart-Salmon "Cuvée Nicolas François Billecart" NFB Brut Champagne

Boyfriends at Milky Way Lounge, Fri. 11/21

Milky Way, Boston, Gay Night Tomorrow, Friday, November 21st the gay dance night known as “Boyfriends” takes place in Jamaica Plain at the Milky Way.  VJ Sean Johnson programs the visuals, and joining resident DJ Brent Covington this month is guest DJ Brian Halligan from his resident nights Drum Nation and Loose.

The theme this month is ICONS from the gay dance community; think Madonna, Brittany, Gaga, Mariah, Beyonce and more… Bring your dance shoes and check your attitude at the door.  All welcome.

More information on the FB event page.